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Guys, how would you feel about your lady playing with you not there?
Ladies, same question.
Looking this past week and have had more than one try and play away without their other half knowing, despite mailing from a couples page.
Thoughts? 
P.S. This is more to couples with profiles on here together, as opposed to people in relationships that are on here as singles. |
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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
My partner and I found... it impossible to get genuine couples to meet... Yes we both have single profiles and mostly used mine... but still we've had some many run around s... he's got fed up... and yes we'd get... couples looking to meet up arrange a meet to then say enroute... we only will play with me.... hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came on as a couple and only meet as a couple...it's nothing to do with trust issues or anything like that,we're a team and it's how we do fab...in saying that and we know it's very hard to find but we still hope to find the elusive unicorn...the bi female that only wants to play with Mrs Snicker's as I watch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always had the ideology of only playing together, with other couples. As time has passed, the idea of MFM+MFF and even meeting separately is slowly creeping in  |
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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago
Portlaoise |
We like to play together ourselves and its why we came here but we have been taken aback recently when the male half of a highly verified and popular cpl has contacted us on their cpl profile while the fem has been on a night out with pals and suggested we drop by and and have fun with him. First time we shrugged it off and put it down to drink taken but it happened again a fortnight later. He conveniently deleted his message thread. To avoid any further mails we have blocked them. No problem with cpls playing alone with each other's knowledge but not into knowlingly accommodating someones lies. |
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Miss CB and I prefer playing together but sometimes Miss CB will play alone (with my full knowledge and permission) but only with established regulars with whom we have built trust and have a rapport with.
I do not meet or play with other women as she is not comfortable with the idea. Lately she has started coming round to the idea of us playing with another woman together but that is not something I wish to force nor should she ever feel pressured. It should be something she wishes to try of her own volition. |
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"We like to play together ourselves and its why we came here but we have been taken aback recently when the male half of a highly verified and popular cpl has contacted us on their cpl profile while the fem has been on a night out with pals and suggested we drop by and and have fun with him. First time we shrugged it off and put it down to drink taken but it happened again a fortnight later. He conveniently deleted his message thread. To avoid any further mails we have blocked them. No problem with cpls playing alone with each other's knowledge but not into knowlingly accommodating someones lies."
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We have discussed playing seperatly and it's not an issue. It's so difficult to get away as a couple with work and family playing seperatly can be a great option however It's difficult as the male half of this couple to actually get a meet. Monday to Friday I'm in Dublin I'd have expected it to be more fun up here. |
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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other... |
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
we started as same room swap with couples but like many found it difficult for 4 to really click....we tried seperate room swap and now do seperate meets. We're together over 20 years and love the kick of each other having the occasional seperate meet and enjoying the pleasures of meeting someone new...it has been great for us  |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
Louth/Meath/Dublin |
"Guys, how would you feel about your lady playing with you not there?
Ladies, same question.
Looking this past week and have had more than one try and play away without their other half knowing, despite mailing from a couples page.
Thoughts?
P.S. This is more to couples with profiles on here together, as opposed to people in relationships that are on here as singles. "
It's not something we're actively doing right now, but as all relationships evolve and change it's a a possibility in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other... "
It's up to each couple to agree the boundaries for their relationship surely? Cheating only involves deceit in my book. |
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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
It's up to each couple to agree the boundaries for their relationship surely? Cheating only involves deceit in my book."
I absolutely agree |
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"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
It's up to each couple to agree the boundaries for their relationship surely? Cheating only involves deceit in my book."
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"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other... "
How is it cheating when they know each other is having sex with someone in another room?? And obviously agreed on.. alot of people find that a turn on! I'd imagine it's pretty common with full swap cpls who are in loving/trusting relationships. |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
Dublin/westmeath/kildare |
It's hard as couple to both get away & harder to find another couple where all 4 of us get the others juice flowing. There needs to be something there for us. I also have higher drive then himself. All this combined with talking about it means we make best decision for us @ that time, those poats are a little flexi depending on situation & who can get away but still within confines of what we decided. Each couple has to do what's best for them.
I've sat & chatted to lovely people who only play with partner & during chat their partner is off with someone else. To each their own & to each situation a different agreed plan |
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As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on honeymoon.
Don’t knock it until you try it. |
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"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
It's up to each couple to agree the boundaries for their relationship surely? Cheating only involves deceit in my book."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on honeymoon.
Just WOW - lucky you
Don’t knock it until you try it. "
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid |
"As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
we had exactly same scenario ( former Shelicious couple). It was really hot
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on honeymoon.
Don’t knock it until you try it. "
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
How is it cheating when they know each other is having sex with someone in another room?? And obviously agreed on.. alot of people find that a turn on! I'd imagine it's pretty common with full swap cpls who are in loving/trusting relationships. "
We're married 20 years and totally in a love and trusting relationship. Can't understand why many here frown at the idea of a married couple meeting seperately. It has really added much more spice to our sex life. To connect with some1 new and enjoy the pleasures of a meet is fab.
We love the after meet meet  |
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
"As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on honeymoon.
Don’t knock it until you try it. "
Totally agree it has worked wonders for us as well |
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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
How is it cheating when they know each other is having sex with someone in another room?? And obviously agreed on.. alot of people find that a turn on! I'd imagine it's pretty common with full swap cpls who are in loving/trusting relationships.
We're married 20 years and totally in a love and trusting relationship. Can't understand why many here frown at the idea of a married couple meeting seperately. It has really added much more spice to our sex life. To connect with some1 new and enjoy the pleasures of a meet is fab.
We love the after meet meet "
No no not frowning at all if it's an amazing marriage u have to be so in love and open.... I'm totally jealous... Well done x |
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"As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
We agree with you it’s such a turn on for us to do this also. Tho it’s so hard to find genuine people to do it with. Everyone is up for it and then when it comes to it they chicken out. The search continues.
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on honeymoon.
Don’t knock it until you try it. "
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
"I also don't understand separate room swapping.... if we trusted each other to enjoy kinky sex I want to enjoy watching and enjoy my partner playing .... to me separate room swapping is saying the man or woman does not want to watch the man or woman have sex with someone else.... then this to me is a direct form of cheating on each other...
How is it cheating when they know each other is having sex with someone in another room?? And obviously agreed on.. alot of people find that a turn on! I'd imagine it's pretty common with full swap cpls who are in loving/trusting relationships.
We're married 20 years and totally in a love and trusting relationship. Can't understand why many here frown at the idea of a married couple meeting seperately. It has really added much more spice to our sex life. To connect with some1 new and enjoy the pleasures of a meet is fab.
We love the after meet meet
No no not frowning at all if it's an amazing marriage u have to be so in love and open.... I'm totally jealous... Well done x "
Thanks so much Macey...love Letterkenny especially the Lemontree |
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