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Calling Reliable, HOT, single guys

By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must keep eye on this thread

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By *ohnandGemCouple over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

You're allowed one, maybe two of that criteria.

But three? Best of luck....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would not contact u as your profile says no single guys maybe if u changed that the good guys might contact u

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By *andydevineMan over a year ago

sligo

I'm right here but i agree with Michael.

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

Yeah where are they? Like it's terrible, nightmare I tell ya!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would not contact u as your profile says no single guys maybe if u changed that the good guys might contact u "

Exactly this....

The only prople that are going to message you are A) People who dont read profiles B) People that do and ignore them, these are ons that are more likely to bolt or not to be of interest in the first place..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame you are all south of the border

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By *xplicitMan over a year ago

donegal

Nope...there are loads..but maybe we dont 'chase' as hard as the guys that dont show..

.of course that means our heads are compleeeeetly up our own arses..

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By *eanbelfastMan over a year ago

Belfast

First and foremost it should be about honest and respect. Guys should be themselves and if the click with someone and the chemistry is there then it’s not built on someone pretending to be something or someone they aren’t. If you arrange to meet then it’s only common courtesy to turn up. Unfortunately there are quite a few who ruin it for the genuine people that are here. At the end of the day trust your instincts and go go for what works for you. Happy fabbing

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By *iroma2010Man over a year ago

Blackrock

This is going to be interesting....

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"You're allowed one, maybe two of that criteria.

But three? Best of luck....

You could be right! Maybe that where we’ve been going wrong

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"I would not contact u as your profile says no single guys maybe if u changed that the good guys might contact u "

That’s a fair point but not sure it would solve the problem...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(Waving)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I read the profiles if something in it i do not like i move on if something u want and i am not i move on no single guys equals no interest in what i have to offer the only guys that would contact your are guys who do not know how fab works

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile says no single guys op so that's stops guys messageing you ,,

And I'm way outside you age range

Best of luck finding good guys they are here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read the profiles if something in it i do not like i move on if something u want and i am not i move on no single guys equals no interest in what i have to offer the only guys that would contact your are guys who do not know how fab works"

I'm the same there are loads of couples on here I'd love to contact and meet but if they have no single guys I respect that and don't message them.

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"(Waving)

Well hello there ......

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

We here standing in the corner leaning against the wall looking out under thed rim of our fedora hats at the cpls and girls that aren't looking for guys whinging about not being abled to meet reliable guys

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

I'm the same there are loads of couples on here I'd love to contact and meet but if they have no single guys I respect that and don't message them."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We here standing in the corner leaning against the wall looking out under thed rim of our fedora hats at the cpls and girls that aren't looking for guys whinging about not being abled to meet reliable guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here standing to salute you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Standing front and center. I always show up.

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By *oseph soapMan over a year ago

Slane

I've gotta agree with a few of the previous posters. If a profile says no single guys I just move along. Unless they contact me that is!

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By *oo32Man over a year ago

tipperary

Im a single guy....the hot part is very debatable....im reliable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Highlighting the importance of social nights out. Loads of normal men and women here, it’s just a matter of sorting them from the weirdos, pic hunters and un verified loons looking to buy underwear or worse lol.

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By *onedbodMan over a year ago

co Galway

If I arrange to meet i always do that's a given!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *andomCaptainMan over a year ago

Roscommon

"Highlighting the importance of social nights out. Loads of normal men and women here, it’s just a matter of sorting them from the weirdos, pic hunters and un verified loons looking to buy underwear or worse lol. "

Social is what its all about... great starting point for what can develop into extra-social antics

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't know op, you're well verified and a good while here you shouldn't struggle to find hot reliable guys as there are plenty of them on here. If I find them certainly you should be able to do so too. Maybe you should revised your selection process.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are lots out there

I can vouch from my single days

Geordie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well i know for one i always meet ehen i say i will ...treat others as id like them to treat me!

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"There are lots out there

I can vouch from my single days

Geordie"

But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb

afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are lots out there

I can vouch from my single days

Geordie

But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb

afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them

Shurrup cj

I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you...

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.)

You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site.

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"There are lots out there

I can vouch from my single days

Geordie

But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb

afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them

Shurrup cj

I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off

He certainly is looking for a strap on session, there's absolutely no doubt anymore.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Cough cough

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By *iroma2010Man over a year ago

Blackrock

"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you...

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked"

The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both ways

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

"Cough cough

Need a lozenge mr laid?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

IM always available down south haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi, I have been on and off the site for a few years. Met some nice people. I am reliable and if I agree to meet up I always do.

The problem with guys not turning up could be a load of reasons.

1 the are just dreamers.

2 married and not honest and just can’t get away.

3 just chicken out. Can be daunting at the beginning to meet a couple on your own.

Main thing is..... I am here..

happy to meet if the chemistry is right

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked

The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both ways"
James, of course they do but getting them to actually meet up is the problem. Also, its the certain single lad criteria that we are looking for that seems to be a problem. We have met plenty of single gentlemen of a certain demographic that are sound, attractive and reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked

The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both waysJames, of course they do but getting them to actually meet up is the problem. Also, its the certain single lad criteria that we are looking for that seems to be a problem. We have met plenty of single gentlemen of a certain demographic that are sound, attractive and reliable."

Sorry understand now. that post sounded like couples shout jump and single guys should ask how high which is the way some couples approach single guys .respect all round i say.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

Is give gemma one hell I'd give her the full length

just saying

I don't think ye are the only ones to notice this and like you said there's a type ye are after and a characteristic of that person must be that they are into the social side which not every one is. I know from meeting ye once or twice at different events that ye enjoy the social which is a great way of picking out victims but remember ye are into the lifestyle a lot of guys are not and are only here for dial a ride which like the other preferences will limit your choices

As for lads not turning up it's a well known fact if u want ten invite fifty

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"There are lots out there

I can vouch from my single days

Geordie

But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb

afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them

Shurrup cj

I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off

He certainly is looking for a strap on session, there's absolutely no doubt anymore.

She had her chance twice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important.

I was one of the people that posted above and I wouldnt have contacted ye as at the moment dont have an interest in meeting couples. Gemma looks stunning cant speak for the others.

I think most of us were pointing out that it would make sense not to have that up if you want to attact the type of person who actually reads and respects profiles. You obviously have a better view of this as a couple and not having no single males specified.

I would make no argument in relation to it being hard to find people to match your preferences if you are anyway selective regardless of what you are looking for.

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By *imeoutaloneMan over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

My tuppence worth.

As already pointed out it's all about reading profiles and or going with guy instincts.

I've had couples cancel/not turn up too.

And if something seems too good to be true it usually is.

So from the profile "not looking for single guys" "single guys we'll find you" "only looking for site supporters" to name a few. We respect those wishes so stay away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"

It's okay I'm back

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By *onbonsnaxMan over a year ago

dublin

I'd take the line out of your profile where it says "no single guys, Don't try contact if on your own" But I'm surprised you have had no shows as your well verified and seem very genuine. Before meeting with anyone maybe contact their verifications to make sure they are genuine before you meet them too

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By *agle Eye PMan over a year ago

meath, drogheda

@OP

"Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user

Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex"

Not that I was going to message you, but I thought I'd just click Send Message and see :P

I'm sure you're referring to those you've reached out to, to organise a meet.

I guess, as someone said above; try to devise or revise a filtration system that helps you spot the wasters even sooner.

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By *xplicitMan over a year ago

donegal

Not going to requote but like some of the above really genuine guys..ive kinda had my fill of sending messsges and trying to develop new contacts only to get short assed one line replies,or mail 'unread'

Ive been here years and have some really nice regular meets and this maybe depicts the problem nicely..

..it is perhaps realistic that there is a lack of 'genuine' new males joining and persisting anymore as it us genuinely easier on other internet forums to make casual contacts for sex

There may well be a lack of new blood...and too many experienced fabbers somewhat disenchanted..

.oh..and yeah..gemma is a hotty..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys have u tried vanilla sites ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never thought there would be a shortage of single guys here! Consider myself "revealed"!

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By *onbonsnaxMan over a year ago

dublin

Left it out of my post Gemma and Mrs Neon are both hotties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ?

Why try vanilla sites if the lifestyle u want to lead is a swingers lifestyle ? Its easier to get sex on tinder but people can and will get hurt if u pretend you want something else just to get sex .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't see the point in arranging a meet with someone and not showing up I no i would be jumping at the chance with a meet with genuine people

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By *rBakersMan over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow

There are a few good reliable men on here but it's a bit like hen's teeth tbh.

I wonder could there be a higher verification method that is more reliable?

Oh and feel free to PM

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By *oo32Man over a year ago

tipperary

"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ?

Yes i have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are swinging couples that use these sites . Not all kinky people are on fab.

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ?

"
have you any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

But maybe pm me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ?

have you any suggestions?"

Tinder and POF would be the most popular two I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With you on this Neons.

Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find.

Don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With you on this Neons.

Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find.

Don't give up.

Ah they're around

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"With you on this Neons.

Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find.

Don't give up.

Ah they're around

"
where?

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By *ellboy101Man over a year ago

cavan

They say(whoever they are),if something comes easy it ain't worth having!!

I hear ya though,,we all look certain things..like everything you never find the treasure chest with the key in it

I always turn up,but perhaps that's the problem

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By *aider190Man over a year ago

swords

Are reliable lads not in abundance on this site..Would consider myself to be extremely reliable

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By *appy 70Man over a year ago

cork

Jesus how reliable are women

Looking for in cork I'm looking for a session tonite

How reliable is that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With you on this Neons.

Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find.

Don't give up.

Ah they're around

where?"

Well give them 5 years to mature first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys I have arranged to meet have shown up in saying that I mostly arrange meets after I have met them at a social. Guys their out there so don't give up the one that didn't show up well it's their loss as u both r sexy sexy people with fantastic personality xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Guys I have arranged to meet have shown up in saying that I mostly arrange meets after I have met them at a social. Guys their out there so don't give up the one that didn't show up well it's their loss as u both r sexy sexy people with fantastic personality xx

Who would not turn up to meet such a sexy lady as ypurself have to be brain dead !! Counting down the days to donegal xx

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By *andomCaptainMan over a year ago

Roscommon

can never understand the logic of guys not turning up... such a waste in so many ways!! Let's reclaim the reputation of the sincere males on here

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

Well I am a gent and if I say I will meet I meet . Any guy who is a no show should be named and shamed . They get the chance to meet and then don't turn up .stupid idiots and then give the rest of us a bad name .

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By *angero3aMan over a year ago

swords

hi. nice profile I am a nice single straight guy in Dublin .will always show myself on cam looking forward to hearing from you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi, I'm new to the site but think I fit your criteria. Honest and reliable too, if I say I'm going to meet someone then I will, no bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I chickened out of my very first meet with a couple, sheer nerves, still regret it, but not once have I since.. it's only a meet and a chat or drink at first and play isn't guaranteed so I've no issues with meeting anyone, if there's play then that's the bonus

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

We have taken your feedback on board and as a result we have made amendments to our profile filters....... we’ll let you know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who would not turn up to meet such a sexy lady as ypurself have to be brain dead !! Counting down the days to donegal xx"

Aww thank u, also counting down the days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With you on this Neons.

Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find.

Don't give up.

Ah they're around

where?"

Where oh where can they be? Ive been wondering for a while too

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By *sexybitchWoman over a year ago

north dublin

I give up in looking

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By *exyman1965Man over a year ago

Lucan

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"
hello neon couple definitely wouldn't mind hooking with you both if your looking for guy but I can't message you because your not looking for men on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am in genuine guy seeking f or mf

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women and couples struggling to get guys seems crazy! Us guys struggle to get messages back because there's millions of us lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I give up in looking

Well I am not surprised. I said a friendly hello today and sent my photo. The reply I got was.

Desgostic pict

Have no idea what that is meant to mean and then you blocked me. Now I have no problem with rejection and everyone has a right to say no, but it cost nothing to be polite and nice to someone. A reply with not my type or no thanks would be fine but to send a reply like you did and block me, Made me feel like I did something wrong. I just said hello.

Anyone that knows me here, knows my photos are real and me. I wish you all the best on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m like a good car. Reliable, gets you where you wanna go, and my fuel economy is excellent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere!

Must be a different Mayo to me than

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere!

Let's call it 'the can't see the fab wood for the trees'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective"

Of course it is but there's a pretty good choice and variety IMO.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective"

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something "

Why assume it's always about looks?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?"

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit "

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw."

I know it's not always about looks. I know not everyone's interacts and just read as sometimes I do. What is the right note as you don't wanna be the generic how are you. I try a hello, compliment as that's what has drawn me to profile and actually want to get to know them. The other thing is if looks don't matter then why is everyone so funny about having face pics infirat message ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I give up in looking

Did you find that roofer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

Hot is def subjective. Any message i get even the ones with dick pics i reply too. If they havent read my profile i thank them for the message and refer them to my profile. I have chatted guys than swapped pictures and not been attracted to them and im def not getting messages from models i will say straight up if im not interested in meeting. Not wasting anyones time. Than the nasty messages will start and again i will b polite and say thanks but no thanks. I dont consider myself hot. Ive an average body. But im good fun and i get on with most people. Also been stood up more than once or twice so yes im on the lookout for single reliable and my type of hot guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere!

Point them my direction so

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

"We have taken your feedback on board and as a result we have made amendments to our profile filters....... we’ll let you know how it goes

Still can't message you because men are blocked

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx hello neon couple definitely wouldn't mind hooking with you both if your looking for guy but I can't message you because your not looking for men on your profile?"

That has been rectified, thx

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"Right here

I’m too you for you it would seem

Never thought I’d get to say that again lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not single....buuut Mrs Snicker's thinks I'm hot does that count much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hiya OP , theres always this issue with no shows.I dint honestly know a way around it.But After being on fab here and in Uk..have had a bellyfull of no shows. I can hand on heart say I have always turned up for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...

Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective

I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something

Why assume it's always about looks?

Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit

Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.

But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw.

Everyone? We never ask for face pics.

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks

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By *rBakersMan over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks"

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't understand no shows , especially someone whom you've met numerous occasions and their insistent on a date, time and hotel to be booked , only to go ghost , absolutely hate that !!!!!

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By *eon Saints OP Couple over a year ago

Citywest

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks"

Nail on the head guys .... well said, xx

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By *aider190Man over a year ago

swords

Don't understand why someone would stand up a meet....have never done it and never would ...I'm sure I'm not the only guy on the site who thinks this way ...sooooooo disrespectful

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By *nythingoes1Man over a year ago

All over

I am a single guy well verfied and finding it hard to get meets.if i say i will be there i will be there so please please send me invites i will turn up and i will be a bold but nice guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"

Oh Christ above

This site is gone to shit, even the couples are giving out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks"

*waves hands frantically *

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

a no show? id imagine some lads are only here for a bit of a thrill. don't actually have an interest in meeting. others chicken out. be silly to say it doesn't happen. I personally think this profound female response "oh try get to parties/meets and greets" is off putting also. alot of men sign up here, probably shy, could have self confidence issues but only want to meet one woman one to one. the issue lies in alot of women won't bite the bullet and take a chance so look for group sessions ie. meet and greets to verify. I'd advise any man looking to meet and crack the fab cheery, to meet locally. the drag of distance, risk of no show etc is to much for meet one. bottom line to any man though and it happened to me day one. if you sign up thinking, yes this is going to be a minefield, you're sadly mistaken. the site is actually the very opposite unless you're willing to put in extravagant work and or have serious time on your hands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ya annoying when others let us guys down with no shows and make it harder for the rest of us to earn trust...any fm or cpl interested feel free to PM

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By *ordjeffMan over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Hello.

I'm here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks

*waves hands frantically *

Waves back...

Ya better check your wink inbox

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I think the OP is looking for someone in her age bracket. Theres not many under 40 attractive reliable men on here.

There’s plenty of attractive older gentlemen on here, who are extremely reliable but theres very few younger ones.

Do you see the difference?

Thanks

*waves hands frantically *

"
where at the social a few weeks back? Did we miss you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey its great to see the changes to your profile and I have sent you a pm. The only comment I would have is that some males have been burnt in the past with people abusing there face pics when they are sent. I know I have and I am reluctant to send them certainly within the first few messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Impossible for a guy to prove he is genuine and actually here to meet. Firstly trying to keep to stand out in messages and keep the convo going. Secondly, lack of interest from some people just to meet. Both genders can be time wasters on this site not just males.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey its great to see the changes to your profile and I have sent you a pm. The only comment I would have is that some males have been burnt in the past with people abusing there face pics when they are sent. I know I have and I am reluctant to send them certainly within the first few messages."

Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??

I know and have heard of fave pics doing the rounds off fab people sharing them with others. Handy feature that let's you removed attached photos after mail is read helps prevent that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??

I know and have heard of fave pics doing the rounds off fab people sharing them with others. Handy feature that let's you removed attached photos after mail is read helps prevent that "

Once you send a pic youve lost it forever that is a given.

Not many you can or should trust.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol. It's a hard life this fab one. Some profiles are not has the seem. But mine is. And I still get shot for it. Ah sure that's life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??

I know and have heard of fave pics doing the rounds off fab people sharing them with others. Handy feature that let's you removed attached photos after mail is read helps prevent that

Once you send a pic youve lost it forever that is a given.

Not many you can or should trust."

I'd like to think I'm somewhat trust worthy anyway and anyone I chose to engage with is as well but you can never be sure

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By *angtasticallyMan over a year ago

Drogheda

Well up for the cup lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week

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By *iroma2010Man over a year ago

Blackrock

Not just the guys who are unreliable, couples an girls who have agreed to meet then not show up... I believe you have to go through the fake ones to find the right person

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week"

Interesting. Send us a message if you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week

Interesting. Send us a message if you like

Done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can u prov to a cpl that u are geniun. ? What cpls are aspecting to read on the first text u send to them ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know op, you're well verified and a good while here you shouldn't struggle to find hot reliable guys as there are plenty of them on here. If I find them certainly you should be able to do so too. Maybe you should revised your selection process.

Boom

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By *iroma2010Man over a year ago

Blackrock

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week

Interesting. Send us a message if you like

Can I send you a message too?

Can't blame a guy for trying

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week

Interesting. Send us a message if you like

Can I send you a message too?

Can't blame a guy for trying "
we will always read a message from a verified guy so fire away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week

Interesting. Send us a message if you like

Can I send you a message too?

Only if you could send one to ye. I can't maybe ya have me blocked or something.

Can't blame a guy for trying we will always read a message from a verified guy so fire away."

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By *iver80Man over a year ago

south side ,

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"

Hi guys im sure it is very hard to find the right guy so many lads on this , me i joined to meet like minded couples , i was on this before and met some great honest fun people maybe a chat sometime see how the juices flow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"

Guys are bolting from an in-sustainable marketplace. Too much competition for too few high quality women and a serious reduction in the attitude of the average female swinger (marketplace power corrupts).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week"
really...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did someone ask for a reliable, hot, single guy..?

Takes seat, sits back, waits..

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By *ubcouple35Couple over a year ago

North Dublin

We've just given up on single guys

It's gone ridiculous . Nothing but boys left on the site all the men seem to have gone . They talk a good game build themselves to be the best thing since slice bread but when it comes down to it they wet themselves and run . Well that's our experience of late anyway .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahem Ahem Ahem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shit didn't read the title properly first time might not qualify under the hot part

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've just given up on single guys

Haha poor feckers

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By *iver80Man over a year ago

south side ,

"We've just given up on single guys

Try a newbie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A harsh critism of single males here. Yes no doubt there are pretenders here but a bit of common sense would tell you that from a profile weather genuine or not. I find the worst part of fab is the behaviour of some men who look at women as a piece of meet and No respect which causes all of us men to be painted with the one brush but if given a chance can prove our worth. I can safely say I have never ever cancelled a meet or not shown of arranged 110% guaranteed of my presence.

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By *iroma2010Man over a year ago

Blackrock

"We've just given up on single guys

I have to apologize on behalf of the good men remaining here. I have to say that you have to _ilder through the boys to get the men. You will get good men here, I can assure you that.

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By *etergemmaCouple over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"A harsh critism of single males here. Yes no doubt there are pretenders here but a bit of common sense would tell you that from a profile weather genuine or not. I find the worst part of fab is the behaviour of some men who look at women as a piece of meet and No respect which causes all of us men to be painted with the one brush but if given a chance can prove our worth. I can safely say I have never ever cancelled a meet or not shown of arranged 110% guaranteed of my presence."
How is it harsh when its the truth? How would you know? Are you actively looking for 30 something single men!

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Reliable and single, here.

2 out of 3, ain't bad.

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By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"We've just given up on single guys

I prefer to wet myself in the company of others

Sorry, couldn't help myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Genuine guy here

You can decide if hot or not... everyone has their own view on that bit

I’ve the problem finding a genuine girl that will follow through with a meet. So if any genuine ladies or straight couples are interested then come say hi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a hot reliable fella

looking for hot reliable fellas

Lads/lassies from my experience of ‘dating’ sites like this being stood up is a regular thing so it’s to be expected. The internet allows people to have a look talk a good game then disappear. That needs to be factored in. Hell im on tinder with over a year. Match loads chat to a few and no date yet. Sounds like here. The only expectation you should have on sites like this is your gonna have to work your ass off to meet someone and 80% of the time you will be let down, then go enjoy the 20%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wish u girls lived closer to the north !!!

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By *nardriMan over a year ago

near town

I'm a verified single male with plenty of experience over the years meeting couples.

I'm not out for a meet every weekend, just the odd one or two here and there but it's very frustrating the times when you find a couple who seem right up your street and you send them a nice mail on here only to be ignored. I mean, you tick every box their profile asks, but they just don't bother with reply.

I don't care if they don't want to meet me, but it is when you spend time and write out a decent mail to them, they could at least reply and say no thanks, not for us or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wish u girls lived closer to the north !!!"

Well hello

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By *ceryMan over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Nice to see the profile change for single guys... And you know what my face looks like

. ...p.s. For those who've not met these couple, they're hot

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By *ighighdrawMan over a year ago

Dublin border

"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..

And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!

Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"

Well my opinion would be that the o shows and the unreliables are hiding something, then when and if what there hiding clashes with an arranged meet the meet is what suffers.

I for one am straight upfront about everything i may have going on, that way if I need to change things there's no surprises and everyone can be honest!

Oh by the way I certainly wouldn't have been a no show lol

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By *owncouple5Couple over a year ago

near Belfast

Watching this thread with interest.....

Jane

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hotties where are youse all ??

Come out come out wherever youse are

We don't bite ... not really...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hotties where are youse all ??

Come out come out wherever youse are

We don't bite ... not really... "

But biting is fun

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By *ubcouple35Couple over a year ago

North Dublin

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By *hebossman1Man over a year ago

dublin

Young single genuine guy here and I’m sure I’ll make it past the hotel Room door hahaha

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By *ubcouple35Couple over a year ago

North Dublin

"We've just given up on single guys

I prefer to wet myself in the company of others

Sorry, couldn't help myself

Haha most guys don't seem to be able to hold it long enough until they are in the company of others

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By *hebossman1Man over a year ago

dublin

Drop me a text I think I have what you’re looking for

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By *ubcouple35Couple over a year ago

North Dublin

"Drop me a text I think I have what you’re looking for "

Ah cool do you know a guy send him our profile name

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By *hebossman1Man over a year ago

dublin

I don’t know a guy I am that GUY haha

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