a separate thread on meets and greets but just wanted to see how many on here who attend meets and greets is it there only social outlet? do you have an active social life or is the only time you really get out at meet and greets? |
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Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun "
I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them "
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. "
Exactly and the social aspect is something I didn’t realise when I joined that I would love so much. Meeting loads of people and having craic and even meeting Sweets who is now my bestie. I joined to meet guys and now I’ve made like minded friends  |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. "
I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes. |
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Not a social priority at all for me. My social life evolves around friends as is mist likely the case with most people. For me it's also around common interests as probably with most others too. I have a lot of interests lok photography, hiking, motorbiking, travelling, canoeing, camping etc. For me fab isnt about socialising other than to meet potentials.... and 99%of the time this will happen through chatting then meeting for a good on to one social.
So fab isn't a social thing for me and so m&gs or fab parties are a very low priority. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes. "
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. "
lol nobody is looking down on anything. again jumping to conclusions. I think social lives are important but on this site it's way down the list for single men I'd imagine. most single men who join here hope for sex and thats it |
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don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site.
I have attended m&g in the past as a couple. That was Yrs ago.
But most people attending. / organising M&G seem to have 55 as cut off point on their profiles.
Does that not exclude us auld fella ?
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. "
Don't see any negative tone in this OP. Sounds though you're bringing in other issues which has lowered it to what you're speaking out against without realising it.
It's a good legitimate question which definitely raises it's head in the other thread as to the difference reasons guys and ladies go to m&g socials. |
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Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
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"Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
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"Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
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totally understandable but diff perspective as a couple |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. lol nobody is looking down on anything. again jumping to conclusions. I think social lives are important but on this site it's way down the list for single men I'd imagine. most single men who join here hope for sex and thats it "
I can only repeat myself, it's a swingers site but everyone on here is free in their choice how to use it. An active social life doesn't prevent you from attending a m&g but its fully acceptable to say they're not my thing. |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. lol nobody is looking down on anything. again jumping to conclusions. I think social lives are important but on this site it's way down the list for single men I'd imagine. most single men who join here hope for sex and thats it
I can only repeat myself, it's a swingers site but everyone on here is free in their choice how to use it. An active social life doesn't prevent you from attending a m&g but its fully acceptable to say they're not my thing. "
my point been I'd say there "not my thing" for alot of single men. |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
totally understandable but diff perspective as a couple "
It was also my perspective when I was here as a single. I deliberately made fab my social life for a few months as I understood that as a single file guy I had to get out and network and prove my credibility. Once I'd done that it just snowballed and one social turned into another which got me play meets etc. Some fab friends became real friends and I admit I didn't see my "vanilla" friends much for a while. But I made that choice for good reasons.
It's part of my (and by default our) lifestyle now and it just shifts in our priorities from time to time. Right now it's not high on the list due to other things in our life, but it will again..... |
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I think m&gs are a great way for like minded people to meet and see 8f they click but if i was a young guy or girl i would go to the pub with my mates and chat people up at the bar u have a much better chance of a hook up |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. lol nobody is looking down on anything. again jumping to conclusions. I think social lives are important but on this site it's way down the list for single men I'd imagine. most single men who join here hope for sex and thats it
I can only repeat myself, it's a swingers site but everyone on here is free in their choice how to use it. An active social life doesn't prevent you from attending a m&g but its fully acceptable to say they're not my thing. "
i wouldnt bother DH last time i tried i got sent ona holiday for a few days.. some ppl dont want to see ur point of view |
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"I think m&gs are a great way for like minded people to meet and see 8f they click but if i was a young guy or girl i would go to the pub with my mates and chat people up at the bar u have a much better chance of a hook up"
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"Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
totally understandable but diff perspective as a couple
It was also my perspective when I was here as a single. I deliberately made fab my social life for a few months as I understood that as a single file guy I had to get out and network and prove my credibility. Once I'd done that it just snowballed and one social turned into another which got me play meets etc. Some fab friends became real friends and I admit I didn't see my "vanilla" friends much for a while. But I made that choice for good reasons.
It's part of my (and by default our) lifestyle now and it just shifts in our priorities from time to time. Right now it's not high on the list due to other things in our life, but it will again....."
Feck it man you must have had a boring life if you let this place take over your social life. Could never see that happening to me. |
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there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them |
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them "
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough |
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough "
that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get |
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over a year ago
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get "
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But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? "
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"Not our only social outlet but we really really enjoy meet & greets. We have taken to fab as a lifestyle and not just a fuck site so it is just a totally different night to be amongst a bunch of swingers that all have your same mindset and it is very refreshing.
totally understandable but diff perspective as a couple
It was also my perspective when I was here as a single. I deliberately made fab my social life for a few months as I understood that as a single file guy I had to get out and network and prove my credibility. Once I'd done that it just snowballed and one social turned into another which got me play meets etc. Some fab friends became real friends and I admit I didn't see my "vanilla" friends much for a while. But I made that choice for good reasons.
It's part of my (and by default our) lifestyle now and it just shifts in our priorities from time to time. Right now it's not high on the list due to other things in our life, but it will again..... Feck it man you must have had a boring life if you let this place take over your social life. Could never see that happening to me."
Read my post again. I didn't "let" it become my social life. I chose to make it my social life for while. I've had and still have a great social life with lots of friends both in and out of the scene.
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation."
Throwing your cake up on the forum's isn't actively helping your cause. Loads of single guy's having the craic on the forum's without kissing ass or kicking it. |
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"Not all of us have the freedom to be free to have an active social life between work college and kids once a month is all I get so yeh I will see my bestie and we go to socials why not they are fun I understand that but for a single guy for e.g. whose using fab but has an active social life,attending meets and greets is probably way down his list of priorities where as a person who gets our little they love them
I don't know why you put m&g greets down? I bet you've never been at one. It doesn't matter what gender or age you are, some like them some don't. Also I can't see a problem when peeps choose swinging as the main outlet to socialise and have some fun at the same time. That's what swinging is about. We all know that you're not on here for that, just for sex, but it's a swingers site. I havnt put meet and greets down at all, just trying to highlight that they're probably not a priority for many single men who have active social lifes.
It's the way you phrase it, posts above and in other threads. There's a clear dismissive tone there. You make it sound like only peeps with crippled social lifes are interested in it.
Also m&g aren't on every Friday and Saturday and if you miss one you're off the scene. There's a m&g per region max every three month to every half year, so attending one isn't really taking anything away from your 'active social life'. It's like going to any other pub/club/vanilla-party.
It's fully acceptable when someone says it's not my thing, but don't look down on those who do. lol nobody is looking down on anything. again jumping to conclusions. I think social lives are important but on this site it's way down the list for single men I'd imagine. most single men who join here hope for sex and thats it "
i agree with you on that I've active social life only on this for casual sex the meet and greets don't appeal to me as someone has pointed out that no action happens at meet and greet just drinks and chat I take it |
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation.
Throwing your cake up on the forum's isn't actively helping your cause. Loads of single guy's having the craic on the forum's without kissing ass or kicking it. "
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation.
Throwing your cake up on the forum's isn't actively helping your cause. Loads of single guy's having the craic on the forum's without kissing ass or kicking it. I'm In the mainstay now of not actively looking so makes no difference to me "
Good for u you will not be disappointed with no replys so same as myself not worth sending texts so just go to m&gs and partys |
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation.
Throwing your cake up on the forum's isn't actively helping your cause. Loads of single guy's having the craic on the forum's without kissing ass or kicking it. I'm In the mainstay now of not actively looking so makes no difference to me
Good for u you will not be disappointed with no replys so same as myself not worth sending texts so just go to m&gs and partys "
I just use here for a bit of the forums. the days of sending endless messages are gone |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation."
I never said it's easy as a single lad but there are plenty of lads enjoying themselves on here which proves that it isn't impossible but surely it's way harder when you use the site in a different way than what it's aimed for. Try to be a woman on here and get all the cocks waggled at you and venture out on your own meeting strangers of a site. You want to make sure you're not running into the wrong one. Thankfully I haven't been in that situation... |
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"there is the added view that some (true swingers) like the social aspect but alot of single men just want sex. in all fairness there is very few meets and greets around me and alot of new single men can't get invited to them
But... Has been mentioned on a number of occasions it is easier to pull in a pub so if they are only looking for sex why not go down that route instead.
Also we all usually have to travel a little for meet & greets and if you are verified there is usually no problem getting an invite if you get in early enough that's what I'm saying. men don't want to travel to them. a night out in their local town is alot handler and you don't have to pay for a hotel (let's face it you have to if having a few drinks). that's why I'd say most men prefer a one to one meet but get frustrated as they are so hard to get
Did your mammy never teach you that you can't have your cake and eat it? try been a single man on here actively looking to meet. I have been in that situation.
I never said it's easy as a single lad but there are plenty of lads enjoying themselves on here which proves that it isn't impossible but surely it's way harder when you use the site in a different way than what it's aimed for. Try to be a woman on here and get all the cocks waggled at you and venture out on your own meeting strangers of a site. You want to make sure you're not running into the wrong one. Thankfully I haven't been in that situation..."
it's generally the older generation of men I think who hit the meet and greets. I'd say you won't get many men in their 20s or early 30s there. a one to one meet in a social area like a cafe is perfect |
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