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Blocked for not playing on the first meet
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is terrible darling.
Being a single female you have to make sure you are safe and that you aren't meeting weirdos.
Their loss - big hug sent your way. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People block for differant reasons.. i was once blocked by a couple I was due to meet, I found out later that the M felt his oartner was too keen and got jealous. Dont dwell, put it down to FIIF (fuck it, its Fab) and move al9ng to your next adventure |
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When we meet single females there is never any pressure to play, for us treating her with respect is the most important thing.
Now we understand why women say we are not like a lot of couples they meet. If you don't respect people they won't respect you and other people soon hear about it.
Like others have said, their loss, chin up xxx |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all. |
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
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They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
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please tell me your joking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Their loss entirely...
Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.
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Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck "
doesnt work like that though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck doesnt work like that though..."
Let him believe it does  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people dont do the fab party socials or m&g like myself.a social coffee/drink meet first is safer way to approach a play meet."
Ahhh sorry to hear you don’t do socials anymore |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"im sure ive been blocked by loads i dont care tbh ppl have their reasons.dont let it bother u lady . my advice pull up ur sexy panties forget it and move on plenty more sexis on fab "
I’m happily moving on to my next adventure.  Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a guy (obviously lol) and 9 times out of ten it would be a coffee or a drink for me. Its seriously dangerous to go anywhere with strangers these days |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"Their loss entirely...
Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.
Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol."
Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Their loss entirely...
Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.
Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol.
Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xx"
we're down for
A road trip to you near the end of August...il be able to show of the tan to you lol and their won't be a tan line in sight  |
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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago
Portlaoise |
We have met lots of people for a drink without play. Some we have gone on to play with and other's we have not, but i don't recall blocking folk when we didn't play. We have blocked some people with whom we had no connection and whom we had no intention of ever wishing to meet again.
I once played as a Unicorn so fear not, learn as you go and enjoy the ride Mel ×× |
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"People block for differant reasons.. i was once blocked by a couple I was due to meet, I found out later that the M felt his oartner was too keen and got jealous. Dont dwell, put it down to FIIF (fuck it, its Fab) and move al9ng to your next adventure"
FIIF....  |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"Their loss entirely...
Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.
Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol.
Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xxwe're down for
A road trip to you near the end of August...il be able to show of the tan to you lol and their won't be a tan line in sight "
Looking forward to it.  |
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"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all. "
Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.
Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best. "
Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules 
Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet  |
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"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.
Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.
Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules
Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet "
Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.
Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.
Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules
Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet
Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me "
U need some one to get u over the edge do u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me. No point giving out about it really shit happens just move on
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"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.
Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.
Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules
Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet
Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me
U need some one to get u over the edge do u "
Or someone to edge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol "
How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall."
I dunno just seems awakard to me lol |
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall."
when I mean awakard like been single and deciding not play with couple lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol "
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u |
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall. when I mean awakard like been single and deciding not play with couple lol"
Very easy u meet have a drink chat.if either of the three people not getting the feeling u say thanks but no thanks .was great meeting and chatting. |
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u "
I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "
Awe that's where a lot of meets fall down they go with great expectations of debauchery and when they get ther those great pics haven't a personality or she finds them to not be what she was led to believe they were |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "
Pics actually mean very little to me. I never decide from anyone’s pics. I prefer to see how we get on in person. That’s why I don’t play on the first meet. I like to be able to chat and see how we get on without the will they won’t hey question looming in the background. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "
If you go through your fab life expecting everyone to look like their pics I'm afraid you will be in for a rude awakening. Everything from good angles or lighting right to outright photo shopping or the odd (very) old pic going on in here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us....we would never arrange a play meet we less we had met for a drink or coffee first. Nor would we expect anyone to either.
U cannot entirely (pardon the pun) get a feel for somebody through text/cam....a social meet for us would always be expected...Only in circumstances where we are at a party would we play on first meets. Stick to your own rules.
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes Ladylace, blocking is a good thing. I would rather be blocked in advance than get attitude after meeting. Chalk it down to experience that some people fab like it's going out of fashion and are merely thinking of their own need's...who wants to be in the middle of that. |
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"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol
You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.
When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol
If you go through your fab life expecting everyone to look like their pics I'm afraid you will be in for a rude awakening. Everything from good angles or lighting right to outright photo shopping or the odd (very) old pic going on in here
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yeah lot ladies that give compliments to always like thank god for filters so you have point there . So guys use filters too never heard guy using them before lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol
I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.
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Their loss ... if i go for coffee I go with an nsa attitude or expectations ... if we are enjoying ourselves then i have no problem playing on that 1st meet but that is often an exception |
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What's the big deal? They blocked you because they didn't want to talk to you anymore. Maybe they just didn't like you... I get blocked all the time :D. Like couple months ago when arranged a meet with a woman and see simply stopped answering my messages when I was in her hotel lobby... Got blocked when texted her a simple "?".
Your case is curious only because usually it happens to single men... |
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