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Are bi guys afraid to message women here?
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be a bit hit and miss. Most women here get snowed under by messages and don't get around to answering be it to bi or straight guys. Being bi I genuinely have no issue messaging women...or guys. |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"id be happy ina room full of bi guys 
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them 
always always room for u laura "
Giving me very naughty ideas girls. |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura "
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Giving me very naughty ideas girls. "
You are not alone |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Giving me very naughty ideas girls.
You are not alone "
ooo like where this is going |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday "
trial run my room its the biggest |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Giving me very naughty ideas girls.
You are not alone "
(I'll use the right profile this time  )
We certainly are not alone but i fear it may turn in to a greedy girls party but fook it... it's a win win situation then |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday
trial run my room its the biggest"
You reckon? |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Giving me very naughty ideas girls.
You are not alone
ooo like where this is going "
It is turning into a meaty meet |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday
trial run my room its the biggest
You reckon? "
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday
trial run my room its the biggest
You reckon? "
ill have to see for myself so |
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"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Giving me very naughty ideas girls.
You are not alone
ooo like where this is going
It is turning into a meaty meet "
more meat the better |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"id be happy ina room full of bi guys
Oh yes please. Me too.
makings of a good night me & u with a room full
Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them
always always room for u laura
Think we should have a trial run on Saturday
trial run my room its the biggest
You reckon?
ill have to see for myself so "
It's getting hot in here... |
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx "
I can't message you because I'm outside your age range  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx "
No we're not |
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I am bi guy and am friends and message with women and couples all the time. The problem for some is not been bi but been single, the majority of couples and ladies on here dont seem to be looking for a single guy whether he is bi or straight but looking for other couples or women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!
Delighted to hear it. Xx"
Thanks Lady! |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
C'est moi Boudoir |
"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!
Delighted to hear it. Xx
Thanks Lady!"
But all is forgiven |
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By *iver80Man
over a year ago
south side , |
"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!
Delighted to hear it. Xx
Thanks Lady!
Some ladys dont like a bi lad most do which is great for meeting
But all is forgiven "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s much easier for men to be bisexual in an environment like here on fab where there’s a more open attitude to sex and sexuality.
After I separated from my ex, for which my bisexuality was an issue in us separating, I was decided come out to friends and family, but more importantly anyone I started to date outside the fab world. Although there’s a major risk of rejection in the vanilla , It’s actually a great litmus test to see how a woman reacts. One lady broke down in tears when I told her after our first social meet, I knew then that it was not worth pursuing any further.
The lady I am currently dating asked me “Does that mean I have to be too?”, when I told her. With that I I knew she had potential.
Happy to join the room of bi guys, but My other have would want to join me. We are going to the M&G in Dublin this weekend so say hi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a bi party is overdue . It's hard to chat to a guy in a pub and ask the question. So if only bi guys went too a party then they would not have ask.ok when and where |
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Well they will lie to a girl that says "Straight only", there was a thread up laughing at the girls cause most had been verified by bi guys without knowing.
On the fourm women fawn over bi guys all the time and I cant see why they would hide it from forum women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely a bi party is overdue . It's hard to chat to a guy in a pub and ask the question. So if only bi guys went too a party then they would not have ask.ok when and where "
good idea |
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There are more and more bi nights appearing at all the clubs now, so it can only get better for bi guys to meet women that enjoy them. We find that bi guys are more open to messaging as they are more comfortable accepting who they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is difficult for bi guys to get trust with couples especial within Fab .... can take some work... It does happen sometimes with right couples, but trust is the big thing.  |
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We don’t care who is bi once ground rules are laid out, but we were texting a guy, and he wouldn’t meet people who only met bi guys (not even played) - irrespective of whether they themselves were bi.
I found this very unusual.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi and open about it on my profile. I have found no issue when chatting and meeting people. I think if you're open about it you'll find like minded people on here. I am also on here as part of a couple and find it is much the same on that profile. More importantly though, when is this bi party happening ? |
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Not frightened but it certainly seems to put a lot of women off. So I tend to be more cautious than frightened. I mean they can ignore me or block me but hopefully won't hunt me down and kill me. Would be nice to be openly bi in the company of a woman though. Lol perseverance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx "
Why don't more women instigate messaging. The number of posts that have been up about women not wanting to message first for fear of rejection is probably far more common. Some just fab pics to suggest interest or just wink. Many don't look at winks I know I rarely do and fabbing pics is just ... Nice pic but not necessarily interested.
A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X |
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx
Why don't more women instigate messaging. The number of posts that have been up about women not wanting to message first for fear of rejection is probably far more common. Some just fab pics to suggest interest or just wink. Many don't look at winks I know I rarely do and fabbing pics is just ... Nice pic but not necessarily interested.
A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X"
From a guy that was openly against meeting women who have met bi guys that's a very mature turnaround...I applaud you in your evolvement |
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By *iver80Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx "
Some women tend not to , some like bi guys id be smilling all night if i was in a room full of girls and bi guys , ive chatted to some couples but no meets ad of yet xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I reckon a bi party should be in the pipe lines , would any guys girls and couples be interested "
Erm.... you know Manc/Blackpool has a bi party for circa 200 every few months? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is fabulous to read the comments from all, however either bi straight or gay there needs to be a connection or an attraction for the individuals if not it will not happen.
I love a relaxed couple who enjoy good company and a social connection... This can help to charge the atmosphere.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have read a good few profiles, locally to me, and they don't really want bi guys.
Might be that these girls are a bit greedy and want all the attention to themselves lol? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx "
I wouldn't say that being a bi guy i was nervous about messaging women but then i usually message couples who are bi as then i can enjoy both
However if a woman is interested or this bi orgy discussed in this thread becomes a thing then i would love to be part of that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?
I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx
Why don't more women instigate messaging. The number of posts that have been up about women not wanting to message first for fear of rejection is probably far more common. Some just fab pics to suggest interest or just wink. Many don't look at winks I know I rarely do and fabbing pics is just ... Nice pic but not necessarily interested.
A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X
From a guy that was openly against meeting women who have met bi guys that's a very mature turnaround...I applaud you in your evolvement "
In what way have I evolved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last two women I have wrote to have said they dont meet bi guys, have to say it has put me off writing to women. it's annoying because I well prefer pussy |
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