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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would thought this be ripe on here as it's normal human reaction so have you ever get jealous of someone you have played with getting with another man or women or if you were in couple did you or your partner ever get jealous |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Think there can be jealousy on here if you let yourself get sucked into it.... Suppose for some it's hard to see someone they have played with a few times enjoying them selves with someone else or someone you hoped to meet after a coffee isn't interested in taken it further anymore......  |
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I don't see myself as the jealous type. Can't say I've felt that emotion when broke up before and have been in some long term relationships. With swinging I definitely don't feel jealous. How can I, I've met someone, had some fun and left, so did they, I don't exchange numbers, I don't msg continuosly. It's a date not a love affair. No room for jealousy in Swinging. Lol my opinion by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealousy is a normal emotion its how you deal with it that's important in swinging "
I agree here people who say they don't at all at all mmmmmmm am not to sure about that now lol.  it is natural unless a person is a cold as ice ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if it happens a lot and it upsets you..then I think you need to question if this lifestyle is really for you..."
True as said already it is how you deal with it that matters. Move on op let it go there is plenty to play with here x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would thought this be ripe on here as it's normal human reaction so have you ever get jealous of someone you have played with getting with another man or women or if you were in couple did you or your partner ever get jealous "
In contrary to the majority of replies you’ve received on here, I actually think being on this site could ease any such jealous tendencies you may involuntarily possess.
It’s better to immerse yourself in an emotion you fear or reject, in order to move past it. When I first joined I was a bit like this but then you seem to adjust to the natural order of the swinging lifestyle lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to be clear I'm not jealous of anyone haven't met anyone yet to be jealous I was just talking in general what got me thinking about it is thread I read yesterday on the lounge forum a women had a thread were she received abusive emails over meeting some guys over the guys who were sending the abusive messages. Also I see lot women talking about having to have emotional connection with guys on this to have sex with them that to mean is recipe for jealousy to be involved at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication is the key to swinging without jealousy rising up if you cant communicate well as a couple swinging is probably not for you!
Ground rules if one not happy we don't play
Not too many return meets ( we have a couple of exceptions to this!! With couples we know very well and trust completely as strong in their own relationship)
Playing with experienced people who understand boundaries
Sam |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Communication is the key to swinging without jealousy rising up if you cant communicate well as a couple swinging is probably not for you!
Ground rules if one not happy we don't play
Not too many return meets ( we have a couple of exceptions to this!! With couples we know very well and trust completely as strong in their own relationship)
Playing with experienced people who understand boundaries
Sam"
Totally agree
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Communication is the key to swinging without jealousy rising up if you cant communicate well as a couple swinging is probably not for you!
Ground rules if one not happy we don't play
Not too many return meets ( we have a couple of exceptions to this!! With couples we know very well and trust completely as strong in their own relationship)
Playing with experienced people who understand boundaries
Sam"
Exactly  |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I’m jus jealous of others who have way more time for fun then I do. I can see how lines can get blurred though. You just need to keep in mind that most are here for variety not exclusively |
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