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‘Body types ’ can people not differentiate ?
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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok so im probly going to get slated on this thread but sure who cares everyone has an opinion .
So what is the definition on the body types on here ? Iv seen loads of profiles with either of slim athletic curvy large and the person in the pics does definitaly not match the description.
And then theres the profiles that are looking for a model ripped guy but they havent seen any exercise since pe in school themselves.
Haha defo going to get abuse for this post
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's very ordinary people demanding very extraordinary people but why not aim high if it pays off? It is kinda funny I agree.
I think people see themselves differently and even people see people differently.
My female dentist once commented that I was very tall... I'm clearly not.
One soccer team mate who was the same height as me once said I shouldn't mark the tall guy at a corner cause I'm too small but when he stood next to me he was like "oh actually you should mark him".
One girl I met for a date said I'm very skinny and she didn't realise from my pics and another I met thinks I'm ripped.
I think I personally I have a more accurate picture of everyone in my head being more or less average. I know when someone is tall or short and big or small compared to me haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so im probly going to get slated on this thread but sure who cares everyone has an opinion .
So what is the definition on the body types on here ? Iv seen loads of profiles with either of slim athletic curvy large and the person in the pics does definitaly not match the description.
And then theres the profiles that are looking for a model ripped guy but they havent seen any exercise since pe in school themselves.
Haha defo going to get abuse for this post
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Everyone's definition of themselves is different.
One might find you attractive others might not.
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative "
Oh and tattoos please lol
Well said. No need for another thread |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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"There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative "
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol"
I am a generous 5’10”, i round it up obviously from the 3/4 of an inch but have met lads on here that make me feel like a giant and check their profile and it says 6” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol"
Still talking height, right ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember reading a girls profile from Cork I think and I honestly thought she was perfection and she was like "I'm bigger/tubby , have a belly etc..." so it's not even girls or guys giving the wrong descriptions to make themselves look better some are low in confidence.
Also I think some men have no idea what 6ft looks like. I think alot of 5ft 9ers assume they're 6ft |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right? |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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"There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative "
Well said. Couldn’t agree more. |
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol
I am a generous 5’10”, i round it up obviously from the 3/4 of an inch but have met lads on here that make me feel like a giant and check their profile and it says 6” "
You look taller beside Gem too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right? "
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this. |
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this. "
Body shaming goes on for both women and men. I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world. My preference are taller men has always been. I would admire a mans physique who is toned but I would never think that’s who I could get! I’ve a belly, I’ve an ass, I’ve lumps and bumps, I’m a short arse. I’m ok with who I am and would never hide what I look like to attract people who wouldn’t be interested in my physical type |
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this.
Body shaming goes on for both women and men. I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world. My preference are taller men has always been. I would admire a mans physique who is toned but I would never think that’s who I could get! I’ve a belly, I’ve an ass, I’ve lumps and bumps, I’m a short arse. I’m ok with who I am and would never hide what I look like to attract people who wouldn’t be interested in my physical type"
""I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world.""
that's it exactly with alot and alot of men will get up on anything to get their Willy wet. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this. "
Yea saw that and the woman got well slated for it. I haven’t seen a thread in the Irish forum from a woman goin on bout overweight, old men etc but I could be wrong.
Of course we all gots preferences what’s that got to do with it?
I’m perfectly aware I’m not everyone’s type and totally understand if someone is looking for a supermodel with big tits I ain’t for them. But I’m
Not goin to be rude about it. It’s got nothing to do with being sensitive that’s a cop out |
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this.
Body shaming goes on for both women and men. I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world. My preference are taller men has always been. I would admire a mans physique who is toned but I would never think that’s who I could get! I’ve a belly, I’ve an ass, I’ve lumps and bumps, I’m a short arse. I’m ok with who I am and would never hide what I look like to attract people who wouldn’t be interested in my physical type
""I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world.""
that's it exactly with alot and alot of men will get up on anything to get their Willy wet. "
Yeh but if you have any sense you know the ones who are like that dontbesilly |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Op surely nobody is going by the body description on a profile because it's a well known fact that perception/meaning of those can be stretched like a pair of nylon tights. Tbh I find them quite amusing, but unfortunately some take them way to serious. Pics will give you a hint but always keep in mind that they show us from the best angle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Slippery, most of my sexual partners were heavier than me. I like many body types. I don't really like taller women to be honest but they don't fancy me either usually ha. I don't think anyone should have to look for someone similar to them. If a bigger girl or guy takes a shot at a fitness model looking person than fair play to them. Again there was a girl about 20yrs old on this that I fancied and she stated on her profile that she wanted guys alot older and said she goes for the dad bod so out of shape guys and women should definitely just text whoever they fancy cause they could be their type. |
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"Slippery, most of my sexual partners were heavier than me. I like many body types. I don't really like taller women to be honest but they don't fancy me either usually ha. I don't think anyone should have to look for someone similar to them. If a bigger girl or guy takes a shot at a fitness model looking person than fair play to them. Again there was a girl about 20yrs old on this that I fancied and she stated on her profile that she wanted guys alot older and said she goes for the dad bod so out of shape guys and women should definitely just text whoever they fancy cause they could be their type. "
I like shoulders and arms I don’t care about the rest of the body sorry yes I do there has to be a nice middle leg |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slippery, most of my sexual partners were heavier than me. I like many body types. I don't really like taller women to be honest but they don't fancy me either usually ha. I don't think anyone should have to look for someone similar to them. If a bigger girl or guy takes a shot at a fitness model looking person than fair play to them. Again there was a girl about 20yrs old on this that I fancied and she stated on her profile that she wanted guys alot older and said she goes for the dad bod so out of shape guys and women should definitely just text whoever they fancy cause they could be their type.
I like shoulders and arms I don’t care about the rest of the body sorry yes I do there has to be a nice middle leg "
And my middle leg wouldn't do alooot of fab women but I'm not gunna complain haha |
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"Slippery, most of my sexual partners were heavier than me. I like many body types. I don't really like taller women to be honest but they don't fancy me either usually ha. I don't think anyone should have to look for someone similar to them. If a bigger girl or guy takes a shot at a fitness model looking person than fair play to them. Again there was a girl about 20yrs old on this that I fancied and she stated on her profile that she wanted guys alot older and said she goes for the dad bod so out of shape guys and women should definitely just text whoever they fancy cause they could be their type.
I like shoulders and arms I don’t care about the rest of the body sorry yes I do there has to be a nice middle leg
And my middle leg wouldn't do alooot of fab women but I'm not gunna complain haha "
Don’t mind them |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this.
Yea saw that and the woman got well slated for it. I haven’t seen a thread in the Irish forum from a woman goin on bout overweight, old men etc but I could be wrong.
Of course we all gots preferences what’s that got to do with it?
I’m perfectly aware I’m not everyone’s type and totally understand if someone is looking for a supermodel with big tits I ain’t for them. But I’m
Not goin to be rude about it. It’s got nothing to do with being sensitive that’s a cop out "
In regards to those threads you mentioned above there was actually very little negative comments and the ones that have been made came from the usual provocateurs who play on the sensitivity of those who have some insecurities which isn't a nice at all but surely if you browse regularly the forum you are well aware of those lil poo dumpers and best is to ignore. |
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"Btw op totes not abusing you, you no I think your a good un but there’s been a lot of negative talk about body type lately esp from males it’s getting to overload stage and starting to look like butt hurt guys trying to take the girls down a peg or two.
I’d say everyone has experienced someone not quite being what they said they were and that sucks but onwards and upwards right?
I dunno if you read through the lounge but a lady had a thread up today asking if fab men are getting uglier and uglier and it wasn't about their personality. There's definitely more pressure on men here. Asking about what's an average size etc.. Isn't body shaming. Some people prefer certain body types and hope people judge themselves accurately (not harshly or cruelly). There's always threads about dicks and male height. Things males have zero control over. Women have definitely been over sensitive on this.
Body shaming goes on for both women and men. I think a lot of women have got used to “hot” “fit” men messaging them so they want what they may not get in the vanilla world. My preference are taller men has always been. I would admire a mans physique who is toned but I would never think that’s who I could get! I’ve a belly, I’ve an ass, I’ve lumps and bumps, I’m a short arse. I’m ok with who I am and would never hide what I look like to attract people who wouldn’t be interested in my physical type"
Hot fit men where? None of them messaged me ah well |
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So what I’m reading is....
If you’re not “hot” and “fit” you don’t deserve someone that looks that way?
What if the hot fit person is into someone that’s bigger, softer? Are they to steer clear?
What if the bigger, bbw/m (whatever label you prefer for a bigger sized human) is into fit hot people and not people of similar size/shape to them? Are they not allowed??
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Nothing on fab is the same as in the real world so if you get on well with someone meet for coffee first then if theyre lying you can walk away...and id say their pics should be fairly indicative, unless there"s no full body pics..that always makes me suspicious.. |
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"So what I’m reading is....
If you’re not “hot” and “fit” you don’t deserve someone that looks that way?
What if the hot fit person is into someone that’s bigger, softer? Are they to steer clear?
What if the bigger, bbw/m (whatever label you prefer for a bigger sized human) is into fit hot people and not people of similar size/shape to them? Are they not allowed??
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Clearly they’re not! I’d like to apologise here and now to any ‘hot’ ‘fit’ guys I’ve had the audacity to message or even meet. How very dare me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There had been a few threads on this already and they haven’t ended well.
Really who cares how anyone describes themselves??
And as for those looking for ripped model guys but not the same themselves, what concern is that of yours or anyone else’s?? Fair fucks if they can get it. If I want to look for a 5 2 outer Mongolian with dreads then that’s my prerogative "
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I don't really fit any body description. I've a big ass, a round belly, and small boobs. I've been told I'm neither BBW nor curvy... but neither would I describe myself as slim or athletic in a million years. I think I'm just an average Irish woman (fab needs a 'wobbly' category lol).
Does it bother me if I'm not someone's type? Hell no. I much rather having lots of wild, hot, uninhibited, giggly, filthy sex with someone who is absolutely crazy about me than having to remember to keep sucking in my gut to impress someone
As for people looking for specific body types? Let them! Thats their choice.
I think one of the most unattractive qualities for me are people who moan about other people's preferences and not matching them, but it does act as a great filter... if someone's so resentful that they have to keep posting threads or putting up whingey status updates, they're unlikely to be much fun to be around |
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"Nothing on fab is the same as in the real world so if you get on well with someone meet for coffee first then if theyre lying you can walk away...and id say their pics should be fairly indicative, unless there"s no full body pics..that always makes me suspicious.."
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Not really sure what OP was trying to achieve by the post in the first place.
If someone thinks they are Athletic and are not by looking at their pics, so what, its not doing any harm to anyone. At least they aint photshopping the life out of their pics like some of the pics that appear on the hot pics regularly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Shouldn't really judge, am a perfect example of how from size 6 can go to size 18 due to 2 pregnancies and god knows what other issues, doesn't make me less of a person, am not lazy, I take care of my self and my body,yes a bit of saggy skin here and there, but so what? I have a great ass, an amazing vag what more do u want? Page 3 models. If I am not ur cup of tea, pass on and find your own.
When a fit guy txts me it does flatter me, that doesn't mean I am jumping straight on him. |
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"I don't really fit any body description. I've a big ass, a round belly, and small boobs. I've been told I'm neither BBW nor curvy... but neither would I describe myself as slim or athletic in a million years. I think I'm just an average Irish woman (fab needs a 'wobbly' category lol).
Does it bother me if I'm not someone's type? Hell no. I much rather having lots of wild, hot, uninhibited, giggly, filthy sex with someone who is absolutely crazy about me than having to remember to keep sucking in my gut to impress someone
As for people looking for specific body types? Let them! Thats their choice.
I think one of the most unattractive qualities for me are people who moan about other people's preferences and not matching them, but it does act as a great filter... if someone's so resentful that they have to keep posting threads or putting up whingey status updates, they're unlikely to be much fun to be around "
Love this we definitely need a wobbly category |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol"
This actually drives me NUTS. Because I neeeeed a man to be bigger and taller than me for there to be a sexual attraction!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shouldn't really judge, am a perfect example of how from size 6 can go to size 18 due to 2 pregnancies and god knows what other issues, doesn't make me less of a person, am not lazy, I take care of my self and my body,yes a bit of saggy skin here and there, but so what? I have a great ass, an amazing vag what more do u want? Page 3 models. If I am not ur cup of tea, pass on and find your own.
When a fit guy txts me it does flatter me, that doesn't mean I am jumping straight on him."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol
This actually drives me NUTS. Because I neeeeed a man to be bigger and taller than me for there to be a sexual attraction!
Mrs x"
Age is another problem. There's people loosing actual decades. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol
This actually drives me NUTS. Because I neeeeed a man to be bigger and taller than me for there to be a sexual attraction!
Mrs x
Age is another problem. There's people loosing actual decades. "
Mugshots from the Garda and Drivers license from now on |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol
This actually drives me NUTS. Because I neeeeed a man to be bigger and taller than me for there to be a sexual attraction!
Mrs x
Age is another problem. There's people loosing actual decades. Mugshots from the Garda and Drivers license from now on"
That's it from now on I'm
6'8"
Athletic
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Or people that lie about their height...
Get this a lot with guys I usually presume they are 5in shorter than they said lol
This actually drives me NUTS. Because I neeeeed a man to be bigger and taller than me for there to be a sexual attraction!
Mrs x"
I am 5ft 9 3/4 inch tall, so lads if you are 5ft 10 and you bump in to me at a social make sure you have the old cuban stilletos on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why lie .... if you meet and they see you don't equate to anything like your profile then they know you talk bollock before you open your mouth
6'3 17st8lb average build (ok maybe fat) and 54yo
Who really cares??? |
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