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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having been here myself a few years I've always wondered what were people's opinions on the site from when you joined versus now?
I myself have noticed a huge change since joining with lots of new features but do find that lots of members I knew have left. |
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"Having been here myself a few years I've always wondered what were people's opinions on the site from when you joined versus now?
I myself have noticed a huge change since joining with lots of new features but do find that lots of members I knew have left."
forums are very different to when I was first here. not near as lively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They used to be lively.
Then there was alot of not pleasant things happening,and alot of people decided the Irish forum was full of not soo nice people...
Yeah I did put it very diplomatically ...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They used to be lively.
Then there was alot of not pleasant things happening,and alot of people decided the Irish forum was full of not soo nice people...
Yeah I did put it very diplomatically ...
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It's my first-time back on the forums in two years  I know all about some of the said unpleasant things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They used to be lively.
Then there was alot of not pleasant things happening,and alot of people decided the Irish forum was full of not soo nice people...
Yeah I did put it very diplomatically ...
It's my first-time back on the forums in two years I know all about some of the said unpleasant things "
Ah don’t keep it all to yourselves lol. Did things get that bad? I see the odd ignoramus on here but generally most people have been pretty sound. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have been here a few years now and have seen lots of people come and go ,some who made the forums a great place to visit ,others not so much .The majority of forum users are good fun thankfully and even the odd troll won't change that no matter how hard they try . |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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Everyone is generally more defensive on the forum nowadays, reflecting online life on general. We're more inclined to think that someone posting isn't genuine or having a go. This is due to trolls and shit stirrers getting away with murder and the general attitude to online discussion.
I'm prefaced a question on another topic with "not having a go...but" just to be clear that I wasn't antagonising....that's the way the world has gone sadly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I first joined many many moons ago as a young horny man I thought I was as gonna shag the entire female population of the site.
To my amazement,that didn't happen .I realised soon after that it's about networking and putting the best version of yourself out there and finding ppl you click with.after that is when the fun really happens  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is generally more defensive on the forum nowadays, reflecting online life on general. We're more inclined to think that someone posting isn't genuine or having a go. This is due to trolls and shit stirrers getting away with murder and the general attitude to online discussion.
I'm prefaced a question on another topic with "not having a go...but" just to be clear that I wasn't antagonising....that's the way the world has gone sadly..."
Are you trying to say none of us can understand the context of your comments... maybe you should phrase them better |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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"Everyone is generally more defensive on the forum nowadays, reflecting online life on general. We're more inclined to think that someone posting isn't genuine or having a go. This is due to trolls and shit stirrers getting away with murder and the general attitude to online discussion.
I'm prefaced a question on another topic with "not having a go...but" just to be clear that I wasn't antagonising....that's the way the world has gone sadly...
Are you trying to say none of us can understand the context of your comments... maybe you should phrase them better "
No I'm saying it's better to be safe than sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone is generally more defensive on the forum nowadays, reflecting online life on general. We're more inclined to think that someone posting isn't genuine or having a go. This is due to trolls and shit stirrers getting away with murder and the general attitude to online discussion.
I'm prefaced a question on another topic with "not having a go...but" just to be clear that I wasn't antagonising....that's the way the world has gone sadly...
Are you trying to say none of us can understand the context of your comments... maybe you should phrase them better
No I'm saying it's better to be safe than sorry. "
To be fair anything anyone says will offend someone, if it's your opinion and it's not blatantly discriminatory,immoral or illegal I wouldn't apologise to anyone for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is generally more defensive on the forum nowadays, reflecting online life on general. We're more inclined to think that someone posting isn't genuine or having a go. This is due to trolls and shit stirrers getting away with murder and the general attitude to online discussion.
I'm prefaced a question on another topic with "not having a go...but" just to be clear that I wasn't antagonising....that's the way the world has gone sadly...
Are you trying to say none of us can understand the context of your comments... maybe you should phrase them better
No I'm saying it's better to be safe than sorry. "
Sorry I was only taking the piss... |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Well, when we first joined we were under the impression that it wouldnt be too difficult to find people that interest us, unfortunately it hasnt turned out that way.
There seems to be a lot of younger attractive couples and also a lot of older attractive couples but theres very few our age, as i said to Gemma, i think good looking early 40 couples are the new unicorns 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, when we first joined we were under the impression that it wouldnt be too difficult to find people that interest us, unfortunately it hasnt turned out that way.
There seems to be a lot of younger attractive couples and also a lot of older attractive couples but theres very few our age, as i said to Gemma, i think good looking early 40 couples are the new unicorns
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, when we first joined we were under the impression that it wouldnt be too difficult to find people that interest us, unfortunately it hasnt turned out that way.
There seems to be a lot of younger attractive couples and also a lot of older attractive couples but theres very few our age, as i said to Gemma, i think good looking early 40 couples are the new unicorns
Do you think meets would be as exciting if it was easy to find what you wanted?"
Finding that person you click with,have a decent conversation and have amazing sex,good looking couples in their early 40s aren't the rare unicorns,real swingers in general are a rare find,in my humble opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They used to be lively.
Then there was alot of not pleasant things happening,and alot of people decided the Irish forum was full of not soo nice people...
Yeah I did put it very diplomatically ...
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You put that very nicely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They used to be lively.
Then there was alot of not pleasant things happening,and alot of people decided the Irish forum was full of not soo nice people...
Yeah I did put it very diplomatically ...
You put that very nicely "
Always |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab "
Ive only started posting here in the last month or so. What has changed tge conversation topics? The comments? Are people just more sensitive now? Seem like I missed out on fabs golden age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab "
Same as myself. I suppose it's inevitable that people will come and go over time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Same as myself. I suppose it's inevitable that people will come and go over time"
Same, I miss some too. There were some great characters in the forums over the years. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Well, when we first joined we were under the impression that it wouldnt be too difficult to find people that interest us, unfortunately it hasnt turned out that way.
There seems to be a lot of younger attractive couples and also a lot of older attractive couples but theres very few our age, as i said to Gemma, i think good looking early 40 couples are the new unicorns
Do you think meets would be as exciting if it was easy to find what you wanted?
Finding that person you click with,have a decent conversation and have amazing sex,good looking couples in their early 40s aren't the rare unicorns,real swingers in general are a rare find,in my humble opinion.
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i beg to differ, i can name 20 couples in there 30s that are attractive, and at least 10 in their late 40s but only 1 - 2 in early 40s and we have met a lot of couples but hey maybe we just havent found them yet |
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Same as myself. I suppose it's inevitable that people will come and go over time
Same, I miss some too. There were some great characters in the forums over the years. "
There were some great debates as well.. Clerical child abuse, religion in general, politics, and my all time favourite, the queen of England's birthday. |
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I think there is an extreme nervousness to post on here or shall I say lots want to be liked by everyone. it's like the real world, everybody won't like you or maybe people look at the forums and see alot so pally who know one another from meets and greets and think they won't break into that circle |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Ive only started posting here in the last month or so. What has changed tge conversation topics? The comments? Are people just more sensitive now? Seem like I missed out on fabs golden age"
There was lots of friendly joking and slagging amongst a big group of people. There where always some sort of profile pic challenge that had a good take up. People seem not to take part as much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, when we first joined we were under the impression that it wouldnt be too difficult to find people that interest us, unfortunately it hasnt turned out that way.
There seems to be a lot of younger attractive couples and also a lot of older attractive couples but theres very few our age, as i said to Gemma, i think good looking early 40 couples are the new unicorns
Do you think meets would be as exciting if it was easy to find what you wanted?
Finding that person you click with,have a decent conversation and have amazing sex,good looking couples in their early 40s aren't the rare unicorns,real swingers in general are a rare find,in my humble opinion.
i beg to differ, i can name 20 couples in there 30s that are attractive, and at least 10 in their late 40s but only 1 - 2 in early 40s and we have met a lot of couples but hey maybe we just havent found them yet"
Don't give up anyways, fab would be a dull place without ye |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm here 3 years (still newbie) and enjoy the forums but like anything in life it can be good & bad times
Few gone that I have great banter with but still in contact with them but do miss them on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been here myself a few years I've always wondered what were people's opinions on the site from when you joined versus now?
I myself have noticed a huge change since joining with lots of new features but do find that lots of members I knew have left."
I thought u were banned lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Ive only started posting here in the last month or so. What has changed tge conversation topics? The comments? Are people just more sensitive now? Seem like I missed out on fabs golden age
There was lots of friendly joking and slagging amongst a big group of people. There where always some sort of profile pic challenge that had a good take up. People seem not to take part as much. "
Ah I miss the fun as well.Myself and yourself were like brothers on the forum's having the craic.
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Ive only started posting here in the last month or so. What has changed tge conversation topics? The comments? Are people just more sensitive now? Seem like I missed out on fabs golden age
There was lots of friendly joking and slagging amongst a big group of people. There where always some sort of profile pic challenge that had a good take up. People seem not to take part as much. Ah I miss the fun as well.Myself and yourself were like brothers on the forum's having the craic.
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I don't think I know you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having been here myself a few years I've always wondered what were people's opinions on the site from when you joined versus now?
I myself have noticed a huge change since joining with lots of new features but do find that lots of members I knew have left.
I thought u were banned lol!!!"
The admin are lovely people and let me back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years fab has gone through a few phases of great craic on the forums to less craic on the forum.
I miss a few of the members that have left that I used to have great craic with. Luckily enough I'm still mates with them off of fab
Ive only started posting here in the last month or so. What has changed tge conversation topics? The comments? Are people just more sensitive now? Seem like I missed out on fabs golden age
There was lots of friendly joking and slagging amongst a big group of people. There where always some sort of profile pic challenge that had a good take up. People seem not to take part as much. Ah I miss the fun as well.Myself and yourself were like brothers on the forum's having the craic.
I don't think I know you? "
Ah go away out of that sure me and you used to be like Siamese twins on the forum's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been here myself a few years I've always wondered what were people's opinions on the site from when you joined versus now?
I myself have noticed a huge change since joining with lots of new features but do find that lots of members I knew have left.
I thought u were banned lol!!!
The admin are lovely people and let me back "
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Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??.. "
Totally naive... |
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??..
Totally naive... "
.maybe you could teach me in the wiley ways of fab.. |
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??.. "
Ah if you ignore the minority it's not a bad Aul place |
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??..
Ah if you ignore the minority it's not a bad Aul place"
I would be more inclined to ignore the majority.But then again I'm no king. |
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??..
Ah if you ignore the minority it's not a bad Aul place I would be more inclined to ignore the majority.But then again I'm no king."
Keep stirring |
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"Im here ages...when i joined and took a while to get to grips with the place i thought it would be full of liberal easy going people with a different view of morality and casual relationships that has been indoctrined into us in ireland for years...
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..naive wasnt I ??..
Ah if you ignore the minority it's not a bad Aul place I would be more inclined to ignore the majority.But then again I'm no king.
Keep stirring "
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