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Hey guys.
So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla 
We can’t wait.
Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)
I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?
And what does the male wear?
Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.
Thanks in advance x |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys.
So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla
We can’t wait.
Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)
I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?
And what does the male wear?
Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.
Thanks in advance x"
male half dress smartly shirt shoes . Ladies Wear what you would wear on a normal night out with something for play underneath can’t go wrong really enjoy xx |
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over a year ago
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"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath  "
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one "
Yes there is, with a shower and lockers  |
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"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one
Yes there is, with a shower and lockers "
Wow fancy |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys.
So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla
We can’t wait.
Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)
I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?
And what does the male wear?
Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.
Thanks in advance x"
Our two latest pics in our public gallery is what we wore there on their "Go Green party" on the 18th of March .
We are fully aware that nothing is green   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wear what you're comfortable in to start with.
Bring other items that you think you might wear.
There are changing facilities upstairs.
We have seen jeans, trousers on men and everything on the ladies.
Don't stress to much over what to wear, focus on enjoying the venue. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"Hey guys.
So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla
We can’t wait.
Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)
I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?
And what does the male wear?
Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.
Thanks in advance x
Our two latest pics in our public gallery is what we wore there on their "Go Green party" on the 18th of March .
We are fully aware that nothing is green "
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one
Yes there is, with a shower and lockers
Wow fancy "
Yes you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one "
Yes there is a small changing room with small lockers but the lockers get used up very quickly. |
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"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath
Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one
Yes there is, with a shower and lockers
Wow fancy
Yes you are "
I have my moments xx |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath "
Thats what i did lol oh and ny wife had sexy clothes underneath her sexy outfit too
Dont be shy getting changed upstairs..tbh no one bothers you othrr than a wee compliment or two...all a bit of fun and a new experiance all the best and have fun...its a night out |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy."
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure
;-)"
Who doesnt^^^^ ooops |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure"
nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude |
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude"
a shirt just gets crumpled when it's been cast on the floor a couple of times anyway |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude"
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
a shirt just gets crumpled when it's been cast on the floor a couple of times anyway"
The shirt gets stowed awsy in a locker sure folded neatly off course lol |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud "
ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing... |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing... "
Modesty is a virtue there handsome lol i havent had complaints myself..but thats not the question....its a matter of the occasion mate...you wouldnt get into some joints in a t shirt and jeans lol nowt wrong with jeans...but t shirt...come on lol |
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud "
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort "
Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire all is cool |
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort
Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire all is cool "
You say dress up more thou .. I've seen guys in what they think is smartly dressed and look like fuck all standing beside a guy in nice jeans and a t-shirt ... It's personal choice but I think it's not the clothes its the person in them |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort
Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire all is cool "
i have magnificent hair, i dont need to wear anything other than a t shirt to look cool as fook, and besides who do i need impress, i have Gemma and shes a fookin goddess and she likes me in a t shirt so thats enough for me. |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
Newtownabbey |
"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort
Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire all is cool i have magnificent hair, i dont need to wear anything other than a t shirt to look cool as fook, and besides who do i need impress, i have Gemma and shes a fookin goddess and she likes me in a t shirt so thats enough for me."
Btw im married too so i hear ya |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
I always wear a sexy dress and then use the changing area to slip into something shexier and pull on my thigh highs. Lots of men wear jeans and t-shirts or jeans and shirts. It's a casual environment so no need to worry. Come say hi when you get there xx |
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"I always wear a sexy dress and then use the changing area to slip into something shexier and pull on my thigh highs. Lots of men wear jeans and t-shirts or jeans and shirts. It's a casual environment so no need to worry. Come say hi when you get there xx"
likewise, Incase we are shy :P
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing... "
I dunno, maybe a mankini on a few of would suffice lol can you imagine!  |
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing...
I dunno, maybe a mankini on a few of would suffice lol can you imagine! "
Only speaking about myself but personally I have found that the sight of me in a mankini has made ladies in the vicinity much lighter, after they've lost their lunch  |
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Some nice underwear and a dress to slip in and out of!You may pop in and out of the bar area so its nice to be wearing something easy to take on and off. Guys usually wear a shirt and jeans. Its up to yourself really. |
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"Hey guys.
So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla
We can’t wait.
Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)
I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?
And what does the male wear?
Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.
Thanks in advance x"
So glad you asked this, we're going on the 7th and we're wondering the same .. never thought to bring a change |
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"Downstairs 
Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust
Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all
You know how shy I am 
Suuuuuure "
See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings  |
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"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.
I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.
Nice pics
Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort surenothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude
Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud
Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort "
It’s as much effort putting on a shirt as a t-shirt lol in my opinion t shirts are better on some people. Wearing a shirt is not making more of an effort |
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"Downstairs
Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust
Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all
You know how shy I am
Suuuuuure
See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings "
Clothes hurt my skin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Downstairs
Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust
Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all
You know how shy I am
Suuuuuure
See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings
Clothes hurt my skin "
They burn  |
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"Downstairs
Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust
Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all
You know how shy I am
Suuuuuure
See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings
Clothes hurt my skin "
Oh yeah? Must be all that special cream making you super sensitive |
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"Downstairs
Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust
Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all
You know how shy I am
Suuuuuure
See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings
Clothes hurt my skin
Oh yeah? Must be all that special cream making you super sensitive "
It must be I'm a sensitive soul me |
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