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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems the forum has been littered recently with people complaining about single males.
To be honest a lot of lads do themselves no favours (myself included but if you don't like me I'm not bothered)..
No exact figures to hands but there's at least ten times the amount of single men as couples and single ladies.
Yes lads will let you down but so will everyone else, its only more frequent because of the higher numbers
I've been on here numerous years now, have organised and attended many events and I know quite a lot of decent well verified guys out there from all age brackets.
Fab has something for everyone, just need to know where to look
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes lads will let you down but so will everyone else, its only more frequent because of the higher numbers"
Totally agree with that statement. We've been let down in one way or another by as many couples as much as single guys.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"To be honest some of the comments towards single males are ridiculously disrespectful..no idea why lads let themselves be treated like that...
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They are afraid if they say anything it go down as a black mark against them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest some of the comments towards single males are ridiculously disrespectful..no idea why lads let themselves be treated like that...
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I have seeing this from both as a couple and single male couples let u down single ladys let you down as does single guys invited to party to tar everybody with one brush is wrong .if some exceptional couples or ladys as they like to think they are keep getting let down they should question their own judgement on picking males . They like us have to take rejection some couples want you to preform like a circus animal .i for one will not be anybodys puppet .lots of nice people on fab to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if some exceptional couples or ladys as they like to think they are keep getting let down they should question their own judgement on picking males . They like us have to take rejection some couples want you to preform like a circus animal .i for one will not be anybodys puppet .lots of nice people on fab to meet "
Frankly I have to agree with this. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"To be honest some of the comments towards single males are ridiculously disrespectful..no idea why lads let themselves be treated like that..."
Agree. There's a good amount of arrogance around (and arrogance is sooo not attractive) that wouldn't be tolerated if it were the other way around. Being respectful isn't a one way system. |
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ive been very lucky with most of the single guys ive meet.. and a few not so lucky but id say its the same with women & cpls too. single guys do have it tougher here which is a bit unfair but they do tend to take to the forums and moan alot more which really doesnt help them.. we all shouldnt be tared with the same brush but some do & it does make us more cautious .. thats just the roller coaster ride we call fab |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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I can only speak from experience. As already mentioned, I invited in the region of 20 single lads, one after the other to a social recently. Every single one turned us down or made some bs up, apart from one of them. All of these guys fit near the criteria we were looking for. Each one was verified too.
I think we maybe got turned down by one or two couples that was it.
This is 100% truth. You can work out the odds there if you can bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can only speak from experience. As already mentioned, I invited in the region of 20 single lads, one after the other to a social recently. Every single one turned us down or made some bs up, apart from one of them. All of these guys fit near the criteria we were looking for. Each one was verified too.
I think we maybe got turned down by one or two couples that was it.
This is 100% truth. You can work out the odds there if you can bothered."
Maybe after reading your profile u did not fit theirs works both ways |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One more thing, its a particular demographic of single lads i am talking about."
Oh I know Pete I'm not giving out about ye, ye know I've huge respect for yourself and Gemma and class you as friends.
I suppose when you do narrow it down to a specific demographic things will get more difficult. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"I can only speak from experience. As already mentioned, I invited in the region of 20 single lads, one after the other to a social recently. Every single one turned us down or made some bs up, apart from one of them. All of these guys fit near the criteria we were looking for. Each one was verified too.
I think we maybe got turned down by one or two couples that was it.
This is 100% truth. You can work out the odds there if you can bothered.
Maybe after reading your profile u did not fit theirs works both ways "
we dont go looking for them, these are guys who express an interest in us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can only speak from experience. As already mentioned, I invited in the region of 20 single lads, one after the other to a social recently. Every single one turned us down or made some bs up, apart from one of them. All of these guys fit near the criteria we were looking for. Each one was verified too.
I think we maybe got turned down by one or two couples that was it.
We have done the same so many times with our small party’s , at beginning off week we would have 6/ 7 single lads all mad to meet , and chatting to them on kik , then come Saturday u tx them see how thy getting on , no reply’s , or thy sumthing else on , so u only end up wit maybe 1 guy lucky if u had 2 ,
This is 100% truth. You can work out the odds there if you can bothered."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can only speak from experience. As already mentioned, I invited in the region of 20 single lads, one after the other to a social recently. Every single one turned us down or made some bs up, apart from one of them. All of these guys fit near the criteria we were looking for. Each one was verified too.
I think we maybe got turned down by one or two couples that was it.
We have done the same so many times with our small party’s , at beginning off week we would have 6/ 7 single lads all mad to meet , and chatting to them on kik , then come Saturday u tx them see how thy getting on , no reply’s , or thy sumthing else on , so u only end up wit maybe 1 guy lucky if u had 2 ,
This is 100% truth. You can work out the odds there if you can bothered. "
To be fair to all sides cry offs of males at any party i organised was high but after a while u do get to know the guys that will turn up |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
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Why should males pay more for parties and accept abuse for not being able to meet at the whim of cpls or fems are we not to be afforded the same respect as females and couples 
Or have I totally misread this post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
Why should males pay more for parties and accept abuse for not being able to meet at the whim of cpls or fems are we not to be afforded the same respect as females and couples
Or have I totally misread this post "
Think red means she doesn't agree with it |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"To be honest some of the comments towards single males are ridiculously disrespectful..no idea why lads let themselves be treated like that...
Agree. There's a good amount of arrogance around (and arrogance is sooo not attractive) that wouldn't be tolerated if it were the other way around. Being respectful isn't a one way system. "
Arrogance infused with ego!
Yes filters/standards/preferences are needed in all walks of life but this flaming hoop jumping list of demands by some is shite.
Anal bleach required...lighten up assholes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest some of the comments towards single males are ridiculously disrespectful..no idea why lads let themselves be treated like that...
Agree. There's a good amount of arrogance around (and arrogance is sooo not attractive) that wouldn't be tolerated if it were the other way around. Being respectful isn't a one way system.
Arrogance infused with ego!
Yes filters/standards/preferences are needed in all walks of life but this flaming hoop jumping list of demands by some is shite.
Anal bleach required...lighten up assholes "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
Why should males pay more for parties and accept abuse for not being able to meet at the whim of cpls or fems are we not to be afforded the same respect as females and couples
Or have I totally misread this post "
Yes you have.
Totally misread the whole post.
 
First sentence told you where I stand.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
Why should males pay more for parties and accept abuse for not being able to meet at the whim of cpls or fems are we not to be afforded the same respect as females and couples
Or have I totally misread this post
Yes you have.
Totally misread the whole post.
First sentence told you where I stand.
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And the second and third outlined what u were advocating it just reads that way hence the the question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've always been am advocate for single males.
Having to pay more for parties.
Getting abuse if they don't meet anytime they are asked.
Yes alot of the gents don't do themselves any favours.
It's like everything else.
People are reliable swinger or not swinger.And there are bad apples in every group.
That's my 2 cents.
Why should males pay more for parties and accept abuse for not being able to meet at the whim of cpls or fems are we not to be afforded the same respect as females and couples
Or have I totally misread this post
Yes you have.
Totally misread the whole post.
First sentence told you where I stand.
And the second and third outlined what u were advocating it just reads that way hence the the question "
A simple misunderstanding so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact is on a free annonymous site you are going to get alot of time wasters.
It is frustrating for everyone because makes people cautious and cynical and end up leaving or ranting on forums.
I think its just part of the skte you need to accept or move on otherwise your going to have a miserable time here.
I fully accept single males are probably the worst offenders but it happens everyone...
Just be grateful for any great meets and take the shite that comes with getting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As in life there are the good the bad and the loopy. But sure the craic's mighty. Life's to short to be worrying about such trivial things
Ps any barn dances coming up |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"As in life there are the good the bad and the loopy. But sure the craic's mighty. Life's to short to be worrying about such trivial things
Ps any barn dances coming up "
Yeehaw tango in the stable's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any slating thread grinds my gears. Judge people as you find them and disregard their single or couple status is my approach. On the other hand if you're not a single male and claim you are, maybe try honesty. I mostly chat to single males to be fair. Just the ones that pique my interest. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"One more thing, its a particular demographic of single lads i am talking about.
Oh I know Pete I'm not giving out about ye, ye know I've huge respect for yourself and Gemma and class you as friends.
I suppose when you do narrow it down to a specific demographic things will get more difficult. "
you also know that i am one of the most approachable, easy going male halfs on here. Who makes an effort to chat to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One more thing, its a particular demographic of single lads i am talking about.
Oh I know Pete I'm not giving out about ye, ye know I've huge respect for yourself and Gemma and class you as friends.
I suppose when you do narrow it down to a specific demographic things will get more difficult. you also know that i am one of the most approachable, easy going male halfs on here. Who makes an effort to chat to them. "
That's very true mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
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Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves "
You've been on Fab long enough to know single lads give out about single lads all the time, plenty of threads started in the hope of getting ones leg over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves "
Jesus you would wonder sometimes with some of the threads that are made  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves
You've been on Fab long enough to know single lads give out about single lads all the time, plenty of threads started in the hope of getting ones leg over "
Really? I must have been asleep for those!
Any I’ve come across, couples and women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves
You've been on Fab long enough to know single lads give out about single lads all the time, plenty of threads started in the hope of getting ones leg over
Really? I must have been asleep for those!
Any I’ve come across, couples and women."
Single guys usually join in the chat to get noticed by couples or single ladys but i do not remember one being started by a single guy but as in life it is wrong for anybody not to turn up if tbey said they would without a genuine reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met quite a few amazing single guys from here over the years... Including two particularly special one who is now my willing partner in crime and the other is the OP "
Fixed it there Geordie
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met quite a few amazing single guys from here over the years... Including two particularly special one who is now my willing partner in crime and the other is the OP
Fixed it there Geordie
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It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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" usually started by couples/women.
Glad you said usually I wouldn't want couples/women tarred in the same way
Well, the single lads aren’t going to start the slating threads about themselves
You've been on Fab long enough to know single lads give out about single lads all the time, plenty of threads started in the hope of getting ones leg over
Really? I must have been asleep for those!
Any I’ve come across, couples and women."
I have cum across a few to
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met quite a few amazing single guys from here over the years... Including two particularly special one who is now my willing partner in crime and the other is the OP
Fixed it there Geordie
Cheeky pup "
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In fairness I think most or at least a lot of single guys sign up to this site thinking it's a free for all and sex on tap and they'll get to fuck other guys wives every weekend . From our perspective and I'm not sure if single guys understand fully that for a couple to join a site likes this it is only after months of talking about what they each are comfortable doing or not doing and what fantasies they would like to experience and how far they are willing to go. So this takes a huge amount of trust and also involves a lot of potential risk to the relationship too especially when young kids are also an added complication . So can I just say and pardon my French it is a pretty fucking big deal for a couple to involve a single guy/girl and it should be seen as such . When meeting another couple I know the guy is going to treat my wife with the respect he would expect me to treat his wife with. But when you are inundated with fancy a fuck or wow I'd love do this or that to your wife it's hard work . Then you think you found a nice decent guy and even they let you down 80/90% of the time you begin to wonder why even bother.
And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol.
Just our own view not speaking for all couples . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. ."
For this line alone you get a free pass
You are absolutely right alot of single people cant even begin to imagine whats involved in the lifestyle as a couple.
I think the point of alot of the chat over the last 2 days on here is that every group let each other down and has its share of wasters. We need to stops generalising and and posting about a oativular group and realise we are all individuals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
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So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals."
Is that really a big deal? I mean most clubs and pubs have ladies night.. its a business which charges more for higher value tickets... your not beong guarenteed sex so its not like you are actually paying for sex |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals."
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
Is that really a big deal? I mean most clubs and pubs have ladies night.. its a business which charges more for higher value tickets... your not beong guarenteed sex so its not like you are actually paying for sex"
We're referring to private parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
Is that really a big deal? I mean most clubs and pubs have ladies night.. its a business which charges more for higher value tickets... your not beong guarenteed sex so its not like you are actually paying for sex
We're referring to private parties. "
I still dont see the issue sorry.
Who ever is running a party is surely free to set the price?
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
Is that really a big deal? I mean most clubs and pubs have ladies night.. its a business which charges more for higher value tickets... your not beong guarenteed sex so its not like you are actually paying for sex
We're referring to private parties.
I still dont see the issue sorry.
Who ever is running a party is surely free to set the price?
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It's hardly fair to exploit one group over another for profit, or for some attendees to expect others to subsidise them. People can do as they like, I'm simply expressing my distaste for the practice. And as for assuming that a guy is going to somehow respect women just because he stumped up an extra 30 Euro, the mind boggles. |
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals."
i do agree here on the price it should be equal for single men & women. i never understand why it isnt.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
i do agree here on the price it should be equal for single men & women. i never understand why it isnt.."
Because single men are regarded as a lower form of life by many asin the swinging world. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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With the risk of sounding boastful I've been on here a few years and I've met X amount of single lads (and I only meet single guys) age 32 and onwards, I've never experienced a non show. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it's down to choosing carefully, putting in some effort to get a good feel for them, treating my play partners like I like to be treated etc. I understand it's a big deal for couples to let others into their sex life but it's also a big deal to face two people that know each other very well or to venture out on your own as a single woman or man and it should always be taken into consideration that there are two sides and both sides have their preferences, wishes, desires etc. It's all about mutual respect and you actually achieve best results when that is given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
Is that really a big deal? I mean most clubs and pubs have ladies night.. its a business which charges more for higher value tickets... your not beong guarenteed sex so its not like you are actually paying for sex
We're referring to private parties.
I still dont see the issue sorry.
Who ever is running a party is surely free to set the price?
It's hardly fair to exploit one group over another for profit, or for some attendees to expect others to subsidise them. People can do as they like, I'm simply expressing my distaste for the practice. And as for assuming that a guy is going to somehow respect women just because he stumped up an extra 30 Euro, the mind boggles."
I dont think its about respect its about getting more money, I cam understand it |
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"With the risk of sounding boastful I've been on here a few years and I've met X amount of single lads (and I only meet single guys) age 32 and onwards, I've never experienced a non show. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it's down to choosing carefully, putting in some effort to get a good feel for them, treating my play partners like I like to be treated etc. I understand it's a big deal for couples to let others into their sex life but it's also a big deal to face two people that know each other very well or to venture out on your own as a single woman or man and it should always be taken into consideration that there are two sides and both sides have their preferences, wishes, desires etc. It's all about mutual respect and you actually achieve best results when that is given. "
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
i do agree here on the price it should be equal for single men & women. i never understand why it isnt..
Because single men are regarded as a lower form of life by many asin the swinging world."
ah now it cant be the reason "lower form of life" is a hard hitting choice of words.. i certainly wouldnt think that and im sure most ppl dont |
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And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol. .
So essentially single males are paying money to have sex with someone else's wife? Yeah, that's how we've always viewed this approach, and why we wouldn't attend a party where the price wasn't equal for all individuals.
i do agree here on the price it should be equal for single men & women. i never understand why it isnt..
Because single men are regarded as a lower form of life by many asin the swinging world.
ah now it cant be the reason "lower form of life" is a hard hitting choice of words.. i certainly wouldnt think that and im sure most ppl dont "
There are derogatory comments every day about single males. The same would never be tolerated about any other group. |
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"In fairness I think most or at least a lot of single guys sign up to this site thinking it's a free for all and sex on tap and they'll get to fuck other guys wives every weekend . From our perspective and I'm not sure if single guys understand fully that for a couple to join a site likes this it is only after months of talking about what they each are comfortable doing or not doing and what fantasies they would like to experience and how far they are willing to go. So this takes a huge amount of trust and also involves a lot of potential risk to the relationship too especially when young kids are also an added complication . So can I just say and pardon my French it is a pretty fucking big deal for a couple to involve a single guy/girl and it should be seen as such . When meeting another couple I know the guy is going to treat my wife with the respect he would expect me to treat his wife with. But when you are inundated with fancy a fuck or wow I'd love do this or that to your wife it's hard work . Then you think you found a nice decent guy and even they let you down 80/90% of the time you begin to wonder why even bother.
And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol.
Just our own view not speaking for all couples ."
This is what is wrong, a sheer lack of respect and almost disdain towards the single men on fab. What happened to everyone being equal or is this just not allowed any more
Sorry I accept its an opinion but I can't agree I've been here years and I guess I just haven't had your experience but don't paint everyone with the one brush |
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"In fairness I think most or at least a lot of single guys sign up to this site thinking it's a free for all and sex on tap and they'll get to fuck other guys wives every weekend . From our perspective and I'm not sure if single guys understand fully that for a couple to join a site likes this it is only after months of talking about what they each are comfortable doing or not doing and what fantasies they would like to experience and how far they are willing to go. So this takes a huge amount of trust and also involves a lot of potential risk to the relationship too especially when young kids are also an added complication . So can I just say and pardon my French it is a pretty fucking big deal for a couple to involve a single guy/girl and it should be seen as such . When meeting another couple I know the guy is going to treat my wife with the respect he would expect me to treat his wife with. But when you are inundated with fancy a fuck or wow I'd love do this or that to your wife it's hard work . Then you think you found a nice decent guy and even they let you down 80/90% of the time you begin to wonder why even bother.
And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol.
Just our own view not speaking for all couples ."
When i host a house party i do not invite single guys so they can have sex with married couples wives i invite single ladys as well. who wants to play with who is up to consenting adults .that comment guy turning up with out drink really shows what some couples think of single guys |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
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Really? Men are nothing? Starting to see why they are all pulling out on you to be honest.
You might not be much withouy your partner but to be honest there are plenty of us who are doing just fine and have some value in ourselves
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
Do you know why that is?"
ive never been too kk so im intriged to know the reason pete..
its a pity men are seen that way because there are a few decent men in the middle of it all.. |
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over a year ago
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
Do you know why that is?"
 Pete that hurts... You hardly think that, we have value |
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
Do you know why that is?
Pete that hurts... You hardly think that, we have value "
very one has value...
this thread had gone very cut throat |
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"In fairness I think most or at least a lot of single guys sign up to this site thinking it's a free for all and sex on tap and they'll get to fuck other guys wives every weekend . From our perspective and I'm not sure if single guys understand fully that for a couple to join a site likes this it is only after months of talking about what they each are comfortable doing or not doing and what fantasies they would like to experience and how far they are willing to go. So this takes a huge amount of trust and also involves a lot of potential risk to the relationship too especially when young kids are also an added complication . So can I just say and pardon my French it is a pretty fucking big deal for a couple to involve a single guy/girl and it should be seen as such . When meeting another couple I know the guy is going to treat my wife with the respect he would expect me to treat his wife with. But when you are inundated with fancy a fuck or wow I'd love do this or that to your wife it's hard work . Then you think you found a nice decent guy and even they let you down 80/90% of the time you begin to wonder why even bother.
And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol.
Just our own view not speaking for all couples .
This is what is wrong, a sheer lack of respect and almost disdain towards the single men on fab. What happened to everyone being equal or is this just not allowed any more
Sorry I accept its an opinion but I can't agree I've been here years and I guess I just haven't had your experience but don't paint everyone with the one brush "
No you haven't because your a single guy so you have no clue . Where is the lack of respect and disdain in what I said if you checked our varies we have met a few great single guys but the hassle and time and effort in ing through the dickhead on the site it can be exhausting . If you took what I said to be disrepectfull or offensive i think you are overly sensitive and maybe not quite mature enough for a site like this . Is i want to fuck your wife ,fancy a fuck, wanna fuck is that respect . Most single guys think about them selves and emptying there balls . |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
Do you know why that is?
ive never been too kk so im intriged to know the reason pete..
its a pity men are seen that way because there are a few decent men in the middle of it all.. "
Because it’s completely driven by women. Single guys cant attend unless invited. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Really? Men are nothing? Starting to see why they are all pulling out on you to be honest.
You might not be much withouy your partner but to be honest there are plenty of us who are doing just fine and have some value in ourselves
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Where did i say someone pulled out of a meet with us?
I didnt. I was talking about socials but what would you know you havent had a veri in two years, how are you doing so well? Why are you even on here? |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Theres a reason why kk is the best run, most respected, safe and classy event to attend in this world.
Do you know why that is?
Pete that hurts... You hardly think that, we have value "
Of course you have value but Truth hurts man. I have seen it, i had an epiphany. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"'Ten times' would be major underestimation of the ratio I suspect op.
Doesn't matter the odds _ilder
The good stuff always rises to the top"
Not easily though. Not without great effort. Not without being tarnished with/by the mistakes of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men in general are nothing on here, i would be nothing without Gemma beside me, if you think otherwise you are wrong.
Really? Men are nothing? Starting to see why they are all pulling out on you to be honest.
You might not be much withouy your partner but to be honest there are plenty of us who are doing just fine and have some value in ourselves
Where did i say someone pulled out of a meet with us?
I didnt. I was talking about socials but what would you know you havent had a veri in two years, how are you doing so well? Why are you even on here?"
In your posts on the other thread which has led to this threas being started you said 1 out of 20 guys came to a social meet you invited them to.
Not everyone wants or needs verifications for their meets, alot of us prefer not too, but thanks for the concern. I am on here because I actually enjoy the site, the people and the stuff that doesnt get shared with you.
Anyway lad I am sure your probably a sound guy who has gotten messed around by too many time wasters, I'm out because really these types of discussions are not why I am here
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"'Ten times' would be major underestimation of the ratio I suspect op.
Doesn't matter the odds _ilder
The good stuff always rises to the topSure does and he’s certainly at the top "
Absofuckinglutely
A lot could learn from the ways of _ilder |
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over a year ago
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be. "
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell |
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be. "
Exactly but some of us are genuine decent blokes laid, you know it, I know it and a lot do, but alot still don't |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell "
We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
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It's not all single guys . 99% are great . Most turn nasty when the get rejected Or you have a different outlook on what you want from fab. Both male and female should act like adults and not little bitches. Just sayin. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
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I love the single guys once they’re well verified and cute I’m happy, I’ve been super lucky with all the guys I’ve met! Still friends and everything I think people can get a vibe for the time wasters early on! I do love this place mmmm  |
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The entertainment value on the forums is very under rated this is great I'm cancelling my Netflix subscription but I think we have come to the end of this thread. Can we start another one .
We'll start .
WTF is wrong with the couples on this site it's getting ridiculous for one am sick of them ...........And Go
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
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No I beg to differ we all have the power to decide who we meet and the chance to influence those we like to meet to agree to meet by how we behave not how others of or group behave but how we as individuals behave.
Some will judge us by what we post here others by age, looks length of out cocks size of a ladies boobs hairless or full bush they will even knock u on height but at least respect others as human beings |
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
No I beg to differ we all have the power to decide who we meet and the chance to influence those we like to meet to agree to meet by how we behave not how others of or group behave but how we as individuals behave.
Some will judge us by what we post here others by age, looks length of out cocks size of a ladies boobs hairless or full bush they will even knock u on height but at least respect others as human beings "
No no no excuse me I beg to differ no one on fab has the power Snap have the power. |
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
No I beg to differ we all have the power to decide who we meet and the chance to influence those we like to meet to agree to meet by how we behave not how others of or group behave but how we as individuals behave.
Some will judge us by what we post here others by age, looks length of out cocks size of a ladies boobs hairless or full bush they will even knock u on height but at least respect others as human beings "
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"With the risk of sounding boastful I've been on here a few years and I've met X amount of single lads (and I only meet single guys) age 32 and onwards, I've never experienced a non show. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it's down to choosing carefully, putting in some effort to get a good feel for them, treating my play partners like I like to be treated etc. I understand it's a big deal for couples to let others into their sex life but it's also a big deal to face two people that know each other very well or to venture out on your own as a single woman or man and it should always be taken into consideration that there are two sides and both sides have their preferences, wishes, desires etc. It's all about mutual respect and you actually achieve best results when that is given. "
Well said DH. My first valuable lesson when I signed up was my very first meet with a couple was a no show. I got better at paying attention to obvious signs and some not so obvious one's.
Turns out it was a fake profile!
I am grateful for that hard lesson so early on.
My point is if something isn't working for you, you can't control the external stuff so look at how you can make it work better for yourself by adjusting how and what you do.
Anyone on here regardless of relationship status deserves to be treated fairly unless their immediate behaviour then alters that fact. The old cliché you get out what you put in folk's.
Make NSA Love not war
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
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Totally agree with this!!! |
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over a year ago
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"'Ten times' would be major underestimation of the ratio I suspect op.
Doesn't matter the odds _ilder
The good stuff always rises to the topSure does and he’s certainly at the top
Absofuckinglutely
A lot could learn from the ways of _ilder "
I must get a pair of white jeans |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
Totally agree with this!!!"
such genuine nice ladies that didnt have the decency to leave him a veri |
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over a year ago
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
Totally agree with this!!!such genuine nice ladies that didnt have the decency to leave him a veri "
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
Totally agree with this!!!such genuine nice ladies that didnt have the decency to leave him a veri "
I agree with the guys post. I have veris and could have more from equally genuine ladies but its not critical for me to have that badge... Im curious does your blanket extend to cover all guys with this opinion? Or do you just have a hardon for this guy? |
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
Totally agree with this!!!such genuine nice ladies that didnt have the decency to leave him a veri
I agree with the guys post. I have veris and could have more from equally genuine ladies but its not critical for me to have that badge... Im curious does your blanket extend to cover all guys with this opinion? Or do you just have a hardon for this guy?"
Notches on the bedpost, I like the veris |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"'Ten times' would be major underestimation of the ratio I suspect op.
Doesn't matter the odds _ilder
The good stuff always rises to the topSure does and he’s certainly at the top
Absofuckinglutely
A lot could learn from the ways of _ilder I must get a pair of white jeans "
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over a year ago
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I message males if they catch my attention whether through socials/through forums or through chat. For me it's all about the person, as in the personality. Yes I've a high sex drive and yes I love socials and I'm here for sex but I only play if sexually attracted to a person whether male or female
I'm still a newbie to some as only here nearly 3 years but I have met some amazing single males and single and couples. To me I get on better with some then I do with others and I've had female's who would say they didn't get on with the same person or couple. For me respect is very important and that is for me as well. Yes I have my opinion, yes it can be different or the same. No one in person asks a person/couple for a shag, bj, im horny jump on etc so why it's acceptable here I don't know but hiding behind phone or laptop does make it easy.
As i said it's here but also in "vanilla" life theirs always the good & bad |
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"I message males if they catch my attention whether through socials/through forums or through chat. For me it's all about the person, as in the personality. Yes I've a high sex drive and yes I love socials and I'm here for sex but I only play if sexually attracted to a person whether male or female
I'm still a newbie to some as only here nearly 3 years but I have met some amazing single males and single and couples. To me I get on better with some then I do with others and I've had female's who would say they didn't get on with the same person or couple. For me respect is very important and that is for me as well. Yes I have my opinion, yes it can be different or the same. No one in person asks a person/couple for a shag, bj, im horny jump on etc so why it's acceptable here I don't know but hiding behind phone or laptop does make it easy.
As i said it's here but also in "vanilla" life theirs always the good & bad "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do love how you get opinions from people that are here less than a year complaining about any of the groups (male,female,couple). To them I say stick around a couple of years before jumping to conclusion. Many of us have been around the block quiet a few times and are more than well informed |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
No I beg to differ we all have the power to decide who we meet and the chance to influence those we like to meet to agree to meet by how we behave not how others of or group behave but how we as individuals behave.
Some will judge us by what we post here others by age, looks length of out cocks size of a ladies boobs hairless or full bush they will even knock u on height but at least respect others as human beings "
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"The main problem for single guys is the sheer amount of us on here and if 1% of people are muppets or let downs then a bigger number of guys will be.
Still no need to come out with a statement men have no value think that sums up what some people think in a nut shell We are on a dicussion forum, i am giving my opinion. I dont think men have no value what i mean is they have no real power or influence.
No I beg to differ we all have the power to decide who we meet and the chance to influence those we like to meet to agree to meet by how we behave not how others of or group behave but how we as individuals behave.
Some will judge us by what we post here others by age, looks length of out cocks size of a ladies boobs hairless or full bush they will even knock u on height but at least respect others as human beings
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over a year ago
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"I've always been am advocate for single males.
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What a ridiculous thing to say as if we are a minority group.
Shall we pass around a bucket for loose change or have a bakesale to support the cause?
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"With the risk of sounding boastful I've been on here a few years and I've met X amount of single lads (and I only meet single guys) age 32 and onwards, I've never experienced a non show. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it's down to choosing carefully, putting in some effort to get a good feel for them, treating my play partners like I like to be treated etc. I understand it's a big deal for couples to let others into their sex life but it's also a big deal to face two people that know each other very well or to venture out on your own as a single woman or man and it should always be taken into consideration that there are two sides and both sides have their preferences, wishes, desires etc. It's all about mutual respect and you actually achieve best results when that is given. "
Erudite as ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems the forum has been littered recently with people complaining about single males.
To be honest a lot of lads do themselves no favours (myself included but if you don't like me I'm not bothered)..
No exact figures to hands but there's at least ten times the amount of single men as couples and single ladies.
Yes lads will let you down but so will everyone else, its only more frequent because of the higher numbers
I've been on here numerous years now, have organised and attended many events and I know quite a lot of decent well verified guys out there from all age brackets.
Fab has something for everyone, just need to know where to look
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Thought you had a life time ban on here ..How did you make it back just curious ? |
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"Well that was an interesting Friday "
Stumbles out of my tent, appreases the battlefield.. couples laying dying... single men carrying the bodies of their brethren... single women still deleting yesterdays dick pics....
There really are no winners when we fight...
Im off to start a compliment the above poster thread |
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"It's funny how some here appear to be thinking that "single males" should feel grateful that they are even given a chance to meet them. Like we are all desperate or something... Some ladies here are clearly spending too much time on this site. The fact that you are getting hundreds of messages seems to create over inflated sense of self-importance for some.Try to walk down the street sometime and see how many men will turn their heads...
Btw - I have also met genuinely nice ladies on this site who seem to know how to handle the attention with real grace despite being true stunners...
Totally agree with this!!!such genuine nice ladies that didnt have the decency to leave him a veri
I agree with the guys post. I have veris and could have more from equally genuine ladies but its not critical for me to have that badge... Im curious does your blanket extend to cover all guys with this opinion? Or do you just have a hardon for this guy?
Notches on the bedpost, I like the veris "
Could it be that "this guy" just farts on your veris..? |
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"I have met some wonderful single guys here, I even dated one for over 3 years. Maybe I just got lucky with the ones I’ve met.
So was he single the whole 3 years you were dating him?
Are you single again?   "
Obv I meant I met him here when he was a single guy and we became a couple. |
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"I have met some wonderful single guys here, I even dated one for over 3 years. Maybe I just got lucky with the ones I’ve met.
So was he single the whole 3 years you were dating him?
Are you single again?
Obv I meant I met him here when he was a single guy and we became a couple. "
Are you no longer a couple? |
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Sorry for thinking slightly different but because you have tried with very little success, you just give up?
We guys don't cover our selves in glory with the few sending rude introductory message to either girls or couples.
Well, if you try and it ain't working, change what ever you are doing and try again... Simple |
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens... 
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple "
I've met her so many time and yet to meet the purple strap on |
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens...
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple
I've met her so many time and yet to meet the purple strap on "
Geordie is an angel she’d never bring that out I’m sure!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems the forum has been littered recently with people complaining about single males.
To be honest a lot of lads do themselves no favours (myself included but if you don't like me I'm not bothered)..
No exact figures to hands but there's at least ten times the amount of single men as couples and single ladies.
Yes lads will let you down but so will everyone else, its only more frequent because of the higher numbers
I've been on here numerous years now, have organised and attended many events and I know quite a lot of decent well verified guys out there from all age brackets.
Fab has something for everyone, just need to know where to look
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Forum Chatter here but like to read them....If im honest hun reading your posts on here you like to be heard and stir shite ...apologizes if my post upset's you ...but i think your going nowhere with it only stiring shite kisses Meow How old are you now ? |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens...
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple
I've met her so many time and yet to receive the purple strap on "
Fixed that for ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens...
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple
I've met her so many time and yet to meet the purple strap on "
Been there done that |
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens...
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple
I've met her so many time and yet to meet the purple strap on
Been there done that "
Ahem you have not
You only got the little red one |
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"I turn my back for a few weeks and this is what happens...
You turn your back ya better brace yourself! Geordie is liable to appear with big purple
I've met her so many time and yet to meet the purple strap on
Been there done that
Ahem you have not
You only got the little red one"
Oh guess we'll have to tick that one so |
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"In fairness I think most or at least a lot of single guys sign up to this site thinking it's a free for all and sex on tap and they'll get to fuck other guys wives every weekend . From our perspective and I'm not sure if single guys understand fully that for a couple to join a site likes this it is only after months of talking about what they each are comfortable doing or not doing and what fantasies they would like to experience and how far they are willing to go. So this takes a huge amount of trust and also involves a lot of potential risk to the relationship too especially when young kids are also an added complication . So can I just say and pardon my French it is a pretty fucking big deal for a couple to involve a single guy/girl and it should be seen as such . When meeting another couple I know the guy is going to treat my wife with the respect he would expect me to treat his wife with. But when you are inundated with fancy a fuck or wow I'd love do this or that to your wife it's hard work . Then you think you found a nice decent guy and even they let you down 80/90% of the time you begin to wonder why even bother.
And as for paying more than couples to go to a party dam sure that fair it's like tuning up to a bring your own drink party with nothing and expect to get pissed lol.
Just our own view not speaking for all couples ."
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Not all parties charge men extra. We used to host parties 6-7 years ago. Attendees were a mix of couples, women and men. We always charged per person basically cost of house/apartment, cost of food and divided by the number of people attending thus couples ended paying more. We have attended parties recently in which the host had the same mentality.
Suppose best not tar all under one domain there’s a broad spectrum of people on the site. All of us are “only human after all”! |
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