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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're only meeting for sex then that's all you need to have in common. If it's a date or whatever then there's no point leading her on just to get your way. But if she's game ball for just NSA fun then nothing to worry about. Go enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was obviously discussed as the room is arranged so both involved know what the outcome is.
Not like she shall be confessing her undying love for you darling.
If you have reservations discuss it with her to settle yourself.
Go and enjoy.
Psyche (f) |
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"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"
if she is that uninspiring save money on the room and have a wank lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love to feel a connection with people, but I also like the anonymous club sex we sometimes have.
Everyone is different but why pass up an experience?
Sam |
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Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed  |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed "
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries  |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries "
Love them been pushed tim |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries
Love them been pushed tim "
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Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady  |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries
Love them been pushed tim
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Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady "
My pleasure Tim |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries
Love them been pushed tim
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Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady
My pleasure Tim "
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Sorry about this Fabbers...
Both looking for that proverbial room
right now! |
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries
Love them been pushed tim
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Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady
My pleasure Tim
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Sorry about this Fabbers...
Both looking for that proverbial room
right now! "
Found it ....come in |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.
Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.
If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed
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Love it when you talk pushing boundaries
Love them been pushed tim
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Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady
My pleasure Tim
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Sorry about this Fabbers...
Both looking for that proverbial room
right now! "
Try airbnb or boocking.com they have apartments going at good rates |
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You can find out so much more about a person when you are skin on skin. You might think now you have nothing in common but I'm sure you'll share more than a sense of humour.I'll be surprised if you don't learn a whole lot more from an older lady who's sexually confident. If I were you I'd definitely meet her and hopefully you'll post a thread on how good a meet it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go and see what happens, you might be surprised at what you discover about each other, try to put it to back of mind about lack of things in common and just enjoy the experience...it might just be the start of something fun |
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If you are just meeting for sex then I can't really see why you would need to have things in common...other than mutual attraction and being able to chat etc which you obviously must have to have made arrangements |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"
why are you on Fab if you are not up for NSA sex ... an older womsn and nsa sex is that not the male fantasy ..
grow a pair, msn up & give here a great time.
lots of guys here would take your place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has to be chemistry of some sort to make a meet enjoyable for me. If you both are flirting and building up to the meet, chances are it will be good and could lead to much more. People both don't need to be on fab to have good sex. Lol
If its a 'sure lets do it' in a half hearted way....don't do it as believe me its so not worth it.
Always trust your gut feeling!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"
I think you have already answered your question don't you think by simply having to ask the question. |
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