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Should I stay or should I go now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here it is I’ve been here on and off for ages
I don’t really seem to be having as much luck as many
I’ve been patient I’ve tried to be honest and true but not that much luck in chats or meets
I am kinda shy until you know me but come around once chatting
Am I just not everyone’s cup of tea or am I just a minger ?
So should I stay and live in hope or go and become a lonely old man ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots here (myself included) have left and returned a few times..take a break if you need it or stay..theres always slow times here ..
Best of luck with your decision.  |
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Everyone is free to make own choices here...that really depends on what you seek i guess...age is but a number after all and we all entitled to fun and companionship...not dead and buried just yet lol...besides it shouldnt be about the quantity of meets you have but about the quality...im sure if endeavour there someone here for you...perhaps even attend a few socials before decide to throw in the towel...wish you luck either way mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here it is I’ve been here on and off for ages
I don’t really seem to be having as much luck as many
I’ve been patient I’ve tried to be honest and true but not that much luck in chats or meets
I am kinda shy until you know me but come around once chatting
Am I just not everyone’s cup of tea or am I just a minger ?
So should I stay and live in hope or go and become a lonely old man ? "
Ladies are like buses on here , big red and many people have been in them 
Bide your time the usually come together, well not all cum .. sometime its like kicking a ball up O’Connell St
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here it is I’ve been here on and off for ages
I don’t really seem to be having as much luck as many
I’ve been patient I’ve tried to be honest and true but not that much luck in chats or meets
I am kinda shy until you know me but come around once chatting
Am I just not everyone’s cup of tea or am I just a minger ?
So should I stay and live in hope or go and become a lonely old man ?
Ladies are like buses on here , big red and many people have been in them
Bide your time the usually come together, well not all cum .. sometime its like kicking a ball up O’Connell St
Hope this helped "
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I've had a quick look at your profile. Not the most enticing to be honest. No public pix , limited text.
You don't need a million pictures but a couple are good.
The profile text says "just ask", but if you haven't already piqued someone's interest they aint going to ask.
On the plus side you do have veries so you must be doing something right!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going to come across as harsh but it's the truth,
You can't expect anything here, you are here over a year and have two verifications so you're doing better than some people.
If you want to leave then leave don't leave it up to the forum users. I suspect what you really are doing is trying to draw attention to your profile
My two cents |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a question only the op can answer so probably looking for.attention which will not work on here . If op stays get to a few m&gs and chat face to face with the ladys very few guys on here would get an answer.from sending a cold message i know i would not that u get out of fab is what u put into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry no offence intended but I think it's hilarious men saying their not having much luck here...the Mr of the couple here.
Why?"
Look at his status update think they are fed up with guys not showing up lol but he has a point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My point is that guy's ( I've seen it on threads before )..saying / bitching about either the women on fab and not getting meets be it social or play meets or the women being a step above them or getting to be more selective because of the ratio of men to women on here.....but in our experience so far the few times we've decided to say feck it we'll add a guy to the mix,it's been either been a last minute can't make it or they drop off the face of the earth ( after being in constant contact before said meet day ) and then guys wonder why they have a tough time here...what do u expect |
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I couldn't be arsed. Like it or love it, it is what it is. If you don't like it, see ya.
Otherwise, bed in for the long haul and get to a social.
Without doing that, not interested in whining.
PS my tolerance levels are currently low |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My point is that guy's ( I've seen it on threads before )..saying / bitching about either the women on fab and not getting meets be it social or play meets or the women being a step above them or getting to be more selective because of the ratio of men to women on here.....but in our experience so far the few times we've decided to say feck it we'll add a guy to the mix,it's been either been a last minute can't make it or they drop off the face of the earth ( after being in constant contact before said meet day ) and then guys wonder why they have a tough time here...what do u expect "
Agree with u bad manners was on as a couple know what it feels like to het ready the excitement etc and then be let down but since single i have ladys and couples who have done the same one texted to say leaving and that was a month ago .it happens in all categories i have never not turned up or even late so all guys not the same and if u read veries its easy to pick out the reliable guys there is ass holes in every walk of like not just on fab |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
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Ah Jesus, really not trying to be harsh , but why is it that there seems to be so many public announcements of impending withdrawals from fab, a few have retired more times than Status Quo , showing my age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U said guy wonder why they have a hard time on here !! Very general statement i do not have a hard time and lots of guys do not as i said maybe pick the bad ones out of the pile lots to.choose from |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"My point is that guy's ( I've seen it on threads before )..saying / bitching about either the women on fab and not getting meets be it social or play meets or the women being a step above them or getting to be more selective because of the ratio of men to women on here.....but in our experience so far the few times we've decided to say feck it we'll add a guy to the mix,it's been either been a last minute can't make it or they drop off the face of the earth ( after being in constant contact before said meet day ) and then guys wonder why they have a tough time here...what do u expect "
I've been meeting guys as a cpl here for years and if every guy or most even are a no show for you guys I'd say it's you who is doing something wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not whinning just stating what happens in fad on that side of things...
Just to say, I hadn't read all the comments above and mine was on no way directed at you guys.
Was just a general comment."
I actually agree with u the answer to the op s question only he can answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If reaching out to someone,laying out what ye like / don't like and asking if they would like to meet socially for a drink/coffee ( after chatting for a period of time ) and they are up for meeting then yeah i guess we must be doing lots wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If reaching out to someone,laying out what ye like / don't like and asking if they would like to meet socially for a drink/coffee ( after chatting for a period of time ) and they are up for meeting then yeah i guess we must be doing lots wrong. "
All I’m saying is that underwear would frighten the best of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If reaching out to someone,laying out what ye like / don't like and asking if they would like to meet socially for a drink/coffee ( after chatting for a period of time ) and they are up for meeting then yeah i guess we must be doing lots wrong.
All I’m saying is that underwear would frighten the best of us "
mine or Mrs Snicker's |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If reaching out to someone,laying out what ye like / don't like and asking if they would like to meet socially for a drink/coffee ( after chatting for a period of time ) and they are up for meeting then yeah i guess we must be doing lots wrong.
All I’m saying is that underwear would frighten the best of us mine or Mrs Snicker's "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If reaching out to someone,laying out what ye like / don't like and asking if they would like to meet socially for a drink/coffee ( after chatting for a period of time ) and they are up for meeting then yeah i guess we must be doing lots wrong.
All I’m saying is that underwear would frighten the best of us mine or Mrs Snicker's
Profile pic "
well I can change it to Mrs Snicker's if I'm not fit enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a quick look at your profile. Not the most enticing to be honest. No public pix , limited text.
You don't need a million pictures but a couple are good.
The profile text says "just ask", but if you haven't already piqued someone's interest they aint going to ask.
On the plus side you do have veries so you must be doing something right!
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"Piqued". You said "piqued" and not peaked or peeked. YESSS!!!
Marry me. (I insist) |
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"I'm going to come across as harsh but it's the truth,
You can't expect anything here, you are here over a year and have two verifications so you're doing better than some people.
If you want to leave then leave don't leave it up to the forum users. I suspect what you realy are doing is trying to draw to your profile
My two cents "
The King has spoken you must leave NOW!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to come across as harsh but it's the truth,
You can't expect anything here, you are here over a year and have two verifications so you're doing better than some people.
If you want to leave then leave don't leave it up to the forum users. I suspect what you realy are doing is trying to draw to your profile
My two cents
The King has spoken you must leave NOW!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's got anything to do with someone being a 'minger' or not, on a site with a majority of men it's harder to get yourself noticed I guess. Plus a lot are just here for the chat with no real intention of meeting. |
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