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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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can accommodate...
I cannot believe how many women say on their profile that they "can accommodate" ... In my younger days a lady with her own flat was a great catch, but ladies these days think safe ... do you really want this 1 off guy to know where you live ..if the guy is chasing you let him shell out for the hotel room for thst 1st meet.. after all, its meet for fun... possibly really enjoyed it, but you may not going back for more... time to move on ... but maybe that stud/alpha male felt you were the one for him and he wants more & he is not for sharing ... at least you can block his emails or phone number, but can you easily stop him parking near your home, watching you, stalking you ... we have all seen the TV programs & the stories are not based on fiction.
as for sharing you phone number, email address, whatsapp, kik, etc ... get a 2nd phone, FAB is your alternate life, a life you may not be comfortable sharng with friends, relations or work colleagues ... in the TV shows it is called a "burner phone" but it is the best way to keep you FAB life discreet.
That said, if you have a "Meet" make sure you get a trusted friend to phone you about 30 minutes into the "Meet", agree a phrase to indicate you are safe or need an excuse to get away from the "Meet".
And Guys remember not all ladies are Sugar & spice & all things nice ... there are bunny boilers out there ...Guys should endeavour to be safe also |
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Sweet baby jebus.... women are not stupid. If they give out details on first contact on Fab they will do it outside fab too. Yes you're right with making sure your safe but that goes for males too. As for a second phone,I can hardly keep up with the one I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally if I was ever to meet someone off this my first preference would be my own house and second would be a hotel. Third would be the woman's House. I feel way more comfortable in my own place and less comfortable in someone else's. |
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By *shoreMan
over a year ago
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Its slim to meet a nutter but how many times have i heard women on here getting grief from guys they rejected....if they can give grief over the internet imagne what they may be like up close and personal..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap, don't let your kids out to play, don't drive, don't ride a bike, don't go on a swing, don't play contact sports, don't go on a date, don't live, don't take risks, don't trust or be confident in your own jusgement. DO NOT BE POSITIVE, be negative and have a great boring life. Great post OP. |
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OMG. Never accommodate strangers in your home off here. So dangerous.
As a matter of fact I feel so strongly about this I would like to call a group meeting in person to discuss the issue.
Open invitation to anyone who would like to attend
Location:
My place, I will accommodate
Seriously though look after yourselves..... and each other |
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"Its slim to meet a nutter but how many times have i heard women on here getting grief from guys they rejected....if they can give grief over the internet imagne what they may be like up close and personal....."
There's nutters everywhere . Male and female. But as Fantasyfuntime mentions do we wrap ourselves up in bubblewrap(bet There's a bubblewrap fetish).
Yes.... be careful
Yes.... carry out as many checks before a meet.
Yes.... well just yes.
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"Let's all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap, don't let your kids out to play, don't drive, don't ride a bike, don't go on a swing, don't play contact sports, don't go on a date, don't live, don't take risks, don't trust or be confident in your own jusgement. DO NOT BE POSITIVE, be negative and have a great boring life. Great post OP. "
The sales in bubblewrap will soar... could be fun |
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"Let's all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap, don't let your kids out to play, don't drive, don't ride a bike, don't go on a swing, don't play contact sports, don't go on a date, don't live, don't take risks, don't trust or be confident in your own jusgement. DO NOT BE POSITIVE, be negative and have a great boring life.
Great post OP. "
And let's all get a medal for being like that. |
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