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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think the last of my patience just ran out. Didnt think this would be so difficult for a single male. Seemingly impossible to get past a hello with some of the ladies on here. Anyone else find the same or is there a trick to this? |
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Persevere; its hard to get a foot in the door, especially when giving out instead of focusing on being positive and making yourself more appealing.. for example, why not start a fun thread about something? Gets people chatting and looking at your profile. |
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I generally do give advice ...... to newbies. But you have been here for over a year buddy. Think maybe it's time to give up. You obviously don't use the threads or you would have noticed the 20 million threads with a similar theme since you joined. I think people can forgive a newbie, but someone here as long as you? Doubt it. Sorry but it's true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id agree with you, it is hard for a single male here, I think the best way to get settled in here will be to attend one of the parties and get to talk to a few people ( i havent attended one yet). Its hard to show someone that your nice and down to earth via texting.
I also cant blame girls being stand offish because after all there are a good lot of fake profiles and creaps on here |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I generally do give advice ...... to newbies. But you have been here for over a year buddy. Think maybe it's time to give up. You obviously don't use the threads or you would have noticed the 20 million threads with a similar theme since you joined. I think people can forgive a newbie, but someone here as long as you? Doubt it. Sorry but it's true "
He's far from a newbie here over a year  |
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"I generally do give advice ...... to newbies. But you have been here for over a year buddy. Think maybe it's time to give up. You obviously don't use the threads or you would have noticed the 20 million threads with a similar theme since you joined. I think people can forgive a newbie, but someone here as long as you? Doubt it. Sorry but it's true
He's far from a newbie here over a year "
That was kinda my point ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the last of my patience just ran out. Didnt think this would be so difficult for a single male. Seemingly impossible to get past a hello with some of the ladies on here. Anyone else find the same or is there a trick to this?"
Hang in there. M&Gs helps a lot .It's totally worth it. I cannot believe how lucky I've been on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks for your advice folks! Yes I have been on more than a year but to be honest I never realised the forums were such a big thing. Theres no instruction manual. I had looked at some of the events but they all seemed so anti single male that they were off putting. Hopefully another M&G comes up soon and i'll try to be more active in these forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's tough to get up and running as some profiles won't chat too people who aren't verified. Others, tend to meet only at the clubs. There are a lot of time wasters on here so people have to have some kinda criteria to them out.
It's a swingers website so singles guys need a partner really to be in with more of a chance. |
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