Not to paint with a broad brush but when a guy says, “I’m new here” i can almost predict how it’s going to go. Told today it wasn’t rude to not read a profile before contacting, it was in fact the people with long profiles that were the rude ones. |
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"Not to paint with a broad brush but when a guy says, “I’m new here” i can almost predict how it’s going to go. Told today it wasn’t rude to not read a profile before contacting, it was in fact the people with long profiles that were the rude ones."
We have at the top of our profile that cold friend request = insta-block and we still get loads, hence the extensive list.. if you cant be arsed reading our prifile then you're not the type of person we wanna meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me. |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me. "
Completely off topic....saw your name there and immediately thought of the harp ad....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me.
Completely off topic....saw your name there and immediately thought of the harp ad.... "
Lol she was my inspiration. And I've never drank a beer or lager in my life |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
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"There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me.
Completely off topic....saw your name there and immediately thought of the harp ad....
Lol she was my inspiration. And I've never drank a beer or lager in my life "
 well you def werent missing anything with the harp...its a cross between diesel and paint stripper |
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"There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me.
Completely off topic....saw your name there and immediately thought of the harp ad....
Lol she was my inspiration. And I've never drank a beer or lager in my life "
Ah its the way she might look at you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are 11 on mine. Ten of those are people who blocked me so I counter blocked. The other is an ass who keeps deleting and returning just to hassle me.
Completely off topic....saw your name there and immediately thought of the harp ad....
Lol she was my inspiration. And I've never drank a beer or lager in my life Ah its the way she might look at you."
Lol people do say I've got a way of looking at them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"34 men
3 couples
I can see why.
Dont like blocking
But when people cant take no for answer and become abusive in mails
It has to be done unfortally"
That it does as it's the same for me |
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"34 men
3 couples
I can see why.
Dont like blocking
But when people cant take no for answer and become abusive in mails
It has to be done unfortally
That it does as it's the same for me"
I can’t inagine what lads would say to result in getting blocked. You would have to be a right prick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies and couples, how many are in your block list? I’ve had a few very rude and aggressive non verified men today."
Just ignore them and use your filters to block unverified people. |
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"181 profile is 4 weeks old
Ah here. Do you just get abuse all day long?"
Not usually abusive but they are a straight block .
if someone messages me 3 to 5 times in a row and I’ve not answered them I will block them .
If I’ve already said I’m not interested , if they post a status that’s abusive to someone else or women in general or just constant moaning ones . If they are abusive to someone on the forums .
Not really the sort of people I’d like to meet so I just use the block bottom as an additional filter. |
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"181 profile is 4 weeks old
Ah here. Do you just get abuse all day long?
Not usually abusive but they are a straight block .
if someone messages me 3 to 5 times in a row and I’ve not answered them I will block them .
If I’ve already said I’m not interested , if they post a status that’s abusive to someone else or women in general or just constant moaning ones . If they are abusive to someone on the forums .
Not really the sort of people I’d like to meet so I just use the block bottom as an additional filter. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not to paint with a broad brush but when a guy says, “I’m new here” i can almost predict how it’s going to go. Told today it wasn’t rude to not read a profile before contacting, it was in fact the people with long profiles that were the rude ones."
We feel your pain. We had a guy message us to tell us that our profile was way too long and it is just stupid and no way was he going to read such a long profile when he just wants to fuck C's whore ass, she is a slut if she is on this site so why should he have to go to any effort. Those were his words. Not ours.
Had another guy sent us a load of cock pics then when we told him we weren't interested because he clearly hadn't read our profile he told us to catch ourselves on, said that nobody is going to read our book of a profile and we are clearly fall of ourselves.
These are just two examples of many.
So far out block list is at 347. We used to try and be nice when we first joined by answering everyone but now we just have absolutely zero tolerance for bullshit on here. |
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"Not to paint with a broad brush but when a guy says, “I’m new here” i can almost predict how it’s going to go. Told today it wasn’t rude to not read a profile before contacting, it was in fact the people with long profiles that were the rude ones.
We feel your pain. We had a guy message us to tell us that our profile was way too long and it is just stupid and no way was he going to read such a long profile when he just wants to fuck C's whore ass, she is a slut if she is on this site so why should he have to go to any effort. Those were his words. Not ours.
Had another guy sent us a load of cock pics then when we told him we weren't interested because he clearly hadn't read our profile he told us to catch ourselves on, said that nobody is going to read our book of a profile and we are clearly fall of ourselves.
These are just two examples of many.
So far out block list is at 347. We used to try and be nice when we first joined by answering everyone but now we just have absolutely zero tolerance for bullshit on here."
Maybe put a warning at the start for someone to grab a coffee before begginning the profile read..... it is nicely sectioned for those like me with terrible attention spans |
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By *itenurse69Couple
over a year ago
Fermanagh/ Monaghan, |
"Not to paint with a broad brush but when a guy says, “I’m new here” i can almost predict how it’s going to go. Told today it wasn’t rude to not read a profile before contacting, it was in fact the people with long profiles that were the rude ones."
Blocked straight away if i got that repy as well babes.
So far only 1 on list. Filters are working great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only 5 on ours, not a big fan of blocking would rather put a note on their profile instead.
3 of our 5 were either abusive on forums or pm the other 2 were people who have blocked us so we just blocked back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads on mine, anyone who has sent me message I wasn’t happy with, or seems a bit of a twat on the forums, I think the block option is great, life’s too short for having to deal with people u don’t want to deal with especially on here which is supposed to be for fun |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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We have 12 on ours , and thats after over 5 years on here , the filters work great , we dont get much mail so we always reply to every mail politely , even if its a single guy looking to meet , we tell them thanks for the mail , we not looking for guys at the moment , ud be supprised at the amount on replys we get saying they really apprciate the nice response as alot will are negative to them ,it doesnt cost anything to be nice , so far we havent gotten any bad negative messages 
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over a year ago
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"Ladies and couples, how many are in your block list? I’ve had a few very rude and aggressive non verified men today."
Loads,and for very different reasons |
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"We have 12 on ours , and thats after over 5 years on here , the filters work great , we dont get much mail so we always reply to every mail politely , even if its a single guy looking to meet , we tell them thanks for the mail , we not looking for guys at the moment , ud be supprised at the amount on replys we get saying they really apprciate the nice response as alot will are negative to them ,it doesnt cost anything to be nice , so far we havent gotten any bad negative messages
Mrs crazy "
I have lots of filters on to so I dont get bombarded with messages from guys that don't suit especially age wise.
I also reply to most in a nice way which is appreciated by the men who usually wish me all the best etc.
The persistant ones who just can't see that I wont meet them get blocked. Overall I rarely if ever get nasty messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Four:
Two for status update spam from people who I don't fit their profile for meets anyway.
Then a couple and a woman, who rather than not replying or saying no thanks to my message, decided to call me various names.*
*not fun dirty ones |
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over a year ago
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"Ladies and couples, how many are in your block list? I’ve had a few very rude and aggressive non verified men today."
“aggressive non verified men today”
Who’ll be back tomorrow with new profiles  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"We have 12 on ours , and thats after over 5 years on here , the filters work great , we dont get much mail so we always reply to every mail politely , even if its a single guy looking to meet , we tell them thanks for the mail , we not looking for guys at the moment , ud be supprised at the amount on replys we get saying they really apprciate the nice response as alot will are negative to them ,it doesnt cost anything to be nice , so far we havent gotten any bad negative messages
Mrs crazy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've one person blocked because of repeat texting to the point I felt weirded out. I seem to be blocked by a few though even though I don't even text anyone |
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"I've one person blocked because of repeat texting to the point I felt weirded out. I seem to be blocked by a few though even though I don't even text anyone "
waste of time attempting to get meets on here |
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over a year ago
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"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing "
If someone blocks a gender will the "you can't view this profile for one of three reasons etc..." pop up? Otherwise I can't see why some people would block me personally considering I don't even really chat to people here. I noticed a few profiles would show that for me anyway. |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve too many to count I have rude, crude, non readers and also since the new function to be able to see who you verified I’ve gone and blocked the ones I have verified who never verified me back not getting one if they don’t give it back "
I have given two veris and wasnt given one back might have to do thiz |
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"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing
If someone blocks a gender will the "you can't view this profile for one of three reasons etc..." pop up? Otherwise I can't see why some people would block me personally considering I don't even really chat to people here. I noticed a few profiles would show that for me anyway. "
If you are blocked you can’t view a profile at all. Possibly didn’t like something you said on the forum or a status or something. I don’t have you blocked |
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"I’ve too many to count I have rude, crude, non readers and also since the new function to be able to see who you verified I’ve gone and blocked the ones I have verified who never verified me back not getting one if they don’t give it back
I have given two veris and wasnt given one back might have to do thiz"
Don’t see why they should have it! |
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"I’ve too many to count I have rude, crude, non readers and also since the new function to be able to see who you verified I’ve gone and blocked the ones I have verified who never verified me back not getting one if they don’t give it back
I have given two veris and wasnt given one back might have to do thiz
Don’t see why they should have it! "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing it's often been said people block when they just don't like a profile "
So what? It's their right to block whoever they want to block for whatever reason or even no reason.  |
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"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing it's often been said people block when they just don't like a profile
So what? It's their right to block whoever they want to block for whatever reason or even no reason. "
He was just saying you don't have to be a dickhead to get blocked. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing it's often been said people block when they just don't like a profile
So what? It's their right to block whoever they want to block for whatever reason or even no reason.
He was just saying you don't have to be a dickhead to get blocked. "
Ah okay, get it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block a profile if 1 I've seen forum posts etc that I don't agree with etc and secondly if I have sent a message and it gets deleted or read and no reply it stops me from sending one again in future |
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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago
Dublin 15 |
"Doubt that you don’t get blocked just for breathing it's often been said people block when they just don't like a profile
So what? It's their right to block whoever they want to block for whatever reason or
even no reason. "
of course it's everybody's right to block but common sense should prevail otherwise it's just ridiculous |
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Haven’t blocked anyone in months .... mostly just rudies..... but I also blocked a couple that seemed odd and I got a bad feeling about them.
Like they might try and pull a stroke on you, so I blocked them.
Must remember to block the serial friend requesters |
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"I’ve too many to count I have rude, crude, non readers and also since the new function to be able to see who you verified I’ve gone and blocked the ones I have verified who never verified me back not getting one if they don’t give it back
I have given two veris and wasnt given one back might have to do thiz
Don’t see why they should have it! "
Block no2 done lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a few. A couple are on a few times as they tried to get round being blocked first time, some for other reasons but most are there as a filter so as not to waste time again messaging them. |
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