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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages... |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages..."
Well if they read your message and delete means not interested if and if they ask for face pic and block means not interested it saves them time they get lots of messages am use to it now just go with the flow |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages..."
This may have been brought up once or twice already |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages...
Well if they read your message and delete means not interested if and if they ask for face pic and block means not interested it saves them time they get lots of messages am use to it now just go with the flow "
True but a simple 2 second txt goes a long way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always reply to the men looking to suck my cock with a polite no thanks, most understand but some keep trying. That is what the blocklist is for. Women and couples surely get a lot more mail so time is a good excuse. |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages..."
Know what you're saying but unfortunately mostly it's to do with people say "no thanks" in the past to people and getting abuse for it cause some can't handle rejection/can't understand that people have standards/preferences.
Don't take it yo heart, just the way things are here |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages...
Well if they read your message and delete means not interested if and if they ask for face pic and block means not interested it saves them time they get lots of messages am use to it now just go with the flow
True but a simple 2 second txt goes a long way "
And some people keep msging after you've told them no thanks....hence why guys don't get a reply.. |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages...
Well if they read your message and delete means not interested if and if they ask for face pic and block means not interested it saves them time they get lots of messages am use to it now just go with the flow
True but a simple 2 second txt goes a long way And some people keep msging after you've told them no thanks....hence why guys don't get a reply.."
Can't paint us all with the same brush lol |
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"Anyone else on here seem to be messed around with replies.. for example.. U start chatting to someone they ask for a face pic then all of a sudden ur blocked.. a simple not my type would suffice or something .. Or u txt someone and they read it but never ever reply .. now I know people can be snowed under with messages but it takes a couple of seconds to say not Interested I might be nit picking but we are all here for the same encounters no need for stuck up people really esp. If your being nice in messages..."
OP, to be fair the ladies and indeed couples on here are inundated with messages every single day, up to 200 if not more, assuming that they have time to read each message, check a profile out and then send a reply, even a cut and paste one, that's at least a few minutes all told. Then repeat this for all messages received and them continue to be bombarded with replies...I'm sorry to say but it's unrealistic to expect replies every time.
If I don't receive a reply or indeed if my message not read and deleted then I take that as a no thanks not interested and I move on from that, certainly don't overthink the lack of replies. If I do receive a reply saying no thanks or not interested then I reply thanking them and wishing them well, no sense in getting worked up about it.
Everyone has their view on this, my opinion might not be agreed with by all and that's ok. This is Fab, make it the best experience you can OP
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By (user no longer on site)
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In real life if we don't like some one we don't have to talk to them
So why should it have to be different here ? No one is here to make friends or find love so if someone doesn't want to talk that is their choice  |
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I have done the thanks for the lovely mails but not interested.guess what they still mailing every second wk with replys like i will break you down yet so they blocked
Once bitten twice shy and all that.
No profile is obligied to answer every mail they receive here.if people read the profiles properly they would probally find that there is common interests anyway.
Unwritten rule mail not read or replyed move on
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"I have done the thanks for the lovely mails but not interested.guess what they still mailing every second wk with replys like i will break you down yet so they blocked
Once bitten twice shy and all that.
No profile is obligied to answer every mail they receive here.if people read the profiles properly they would probally find that there is common interests anyway.
Unwritten rule mail not read or replyed move on
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It's not even unwritten - it's in the site FAQ
Let's face it, for the op and others with the same complaint, they don't want tons of rejection emails, they want to get lucky. Getting replies off everyone saying no thanks wouldn't change a thing. Plus if you respond you open yourself up to more tedious follow up emails  |
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