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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ever look back at the people you fucked and think, sweet jesus, what was I thinking?
I look at whole relationships I've had and just can't believe I did that.
I'm quite sure these men feel the same about me, I'm not a nut in that respect.
Just the absolute self shame of fucking some absolute eejit, I look back at my past me and think- what a knob you were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohhh all the time!!!
I went through a phase of meeting really low on the scale guys.. if I googled their name and they had made the newspapers.. I was all over that 
But yeah.. serious shame lol  |
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There are a few. All a long time ago, when I was early 20's, so young, dumb and full of beer goggles and a second brain that seemed to be in charge 90% of the time.
Ah sure, we learn by our mistakes, I guess, which means that some of us are experts now |
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"There are a few. All a long time ago, when I was early 20's, so young, dumb and full of beer goggles and a second brain that seemed to be in charge 90% of the time.
Ah sure, we learn by our mistakes, I guess, which means that some of us are experts now "
I should say, in fairness, there's quite possibly even more that are looking back and thinking of me in the same light. I did score above my league on a few occasions. Just for balance and fairness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far for me I'd say no, even if I don't like them or fell out with them (I have with some) I don't really regret it and hope that continues haha "
Very diplomatic of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So far for me I'd say no, even if I don't like them or fell out with them (I have with some) I don't really regret it and hope that continues haha
Very diplomatic of you "
I don't talk to two and blocked them off everything I could haha but it wasn't nasty. I felt there wasn't a mutual respect so didn't want to interact but even at that i have to admit they're impressive girls and there was never drama even when I blocked them and I definitely don't regret the sex so maybe not too diplomatic haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure we're all allowed a few mistakes when we're young, it's when you're 40 or 50 plus and still making the same mistakes that you need to take a good look at yourself... |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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There's been one or two relationships that I'm sure I had an undiagnosed head injury as for women I just fucked most of the 90s and 00s where a bit of a blur so I can't remember a lot of them but d*unk laid is a liability that's why I don't get d*unk much anymore  |
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Oh all the time, and still woe the ones that got away  but in reflection the weirder the woman the better or freakier the sex is what I found! Just can't find anything else we had in common other than the sex and some of my ex's should be in an institution!
But all said I wouldn't change any of it as it made me the person I am today. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Sure there's some I could have skipped or certainly not worth mentioning or repeating but there's no regrets or even shame, no pas de tout, I regard it as part of my journey, part of the learning curve to bring me up to this very day, contributions to a big puzzle of who and how I am, where I stand and in which direction I will heading to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly!! What's done is done! I've nó regrets either and this is the way it will stay everything Was just right at that moment in time! Maybe wouldn't be right now but then yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure there's some I could have skipped or certainly not worth mentioning or repeating but there's no regrets or even shame, no pas de tout, I regard it as part of my journey, part of the learning curve to bring me up to this very day, contributions to a big puzzle of who and how I am, where I stand and in which direction I will heading to. "
I believe you learn something from every experience, even if just "don't do that again" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.
Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.  So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking. |
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"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.
Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers. So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking. "
There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.
Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers. So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.
There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!"
I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable
The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.
Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences.  |
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"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.
Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers. So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.
There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!
I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable
The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.
Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences. "
The mask only slips cause they are worried about getting caught out
Face to face meets are how to Aus someone out that may have sparked an interest. But for vanilla folks that may be on a premise that it's leading somewhere into a relationship! That's when things start getting complicated! Life is complicated enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.
Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers. So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.
There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!
I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable
The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.
Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences.
The mask only slips cause they are worried about getting caught out
Face to face meets are how to Aus someone out that may have sparked an interest. But for vanilla folks that may be on a premise that it's leading somewhere into a relationship! That's when things start getting complicated! Life is complicated enough!"
Fab is definitely not the place to actively seek a relationship in my opinion. In saying that we are human and sometimes feelings creep in that we have no control over. The majority of people here are able to handle those situations extremely well I think and then move on.
As for the mask slipping, it's usually because the pretence is exhausting or they can't remember the lies they've spun
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know they weren’t all perfect, but they felt great at the time, and I hope the lovely ladies involved at the time felt the same way, as said earlier, it’s all part of the journey... and let’s hope it keeps getting better |
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