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Are guys just fluffers for couples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guy do you ever feel like a Fluffer when meeting couples.
you meet the couple, you have great fun with the Fem, lots of teasing,
touching, fingering, licking, you are giving loads of attention given
to her ( and sometimes him, even though straight on his profile) & she
is giving attention back to you .. the partner is giving lots of
encouragement & instructions from the sidelines... all is going well,
you are doing all the work the finish line is in sight but!!! .. you
realize you are not going to get the prize .. the partner (husband)
get to finish her off.. & you are left with an unsatisfied hard-on.
Now maybe its because I meet older couples and often some health
conditions cause problems so the guy cannot really fully satisfy his
wife, but while it is great to get meets, great to have fun, it can be
somewhat frustrating not to get the prize.
over the years i have also talked to women meeting couples &
similiarly they are finding, lots of Bi play with the lady, BJ for the
guy, but no Cock for the single lady not meeting the couple. many of
the women had decided to stop meeting couples for this reason & often
an under lying jealousy, some had a meet once policy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?  "
No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.
In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?
No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.
In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"
I have never found this with any of the couples I've met |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Then don't meet couples who don't allow penetration."
Despite the messages & texts prior to the meet, it often only becomes obvious when you get down to the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then don't meet couples who don't allow penetration.
Despite the messages & texts prior to the meet, it often only becomes obvious when you get down to the fun"
Then you need to be specific about establishing where the boundaries lie. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?
No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.
In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"
Ah now I'm getting it, thanks for clarifying. Sure that's something you can find out beforehand and then decide if you want to go along with it.
I've to say sometimes I do get the impression that for some couples singles are a performance toy for their amusement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt meet couples so wouldnt be able to tell you from experience but does sound like your doing all the work but not getting the reward which doesnt seem fair on you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never experienced this issue when meeting with couples, it's usually the complete opposite as the lady is getting spoiled by both gents. I can understand it happening once to you with crossed wires but seems strange if this has happened on multiple occasions |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
Of course they are... only to be used and disposed off as you please 
But being serious, the single guy should always be made feel like hes on equal footing with husband. If they feel like they can be friends outside is usually a good start.
The best ones we have had have been about having a laugh. |
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I was going to reply to this thread about fluffers
But its so hard to read , thought my eyes wud need mufflers
I scrolled down through it looking for rhyme or some reason
But all i get is a poor guy, cock in hand, freezin
So if youre going to post and make it look like a poem
At least make it rhyme....though its fab, should have known..  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
Communication and clarifying boundaries and wants etc in advance is essential.
It's a shame to hear that things only became clear on the night OP. I can see how all that could happen but thankfully that scenario has never happened to me. Fingers crossed it never will  .
I've no problem helping with fantasies etc but I'd prefer to go in with my eyes open (figuratively and in reality  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?
No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.
In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"
Your obviously meeting the wrong people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In fairness it has only happened a few tines over 10 yrs ... in Ireland & in England ... but yes I should vet the meets a bit better ... although I like to go with tbe flow |
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