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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had this problem too recently and the easiest way i found to get over it was to make myself cum in front of her, once id done that i found it alot easier to cum for her |
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"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner 
Don't ever become an Agony aunt "
Avoid self pleasuring for 4 or 5 days before your next meet. I know it'll be tough and take discipline but it might be worthwhile and put a smile on her face. |
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"Hey folks..... had a new sex partner for a while now...
Funny thing is I haven’t been able to cum for her...
Any tips on what I should do?? "
No ejaculation for 4 days before you meet her..i know its difficult to predict when you meet someone but if you know roughly the time you will meet then do this..nothing worse than masturbating in the morning emptying a load and then having a spur of the moment meet later that day..you think to yourself now why didnt i save everything for her dammit im not 18 anymore  |
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You missed a good opportunity
Can anyone make me cum challenge
This should have been your Topic headline
Let’s hope you Play buddy isn’t on Fab
I’d be happy with the struggle to cum
Gives lots more play time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had that with an ex and it didn’t matter what we did he just couldn’t cum. So we stopped trying to make him and forgot about it. The fun is in the sex and play anyway what worked in the end was a sensual all over massage with oils and him blindfolded, he relaxed so much that when I climbed on top he was cummin in no time "
Omg this sounds so hot, sensual massages are incredible |
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Are you on any medication?
Some anti depressants can affect the area of your brain that controls ejaculation / sends the signal to ejaculate. If you are on any meds, look up the side affects on line.
If not, then milk it for all its worth!! Hopefully your partner will see it as a challenge!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe cut down on the hand action mate
Excessive masturbation can lead to inability to ejaculate during penetrative sex as you desensitize your penis and it only responds to the force of your hand?
Usually the issue when you can cum by hand and not via sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe cut down on the hand action mate
Excessive masturbation can lead to inability to ejaculate during penetrative sex as you desensitize your penis and it only responds to the force of your hand?
Usually the issue when you can cum by hand and not via sex"
 wise words |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....
Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..
Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....
Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..
Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol "
I agree wasn’t good form to post it here I hope she isn’t on fab .
Having said that you may be right it might be it’s just not the type of sex you need maybe indroduce new things and see how it goes . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....
Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..
Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol
I agree wasn’t good form to post it here I hope she isn’t on fab .
Having said that you may be right it might be it’s just not the type of sex you need maybe indroduce new things and see how it goes . "
New things??? What would you have in mind?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Loosen up about it ... Have a few drinks with her see what SHES into and work on that I've found really driving a woman crazy and making her come has me right at the edge sometimes ... And if that doesn't work then switch it to what you are really into but as always make sure you put the lady first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner
laid hahaha
no filter lmao
Harsh "
It is a bit tongue in cheek and maybe a little bit harsh but there is some truth in it .
If the chemistry isn’t there it is never happen it’s the difference between mediocre sex and sex that leaves you senseless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....
Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..
Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol "
I agree.a little disrespectful to ur freind.hope she never gets to find out about what u posted lol.
One way or another whether u cum or not ur still call her ur fuck buddy and still play with her all the same so the sex cant be that bad.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....
Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..
Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol
I agree.a little disrespectful to ur freind.hope she never gets to find out about what u posted lol.
She’s a great girl... I want to cum for her..
Hate disappointing her... the look is enough
One way or another whether u cum or not ur still call her ur fuck buddy and still play with her all the same so the sex cant be that bad. "
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