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Doms ...masters.. where r thy??
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"We're in hiding until the wannabe Mr.Grey's vanish from the scene. "
Thankfully the last film is done, so in another 6mths, perhaps the wannabes will be gone.
Having said that, weren't you all wannabes in your first instance?
It's not like you you started Dom/Domme. It grew with time, so maybe give the newbies to the scene a little leeway.
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"We're in hiding until the wannabe Mr.Grey's vanish from the scene.
Thankfully the last film is done, so in another 6mths, perhaps the wannabes will be gone.
Having said that, weren't you all wannabes in your first instance?
It's not like you you started Dom/Domme. It grew with time, so maybe give the newbies to the scene a little leeway.
Just saying "
Dominance is something that's in you, its not something you see on tv or porn and think oh I can do that. |
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"We're in hiding until the wannabe Mr.Grey's vanish from the scene.
Thankfully the last film is done, so in another 6mths, perhaps the wannabes will be gone.
Having said that, weren't you all wannabes in your first instance?
It's not like you you started Dom/Domme. It grew with time, so maybe give the newbies to the scene a little leeway.
Just saying "
No issue with people who are starting out on their journey. The issue is with people who saw 50 Shades or something similar and think that if they pretend to be Dom they'll get meets. Being Dom is an inherent tendency, in my view.
Any submissive who meets a Dom who is not committed to the lifestyle fully could experience something that is at best disappointing and at worst dangerous.
New Doms who want to learn, see very quickly that control of the experience is shared between Dom and sub. A sub should ALWAYS be able to say no.
Inexperienced wannabes who are not willing to learn will often struggle to keep their own emotions in check and force their will on others. |
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