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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me " . Did he have to use a white stick to get around by any chance? | |||
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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me " Not sure why you're as sexy as hell! | |||
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"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort " | |||
"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off " Don't take it personally! It's happened to me and it's embarressing so it must be as bad for them too. | |||
"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off " I was in a similar situation where medical intervention helped one guy but another guy I was dating just refused to go to the doctor... | |||
"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort " This is a ridiculously ill informed comment. ED can affect guys at all ages - not just over a certain age - and the prescription of mycoxaflopin certainty isn’t a 100% guarantee of success. | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this " And give it loads about how good they are... and then you meet them | |||
" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this " Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. | |||
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"Returned one in Limerick that was a mega comment and I hope lots of guys see it " I don't have ED btw people have had the odd PE problem though haha | |||
" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. " Yes of course your right , use be just my bad luck I only meet single guys ....and quickly discover why they are still single | |||
" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. " | |||
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"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort This is a ridiculously ill informed comment. ED can affect guys at all ages - not just over a certain age - and the prescription of mycoxaflopin certainty isn’t a 100% guarantee of success. " Humour....not a fan? | |||
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"Belfast d there's nothing sexier in a man that opens up and talks about issues like this and more, men are not robots just to be used for sex,even though it's fun, we are all human underneath the sexier exterior " Marry me A woman that doesn't just want to use me as a sex machine I think I am in love | |||
" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. Yes of course your right , use be just my bad luck I only meet single guys ....and quickly discover why they are still single " Very understanding comment on a well meaning thread. Can see why your still single too | |||
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"It’s still hard to open up for a lot of men As much as it’s hard for some women to break through and challenge the dinosaur men, there is now the opposing side where it’s hard for men to break through and challenge the years of stereotyping hard knocks men who are seen to be “real” men and laugh in the face of men who are much more emotionally intelligent" This is very true. I remember going through a bit spout of depression. I just wanted my bed all the time and when I was in work or in town etc... I was getting the urge to start crying all the time, it was wierd. I said nothing to anyone besides making jokes about it to friends. They knew I was a bit depressed but not to that level. No one did. Joking about it got some of the pressure off my back and eventually depression left me but I was going for walks that lasted hours, hitting the gym, listening to music, googling depression etc... Some might not get away so easy. I felt I couldn't talk about it but now I feel better I feel I can. Strange. | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said about talking therapy (I haven’t got personal experience but I have very close friends who swear by it) The biggest step to make is the first step and if this is talking to someone, anyone, friend, boss, doc, random stranger on a swinging website, this could be the best step someone makes If anyone reads this and is feeling like they can’t talk to anyone, just send a simple message to anyone Otherwise message Kinky Dee and chat about how you can’t get it up " And there was I thinking h were a caring soul u have just dammed kinky to tools of mail with limp cock pics | |||
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"I just hope that I have opened up a subject that can be spoken about, whatever about how I feel it must be torture for the guy and I just feel that guys,you are allowed to open up too,most women love that xx" You have and it's interesting to see the difference in some of the responses. We take from that what we can. I'd also like to not White Knight in any respect but say well done for raising it, as I don't recall a guy doing so. International Women's Day seems to have been extended | |||
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"Well done for taking the time to respond for your fellow mates xx it's important to speak up guys " Thanks. Yes it is important. Why not make the most of your fun with a little help from Dr Pfizer lol. | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? " Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL. But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly. | |||
"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? " First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. | |||
"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL. But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly." Good to know. Thanks for replying | |||
"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. " Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ " I think it's safe to say that most guys don't use it because it is prescribed - they use it because it's awesome haha | |||
"The way it is that you need to treat the cause before you can cure it so a guy might be an undiagnosed diabetic for example so best thing is be the real man and get it sorted, go to Dr for all thee horny babes out there xx" Spot on OP. Could be other factors yet to be diagnosed. Always refer to doctor | |||
"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ I think it's safe to say that most guys don't use it because it is prescribed - they use it because it's awesome haha" It really is amazing, I'm afraid to take anything, even pain killers haha I'm odd but my friend swore to me about viagra so I tried it one night and it was the best sex I ever had. I got a pain in my hips from thrusting I was going so long | |||
"I suspect some ED is to do with masturbating aggressively by hand. Women, even the most petite contortionists, aren't capable of exerting as much pressure on a penis as a man's hand. A woman's own hand is nowhere close to having that grip strength - and even female athletes in sports requiring hand grip aren't as strong as untrained males. When I slacked off I noticed the sensation increase, and the lips/interior of my sex toy prevented desensitization. TLDR; Go easy!" Sorry but in my opinion that has very little to do with ED. Stimulation starts in your brain and not in the grip of your hand and has eventually to do with the connection of your lower body, your brain and bodily functions. Also petite has nothing to do with tight. I'm certainly not an expert in this field but just applying a bit of logical thinking based on experience. Every man is different so is every woman. Not everyone needs a rough wank to cum. | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this " Don't forget the condom phobia ones | |||
"Or maybe try one of the generics, Mydixadrupin, Mydixnorizin, Dixafix, and of course, Ibenopokin. " | |||
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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me " Did you check to see had he a pulse Lol | |||
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"My problem is I can’t keep it down " | |||
"What happens if your husband has it and has been to the doctors, they prescribed him tablets but they no longer work. ?? this means I no longer have sex. " Hi Linda. Your husband seriously needs to go back to the doctor as there may be underlying problems. Bear in mind that an erection depends on blood flow. So ED can often be a symptom of something else. It's the 21st century and this can (should) be able to be sorted. If no joy with GP then go and see a Urologist. Best of luck with it. This is very tough on both of you x | |||
"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me " Lol my husband was the same | |||
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"Confession, you say.... This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... As I type this, I keep thinking of that "Jerry Maguire" film, and his MEMO, that fucks him over OK. Hope you're in no hurry. Here we go.... I suffer from PE and ED, and although I always knew why, and eventually after 10 years, seeked counselling treatment, it still hasn't ceased. One of my very first experiences involving intercourse with a woman, ended tramatically, and now it's constantly at the forefront of my mind. "You're coming home with me". When I hear those words I'm initially excited, but quickly my thoughts turn to anxiety and dread. As soon as I enter a bedroom with a woman, the 1st thought, the overwhelming thought, is the experience I had with a woman when I was 17. Because I was then in my sexual infancy regarding penetration, it has last left a deep mental scar, resulting an inability to get or maintain an erection, or premature ejaculation, which in turn, depression, and my inability to maintain a relationship. I initially joined fab because I have no confidence in being able to form and maintain a healthy monogamous sexual relationship, and hoped for "practice makes perfect". That casual encounters without emotional ties, would allow my brain and body to break the negative cycle regarding sexual activity (and the thought of cuckolding has excited me since I was a teenager . As many men on fab know though, it's not easy getting meets, even if, unlike me, your brains and balls, are functioning in perfect synchronicity . Fab to me, is the graduate applying for a job, but can't get it, cause they're looking for people with experience (clutty sunt, this could be similar why PE/ED men join). I have turned down meets, for fear of being unable to perform. I have thankfully, bit the bullet at times, both on this profile, and my previous incarnation on here, and luckily met a few women. They were lovely, understanding, women, and although I had the pleasure of meeting one of them numerous times, I knew she'd understandably, tire of my inabilities (the glimmer of hope is, the fact the meets lasted as long as they did, at least means, I must have some sliver of a personality ) . By the way, a fortunate thing: due to me having oral performed on me a respectable amount of times, before my tramatic event, means I can still function, when a woman performs oral on me (it's the intercourse that does me in; either I struggle to get or maintain an erection, so when I do, I'm never comfortable, therefore I have to perform at a fast pace and only last about a min...if I can maintain it? ). One of the greatest things the woman I met the 1st time I was on here, was the possibility of other forms of sexual activity. It is this reason I rejoined. I hoped that by engaging in other acts, especially being a Dom in BSDM scenarios, and also voyeurism, I could enjoy in sexually activities, without the pressure to perform, and who knows, just maybe one day, I'll be able to have confidence in penetrative sex.... . So there you go. If you've managed to make it through all that, I thank you, and commend you. Most importantly, I hope I haven't bored you. Apart from a counsellor, I've never told about my tramatic experience, and I've never told anyone my reasons for joining here. I mainly stay now out of habit. I'm addicted! I don't message people much anymore, but I do enjoy reading the forums. I seldom post on there, because I've nothing to say, but this interested me, and even if there's just a slim hope this helps someone, and they don't think they're alone, then it'll have been worth it. By the way, I've kinda made peace with my situation, so please, no "I'm so sorry" . I'll keep an eye on this, but don't be surprised if I don't post. It's not really my way. Thanks for letting me take up all your time. " Fair play for posting. Truly honest and very refreshing. I’m sure you’ll have helped and encouraged anyone with these issues. One of the bravest posts I’ve read online | |||
"Confession, you say.... This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... As I type this, I keep thinking of that "Jerry Maguire" film, and his MEMO, that fucks him over OK. Hope you're in no hurry. Here we go.... I suffer from PE and ED, and although I always knew why, and eventually after 10 years, seeked counselling treatment, it still hasn't ceased. One of my very first experiences involving intercourse with a woman, ended tramatically, and now it's constantly at the forefront of my mind. "You're coming home with me". When I hear those words I'm initially excited, but quickly my thoughts turn to anxiety and dread. As soon as I enter a bedroom with a woman, the 1st thought, the overwhelming thought, is the experience I had with a woman when I was 17. Because I was then in my sexual infancy regarding penetration, it has last left a deep mental scar, resulting an inability to get or maintain an erection, or premature ejaculation, which in turn, depression, and my inability to maintain a relationship. I initially joined fab because I have no confidence in being able to form and maintain a healthy monogamous sexual relationship, and hoped for "practice makes perfect". That casual encounters without emotional ties, would allow my brain and body to break the negative cycle regarding sexual activity (and the thought of cuckolding has excited me since I was a teenager . As many men on fab know though, it's not easy getting meets, even if, unlike me, your brains and balls, are functioning in perfect synchronicity . Fab to me, is the graduate applying for a job, but can't get it, cause they're looking for people with experience (clutty sunt, this could be similar why PE/ED men join). I have turned down meets, for fear of being unable to perform. I have thankfully, bit the bullet at times, both on this profile, and my previous incarnation on here, and luckily met a few women. They were lovely, understanding, women, and although I had the pleasure of meeting one of them numerous times, I knew she'd understandably, tire of my inabilities (the glimmer of hope is, the fact the meets lasted as long as they did, at least means, I must have some sliver of a personality ) . By the way, a fortunate thing: due to me having oral performed on me a respectable amount of times, before my tramatic event, means I can still function, when a woman performs oral on me (it's the intercourse that does me in; either I struggle to get or maintain an erection, so when I do, I'm never comfortable, therefore I have to perform at a fast pace and only last about a min...if I can maintain it? ). One of the greatest things the woman I met the 1st time I was on here, was the possibility of other forms of sexual activity. It is this reason I rejoined. I hoped that by engaging in other acts, especially being a Dom in BSDM scenarios, and also voyeurism, I could enjoy in sexually activities, without the pressure to perform, and who knows, just maybe one day, I'll be able to have confidence in penetrative sex.... . So there you go. If you've managed to make it through all that, I thank you, and commend you. Most importantly, I hope I haven't bored you. Apart from a counsellor, I've never told about my tramatic experience, and I've never told anyone my reasons for joining here. I mainly stay now out of habit. I'm addicted! I don't message people much anymore, but I do enjoy reading the forums. I seldom post on there, because I've nothing to say, but this interested me, and even if there's just a slim hope this helps someone, and they don't think they're alone, then it'll have been worth it. By the way, I've kinda made peace with my situation, so please, no "I'm so sorry" . I'll keep an eye on this, but don't be surprised if I don't post. It's not really my way. Thanks for letting me take up all your time. " Thank you for your honesty and an excellent read... whatever is causing the issue I hope it eventually gets resolved. X | |||
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"I only came across it in combo with condom fear. " Yes i get that ..althou my mojo gone coz my ex stopped me seeing my daughter so im not feeling it sexually at present | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro " Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though | |||
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"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? " How much is too much? | |||
"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? " No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health. Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+. Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line... | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though " Was said tongue in cheek x | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though Was said tongue in cheek x " We all know what u want in her cheek | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though Was said tongue in cheek x We all know what u want in her cheek " | |||
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"Biggest cause of Ed is stress. " Got another 5 yrs plus i think of it as youngest is only 9 so i live under rule majority of time from ex still | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though Was said tongue in cheek x We all know what u want in her cheek " If i could sustain the erection id say yes i would like it in there lol ....but might have to put on hold for a bit me thinks | |||
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"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health. Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+. Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line... " its right, our brain rewire itself and we get used to porn and wank. And done men don't get hard to a real woman, instead they only get erection when they watch porn. | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though " He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general" He did explain he was being a bit tongue n' cheek Hal | |||
"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. Hope things get better for you though He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general He did explain he was being a bit tongue n' cheek Hal " Apologise Ladies ...it was only really about my ex xx | |||
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"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.." Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. | |||
"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.. Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. " Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me | |||
"Love this forum. I’ve just finished writing a book about how it feels being a woman living long term with a partner with ED and mismatched libido marriage. Fab was a great help to me on that journey. So once I publish it I would like fab readers to have it for free initially. If anyone’s interested in getting that please DM me xx Thanks! " Will do | |||
"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.. Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me " Can also be simple things like being dehydrated that cause Ed.. Hydrate with hot water every morning then drink tea or coffee later in the day.. Rock hard erections | |||