I’m just wondering do people see a coffee meet veri go up and think that the people had a play meet same day too?
Do people do that?
I do a social only meet first ( maybe some kisses) but not a play. Is this the norm? |
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"I’m just wondering do people see a coffee meet veri go up and think that the people had a play meet same day too?
Do people do that?
I do a social only meet first ( maybe some kisses) but not a play. Is this the norm?"
Social meets in my experience have lead to other things at times  but usually yes social followed by organising play
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I take from a verification exactly what is written. If, like is normally the case something like "I met John for a coffee, he was really funny, can't wait to meet him again for more...." then I assume they didn't bang. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
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How can you meet someone without meeting them face to face beforehand?
As a single female I wouldn’t risk going straight to a hotel room or private house, you never know what could be waiting for you.
In a coffee meet situation you at least get an eyeball on the person, have a chat, see if they are what they said they were etc. Then go away knowing if you do/don’t want to meet them again. |
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"Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
Pete"
Fair play to you guys for being able to build up chemistry without meeting someone first. As Gingerrr says, safety first for single females x |
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I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Oh, we tend to socialize a lot before doing anything but generally m&gs and i guess it entirely different for couples for security reasons.
So if you go to a costa in ballymun for a coffee meet, do you get your nails/tan done? Do you wear baggy clothes?
Surely moat ladies want to look their best.
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun "
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either |
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either "
I chat for longer mostly I’m a chatter I’d text all day |
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"Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
Pete"
I would find it strange NOT to have a coffee meet . I've spoken to people for ages then coffee with absolutely no chemistry. Also I'd never put myself in a dangerous situation. You're chatting to someone off the internet. So to walk into a hotel room or house not knowing the person is far to dangerous. |
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either
I chat for longer mostly I’m a chatter I’d text all day "
Haha me too but I'm a texter. I'll text my way through a day if I'm not in anyone's company but I have a huge dislike of phone calls to the point that if its not immediate family or my manager I let it ring out and then text "what's up?" to the number |
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either
I chat for longer mostly I’m a chatter I’d text all day
Haha me too but I'm a texter. I'll text my way through a day if I'm not in anyone's company but I have a huge dislike of phone calls to the point that if its not immediate family or my manager I let it ring out and then text "what's up?" to the number "
I do that too hijacking the thread here |
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"Oh, we tend to socialize a lot before doing anything but generally m&gs and i guess it entirely different for couples for security reasons.
So if you go to a costa in ballymun for a coffee meet, do you get your nails/tan done? Do you wear baggy clothes?
Surely moat ladies want to look their best.
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A coffee meet is like a social during the day . I'd turn up well groomed and expect the same from the person I'm meeting.
Why would you wear baggy clothes???? |
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"Oh, we tend to socialize a lot before doing anything but generally m&gs and i guess it entirely different for couples for security reasons.
So if you go to a costa in ballymun for a coffee meet, do you get your nails/tan done? Do you wear baggy clothes?
Surely moat ladies want to look their best.
A coffee meet is like a social during the day . I'd turn up well groomed and expect the same from the person I'm meeting.
Why would you wear baggy clothes????"
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either
I chat for longer mostly I’m a chatter I’d text all day
Haha me too but I'm a texter. I'll text my way through a day if I'm not in anyone's company but I have a huge dislike of phone calls to the point that if its not immediate family or my manager I let it ring out and then text "what's up?" to the number
I do that too hijacking the thread here "
Haha I'll ok stop, back to the thread. OK I know girls (one that used to be on this but I met off pof) that do "coffee meets" and i asked them how their "date" went (inverted commas because they're not off here and only one knows I'm here so they don't call it coffee meets) and the answer I usually get is "we went for coffee, had a chat and went off for a drive and kiss" has coffee given them superpowers to where they can get into a strangers car and fight them off if needed? |
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The coffee meet is to see if the sexual chemistry is their and as it can happen, that you can text swap face pics etc but meet it person and it's just not the same
M&G/Clubs/Parties are exactly like a coffee meet, only more people and in the sense you see the person, you chat, you flirt and if the sexual desire is their, then you play.
I've stopped the coffee meets and now go through the social aspect but I still get time to flirt & chat like I would if I was going for a coffee/tea/drink meet with an individual only now I get to meet more people
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In terms of is a social meet just a social meet then really depends on the person themselves. I've done social meets that were only soxial but also done a social meet that extended into a sexual meet but that is rare. Again it's down to the individuals |
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Do people do that?
I do a social only meet first ( maybe some kisses) but not a play. Is this the norm?"
when are we having our social meet  |
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"Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
Pete
I would find it strange NOT to have a coffee meet . I've spoken to people for ages then coffee with absolutely no chemistry. Also I'd never put myself in a dangerous situation. You're chatting to someone off the internet. So to walk into a hotel room or house not knowing the person is far to dangerous. "
this is exactly my reason for coffee meets.. been part of a cpl u alreadly have that safetly net with each other and as we all know some ppl arent who what they claim to be. So if u & others find it silly & pointless for some its a necessary step to take to reassure us that will be safe m&gs arent always possible for us to attend to so call it our 1 on 1 m&g.. Bottom line whatever way works best each to their own |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"What’s wrong with baggy clothes? not exactly shiny leggings now are they"
Sometimes a lady can be sexy in her PJ's.
Some like baggies, some like leggings. Some like socials some like coffee meets.
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"Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
Pete
I would find it strange NOT to have a coffee meet . I've spoken to people for ages then coffee with absolutely no chemistry. Also I'd never put myself in a dangerous situation. You're chatting to someone off the internet. So to walk into a hotel room or house not knowing the person is far to dangerous.
this is exactly my reason for coffee meets.. been part of a cpl u alreadly have that safetly net with each other and as we all know some ppl arent who what they claim to be. So if u & others find it silly & pointless for some its a necessary step to take to reassure us that will be safe m&gs arent always possible for us to attend to so call it our 1 on 1 m&g.. Bottom line whatever way works best each to their own "
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"I haven’t really done coffee meets generally the ones I have met for coffee I knew before I’d never be meeting sexually it was just to verify them.
I’d never meet someone without talking for awhile first. I don’t have time for coffee meets lol if I get free time I want fun
I was just about to say I'd rather text, call and snapchat someone for a week or two before I met them. Not because of a safety concern but because its easier than a coffee meet to get to know someone. Although I'd be looking to meet someone similar to me who actually has time to text daily haha considering alot go into the guys car after a 30 min coffee I don't consider that the safest move either
I chat for longer mostly I’m a chatter I’d text all day
Haha me too but I'm a texter. I'll text my way through a day if I'm not in anyone's company but I have a huge dislike of phone calls to the point that if its not immediate family or my manager I let it ring out and then text "what's up?" to the number
I do that too hijacking the thread here
Haha I'll ok stop, back to the thread. OK I know girls (one that used to be on this but I met off pof) that do "coffee meets" and i asked them how their "date" went (inverted commas because they're not off here and only one knows I'm here so they don't call it coffee meets) and the answer I usually get is "we went for coffee, had a chat and went off for a drive and kiss" has coffee given them superpowers to where they can get into a strangers car and fight them off if needed? "
Starbucks do a special superhero coffee...and an iced version for the hot weather.... cape and all.... hides the baggy clothes  |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m just wondering do people see a coffee meet veri go up and think that the people had a play meet same day too?
Do people do that?
I do a social only meet first ( maybe some kisses) but not a play. Is this the norm?"
???? totally the norm for me Ginger..most my veris are social ones..best way to see of chemistry for potential fun in the future
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"How can you meet someone without meeting them face to face beforehand?
As a single female I wouldn’t risk going straight to a hotel room or private house, you never know what could be waiting for you.
In a coffee meet situation you at least get an eyeball on the person, have a chat, see if they are what they said they were etc. Then go away knowing if you do/don’t want to meet them again. "
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"How can you meet someone without meeting them face to face beforehand?
As a single female I wouldn’t risk going straight to a hotel room or private house, you never know what could be waiting for you.
In a coffee meet situation you at least get an eyeball on the person, have a chat, see if they are what they said they were etc. Then go away knowing if you do/don’t want to meet them again. just cause you meet someone face to face doesn't mean there not going turn out to be crazy "
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"How can you meet someone without meeting them face to face beforehand?
As a single female I wouldn’t risk going straight to a hotel room or private house, you never know what could be waiting for you.
In a coffee meet situation you at least get an eyeball on the person, have a chat, see if they are what they said they were etc. Then go away knowing if you do/don’t want to meet them again. just cause you meet someone face to face doesn't mean there not going turn out to be crazy
My ex’s are proof of that "
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I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too. |
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too."
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations |
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too.
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations "
Yes and it does work well and a very useful tool. |
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too.
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations
Yes and it does work well and a very useful tool."
Always a coffee/social meet after chatting a while though there have been times when the coffee is skipped and fun takes it place. Not often but you know within a few minutes if the chemistry is there or not.
I do have a friend who knows where I am at and who im meeting though. Better being safe.
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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I always meet socially first for safety, chemistry and authenticity reason's. Extremely rare where it has progressed to anything else. Ginger, what suits you and makes you feel comfortable is all that matters whether that's tanned and varnished or casually sexy, do it your way.
I have had loads of guy's tell me that most coffee meets progress to play...chancers moreso than charmer's.
Fooey took it the furthest though by getting his car locked into the car park on our first time meeting |
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too.
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations
Yes and it does work well and a very useful tool."
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"Just cant get my head around coffee meets. Just dont get them. Most people seem to dig them, we both find them completely and utterly bizarre. We have never done one in regards to a meet and i cant see us ever doing one.
Someone describe the basic situation in a coffee meet because we both find it Strange. How can any chemistry be built up?
Cheers.
Pete"
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too.
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations
Yes and it does work well and a very useful tool.
she has a great friend thou..jusy saying "
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I have gone for many coffee meets and I find them great. It's the same as meeting someone in a pub for a drink, it doesn't have to be a alcoholic drink. Tea/coffee/water/wine, it's just a social meet and if things evolve well that's a bonus.I have met some really nice people through them. So to sum it up coffee meets don't have to be just coffee, they can be done just to see if there is chemistry. No point in booking a room blind and then you don't click. That's my thoughts anyway. |
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"Don't do coffee meets...
Fail to see the point..
What if ya don't drink coffee?
Tea .. water.... Soft drinks
Missing my point"
Coffee/drink meets for some is their social outlet to see if there is a attraction
Much the same as people meeting and chatting at socials and m&g. |
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"Don't do coffee meets...
Fail to see the point..
What if ya don't drink coffee?
Tea .. water.... Soft drinks
Missing my point
Coffee/drink meets for some is their social outlet to see if there is a attraction
Much the same as people meeting and chatting at socials and m&g."
I alwaya meet socially first. The last guy i met thought there was an attraction. Was i wrong. Chatted for ages got on really well. Went our separate ways and when i suggested meeting again. His answer was didnt think there was a spark so no point. Id have looked well sitting in a hotel room been rejected. |
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Do people do that?
I do a social only meet first ( maybe some kisses) but not a play. Is this the norm?"
we have never done anything on a coffee meet and can tell you we have done loads and don’t always put a veri up saying we had a meet with the couple either . We shy away from clubs as afraid we might meet someone we know , so coffee meets easier for us ... and we both always make an effort and dress up... one couple we met he had a tracksuit on ... Jesus make An effort I thought ... wasn’t expecting a suit btw but jeans and T-shirt / shirt would be nice .... first impressions and all that xx
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Being a single female I'd never meet blind, especially a couple.. it can be totally intimidating meeting a couple alone, never mind for the first-time.
Ideally a social is the best place as you get to see them and how they interact with others. But if not a social then definitely a coffee meet.
So many people, mainly single guys would expect you to give a BJ or something after a coffee. When I feel that's the way it's going I generally don't even meet for the coffee. |
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But, a man (or woman) could easily put on a nice front and may turn out to be quiet the opposite when meeting up for a fun time.
So I'm not really understanding the logic behind coffee meets.
I'd much rather build a rapport with a person over a couple of weeks via kik, snapchat , phone call etc. It gives me a better insight in to what they are truly like as a person over a two week period.
It is much harder to keep up a front for two weeks than a once off coffee meet.
Can't be too careful these day's. I certainly would not like to venture behind a closed door with a manipulative person, emotionally unstable person. And yes, females are equally capable of such characteristics.
Finally, Attraction takes a few minutes, sexual chemistry takes a few week's to build and then there is another further realm after that. And that certainly leads to an unforgettable experience and intense passion and orgasms.
The longest sexual chemistry building I participated in with someone was 6 month's, of teasing , disappearing, coming back again. The encounter that was had after those 6 month's words can't even put it in to perspective. The intensity was unimaginable. 12 hour's, no sleep.
Try it sometime
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"But, a man (or woman) could easily put on a nice front and may turn out to be quiet the opposite when meeting up for a fun time.
So I'm not really understanding the logic behind coffee meets.
I'd much rather build a rapport with a person over a couple of weeks via kik, snapchat , phone call etc. It gives me a better insight in to what they are truly like as a person over a two week period.
It is much harder to keep up a front for two weeks than a once off coffee meet.
Can't be too careful these day's. I certainly would not like to venture behind a closed door with a manipulative person, emotionally unstable person. And yes, females are equally capable of such characteristics.
Finally, Attraction takes a few minutes, sexual chemistry takes a few week's to build and then there is another further realm after that. And that certainly leads to an unforgettable experience and intense passion and orgasms.
The longest sexual chemistry building I participated in with someone was 6 month's, of teasing , disappearing, coming back again. The encounter that was had after those 6 month's words can't even put it in to perspective. The intensity was unimaginable. 12 hour's, no sleep.
Try it sometime
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I’m not a fan of texting for ages and sexting exchanging pics for weeks is just annoying and I simply don’t have the time .
I find the best way to meet people is at parties and events where you can chose to play or just make a connection .
If I am meeting someone which is rare these days , I meet them socially some where public first with no expectations for play .
Too many people here are not what they present themselfs to be .
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"My nails are always done...
It’s casual surroundings so it’s not Saturday night club wear attire. "
What about snickers? Many many moons ago we met for coffee. I was wearing snickers at the time and you walked right by me. You did come back. Eventually. |
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I would normally have a coffee meet for local meets but for further afield meets it will build up over text and video calls and the way it has worked out so far we both just want to jump right in lol
Every meet is different and every person is different so I generally play it by ear
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I've had coffee meet with lad i really didn't like so thank god met 1st
I've also gone to Liverpool for meet for weekend to meet lad Id only ever spoke to and had great time |
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"I always meet socially first for safety, chemistry and authenticity reason's. Extremely rare where it has progressed to anything else. Ginger, what suits you and makes you feel comfortable is all that matters whether that's tanned and varnished or casually sexy, do it your way.
I have had loads of guy's tell me that most coffee meets progress to play...chancers moreso than charmer's.
Fooey took it the furthest though by getting his car locked into the car park on our first time meeting "
Hey I was stranded in a foreign country! 
And you knew that car park is locked from 7 ya fecker!
The lengths some people will go to strand someone just to have their wicked way wiv em!
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over a year ago
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"I've had far fewer coffee meets then play meets than straight play meets. I enjoy getting to know someone and building a rapport. Theres been a few who have also been blindfolded on first meet. I listen to my gut feeling about someone. In such cases I always suggest they contact a friend and tell them. I suggest they also send a txt message when I arrive and after some time to reassure their friend too.
This is what me and my friend do thank god for sending locations
Yes and it does work well and a very useful tool.
she has a great friend thou..jusy saying "
I've a few but I'm told get on with it ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has to be safe environment fir girls absolutely "
I've known where it's needed to be the other way round. Shouldn't assume the guy is always safe. Theres been a few cases of robbery on fab over the years when a guy was lured into a fake meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well then a petrol station meet so ? "
Better than a dark quiet car park or a dark quiet isolated country rd for a coffee in which has been assked in the past
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has to be safe environment fir girls absolutely
I've known where it's needed to be the other way round. Shouldn't assume the guy is always safe. Theres been a few cases of robbery on fab over the years when a guy was lured into a fake meet. "
And that’s how I explain why I bring my baseball bat...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has to be safe environment fir girls absolutely
I've known where it's needed to be the other way round. Shouldn't assume the guy is always safe. Theres been a few cases of robbery on fab over the years when a guy was lured into a fake meet.
And that’s how I explain why I bring my baseball bat... "
Base ball bat |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"I always meet socially first for safety, chemistry and authenticity reason's. Extremely rare where it has progressed to anything else. Ginger, what suits you and makes you feel comfortable is all that matters whether that's tanned and varnished or casually sexy, do it your way.
I have had loads of guy's tell me that most coffee meets progress to play...chancers moreso than charmer's.
Fooey took it the furthest though by getting his car locked into the car park on our first time meeting
Hey I was stranded in a foreign country!
And you knew that car park is locked from 7 ya fecker!
The lengths some people will go to strand someone just to have their wicked way wiv em!
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I was distracted and lost track of time |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I find coffee meets awkward. I prefer all or nothing.
How long do you spend vetting them though? "
It depends on the profile and the convo, but normally I do take my time and most importantly listen to my gut feeling. I can't see how a coffee meet keeps me any safer and if I feel the need for a coffee meet then there's doubts so why go for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not a fan of texting for ages and sexting exchanging pics for weeks is just annoying and I simply don’t have the time .
I find the best way to meet people is at parties and events where you can chose to play or just make a connection .
If I am meeting someone which is rare these days , I meet them socially some where public first with no expectations for play .
Too many people here are not what they present themselfs to be .
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