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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No is the short answer ... it can be great sex & you may not cum ... cum is only a small percentage of the experience for me... both of us enjoying the experience is more important than who did or didnt cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...if you don't cum when you meet someone? Do you feel unsatisfied or does it frustrated you or do you question yourself why you didn't?  "
Once I make a woman cum I'm happy. If a woman can't make me cum there's something seriously wrong cause I'm a loaded gun with the safety off being kicked around the place by Thai kickboxers. I'm more concerned about performing. This question may have been for women but I answered for me haha. |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"...if you don't cum when you meet someone? Do you feel unsatisfied or does it frustrated you or do you question yourself why you didn't?
Once I make a woman cum I'm happy. If a woman can't make me cum there's something seriously wrong cause I'm a loaded gun with the safety off being kicked around the place by Thai kickboxers. I'm more concerned about performing. This question may have been for women but I answered for me haha. "
While it's trickier for us women to peak, it isn't necessarily a women topic only. |
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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago
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I admit...I'm greedy! I want to cum...haha.. I have been kinda spoilt tho, some men I have met have been more concerned with pleasuring me, a lot, and that turned them on more than me playing with them! It happens...  |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I'd feel quite ripped off if I'm totally honest. To have made the plans/effort to go on a play meet, I guess I'm hoping for satisfaction.... For both parties of course!"
Same here, although when it's an overall good experience I'm more forgiving.  |
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"I admit...I'm greedy! I want to cum...haha.. I have been kinda spoilt tho, some men I have met have been more concerned with pleasuring me, a lot, and that turned them on more than me playing with them! It happens... "
This happens me quiet a lot,It's always such a turn on to make a woman cum. |
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It’s happened quite a few times with meets where I’ve not cum. I do like to give but sometimes guys don’t give back.
If he’s put effort in and it’s just not happening then ok. But if it’s just assumed I’ll cum and no effort made then it makes me feel very used... frustrated and sometimes even angry.
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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s happened quite a few times with meets where I’ve not cum. I do like to give but sometimes guys don’t give back.
If he’s put effort in and it’s just not happening then ok. But if it’s just assumed I’ll cum and no effort made then it makes me feel very used... frustrated and sometimes even angry.
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Yes this...its the guys who make little effort, have a little fiddle with you and they assume once u make a noise, that's it, job done and they can go hell for leather til they are done... Such a turn off...and u do feel used! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...if you don't cum when you meet someone? Do you feel unsatisfied or does it frustrated you or do you question yourself why you didn't? "
Generally doesn't bother me as long as we both had fun. Takes a long time for me to cum so wouldn't be shocked if I didn't.
Always like to make a woman orgasm though, that stays in your mind. |
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As a couple having our first meet recently. Both ladies had cum I hadn't and circumstances meant we were finishing. I would have been fine with it as wed all had fun and it wasn't intentional on anyone's part (god love them they tried!).
Luckily we went for round two and I finished at the meet but like I said I think it depends on circumstances!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's an interesting dilema. I feel satisfied most after making my sexual partner cum, multiple times if I can is even better. It's more about the psychology and sometimes the power postion in a sexual trist. Cumming is great, don't get me wrong, but for me, I don't have to cum to have the best sex on a date. Hope that adds to the conversation and understanding of different partner's gratifiacation comlexities  |
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I always cum when I meet someone... In the bank, in the post office and worst of all has to be in the church, although father Ryan has been very understanding about it all.
I really need to restrict it to when I'm having sex. |
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"I always cum when I meet someone... In the bank, in the post office and worst of all has to be in the church, although father Ryan has been very understanding about it all.
I really need to restrict it to when I'm having sex. "
he's a dirty man that father Ryan. hed understand that carry on no problem at all |
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