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Lets talk about sex baby....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...or not!
Am I part of the minority here that prefers interesting, mentally stimulating conversation and a sense of someone's personality to be attracted?
I've had backlash before..."this isn't a dating site",etc.
I can't feign interest if that element of attraction isn't there for me. It's first and foremost.
Sapiophile perhaps.
Surely Fab is more than tennis texts discussing fetishes and kinks..
Thoughts??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya. I'm sure alot of people would love a take a ticket wait your turn for the next available girl system on this site . Unfortunately I myself know this won't happen and I like a bit of a chat . Intelligence is sexy just saying . Chin up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people unfortunately are just looking for a hole or pole Emma, ha
But I'm with you, like to be able to converse with someone that would be willing to take my hand  |
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Nothing sexier then a proper chat... one that doesn't involve " oh baby I'm going to make you moan" chances are you won't but if you'd tried you could of made me laugh which then could of lead to a moan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...or not!
Am I part of the minority here that prefers interesting, mentally stimulating conversation and a sense of someone's personality to be attracted?
I've had backlash before..."this isn't a dating site",etc.
I can't feign interest if that element of attraction isn't there for me. It's first and foremost.
Sapiophile perhaps.
Surely Fab is more than tennis texts discussing fetishes and kinks..
Thoughts??
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May as well extract a tooth than extract a good conversation on here sometimes. I wonder is the art of conversion dying to be honest. It's probably a lack of interest, a lack of effort or maybe a lack of time. It's disheartening if you're making an effort.
Some just shine brighter than other's and then some just fade away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing sexier then a proper chat... one that doesn't involve " oh baby I'm going to make you moan" chances are you won't but if you'd tried you could of made me laugh which then could of lead to a moan "
A great one is a simultaneous laugh and moan Rover Returned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is hard to get an interesting and stimulating conversation but there is the odd guy that is more than capable of carrying on such chats. And these chats, without doubt, make the coffee meet a LOT more interesting lol.
Patience is a key!
It is easy to get disheartened and bored especially after a bad experience...but chin up....there are a few good guys on the site
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I’ve met a few who I’ve had the best conversations with and they are the ones I’ve kept in touch with. There are some who I’ve met where there wasn’t really much chat and yeh the meet wasn’t as enjoyable.
A connection and chemistry is a must. If they don’t want to chat and see if it’s there I don’t have time for them |
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Chat doesn't have to be all about sex and fetishes.Having a long normal chat at the minute going on a couple of weeks and really enjoying it.If people can get on through normal chat they inevitably progress to mixing normal and sexy. If they still get on, chances are they will also get on much better physically than otherwise if the mix of chat hadn't happened. |
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"Chat doesn't have to be all about sex and fetishes.Having a long normal chat at the minute going on a couple of weeks and really enjoying it.If people can get on through normal chat they inevitably progress to mixing normal and sexy. If they still get on, chances are they will also get on much better physically than otherwise if the mix of chat hadn't happened."
This is my preferred method  |
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100% agree with the OP. I've had a lot of coffee meets and I love the initial buzz of meeting and when it clicks it's mostly because of similar backgrounds, experiences and desires.
When you both get that glint in your eye, it's magical |
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I used to chat loads..but honestly got tired of seeing unread messsges and one line lol replies that were obviously typed quickly so that the profile at the other end could keep another male online..
The good people of fab are masters of their own fate..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't say being new here if you are in the minority OP, but there certainly are a lot of profiles on here that give off a superficial, hostile and often narcissistic vibe. That may be who they really are or it may be the result of a lot of disrespect, timewasting or harassment on here...either way it makes the more profound, positive and discerning profiles stand out.
So I say fair play to both kinds of people if their profile is an honest glimpse into who they are, who they want to play with and who they don't. There's nothing wrong with being clinical about hookup sex if that's what both parties are into . Just as there's nothing wrong with total personality and conscientiousness based hookups...or any hookups between both extremes as long as neither party is duped by a false impression of the other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chat doesn't have to be all about sex and fetishes.Having a long normal chat at the minute going on a couple of weeks and really enjoying it.If people can get on through normal chat they inevitably progress to mixing normal and sexy. If they still get on, chances are they will also get on much better physically than otherwise if the mix of chat hadn't happened.
This is my preferred method "
Same. |
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"Chat doesn't have to be all about sex and fetishes.Having a long normal chat at the minute going on a couple of weeks and really enjoying it.If people can get on through normal chat they inevitably progress to mixing normal and sexy. If they still get on, chances are they will also get on much better physically than otherwise if the mix of chat hadn't happened.
This is my preferred method
Same. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Engaging conversation leading to a meet is part of the foreplay.
Even a prolonged break in chat then expecting to pick it back up again ("you still suitably wooed") isn't going to hold my attention. And I strive to maintain interest as well.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit difficult to strike up a conversation at times here when the opening intro mail says ... u up for meet now/tonite/in an hour ...from profiles you’ve never spoke to or interacted with before. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bit difficult to strike up a conversation at times here when the opening intro mail says ... u up for meet now/tonite/in an hour ...from profiles you’ve never spoke to or interacted with before. "
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What are your non sexual hobbies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit difficult to strike up a conversation at times here when the opening intro mail says ... u up for meet now/tonite/in an hour ...from profiles you’ve never spoke to or interacted with before.
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What are your non sexual hobbies? "
Last time I asked a question like that I was told I was "Up my own hole" and blocked. There was nothing up my hole at that time, honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm, yes and no...
I like an intelligent chat with a woman and it makes the whole thing more exciting.
I like to chat f2f over a drink. Chatting through messages is boring to me. Very slow, can't have a proper conversation and don't see the other person. |
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You’re not in the minority OP. I have zero interest in sex talk or “what are you into” type conversations. They’re bore me and I instantly loose interest.
If the person can hook me with something different, a common interest point then I’m very happy to chat and probably meet the person for a social. Then the flirting can commence.
Without a connection to someone talk on here is just blah blah... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bit difficult to strike up a conversation at times here when the opening intro mail says ... u up for meet now/tonite/in an hour ...from profiles you’ve never spoke to or interacted with before.
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What are your non sexual hobbies?
Last time I asked a question like that I was told I was "Up my own hole" and blocked. There was nothing up my hole at that time, honest. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re not in the minority OP. I have zero interest in sex talk or “what are you into” type conversations. They’re bore me and I instantly loose interest.
If the person can hook me with something different, a common interest point then I’m very happy to chat and probably meet the person for a social. Then the flirting can commence.
Without a connection to someone talk on here is just blah blah..."
Hear hear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So much can be "lost in translation" in text or email messages ... language is about tone, voice the nuances of the spoken word ... only the very few can transcribe that to the written word . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The key to any encounter is chemistry. Sex is interesting but if it's the only topic then it gets stale fast. Even though we tent not to reveal our whole life on here conversation chat banter and flirting do more to turn you on and get you interested....in my humble opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The key to any encounter is chemistry. Sex is interesting but if it's the only topic then it gets stale fast. Even though we tent not to reveal our whole life on here conversation chat banter and flirting do more to turn you on and get you interested....in my humble opinion "
It's a good opinion.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The key to any encounter is chemistry. Sex is interesting but if it's the only topic then it gets stale fast. Even though we tent not to reveal our whole life on here conversation chat banter and flirting do more to turn you on and get you interested....in my humble opinion
It's a good opinion.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always happy to talk about anything here,,,, getting any reply amongst the mickey pics and “fuck now darlin” is the knack... jeez i can talk shite for hours !! But yes the conversation does tend to head to the bedroom lets face it thats why we all here. 
Pick a topic... |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I love the chat and banter in messsges full of flirty indendoes how ye can chat about something but its really about something else.. ye have to stimulate my mind to interest me |
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Sometimes talking about real life issues, debating opinions with each other gives more of an insight into a person then the usual " oh baby I'll make you cum so hard"
The flirty talk can happen but it's so much sexier if you've a feeling for the person behind the screen |
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I like to get to know the person. Feel comfortable enough to meet, knowing the conversation will flow.
Then I like to see if there's a spark. Once you have these two things ... the rest will flow naturally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd talk the cross of an ass  speeking of ass what do ya get if ya cross a donkey with an onion................... A peice of ass that will bring a tear to your eye well I think it's funny lol |
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