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Do you tell the truth!!!!
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
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You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...  |
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"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "
I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it... |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...
I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it..."
But do you just tell them the truth why ye don't want to meet again... |
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"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...
I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it...
But do you just tell them the truth why ye don't want to meet again..."
Tricky one maybe not blow his little shread of confidence to pieces. Could you be very nice and polite? |
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Truth but said in a nice way
What floats their and your boat may be very different thus leading to a let down, doesn't mean they are awful in bed just didn't push the right buttons
Or the other side is they are awful in bed but you can still give the above answer
 
I'm sure they will feel a little hurt but that's the process of being a adult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is always the best policy, if it wasn't good for you I'm sure he knew it too. Be polite and say it's not for ya and thanks for your time but aside from that, not a lot you can do  |
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Just tell them you were left unsatisfied and frustrated.
I’ve had to do it in the past..
Would I go there a second time... hhmmm it’s very hard to say, depends on his reaction to me telling him that it didnt work for me first time..
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"Has anyone ever left a very bad verification if I have a bad meet I just move on no point putting the boot or stillitoe in"
Can't recall a veri that savaged someone, but there are some that damn the object of the veri with faint praise, which is pretty much the same thing.. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Write a shit veri and they won't come back. 
Never taught of that DH I just never left one  "
Oh I see he/they are a bit slow in picking up signals, no veri normally implies the meet didn't work out, but some don't get that.
Anyhow just say not interested with no explanation like Hal suggested further up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "
Tell the truth and come up with a solution, if I like and want to play again i will on better terms lol  |
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I think if everyone was honest and open before during and after sex then he would have known that how things were proceeding was not working for you. If he is in any way a decent bloke, and you communicate what you do like, perhaps it could have been amazing sex. You can't blame a fella for unsatisfactory sex if you weren't open and honest right from the start. Perhaps try again but this time tell him from the start what it is that turns you on.
Tho maybe you did tell him and ive missed the point... Anyway just a suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a post script to what I've already said, a friend of mine met a guy on another site and didn't really hit it off as well as she thought they would. They tried again, and the second time was much much better. They actually ended up getting married, and yes I do know that that's not necessarily a recommendation for here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.
A.. Tell the truth or
B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "
Tell the truth. Better the person knows the situation than has unfounded hope of meeting again |
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