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What am I doing wrong advice please anyone ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on here a while. I've messaged people and send a face pic with each message. Now either I'm an ugly fucker lol r what I'm saying in my messages is wrong. get loads of my messages read just no replys help please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here a while. I've messaged people and send a face pic with each message. Now either I'm an ugly fucker lol r what I'm saying in my messages is wrong. get loads of my messages read just no replys help please "
A few public pics might help even of you are sending them with messages having some good ones on public view helps.
Maybe get involved in the forums a bit so people can see your personality come across. Cant comment on what yiur saying in your messages but so long its not "wanna fuck" with a cock pic its just about finding someone you click with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I try to be respectful maybe I'm being to respectful lol. And will put up some public pics in a lol bit. I don't want put face up ha you never know who's on this. All ready came across my uncle's wife lol |
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"I have been on here a while. I've messaged people and send a face pic with each message. Now either I'm an ugly fucker lol r what I'm saying in my messages is wrong. get loads of my messages read just no replys help please "
sites a mine field lad. don't try is my motto and then something might happen for you  |
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"Tell me bout it. And the worst about it is I couldn't be more genuine "
numbers play a huge part. about 10:1 ratio men to women. add to that alot of men would climb up on anything so are probably mailing every woman looking for a shag. add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site. add to that again women get lots of mail and probably bulk delete alot so don't even see your mail. add to that again location is an issue to most. I could go on but dont need to, you get the picture  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here a while. I've messaged people and send a face pic with each message. Now either I'm an ugly fucker lol r what I'm saying in my messages is wrong. get loads of my messages read just no replys help please "
Put up decent photos for a start.. 1 slouched in couch doesn't do anything forya!. That n no public photos.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mistress breda holy mother of god. U shouldn't be allowed to do that to men lol. I wonder would any ladies r couples be interested in meeting lads like me that can't catch a break even for a drink r something r is that never going to happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ha join the club. I'm beginning to wonder would i get more of a reaction being less respectful a dick pic and wanna fun at least can't get any worse anyway |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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" add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site."
You don't normally post something I'd totally agree with, but I can't fault you for what you've said. In saying that I'm not sure what you mean by the above. Can you elaborate? |
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" add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site.
You don't normally post something I'd totally agree with, but I can't fault you for what you've said. In saying that I'm not sure what you mean by the above. Can you elaborate?"
alot of men see it as getting their willies wet, an easy lay, get rid of the built up horniness. women on the other hand imo want that connection, basically get to know somebody very well first before anything happens. to me the word sex just has different meaning to men and women and before anyone starts whining and moaning as per usual, I don't expect any man to openly admit to this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I don't send a dick pic unless asked and always very respectful even when people message back and say not there type I thank them for reply and stuff. Now I'm wondering if i just forget face pic send a dick pick and go on about what I would do to them if given d chance maybe get more of a reaction because at the moment I'm getting nothing back. |
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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago
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" add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site.
You don't normally post something I'd totally agree with, but I can't fault you for what you've said. In saying that I'm not sure what you mean by the above. Can you elaborate?alot of men see it as getting their willies wet, an easy lay, get rid of the built up horniness. women on the other hand imo want that connection, basically get to know somebody very well first before anything happens. to me the word sex just has different meaning to men and women and before anyone starts whining and moaning as per usual, I don't expect any man to openly admit to this "
I'll admit to it. It does have a different meaning to some men. The type that aren't generally emotionally mature. I was like that myself once. But then I copped myself on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha join the club. I'm beginning to wonder would i get more of a reaction being less respectful a dick pic and wanna fun at least can't get any worse anyway "
Defo no cock pics.just carry on being yourself and hopefully you'll get lucky soon.maybe put some of your pics public
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the guys are kidding about the Sky remote but genuinely if there’s a pic comparing cocks to any household item I immediately think ‘nope’! 
Get yourself to some socials OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is only my advice, but I would layout your profile a little better.
1.don’t say that you aren’t a time waster like most guys.
2. Use appropriate English and grammar.
3. Act confident and make it seem like this is just for fun and that you aren’t desperate. (Have a look at how other successful guys have written about themselves).
4. Take good pictures. On this site first impressions are everything!!!!!
And lastly, everyone has different taste, this does not mean you are ugly. Be patient.
P.s I bulk delete messages too from single guys but it’s hard to keep track. And a lot of the time, we aren’t looking for them. I’ll wink at them if I’m interested.
Best of luck x
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" add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site.
You don't normally post something I'd totally agree with, but I can't fault you for what you've said. In saying that I'm not sure what you mean by the above. Can you elaborate?alot of men see it as getting their willies wet, an easy lay, get rid of the built up horniness. women on the other hand imo want that connection, basically get to know somebody very well first before anything happens. to me the word sex just has different meaning to men and women and before anyone starts whining and moaning as per usual, I don't expect any man to openly admit to this
I'll admit to it. It does have a different meaning to some men. The type that aren't generally emotionally mature. I was like that myself once. But then I copped myself on. "
I think emotion should be completely let out of no strings. to me, looking for someone you get very comfortable around and really enjoy one another's company strings become involved eventually on one party or another. I'll give you an e.g.. I have a big fantasy to fuck an older married woman. it's pure no strings fantasy not something I want to keep going on a reg basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" add to that again that women and men in high majority have a total different interpretation of this site.
You don't normally post something I'd totally agree with, but I can't fault you for what you've said. In saying that I'm not sure what you mean by the above. Can you elaborate?alot of men see it as getting their willies wet, an easy lay, get rid of the built up horniness. women on the other hand imo want that connection, basically get to know somebody very well first before anything happens. to me the word sex just has different meaning to men and women and before anyone starts whining and moaning as per usual, I don't expect any man to openly admit to this
I'll admit to it. It does have a different meaning to some men. The type that aren't generally emotionally mature. I was like that myself once. But then I copped myself on. I think emotion should be completely let out of no strings. to me, looking for someone you get very comfortable around and really enjoy one another's company strings become involved eventually on one party or another. I'll give you an e.g.. I have a big fantasy to fuck an older married woman. it's pure no strings fantasy not something I want to keep going on a reg basis. "
I totally get what your saying as I am one of them ladies. Nsa to me doesn't meant a guy sends a pic. I like it and we meet. For one that guy could be horrible. So I prefer to chat and get a feeling from someone. For me it's not just oh looks good, let's go fuck. God knows I know many really hunky looking guys bit they open there mouth and it's a turn off. So yah for me I need some sort of connection and trust before I meet because God knows who's on the other end of these messages  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get what ye are saying. I say in my messages that I have no problem with nsa fun and if we click or the spark is there, i would like for it to become a regular thing. I understand that not every person might want that but I would prefer to have some regular friends to be totally comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mistress breda holy mother of god. U shouldn't be allowed to do that to men lol. I wonder would any ladies r couples be interested in meeting lads like me that can't catch a break even for a drink r something r is that never going to happen "
Well you asked the question and we all gave you answers and help...and what have you done with our help??.. You havnt even changed your pics..
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