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over a year ago
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Majority of escorts do not want to be in the sex trade....we are all here voluntarily. Indeed no money passes hands...there is foreplay attached here even in the form of chat before hand..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was on a tour in Amsterdam last week & the guide provided the folloeing statistic ...
1- a meet with the girl is 20 mins
2- money up front €80 ... for a bj & 1 position... when you cum ... ur done
3- from jocks off to cum is on average 6 minutes.
So i think here there is a big big difference, no money, relaxed meet & more thsn once |
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"Hi just watching a programme on channel 5 about escorting just wondering peoples thoughts on this is it really any different to what most of us o here are doing "
with the price of hotels I think we're losing  |
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I didn't see the programme and was wondering if there was much mention of the pleasure the escort gets from a meet. A good Fab meet ensures the lady gets lots of pleasure, fun and satisfaction and if both parties want, a repeat meet sooner or later whatever the case may be. |
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"Hi just watching a programme on channel 5 about escorting just wondering peoples thoughts on this is it really any different to what most of us o here are doing "
Is escorting not a job/ profession? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Escorting is a job . This is a chosen pastime it's totally different as in you can choose what and with who and when and it's for personal gratification . |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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People have different view points op and if viewed as a service or sex site I can see what you are making the comparison to. I personally don't think that's a healthy outlook but hey ho each to their own. Swinging isn't about servicing someone, it's about pleasure and sexual fulfillment for all involved.
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I couldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t want to for money and if I want to have sex with someone they can have it for free. I don’t think a picky escort would make much money. I’m reality they just fuck who ever pays them |
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The whole idea of Escorting is to make money. It's not done for enjoyment. Alot of the time it's done out of nesessity . Can't see how it relates to swinging in any way at all. What I do is purely for enjoyment. Money never comes into it at all.
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I honestly don't mean to offend OP but I do think there are quite a few guys joining Fab, not the real members, who think like that.
They just don't want to pay.
A Fab meet is by mutual agreement, usually social to begin and then more physical, if both parties are up for it.
Very different from escorts I think. Mutual attraction and consent being the key points.
Never had an escort but I'm fairly sure that once money passes hands, the sex is guaranteed, unlike Fab completely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's mark2 escorts "
... mk11 escort is a rare car now a days. If i had just one of them and cortinas I wrecked on the banger track all them yrs ago. Is be a very happy chappy
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"What's mark2 escorts ... mk11 escort is a rare car now a days. If i had just one of them and cortinas I wrecked on the banger track all them yrs ago. Is be a very happy chappy "
Have they reached Mark 11? I could never remember that parable from my Sunday school  |
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Not really there are a lot of guys on here who think just because you agree to meet with them for a coffee they think they are getting something more has happened to me a few times whatever way you look at it we are all still having sex with strangers |
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I certainly don't see myself or my husband as providing a "sexual service" for others for their pleasure.
Often escorts have sex with people not of their chosing. To say swinging and escorting are the same is probably quite offensive to most people.
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An escort is a purely commercial transaction. You pay a fee and you get a service in return.
There is no way in the wide earth can you suggest that what happens between two or more fabbers can be deemed as being similar to an escort service. |
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"I didn't see the programme and was wondering if there was much mention of the pleasure the escort gets from a meet. A good Fab meet ensures the lady gets lots of pleasure, fun and satisfaction and if both parties want, a repeat meet sooner or later whatever the case may be."
If only all meets were like this. I’ve had a few meets where I’ve felt like an escort after with the lack of effort and utter selfishness of the guy. Obviously a repeat performance wasn’t an option, no veri left either.
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"I didn't see the programme and was wondering if there was much mention of the pleasure the escort gets from a meet. A good Fab meet ensures the lady gets lots of pleasure, fun and satisfaction and if both parties want, a repeat meet sooner or later whatever the case may be.
If only all meets were like this. I’ve had a few meets where I’ve felt like an escort after with the lack of effort and utter selfishness of the guy. Obviously a repeat performance wasn’t an option, no veri left either.
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Really sorry to hear that. I must have a funny kink in that a partners pleasure is my 1st priority. Hate reading about selfishness in play. Just shouldn't happen. It should be all about mutual pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't see the programme and was wondering if there was much mention of the pleasure the escort gets from a meet. A good Fab meet ensures the lady gets lots of pleasure, fun and satisfaction and if both parties want, a repeat meet sooner or later whatever the case may be.
If only all meets were like this. I’ve had a few meets where I’ve felt like an escort after with the lack of effort and utter selfishness of the guy. Obviously a repeat performance wasn’t an option, no veri left either.
Really sorry to hear that. I must have a funny kink in that a partners pleasure is my 1st priority. Hate reading about selfishness in play. Just shouldn't happen. It should be all about mutual pleasure."
Let's face it...it's more about ensuring the woman's satisfaction and pleasure. There's as much science to making a guy cum as there is dropping a coin in a machine to get a tin of Coke. |
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"Not really there are a lot of guys on here who think just because you agree to meet with them for a coffee they think they are getting something more has happened to me a few times whatever way you look at it we are all still having sex with strangers "
Are strangers not folk who you've neither spoken to nor met? I certainly would never have sex with someone I hadn't chatted to, met with and felt a connection to  |
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By *aolMMan
over a year ago
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I don't think you can compare. As per the Amsterdam point above, escorting is all about getting your load off.. clinical, quick and sterile. Damn I masturbate for longer than 6 minutes I get a kick out of being with someone who WANTS to play with me..if she asked me for money it would completely kill the attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given the number of "are you free now?" Or "I'm traveling in your area in X hotel and looking for company" Messages I receive on here,I think there are many people who see this as a free alternative..
Frankly at least if I got paid it would be worth my while! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't see the programme and was wondering if there was much mention of the pleasure the escort gets from a meet. A good Fab meet ensures the lady gets lots of pleasure, fun and satisfaction and if both parties want, a repeat meet sooner or later whatever the case may be.
If only all meets were like this. I’ve had a few meets where I’ve felt like an escort after with the lack of effort and utter selfishness of the guy. Obviously a repeat performance wasn’t an option, no veri left either.
Really sorry to hear that. I must have a funny kink in that a partners pleasure is my 1st priority. Hate reading about selfishness in play. Just shouldn't happen. It should be all about mutual pleasure.
Let's face it...it's more about ensuring the woman's satisfaction and pleasure. There's as much science to making a guy cum as there is dropping a coin in a machine to get a tin of Coke."
That made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guide!!!! Lol
"Was on a tour in Amsterdam last week & the guide provided the folloeing statistic ...
1- a meet with the girl is 20 mins
2- money up front €80 ... for a bj & 1 position... when you cum ... ur done
3- from jocks off to cum is on average 6 minutes.
So i think here there is a big big difference, no money, relaxed meet & more thsn once"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad "
That’s a real shame, shouldn't be like that at all! My advice would to think long and hard about it before you decide. Personally I’ve been affected by this (and no i was never an escort :D) and in my own opinion I would advise against it! It can be very hard to give up as the money can be decent. Even if you give up, if you run into money problems again, you’ll just think ‘ah I’ll just do it for one more day’ and you’re back in the game! It can be mentally taxing too and you’ll need to tell someone close to you to make sure you are safe during this time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad "
i just read your profile ... 200 msg in 24hrs ...& based on what yo have said here i think you need to ask yourself why you are on Fab ... i may be wrong but it strikes me you want a relationship rather than 1 off meetings for sex ... the majority of guys on here are only interested in sex ... i hope here or elsewhere you do find what you are looking for ... mind yourself |
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad
i just read your profile ... 200 msg in 24hrs ...& based on what yo have said here i think you need to ask yourself why you are on Fab ... i may be wrong but it strikes me you want a relationship rather than 1 off meetings for sex ... the majority of guys on here are only interested in sex ... i hope here or elsewhere you do find what you are looking for ... mind yourself"
Swinging should be about pleasing all parties involved not just about taking!! Relationship is far from what I want. I have had great meets of fab and then some pretty bad ones as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad
That’s a real shame, shouldn't be like that at all! My advice would to think long and hard about it before you decide. Personally I’ve been affected by this (and no i was never an escort :D) and in my own opinion I would advise against it! It can be very hard to give up as the money can be decent. Even if you give up, if you run into money problems again, you’ll just think ‘ah I’ll just do it for one more day’ and you’re back in the game! It can be mentally taxing too and you’ll need to tell someone close to you to make sure you are safe during this time"
It won't be a line is actually go down. It's just the government we have don't support single mothers who actually work full time. Would be financially better of on the dole but then my years in college would be wasted lol |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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Escorting is a business transaction, it's not a 'date' or a 'meet' as such.
I have no issue with escorting as long as it's 100% consensual. Unfortunately this isn't always the case.
However, it wouldn't be for me as I'd imagine it would feel sort of sterile and empty. There's electricity when you're with someone who genuinely wants to be with you and I don't believe that can be faked. Also the build up plays a significant role in a good sexual encounter. You just wouln'd get that with an escort in my opinion.
You could argue that it's similar to a NSA or one night stand where both parties can walk away after it but with NSA you at least have a spark, you have the electricity of mutual attraction. You have the 'want' from both sides even if it's just for a short time.
So yeah, to sum up: I think there is a significant difference between escorting and what we do on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few escorts on here posing as swingers. When u get chatting to them they let u know the scor. I report the ones i have come across. Has anyone else found the same? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad
i just read your profile ... 200 msg in 24hrs ...& based on what yo have said here i think you need to ask yourself why you are on Fab ... i may be wrong but it strikes me you want a relationship rather than 1 off meetings for sex ... the majority of guys on here are only interested in sex ... i hope here or elsewhere you do find what you are looking for ... mind yourself
Swinging should be about pleasing all parties involved not just about taking!! Relationship is far from what I want. I have had great meets of fab and then some pretty bad ones as well"
Take (mental) notes when you hit a bad meet and learn from them, there are normally clear tell tell signs when you talk to a selfish ignorant. With the time you get better and better to spot and avoid them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad
i just read your profile ... 200 msg in 24hrs ...& based on what yo have said here i think you need to ask yourself why you are on Fab ... i may be wrong but it strikes me you want a relationship rather than 1 off meetings for sex ... the majority of guys on here are only interested in sex ... i hope here or elsewhere you do find what you are looking for ... mind yourself
Swinging should be about pleasing all parties involved not just about taking!! Relationship is far from what I want. I have had great meets of fab and then some pretty bad ones as well
Take (mental) notes when you hit a bad meet and learn from them, there are normally clear tell tell signs when you talk to a selfish ignorant. With the time you get better and better to spot and avoid them. "
Yeah I have very much learnt and I have meet some really nice ones sense. That's why I have rules and all now before I agree to a meet |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I really thin about it, at least I would be getting something out of it, I have met up with a few where there simply finish really quick and just get up and leave. Once they are off Its game over. At least them I'd have extra income and wouldn't be struggling as bad
i just read your profile ... 200 msg in 24hrs ...& based on what yo have said here i think you need to ask yourself why you are on Fab ... i may be wrong but it strikes me you want a relationship rather than 1 off meetings for sex ... the majority of guys on here are only interested in sex ... i hope here or elsewhere you do find what you are looking for ... mind yourself
Swinging should be about pleasing all parties involved not just about taking!! Relationship is far from what I want. I have had great meets of fab and then some pretty bad ones as well
Take (mental) notes when you hit a bad meet and learn from them, there are normally clear tell tell signs when you talk to a selfish ignorant. With the time you get better and better to spot and avoid them.
Yeah I have very much learnt and I have meet some really nice ones sense. That's why I have rules and all now before I agree to a meet "
 good woman! Claim your fair share |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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Would it really be such a bad thing if bookers were allowed to advertise here?
Think bouts it..cut down on the whingy no one will meet me posts cause if they pay they will get one. Meaning those looking for an easy lay will get what they want leaving the rest alone to pursue there own fun? |
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"Well no money involved so I would think that is the main difference"
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Well, there are people looking to be wined, dined & put up in a classy hotel here...
...So could that be construed as payment?
A controversial view I know
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Well no money involved so I would think that is the main difference
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Well, there are people looking to be wined, dined & put up in a classy hotel here...
...So could that be construed as payment?
A controversial view I know
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I've done the wined and dined, i dont expect it, but love it especially the home cooking. Nothing to do do with escort or being payed imo if both meet with the same mindset of having a good time socially and sexually. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Would it really be such a bad thing if bookers were allowed to advertise here?
Think bouts it..cut down on the whingy no one will meet me posts cause if they pay they will get one. Meaning those looking for an easy lay will get what they want leaving the rest alone to pursue there own fun? "
I see where you coming from but there are sites designed for it and id say as a single lady you'd get more sleezy offers than you wished for. |
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"Would it really be such a bad thing if bookers were allowed to advertise here?
Think bouts it..cut down on the whingy no one will meet me posts cause if they pay they will get one. Meaning those looking for an easy lay will get what they want leaving the rest alone to pursue there own fun? "
There area already sites for such advertisements. This is not one of them. |
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By *lowersMan
over a year ago
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"Yes but that's the only difference "
Couldn’t disagree more. No woman sells her body because she wants to, it’s s financial imperative. It’s really sad. To apply the same terms here every woman would have to sleep with any man whether they wanted to or not. It is not at all the same as consenting adults enjoying sex |
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