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Hi guys and girls and couples,we need all your help,we have being on here a good while and have had one or two meets ,nice people couldn’t ask for better people to meet ,recently we decided that we would try and find a nice single sane respectful guy ,well what we where met with was a total surprise ,guys putting up pics of themselves 10 years younger ,abusive guys if you didn’t answer straight away ,weird creepy guys,clingy guys,but most of all married guys,we are an attractive fun couple and can’t see why we can’t find a decent respectful guy any advice people we are nearly thinking of deleting our profile here ,guys if your the Prince Charming reading this get in touch ,girls and couples please give us a hand here ?? thanks again for reading we are a Dublin based couple xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are loads of really nice single men on here. We have found socials can be the best place to meet them. Keep trying because they are worth the wait. Of course there are afew time wasters but the same can be said for woman and couples. Stick at it op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the guys you describe that give the singles a bad name ... I think you will find the single guys that post in the forums are an alright bunch & worth meeting ... the various meet & greet events are probably the best way to meet people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys and girls and couples,we need all your help,we have being on here a good while and have had one or two meets ,nice people couldn’t ask for better people to meet ,recently we decided that we would try and find a nice single sane respectful guy ,well what we where met with was a total surprise ,guys putting up pics of themselves 10 years younger ,abusive guys if you didn’t answer straight away ,weird creepy guys,clingy guys,but most of all married guys,we are an attractive fun couple and can’t see why we can’t find a decent respectful guy any advice people we are nearly thinking of deleting our profile here ,guys if your the Prince Charming reading this get in touch ,girls and couples please give us a hand here ?? thanks again for reading we are a Dublin based couple xx"
Our experience on this is that you block guys messaging and go searching yourselfs,weve found most of the sound guys are those that are part of a couple but play separately aswell...just an idea for you |
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"Hi guys and girls and couples,we need all your help,we have being on here a good while and have had one or two meets ,nice people couldn’t ask for better people to meet ,recently we decided that we would try and find a nice single sane respectful guy ,well what we where met with was a total surprise ,guys putting up pics of themselves 10 years younger ,abusive guys if you didn’t answer straight away ,weird creepy guys,clingy guys,but most of all married guys,we are an attractive fun couple and can’t see why we can’t find a decent respectful guy any advice people we are nearly thinking of deleting our profile here ,guys if your the Prince Charming reading this get in touch ,girls and couples please give us a hand here ?? thanks again for reading we are a Dublin based couple xx"
I think you may have just found him. You are not gonna believe this but I'm a nice, single, sane, respectful guy. My pics are recent, I won't get angry if you don't reply straight away. Within 30 minutes is fine  . I'm not weird, creepy, clingy or married. So where do we go from here? Do you guys want to meet my parents or buy a dog together?  |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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"There are loads of really nice single men on here. We have found socials can be the best place to meet them. Keep trying because they are worth the wait. Of course there are afew time wasters but the same can be said for woman and couples. Stick at it op "
I agree. I think socials are a great way to meet genuine guys. Because messers and time wasters don’t usually make the effort to go to socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are loads of really nice single men on here. We have found socials can be the best place to meet them. Keep trying because they are worth the wait. Of course there are afew time wasters but the same can be said for woman and couples. Stick at it op
I agree. I think socials are a great way to meet genuine guys. Because messers and time wasters don’t usually make the effort to go to socials. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Supply n demand. Dating apps are a ten times better option for the half decent eligible man.
Fab is a victim of its own success in a way. It used to be good...very few nice single girls either and the competition to meet them is too high with 10 to 1 guys to girls (at least).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I host partys regularly and have a mixed crowd couples single ladys and well verified gents and couples get a chance to chat and socialise with the guys and who knows one might take their fancy stranger things have happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all. Talking about issues and problems that I have encountered on fab ,not to blow my own trumpet but ,I'm a genuine man, not long divorced and handsome ,there seams to be in most single females, couples NOT ALL, are looking for the younger guy.us let's say mature men don't get a look in ,its a shame when your not even given the chance for a social meet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys it isn’t easy ??"
I'd be happy to chat. I have recent pics. No problem if we chat and it doesn't work out.
Good luck with your search anyway  |
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"Hi all. Talking about issues and problems that I have encountered on fab ,not to blow my own trumpet but ,I'm a genuine man, not long divorced and handsome ,there seams to be in most single females, couples NOT ALL, are looking for the younger guy.us let's say mature men don't get a look in ,its a shame when your not even given the chance for a social meet ."
Just had a wee look on your profile. Its well written you cime across well but your profile pic is your cock playing pool. I tend to prefer older men but i fooking hate pool  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. Talking about issues and problems that I have encountered on fab ,not to blow my own trumpet but ,I'm a genuine man, not long divorced and handsome ,there seams to be in most single females, couples NOT ALL, are looking for the younger guy.us let's say mature men don't get a look in ,its a shame when your not even given the chance for a social meet .
Just had a wee look on your profile. Its well written you cime across well but your profile pic is your cock playing pool. I tend to prefer older men but i fooking hate pool "
you like anything with a pulse girl |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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OP I am sorry to hear of ur dilemma but if u do a forum search on how to get a meet ull see all the single guys that fell under the sword on this issue along with some great suggestions on how to best appeal to ur target market. |
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"Hi all. Talking about issues and problems that I have encountered on fab ,not to blow my own trumpet but ,I'm a genuine man, not long divorced and handsome ,there seams to be in most single females, couples NOT ALL, are looking for the younger guy.us let's say mature men don't get a look in ,its a shame when your not even given the chance for a social meet .
Just had a wee look on your profile. Its well written you cime across well but your profile pic is your cock playing pool. I tend to prefer older men but i fooking hate pool you like anything with a pulse girl "
Ahh not anything
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the guys you describe that give the singles a bad name ... I think you will find the single guys that post in the forums are an alright bunch & worth meeting ... the various meet & greet events are probably the best way to meet people"
Well thank you I appreciate that comment.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Op if you want a good single guy meet you've to put in some work. Rather than screening through a pile of useless incoming messages, search the single yourself based on your preferences and get in touch with them. Use your brain and listen to your gut feeling and you will find them. |
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We like others above found meeting at socials works best. Trying to arrange a meet just from texting on fab alone didn't work as the majority that made contact were complete time wasters with zero intention in meeting.
So we suggest you guys get yourselves to a social |
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Parties and socials we'd arranged ourselves worked best for us.
Takes a while but eventually if you sort enough chaff you find the wheat in the end.
Know how you feel though, it can be hard trying to find gentlemen at first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on your definitions of 'nice'. Big different having nice pictures/nice profile etc and being a nice person. Even then people will differ on whats/who's nice. Most people think that they are nice .
Fab is set up on the picture/profile criteria. Look/chat/meet is the only way to meet nice people, even then some nice people will skip through the cracks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuine single guy here and love it when somebody actually gives me a chance to prove that I am genuine and have manners. The rest I just laugh at and it's their loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuine single guy here and love it when somebody actually gives me a chance to prove that I am genuine and have manners. The rest I just laugh at and it's their loss "
Agreed...it's the one thing I'm not willing to change about myself to be honest, it costs nothing to be genuine, respectful and mannerly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuine single guy here and love it when somebody actually gives me a chance to prove that I am genuine and have manners. The rest I just laugh at and it's their loss
Agreed...it's the one thing I'm not willing to change about myself to be honest, it costs nothing to be genuine, respectful and mannerly "
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"Hi all. Talking about issues and problems that I have encountered on fab ,not to blow my own trumpet but ,I'm a genuine man, not long divorced and handsome ,there seams to be in most single females, couples NOT ALL, are looking for the younger guy.us let's say mature men don't get a look in ,its a shame when your not even given the chance for a social meet .
Just had a wee look on your profile. Its well written you cime across well but your profile pic is your cock playing pool. I tend to prefer older men but i fooking hate pool "
Shame it wasn't snooker and I could make a 'sink the pink' joke. |
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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago
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Its those fools you mentioned op that make it harder for us genuine guys! Genuine in that single not clingy etc! But then there are numerous females here on fab who say they don't want to hear your genuine like wtf do they prefer a guy to say oh " I'm not a genuine guy" f###s sake |
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