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over a year ago
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"Why has this site became so hard to get a meet on even social meets are hard to get "
You just got to grind it out my dude! Lol it’s tough but eventually you’ll bump into someone who you click with or just wants you to fuck |
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"Well if u look at the amount online at the moment.49 women online to 300 men online.
There is yer problem right there more men to women  "
yes i see that is a problem i try by sending lots of info and pics in my first message but just so hard to get anywhere |
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"Why has this site became so hard to get a meet on even social meets are hard to get
You just got to grind it out my dude! Lol it’s tough but eventually you’ll bump into someone who you click with or just wants you to fuck "
yea i have been trying for ages hopefully will get a meet at some stage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if u look at the amount online at the moment.49 women online to 300 men online.
There is yer problem right there more men to women yes i see that is a problem i try by sending lots of info and pics in my first message but just so hard to get anywhere"
Be patient enjoy the chats and forum banter.it will come  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the guys on here until they realise that the ladies are here for their own pleasure and not to pleasure the guys will never get a meet . "
A adrian give new guys a chance be yourself be polite and it will happen for u |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the guys on here until they realise that the ladies are here for their own pleasure and not to pleasure the guys will never get a meet . "
Who's pleasure are you here for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do so many guys on here not realise the dynamics of supply and demand on a swing site.
There is probably 8/10 men for every female profile here.
Within the female profiles that are here there are many that are fake/guys posing as female. In turn the amount of actual genuine female accounts is a fair bit less than site figures would suggest.
Having known quite a few ladies on this site over the years most of them would say the vast majority of mails received from guys are woeful.
Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
Out of every 100 guys that mail ... I wonder what is the % of mails that are articulate and intrigue the lady to mail back. I'd imagine it's less than 10%.
It isn't the ladies fault many of the gents don't stand out from the crowd. For those that do however... kudos to you and keep it up ! |
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"Why do so many guys on here not realise the dynamics of supply and demand on a swing site.
There is probably 8/10 men for every female profile here.
Within the female profiles that are here there are many that are fake/guys posing as female. In turn the amount of actual genuine female accounts is a fair bit less than site figures would suggest.
Having known quite a few ladies on this site over the years most of them would say the vast majority of mails received from guys are woeful.
Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
Out of every 100 guys that mail ... I wonder what is the % of mails that are articulate and intrigue the lady to mail back. I'd imagine it's less than 10%.
It isn't the ladies fault many of the gents don't stand out from the crowd. For those that do however... kudos to you and keep it up !"
Very well said Kate (as always)...
I couldn’t have articulated it better myself and it is very very true. ..
I'm quite clear on my profile of what my preferences are but also that I'm not meeting at the moment but unfortunately the majority of the time it's ignored so I've taken to just deleting mail without responding... However I will interact with anyone that I feel meets my criteria and has made the effort.... |
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"Why do so many guys on here not realise the dynamics of supply and demand on a swing site.
There is probably 8/10 men for every female profile here.
Within the female profiles that are here there are many that are fake/guys posing as female. In turn the amount of actual genuine female accounts is a fair bit less than site figures would suggest.
Having known quite a few ladies on this site over the years most of them would say the vast majority of mails received from guys are woeful.
Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
Out of every 100 guys that mail ... I wonder what is the % of mails that are articulate and intrigue the lady to mail back. I'd imagine it's less than 10%.
It isn't the ladies fault many of the gents don't stand out from the crowd. For those that do however... kudos to you and keep it up !"
Just perfect!!! Well said!
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"Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun. "
I invited 2 girls to join this site. One had a problem with her page and contacted support/admin, got no reply and hasnt been back since.
The other met about 20 profiles, guys/couples, then left.
But it's not fair to say that the verified guys act better than the non verified.
They both act the same, the verified guys just add "Well experienced and verified guy here" to their message then produce the same gruel.
But it works, even though I felt like killing a cow, making a boat out of its skin, and paddling off to america due to the second hand embarrassment of hearing her read some of the messages, it worked and she met them.
Being polite and respectful and a stand out profile is all good and everything, but all it will get you is maybe being the 10th or 15th person she meets. That's if she even has the confidence to talk to them to begin with. |
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"Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
I invited 2 girls to join this site. One had a problem with her page and contacted support/admin, got no reply and hasnt been back since.
The other met about 20 profiles, guys/couples, then left.
But it's not fair to say that the verified guys act better than the non verified.
They both act the same, the verified guys just add "Well experienced and verified guy here" to their message then produce the same gruel.
But it works, even though I felt like killing a cow, making a boat out of its skin, and paddling off to america due to the second hand embarrassment of hearing her read some of the messages, it worked and she met them.
Being polite and respectful and a stand out profile is all good and everything, but all it will get you is maybe being the 10th or 15th person she meets. That's if she even has the confidence to talk to them to begin with."
Are you trying to speak for all women on this site or is this in reference to your friend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
I invited 2 girls to join this site. One had a problem with her page and contacted support/admin, got no reply and hasnt been back since.
The other met about 20 profiles, guys/couples, then left.
But it's not fair to say that the verified guys act better than the non verified.
They both act the same, the verified guys just add "Well experienced and verified guy here" to their message then produce the same gruel.
But it works, even though I felt like killing a cow, making a boat out of its skin, and paddling off to america due to the second hand embarrassment of hearing her read some of the messages, it worked and she met them.
Being polite and respectful and a stand out profile is all good and everything, but all it will get you is maybe being the 10th or 15th person she meets. That's if she even has the confidence to talk to them to begin with."
So you are disagreeing with me is it or am I missing something.
Being a respectful guy who's fun and not pushy and doesn't talk shit or send unsolicited dick pics is not a guaranteento meeting wpmen here. It does however highly increase the chances than if the same individual were to say "wanna fuck" "here's me dick" etc
Women are under obligation to meet regardless of what is said. If a guy sells himself as he only wants a cheap fuck with no effort one liner I'd be very surprised if he had any sort of sizeable success.
Attraction and chemistry also come into a lot but the fundamentals are neing 1 out of 100/200/300 who send the same mail to a woman identifies that person as just another guy who doesn't have the respect to compose a proper mail.
If there is no respect in the mail sent how can a girl expect any respect in the bedroom.
Some human psychology is quite difficult to understand and counter intuitive. It isn't hard to understand why many men don't get meets her though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dick pics or wanna fuck ? Sent in their hundreds to any girl that joins up even without a pic posted. There is a stench of desperation/being a creep if a girl knows a guy will fuck her just to get his dick wet.
Guys who do get meets by and large go the extra mile in their profile. Don't send cock pics unless asked. Come across as fun guys that would be good to hook up for discreet fun.
I invited 2 girls to join this site. One had a problem with her page and contacted support/admin, got no reply and hasnt been back since.
The other met about 20 profiles, guys/couples, then left.
But it's not fair to say that the verified guys act better than the non verified.
They both act the same, the verified guys just add "Well experienced and verified guy here" to their message then produce the same gruel.
But it works, even though I felt like killing a cow, making a boat out of its skin, and paddling off to america due to the second hand embarrassment of hearing her read some of the messages, it worked and she met them.
Being polite and respectful and a stand out profile is all good and everything, but all it will get you is maybe being the 10th or 15th person she meets. That's if she even has the confidence to talk to them to begin with.
So you are disagreeing with me is it or am I missing something.
Being a respectful guy who's fun and not pushy and doesn't talk shit or send unsolicited dick pics is not a guaranteento meeting wpmen here. It does however highly increase the chances than if the same individual were to say "wanna fuck" "here's me dick" etc
Women are under obligation to meet regardless of what is said. If a guy sells himself as he only wants a cheap fuck with no effort one liner I'd be very surprised if he had any sort of sizeable success.
Attraction and chemistry also come into a lot but the fundamentals are neing 1 out of 100/200/300 who send the same mail to a woman identifies that person as just another guy who doesn't have the respect to compose a proper mail.
If there is no respect in the mail sent how can a girl expect any respect in the bedroom.
Some human psychology is quite difficult to understand and counter intuitive. It isn't hard to understand why many men don't get meets her though. "
Very well said.
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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People seem to think that getting your first verification is going to open the flood gates and you'll be knee deep in pussy (kinky  ) but it's just as hard to get you 2nd 3rd... etc are just as hard to get |
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"People seem to think that getting your first verification is going to open the flood gates and you'll be knee deep in pussy (kinky ) but it's just as hard to get you 2nd 3rd... etc are just as hard to get "
This made me laugh. Yes, I think you're right about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get that there are a lot less women on here than men, and that some guys behave horribly online so I can't be annoyed when messages go unread. at the same time it's pretty disheartening to see almost all of your sent mail unopened.
to be honest I think it would be an interesting experiment if women were the ones to open the conversation |
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Just a thought... but you might want to take the bit about wanting to have sex with a woman from every country off your profile.... there aesthetic currently 196 recognised countries in the world... If a guy told me he was here to sleep with 200 women I'd run a mile |
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"Just a thought... but you might want to take the bit about wanting to have sex with a woman from every country off your profile.... there aesthetic currently 196 recognised countries in the world... If a guy told me he was here to sleep with 200 women I'd run a mile"
thanks playd8 i appreciate the input |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks everyone for your replies i try to be as polite and upfront in my messages but honestly I am not really the best at starting a convo with ladies"
Don't be so hard on yourself, tell us about your qualities and not your faults, trust us we all have faults too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if u look at the amount online at the moment.49 women online to 300 men online.
There is yer problem right there more men to women yes i see that is a problem i try by sending lots of info and pics in my first message but just so hard to get anywhere"
Think of it this way, if you went to a pub and there was 300 guys and only 50 odd women, and all the guys were on the pull, what would you do to try stand out? Going around telling every woman she has lovely shoes while every other lad is shouting stuff at them too will not work!
Then would you get frustrated that you went home on your own?
I reckon just be yourself and it'll happen eventually! |
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"Thanks everyone for your replies i try to be as polite and upfront in my messages but honestly I am not really the best at starting a convo with ladies
Don't be so hard on yourself, tell us about your qualities and not your faults, trust us we all have faults too"
thanks very much makes me feel more happy and normal i guess i am just low in confidence |
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