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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Much has been written about hotel v can.accomodate
Fab is an alternate part of your life ... meeting in a hotel is an extension of this ...
A hotel meet is erotic, intriguing, bold ... inside the hotel room you both can be your Fab self, the you that is looking to explore ... in that room it does not matter if you are married, single, bi curious, tv/ts ... this is a non judgemental meeting with a like minded person ... for a few hours normal life stands still ... that in its self is part of the buzz.
You meet in the bar, have a drink, but the sexual tension is electric ... in the lift you cant keep your hands of each other ... the room door closes & the clothes are off ... game on
When has sex at home been like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer it at home. I can see why someone married wouldn't but for me I'd love to have meets at home. If there's loads of sex I can raid my fridge half way through for energy too. I feel more relaxed at home than I do anywhere else and that's a big part of feeling sexy too. Although I know most people wouldn't go near a strangers home. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I've had the pleasure of both going to someone's home and staying in a hotel.....For me a hotel meet is always best..few drinks in the bar and retire to the room for some naughty fun plus it's more relaxed in my option  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't done a hotel meet in over a year now. I was stood up a few times a having to foot the bill decided never again will I book the room if it were to happen. It's not happened since. It might but I tend to overlook those who say they cannot accommodate now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So jealous, you’ve all had experiences! Me,none, as partner totally not interested in play with others. Just have to be happy with lot. Having said that I would love a hotel meet with a crowd. Especially after a couple of drinks I would rearing to go. It would be quick but would prep again! |
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Unfortunately, I can't host but I do like hotel meet as you can have a few drinks at the bar, chat, flirt and then bring the fun back into d room.
Order room service the next morning and continue the fun. |
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"Both has its pros and cons. Do whatever appeals to you best Op. There isn't any pressure either way. All that counts is that both parties involved feel comfy with the chosen accommodation.  "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"So jealous, you’ve all had experiences! Me,none, as partner totally not interested in play with others. Just have to be happy with lot. Having said that I would love a hotel meet with a crowd. Especially after a couple of drinks I would rearing to go. It would be quick but would prep again! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does being able to accommodate only mean at your home or would paying for a hotel count as well?"
good question, I always too "not accomodate" to mean where the person lives ... perhaps admin shud give an option to "hotel accomodate" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being able to accommodate only mean at your home or would paying for a hotel count as well?
good question, I always too "not accomodate" to mean where the person lives ... perhaps admin shud give an option to "hotel accomodate""
I do not accommodate in my own place but I think its fair to pay 50/50 cost of the hotel. Both people have fun so both should participate in expenses.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does being able to accommodate only mean at your home or would paying for a hotel count as well?
good question, I always too "not accomodate" to mean where the person lives ... perhaps admin shud give an option to "hotel accomodate"
I do not accommodate in my own place but I think its fair to pay 50/50 cost of the hotel. Both people have fun so both should participate in expenses. "
I'm with you Smokey 50/50 share the fun expense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being able to accommodate only mean at your home or would paying for a hotel count as well?
good question, I always too "not accomodate" to mean where the person lives ... perhaps admin shud give an option to "hotel accomodate"
Totally agree
I do not accommodate in my own place but I think its fair to pay 50/50 cost of the hotel. Both people have fun so both should participate in expenses.
I'm with you Smokey 50/50 share the fun expense"
Totally agree smokey |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being able to accommodate only mean at your home or would paying for a hotel count as well?
good question, I always too "not accomodate" to mean where the person lives ... perhaps admin shud give an option to "hotel accomodate""
Sure almost everyone can accommodate in a hotel especially when costs are shared, such option would just be additional site clutter stating the obvious.
Imo 'can accommodate' includes some sort of private gaff that allows to arrange meets any time of the day. |
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Room service to deliver food and drinks, housekeeping to clean up after you, and a sense of anonymity... What's not to like? But there are also disadvantages and inconveniences like trying to decide what to pack/bring, forgetting something you need, bumping into someone you know, noisy room neighbours, having to get up to check out...
Having said that, I've had meets at hotels, meets in my own home, and meets in the other person's home (and even in a combination of those locations with the same person), and how amazing the meet is has nothing to do with the location... It's most definitely the person you're meeting |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I really enjoy both but if id to choose id rather go to someone's place its more intimate for me..I was lucky enough recently to spend a few amazing mornings and evening's with a lad over from England who was staying in a hotel local for the wk with work.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuinely dislike hotel sex.
Too conventional. I like feeling at home, having necessities at hand and don't even start me on having a cigarette between the sessions.. Oh and I walked out on a guy once at 2am because I was hungry (we're friends so he didn't take any offence).
Also always prefer repeat meets and hotel ones are almost as a rule never to happen again or happen extremely rarely.
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There's something more intense about being in someone's home. I think it's the trust thing... This person trusts you enough to let you into their private space, in more ways than one  .
I find that trust quite powerful. |
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"Also always prefer repeat meets and hotel ones are almost as a rule never to happen again or happen extremely rarely.
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That's actually a good point. Think I've only ever had a repeat hotel meets with 1 person, and they were about 6 months apart. Obviously with a regular meet, the ongoing expense would become an issue if you were meeting once or twice a week in hotels.
But maybe its because of the sense that once you check out of the hotel, you've also mentally checked out of the meet that makes you less inclined to meet that person again? The impersonality and transience of the surroundings, etc., makes you subconsciously view your meet as just a passing encounter too? |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home. |
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"There's something more intense about being in someone's home. I think it's the trust thing... This person trusts you enough to let you into their private space, in more ways than one .
I find that trust quite powerful. "
It is an amazing trust. But one that can be so easily abused. I've had a previous meet tell pretty much anyone he has met since all about my home, where it is, who I am, etc.... I've not just heard it back in conversation from the other women he's met, but even from other men they've then gone on to meet, and some of those people I most definitely did not want knowing who I am or anything about me. |
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"There's something more intense about being in someone's home. I think it's the trust thing... This person trusts you enough to let you into their private space, in more ways than one .
I find that trust quite powerful.
It is an amazing trust. But one that can be so easily abused. I've had a previous meet tell pretty much anyone he has met since all about my home, where it is, who I am, etc.... I've not just heard it back in conversation from the other women he's met, but even from other men they've then gone on to meet, and some of those people I most definitely did not want knowing who I am or anything about me. "
That's horrendous.  |
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"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home. "
Do you even search the freezer in the garage? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's something more intense about being in someone's home. I think it's the trust thing... This person trusts you enough to let you into their private space, in more ways than one .
I find that trust quite powerful. "
Agree but I wont anyone in my house. Its my kids sanctuary.
Regarding meets at his/her place: why not? But only if we trust each other. I respect other people so it is not a "must be" someone's home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also always prefer repeat meets and hotel ones are almost as a rule never to happen again or happen extremely rarely.
That's actually a good point. Think I've only ever had a repeat hotel meets with 1 person, and they were about 6 months apart. Obviously with a regular meet, the ongoing expense would become an issue if you were meeting once or twice a week in hotels.
But maybe its because of the sense that once you check out of the hotel, you've also mentally checked out of the meet that makes you less inclined to meet that person again? The impersonality and transience of the surroundings, etc., makes you subconsciously view your meet as just a passing encounter too?"
Exactly how you described it. You just check out and forget that person exists. I'm more into getting to know each other's buttons and turn ons and making it better each time.
Also hotel meet makes you feel that sex must happen. Nobody likes that kind of pressure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done both..
Prefer hotels for the added sexy buzz.
Used to play with a great couple that did a lot of home hosting and to be fair they made their home very welcoming and fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also always prefer repeat meets and hotel ones are almost as a rule never to happen again or happen extremely rarely.
That's actually a good point. Think I've only ever had a repeat hotel meets with 1 person, and they were about 6 months apart. Obviously with a regular meet, the ongoing expense would become an issue if you were meeting once or twice a week in hotels.
But maybe its because of the sense that once you check out of the hotel, you've also mentally checked out of the meet that makes you less inclined to meet that person again? The impersonality and transience of the surroundings, etc., makes you subconsciously view your meet as just a passing encounter too?
Exactly how you described it. You just check out and forget that person exists. I'm more into getting to know each other's buttons and turn ons and making it better each time.
Also hotel meet makes you feel that sex must happen. Nobody likes that kind of pressure. "
I dont have that pressure. Im not pushy and will be happy to spend that time for a good laugh or sex. |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage? "
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol |
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"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol"
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so?  |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so? "
On the way.  |
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"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so?
On the way. "
I'll put the freezer on, sorry the kettle, I meant the kettle! |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so?
On the way.
I'll put the freezer on, sorry the kettle, I meant the kettle! "
Don’t forget to sharpen the chainsaw blades. |
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"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so?
On the way.
I'll put the freezer on, sorry the kettle, I meant the kettle!
Don’t forget to sharpen the chainsaw blades. "
It's sharp enough. I might need to clean it though |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"I prefer to meet at a guys place. Don’t get me wrong I have made a few exceptions but as I don’t like meeting attached guys. I find one way of helping rule out the liars is by meeting at their place. It’s hard to hide a female presence in a home.
Do you even search the freezer in the garage?
Haha. I’ve not had to go that far yet. Lol
Phew, fancy calling round to mine so?
On the way.
I'll put the freezer on, sorry the kettle, I meant the kettle!
Don’t forget to sharpen the chainsaw blades.
It's sharp enough. I might need to clean it though "
Hahaha. Ok. I concede defeat. You’ve made your point. Lol |
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"Much has been written about hotel v can.accomodate
Fab is an alternate part of your life ... meeting in a hotel is an extension of this ...
A hotel meet is erotic, intriguing, bold ... inside the hotel room you both can be your Fab self, the you that is looking to explore ... in that room it does not matter if you are married, single, bi curious, tv/ts ... this is a non judgemental meeting with a like minded person ... for a few hours normal life stands still ... that in its self is part of the buzz.
You meet in the bar, have a drink, but the sexual tension is electric ... in the lift you cant keep your hands of each other ... the room door closes & the clothes are off ... game on
When has sex at home been like that.
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you're not gonna pay extravagant prices to have sex in a hotel, are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve had a long term fwb that I only met in hotels because of the distance, we met half way. Worked pretty well. Stress free no cleaning etc and guaranteed sausage in the morning. |
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"I’ve had a long term fwb that I only met in hotels because of the distance, we met half way. Worked pretty well. Stress free no cleaning etc and guaranteed sausage in the morning. how much?"
Sausage or expense |
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"I’ve had a long term fwb that I only met in hotels because of the distance, we met half way. Worked pretty well. Stress free no cleaning etc and guaranteed sausage in the morning. how much?
Sausage or expense "
expense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's something more intense about being in someone's home. I think it's the trust thing... This person trusts you enough to let you into their private space, in more ways than one .
I find that trust quite powerful.
It is an amazing trust. But one that can be so easily abused. I've had a previous meet tell pretty much anyone he has met since all about my home, where it is, who I am, etc.... I've not just heard it back in conversation from the other women he's met, but even from other men they've then gone on to meet, and some of those people I most definitely did not want knowing who I am or anything about me. "
What a dick |
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"I’ve had a long term fwb that I only met in hotels because of the distance, we met half way. Worked pretty well. Stress free no cleaning etc and guaranteed sausage in the morning. how much?
Sausage or expense expense. "
It worked out the same as it would if was going out actually cheaper. We just rotated the bill. |
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So romantic 
