Yes obviously things can develop but once both ppl know what the expectations are (ie. No Strings) then its all good. I got closer to a girl on here and we meet on and off for over a year. We both knew nothing 'longterm' could come of it because we laid the ground rules plus we both were attached at the time. Passions can run deep but lead with the head is my advice |
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By *oo32 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ye id imagine a few have started from here not sure ifs it's a good thing or not....
We are almost 4 years together with no sign of stopping. Works just as well as a vanilla relationship  "
Great to hear that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ye id imagine a few have started from here not sure ifs it's a good thing or not....
We are almost 4 years together with no sign of stopping. Works just as well as a vanilla relationship "
Would make a much better rom com though  |
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over a year ago
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Deffo possible. I wouldn't start here expecting it though.
I often wonder about the singles on here who leave cos they meet ppl in the real world. Do they ever convince the new loves to join the fun.
I have tried to bring one or 2 along but no joy. Hence I'm single lol |
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”"
Forcing yourself never works out in the long run sadly, it always creeps back into your life |
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”
Forcing yourself never works out in the long run sadly, it always creeps back into your life "
Yup deffo but explaining that to Someone you’ve met outside of this is difficult without them labeling you is very difficult |
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”
Forcing yourself never works out in the long run sadly, it always creeps back into your life "
I think that works for all types of realationships and personality traits... if you cant be yourself or pretend to be someone your not it really wont work |
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By *oo32 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know of one couple that recently got married that met on a swing site.,,
There’s about 3 others I know that we’re both singles but long term real life couples now. "
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”
Forcing yourself never works out in the long run sadly, it always creeps back into your life
I think that works for all types of realationships and personality traits... if you cant be yourself or pretend to be someone your not it really wont work"
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”
Forcing yourself never works out in the long run sadly, it always creeps back into your life
Yup deffo but explaining that to Someone you’ve met outside of this is difficult without them labeling you is very difficult "
If they cant accept who you are then they are not the one for you
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over a year ago
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Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run "
Thats what happens when the boys are pretending to be men |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run "
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off! |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off! "
Ah I know not going to paint them all with that but they’re hard to find ! |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off!
Ah I know not going to paint them all with that but they’re hard to find !"
I'm not sure if it's best to be searching on fab for a relationship tbh. It could lead to disappointment. It happens...but perhaps unexpectedly |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off!
Ah I know not going to paint them all with that but they’re hard to find !
I'm not sure if it's best to be searching on fab for a relationship tbh. It could lead to disappointment. It happens...but perhaps unexpectedly "
I would be happy with just some general conversation never mind another relationship  |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off!
Ah I know not going to paint them all with that but they’re hard to find !"
You might need to buy some paint stripper as you painted us all quick enough in your first post
Ah your right though happens alot.. but like all things its not just men |
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"Ya see men have this thing they think they want a woman who has experience sex wise and I’m not talking numbers more so experiences but when they’re faced with someone who is they run
Not all men are like that. If he's the right man he won't let that put him off!
Ah I know not going to paint them all with that but they’re hard to find !
I'm not sure if it's best to be searching on fab for a relationship tbh. It could lead to disappointment. It happens...but perhaps unexpectedly "
Im not but would be open if it happened naturally |
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By *oo32 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are relationships possible from fab...and no i dont mean partners who joined fab...but 2 people who met on the site...
Yes they are "
Simple queation...and a straight answer...very good |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Yes to answer op. Like life, some work some don't. Yes fab will bring different challenges with it but also better communication so it has it's benefits too. Being open minded with open communication can have huge benefits in any relationship. |
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"It would be so much better if it was possible than forcing yourself to be “vanilla”"
A person should never compromise who they are. I dated lots of lovely ladies before I got in a relationship with Miss C. I was always honest and upfront with anyone I dated that I could never force myself to be just vanilla. Better to be honest so they can't say they were misled.
I thought it better to wait for the right person than settle for a relationship of convenience and secretly forcing myself to be vanilla. Then along came Miss C and now here we are and going from strength to strength. Always be true to yourself. |
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"Ye id imagine a few have started from here not sure ifs it's a good thing or not...."
Just on that subject.
I have been talking with an old friend from here recently who is married with a young family.
Both she and her husband are swinging as a couple and separately.
She has been meeting with a single guy for over a year now on a regular agreed basis with her husband, but the amount of times she is meeting him has increased exponentially without his knowledge.
I have said to her that she is perhaps dealing with fire here, particularly as it sounds as if there are more emotional issues at play than just nsa sex.
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