You’ve been chatting with someone and getting on pretty well. You are thinking meeting this person. You both swap pics and vids and their vid is them having sex bareback.
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples "
Yep, that would be the first thing to find out. |
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Maybe ask who the video was with and then if the reply is long term partner you could just say you saw the barebacking and wondered. And if he says one night stand/swing meet then say sorry but not interested. If you tell him you be noticed the barebacking he'll have an excuse. I've heard it before. Just make sure you're happy with the answer whatever it is |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples "
Exactly this 
In my opinion, no harm barebacking if it was a long term partner |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples "
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women.. |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women.."
This |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women.."
I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..
I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it."
That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.
Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.
Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels. |
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"You’ve been chatting with someone and getting on pretty well. You are thinking meeting this person. You both swap pics and vids and their vid is them having sex bareback.
Do you block them without saying anything or tell them after all this time you aren’t interested "
Be honest if they don't take it well then perhaps block . |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..
I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.
That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.
Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.
Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels."
This. Have been sent one before , hadnt asked to see it either, and when i asked did she know it was been shared, his answer was no. End of conversation. |
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Be upfront and honest..if your not comfortable with it then they should respect that.If they don't well your lucky you ain't met them yet...But let them know...Might open their eyes a little to safety in the lifestyle... |
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..
I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.
That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.
Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.
Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels.
This. Have been sent one before , hadnt asked to see it either, and when i asked did she know it was been shared, his answer was no. End of conversation. "
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"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?
Apples
They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..
I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.
That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.
Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.
Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.
If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested |
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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago
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We all have to feel safe and trusting when it comes to meets.
If seeing a video of someone playing bareback gives you doubts listen to your gut.
As previously posted, a nice message stating this concern and your decision.
Personally I always glove up. |
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"Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.
If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested"
Honesty always works |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.
If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested
Honesty always works "
Always has for me and I'm sticking with it  |
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