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over a year ago
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually  "
Depends maybe on how regular is the persons normal regular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "
Its certainly possible... what I think is impossible is knowing before hand if there will end up being more than just a sexual element |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ya I've experienced this where for both of us it was no strings and we did say we didn't want anything more. Met quite a bit but unfortunately we had to cut contact because she was getting feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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yes but if the sex is very regular with one person, as little jealusies can arise if you also continue to meey other people..the person may be an FB but they also like to feel special & even exclusive...but its not just singles as couples also react the same way with their FB couple os single |
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I can easily happen... even when two of you start out as totally nsa, feelings that develop can be hard to resist. Often it can add to the excitement as the closeness develops. Happened me few years ago and i still often think of her... eventually we both knew it was best to have had what we had and return to our regular partners. Wouldnt change it for the world! Ouch you know u can let go... all is good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
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My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol"
Sprinter or long distance ??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???"
Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since |
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???
Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since "
But he must have had great stamina alk the same  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???
Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since
But he must have had great stamina alk the same "
Think he was Mormon with the amount of wives he wanted at the same time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.
It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.
On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.
My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???
Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since
But he must have had great stamina alk the same
Think he was Mormon with the amount of wives he wanted at the same time "
Lol |
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I think if you keep the meets sporadic then there's less chance of the other person going all moony over you.
I make it clear it's a NSA thing for me.
Problem is when the sex is great I want more of it. Made the mistake previously of meeting up with someone too regularly and they got the wrong idea.
I had to finish it in the end.
Learnt my lesson on that one. |
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"I think if you keep the meets sporadic then there's less chance of the other person going all moony over you.
I make it clear it's a NSA thing for me.
Problem is when the sex is great I want more of it. Made the mistake previously of meeting up with someone too regularly and they got the wrong idea.
I had to finish it in the end.
Learnt my lesson on that one."
Yes you hae to be sure both people know the score and a gentle reminder of the NSA clause is always a good idea. Getting close isnt the worst thing to happen as long as both can deal with each being with others or it not going anywhere |
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "
Yes you can once you both are on same page and have regular chats and keep it real if feelings come into it , its ruined you can both love things about each other but if you both start falling for each other its time to make or break. |
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I've done it in the past. But it can become difficult depending on the person and the emotional connection between your fuck buddy and you.
I had one for years and we lost contact for a few months found out it was because she got married lol. |
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "
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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time   where one fancies the other.
We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them  |
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually
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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time where one fancies the other.
We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them "
True. The sharing info is probably a no no, the good morning /good night texts etc just muddy the waters. |
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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually
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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time where one fancies the other.
We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them "
It would be very hard to have repeat meets and not disclose personal information. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't mind meeting someone long term on here. Everyone has a past I guess. It's the future we want!"
Suppose good side to catching feelings if they are returned |
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