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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please, please, please, for the love of god, guys if you think you recognise someone on here, and for what ever reason you can not mail them, due to their filters or them having you Blocked, do not and I repeat DO NOT approach them in their place of work or message them on any other medium, be it whatsapp, text or FB messenger.
It's so fucking creepy and sad. Its border line serial killer behaviour and at the very least a bit stalker-ish. Learn some general etiquette and basic fucking manners 
Trust me on this, she 100% definitely does not want to know that you have recognised her, it is bad enough bumping into people you know from your day to day life at party, club or social. Without having you pressurising them at their place of work. Use some cop on, for fuck sake.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure you pointing this out to then op,that should see an end to it. 
Do you honestly believe if someone is tactless enough to do such a thing,your wise words,and yes they are wise words,will really make a difference to them?
Some people just can't see themselves doing wrong,it will always be someone else's doing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would think people would have a bit of cop on.But theres always one feckin eejit out there. I have friends on here and we meet at matches and other things.But never a mention of fab..We are all adults so should behave like adults. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me with a girl on a different site. We had chatted a handful of times, and then she turned up at my work, said she wanted to talk about "us" and why I took so long to reply to her messages...she had built an entire relationship out of a handful of messages. |
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"We never exchange phone numbers or whats app "
im so protective of my number for reasons like this. if a handful of ppl here or vanilla has my number it would be very rare for me to give it . ur number is attached to so much these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've yet to recognise a single person other than a school friend that I still hang around with on here. To he honest I don't even want to recognise people. Some people on this do more stalking and investigation into locals than the FBI do for their wanted men. |
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And some say sure it's only a phone number. You can find out a lot from a phone number. But there the risks you take when you're on a site and give out personal information. Maybe this will make people a bit more careful?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am surprised so many are surprised this happened some on here ladys and gents do not have the social skills to talk to the opposite sex out in the real world they join here thinking its dial a ride and cannot take further rejection do not take manners cop on or respect as a given here or out side of fab because u will be dissapointed the few nice people on here is what keeps me going |
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"Learnt at the beginning when i first joined not to give my number out....people give out too much information to a stranger sometimes at the beginning   "
we use a burner/playphone ..100% safe and secure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting told they've seen in shops etc
Fishing for info etc
Alot of people with no respect towards others.
Hope all is okay.
Talk to the guards if necessary.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and then ppl wonder why there is alot less women here compared to men.. the mind boggles it really does.."
It has happened to men also, I know of 3 guys that it's happened to and have since left fab. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"and then ppl wonder why there is alot less women here compared to men.. the mind boggles it really does..
It has happened to men also, I know of 3 guys that it's happened to and have since left fab. "
What!!! u saying there's a few bunny boilers on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and then ppl wonder why there is alot less women here compared to men.. the mind boggles it really does..
It has happened to men also, I know of 3 guys that it's happened to and have since left fab. "
I left over an incident of I know you, said my name an all  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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I'd an idiot approach me at a non swing social event a few years ago. Gave me the 'i know you, _ilder we met last year'. Thankfully I grabbed him and pulled him to one side, I was standing with a group, one of which is a good friend of mine. I wouldn't mind but I was introduced to the guy a year previously at a swing social and had spent about ten minutes in his company amongst others. For someone with zero tact he had a great memory |
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"I'd an idiot approach me at a non swing social event a few years ago. Gave me the 'i know you, _ilder we met last year'. Thankfully I grabbed him and pulled him to one side, I was standing with a group, one of which is a good friend of mine. I wouldn't mind but I was introduced to the guy a year previously at a swing social and had spent about ten minutes in his company amongst others. For someone with zero tact he had a great memory "
ah here some ppl have no sense atal dont they have any cop on and keep both seperate ive seen a few fabbers round town i walk past like i dont know them its really that simple... dont they understand the word discreet atal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd an idiot approach me at a non swing social event a few years ago. Gave me the 'i know you, _ilder we met last year'. Thankfully I grabbed him and pulled him to one side, I was standing with a group, one of which is a good friend of mine. I wouldn't mind but I was introduced to the guy a year previously at a swing social and had spent about ten minutes in his company amongst others. For someone with zero tact he had a great memory
ah here some ppl have no sense atal dont they have any cop on and keep both seperate ive seen a few fabbers round town i walk past like i dont know them its really that simple... dont they understand the word discreet atal "
Atal atal atal  |
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"Please, please, please, for the love of god, guys if you think you recognise someone on here, and for what ever reason you can not mail them, due to their filters or them having you Blocked, do not and I repeat DO NOT approach them in their place of work or message them on any other medium, be it whatsapp, text or FB messenger.
It's so fucking creepy and sad. Its border line serial killer behaviour and at the very least a bit stalker-ish. Learn some general etiquette and basic fucking manners
Trust me on this, she 100% definitely does not want to know that you have recognised her, it is bad enough bumping into people you know from your day to day life at party, club or social. Without having you pressurising them at their place of work. Use some cop on, for fuck sake.
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this has been a white knight broadcast thank you..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please, for the love of god, guys if you think you recognise someone on here, and for what ever reason you can not mail them, due to their filters or them having you Blocked, do not and I repeat DO NOT approach them in their place of work or message them on any other medium, be it whatsapp, text or FB messenger.
It's so fucking creepy and sad. Its border line serial killer behaviour and at the very least a bit stalker-ish. Learn some general etiquette and basic fucking manners
Trust me on this, she 100% definitely does not want to know that you have recognised her, it is bad enough bumping into people you know from your day to day life at party, club or social. Without having you pressurising them at their place of work. Use some cop on, for fuck sake.
this has been a white knight broadcast thank you....."
So true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are more to be pitied than scorned. It must be exhausting being consumed with jealousy and hatred. We are all here for the same basic reason and a code of respect and privacy should stand for all. It's a shame not everyone holds with that. |
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"Please, please, please, for the love of god, guys if you think you recognise someone on here, and for what ever reason you can not mail them, due to their filters or them having you Blocked, do not and I repeat DO NOT approach them in their place of work or message them on any other medium, be it whatsapp, text or FB messenger.
It's so fucking creepy and sad. Its border line serial killer behaviour and at the very least a bit stalker-ish. Learn some general etiquette and basic fucking manners
Trust me on this, she 100% definitely does not want to know that you have recognised her, it is bad enough bumping into people you know from your day to day life at party, club or social. Without having you pressurising them at their place of work. Use some cop on, for fuck sake.
this has been a white knight broadcast thank you....."
Ain't that the truth. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Please, please, please, for the love of god, guys if you think you recognise someone on here, and for what ever reason you can not mail them, due to their filters or them having you Blocked, do not and I repeat DO NOT approach them in their place of work or message them on any other medium, be it whatsapp, text or FB messenger.
It's so fucking creepy and sad. Its border line serial killer behaviour and at the very least a bit stalker-ish. Learn some general etiquette and basic fucking manners
Trust me on this, she 100% definitely does not want to know that you have recognised her, it is bad enough bumping into people you know from your day to day life at party, club or social. Without having you pressurising them at their place of work. Use some cop on, for fuck sake.
this has been a white knight broadcast thank you....."
no its not, do you know the op? Because if you did you would know hes not a white night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When u put a forum up is it not so people can give their opinion like it or notaccusing someone of being a white knight without actually knowing him, Is an opinion is it?
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It's ridiculous  never met the OP but this is far from a white Knight post I'd be fairly confident that he posted this for genuine reasons not because he's looking for his hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unacceptable behaviour is also fishing for info.
Respect people's privacy.
What is it to you where we work,what we do.telling friends or family that we are on a swingers site.
None of your business.
People stick their nose in other people's business.
Nosy bastards.
You think telling someone you know where they live etc will make them want to fuck you??
Respect and manners are a thing of the past.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heard of a horror story from a female fabber about 1 year ago. Seems some clown who she refused to meet, copied her Fab Photos and put them all over her local shop windows where she lived in south dublin!
Absolute b@stard! |
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"When u put a forum up is it not so people can give their opinion like it or notaccusing someone of being a white knight without actually knowing him, Is an opinion is it?
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An opinion based on a forum post. But an opinion nevertheless |
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By *addubMan
over a year ago
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WTF is this a joke surely no one could be that stupid. Even if I seen a friend on here I wouldn't mention it let alone tell them what happens in their private life is exactly that Private. |
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A so called friend of mine I think is trying to stalk a good lady friend of mine . Sick he is . She is furious over him and I don't blame her . He is off my friends list now don't need a scumbag like him . |
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"A so called friend of mine I think is trying to stalk a good lady friend of mine . Sick he is . She is furious over him and I don't blame her . He is off my friends list now don't need a scumbag like him . "
So if you only think he's doing it and you're not sure, isn't it a bit harsh calling him a scumbag and unfriending him? And what did he say when you confronted him? because surely you did or do you believe everything a woman tells you? |
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"A so called friend of mine I think is trying to stalk a good lady friend of mine . Sick he is . She is furious over him and I don't blame her . He is off my friends list now don't need a scumbag like him .
So if you only think he's doing it and you're not sure, isn't it a bit harsh calling him a scumbag and unfriending him? And what did he say when you confronted him? because surely you did or do you believe everything a woman tells you? "
totally agree, you can't "think someone is stalking you"..your lady friend would be fully aware of she is being stalked. Not think she might be. |
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"A so called friend of mine I think is trying to stalk a good lady friend of mine . Sick he is . She is furious over him and I don't blame her . He is off my friends list now don't need a scumbag like him .
So if you only think he's doing it and you're not sure, isn't it a bit harsh calling him a scumbag and unfriending him? And what did he say when you confronted him? because surely you did or do you believe everything a woman tells you? "
you do realise who you're replying to yes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortuntely I deal front of house with public and I have bumped into some fabsters thank god it hasn’t been awkward or disrespectful and that’s the way it shouid be. Wouldn’t have any problems pulling someone up on it otherwise Sinister behavior is just unnerving |
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every month or so a page opens here,a female names a factory in wexford and askes any males working in this factory.obviously trying track down someone.and then another female opens a page and posts where she works and what she be wearing ona certain day.now id say thats to get someone in trouble at work.have reported these pages lots but keep opening. |
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