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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Can we please have an open debate about this.Its out there even on fab and it needs to be spoken about xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's the debate?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I only came across it in combo with condom fear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me "
. Did he have to use a white stick to get around by any chance?

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too..

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

There could be many reasons why it can happen..

There are men on here that have it... it's nothing to be ashamed about but ignoring it won't fix the problem... your GP is the best person to speak with... good luck..

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By *avedublinMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me "

Not sure why you're as sexy as hell!

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off

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By *cilWoman  over a year ago

Wexford


"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off "

Don't take it personally! It's happened to me and it's embarressing so it must be as bad for them too.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off "

I was in a similar situation where medical intervention helped one guy but another guy I was dating just refused to go to the doctor...

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By *icole FanningTV/TS  over a year ago

Navan


"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort "

This is a ridiculously ill informed comment. ED can affect guys at all ages - not just over a certain age - and the prescription of mycoxaflopin certainty isn’t a 100% guarantee of success.

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Thank you Laura and Ginger for replying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's still a stigma when it comes to Irish men and it causes huge stress. Anything that shows a weakness is hidden and unspoken of with most Irish men. We'd rather suffer in silence than admit everything isn't good. I know campaigns have tried to get men talking more about everything not just something like ED but I feel more needs to be done. If that guy went to the doctor there's more than likely a simple cure. Probably be told go exercise and change his diet and lifestyle and it will probably work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this

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By *ickirishallsortsMan  over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Or maybe try one of the generics, Mydixadrupin, Mydixnorizin, Dixafix, and of course, Ibenopokin.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

PE can be cured with regular sex and experience alot of the time and usually its only the first round and when you're good again you last longer the second, third, fourth round etc... ED is strange though unless you've viagra ready for your meet it makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this "

And give it loads about how good they are... and then you meet them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this "

Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people.

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Returned one in Limerick that was a mega comment and I hope lots of guys see it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Returned one in Limerick that was a mega comment and I hope lots of guys see it "

I don't have ED btw people have had the odd PE problem though haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this

Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. "

Yes of course your right , use be just my bad luck I only meet single guys ....and quickly discover why they are still single

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this

Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. "

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By *elfastDMan  over a year ago

belfast

There’s a lot of things men don’t talk about

It’s hard to combat all those years of history to step out of the mould

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Belfast d there's nothing sexier in a man that opens up and talks about issues like this and more, men are not robots just to be used for sex,even though it's fun, we are all human underneath the sexier exterior

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort

This is a ridiculously ill informed comment. ED can affect guys at all ages - not just over a certain age - and the prescription of mycoxaflopin certainty isn’t a 100% guarantee of success. "

Humour....not a fan?

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

It's alot more common than most think not nessiarly a lack of attraction it may pressure to perform on stress from other factors

I met a great girl once here she had me so hyped up that she need the seeing of a life time due to a previous meet not performing, low and behold I walked in we got frisky and the little see u next Tuesday would not rise to the occasion. Not one to give up although a little shocked as this was not usual I persisted and after relaxing having a chat and a laugh that familiar feeling started to grow in my loins once again and soon after she received what she desired

Moral of the story lads

Is it's not time to make a change just relax take it easy ur still young it's not ur fault there's so much u have to go trough.

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By *elfastDMan  over a year ago

belfast

It’s still hard to open up for a lot of men

As much as it’s hard for some women to break through and challenge the dinosaur men, there is now the opposing side where it’s hard for men to break through and challenge the years of stereotyping hard knocks men who are seen to be “real” men and laugh in the face of men who are much more emotionally intelligent

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Belfast d there's nothing sexier in a man that opens up and talks about issues like this and more, men are not robots just to be used for sex,even though it's fun, we are all human underneath the sexier exterior "

Marry me

A woman that doesn't just want to use me as a sex machine I think I am in love

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By *al2001Man  over a year ago

kildare


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this

Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people.

Yes of course your right , use be just my bad luck I only meet single guys ....and quickly discover why they are still single "

Very understanding comment on a well meaning thread. Can see why your still single too

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By *icole FanningTV/TS  over a year ago

Navan

I’ve met a lot of guys who couldn’t ‘get it up’ and invariably they were all very embarrassed. I think a lot of guys think there’s a huge expectation to perform like a stud because there’s so much porn around showing guys with massive cocks pounding away and they think this is the standard that girls expect.

ED isn’t always sorted out with a viagra. There can be psychological issues & other medical issues involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s still hard to open up for a lot of men

As much as it’s hard for some women to break through and challenge the dinosaur men, there is now the opposing side where it’s hard for men to break through and challenge the years of stereotyping hard knocks men who are seen to be “real” men and laugh in the face of men who are much more emotionally intelligent"

This is very true. I remember going through a bit spout of depression. I just wanted my bed all the time and when I was in work or in town etc... I was getting the urge to start crying all the time, it was wierd. I said nothing to anyone besides making jokes about it to friends. They knew I was a bit depressed but not to that level. No one did. Joking about it got some of the pressure off my back and eventually depression left me but I was going for walks that lasted hours, hitting the gym, listening to music, googling depression etc... Some might not get away so easy. I felt I couldn't talk about it but now I feel better I feel I can. Strange.

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By *elfastDMan  over a year ago

belfast

There’s a lot to be said about talking therapy

(I haven’t got personal experience but I have very close friends who swear by it)

The biggest step to make is the first step and if this is talking to someone, anyone, friend, boss, doc, random stranger on a swinging website, this could be the best step someone makes

If anyone reads this and is feeling like they can’t talk to anyone, just send a simple message to anyone

Otherwise message Kinky Dee and chat about how you can’t get it up

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"There’s a lot to be said about talking therapy

(I haven’t got personal experience but I have very close friends who swear by it)

The biggest step to make is the first step and if this is talking to someone, anyone, friend, boss, doc, random stranger on a swinging website, this could be the best step someone makes

If anyone reads this and is feeling like they can’t talk to anyone, just send a simple message to anyone

Otherwise message Kinky Dee and chat about how you can’t get it up "

And there was I thinking h were a caring soul u have just dammed kinky to tools of mail with limp cock pics

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By *elfastDMan  over a year ago

belfast

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

I just hope that I have opened up a subject that can be spoken about, whatever about how I feel it must be torture for the guy and I just feel that guys,you are allowed to open up too,most women love that xx

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By *cilWoman  over a year ago

Wexford

This can happen to men of all ages for lots of different reasons. Performance issues and high expectations can affect some people as can tiredness, alcohol, medication and illness. The desire is there but sometimes the body doesn't react as it's supposed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I remember being 21 single one of the only nights I decided to drive the lads to a night club rather than be stuck in the local village.. Anyway around 2 ish an absolutey beautiful Finnish lady walked up to me and said, "get your jacket your coming with me" truth be told it was one of the best minutes of my life not hers obviously.. Premature ejaculation?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suspect some ED is to do with masturbating aggressively by hand.

Women, even the most petite contortionists, aren't capable of exerting as much pressure on a penis as a man's hand. A woman's own hand is nowhere close to having that grip strength - and even female athletes in sports requiring hand grip aren't as strong as untrained males.

When I slacked off I noticed the sensation increase, and the lips/interior of my sex toy prevented desensitization.

TLDR; Go easy!

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Excellent thread and mostly very good responses, singling out JacknJilly for a great one.

It's not just ED, it's also not being completely hard, like you were when you were younger.

Yes, exercise and diet do make a difference but in the meantime, a cock ring can help. If that works for you, it's a case of more exercise, as it's a blood flow issue, most likely.

For other scenarios, speak to a professional. They know what you need. There are also some very medically well educated ladies on Fab who may respond to this thread in their excellent realistic ways.

Again, I must say, well done to those with reasoned replies

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I just hope that I have opened up a subject that can be spoken about, whatever about how I feel it must be torture for the guy and I just feel that guys,you are allowed to open up too,most women love that xx"

You have and it's interesting to see the difference in some of the responses. We take from that what we can.

I'd also like to not White Knight in any respect but say well done for raising it, as I don't recall a guy doing so. International Women's Day seems to have been extended

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By *ublincpl24Couple  over a year ago

Citywest

I went through a bout of this due to side effects to medication I was on. A blue pill and you're good to go. Guys you'd be mad not to get this sorted. It's no longer something that needs to impact your life or cause embarrassment/frustration.

See your GP or if you're embarrassed there are online prescriptions available.

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

Well done for taking the time to respond for your fellow mates xx it's important to speak up guys

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By *ublincpl24Couple  over a year ago

Citywest


"Well done for taking the time to respond for your fellow mates xx it's important to speak up guys "

Thanks. Yes it is important. Why not make the most of your fun with a little help from Dr Pfizer lol.

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

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By *ublincpl24Couple  over a year ago

Citywest


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

"

Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL.

But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

"

First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to.

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL.

But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly."

Good to know. Thanks for replying

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. "

Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ

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By *inky Dee OP   Woman  over a year ago

North Dublin

The way it is that you need to treat the cause before you can cure it so a guy might be an undiagnosed diabetic for example so best thing is be the real man and get it sorted, go to Dr for all thee horny babes out there xx

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By *ublincpl24Couple  over a year ago

Citywest


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to.

Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ "

I think it's safe to say that most guys don't use it because it is prescribed - they use it because it's awesome haha

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"The way it is that you need to treat the cause before you can cure it so a guy might be an undiagnosed diabetic for example so best thing is be the real man and get it sorted, go to Dr for all thee horny babes out there xx"

Spot on OP. Could be other factors yet to be diagnosed. Always refer to doctor

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer?

First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to.

Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ

I think it's safe to say that most guys don't use it because it is prescribed - they use it because it's awesome haha"

It really is amazing, I'm afraid to take anything, even pain killers haha I'm odd but my friend swore to me about viagra so I tried it one night and it was the best sex I ever had. I got a pain in my hips from thrusting I was going so long

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I suspect some ED is to do with masturbating aggressively by hand.

Women, even the most petite contortionists, aren't capable of exerting as much pressure on a penis as a man's hand. A woman's own hand is nowhere close to having that grip strength - and even female athletes in sports requiring hand grip aren't as strong as untrained males.

When I slacked off I noticed the sensation increase, and the lips/interior of my sex toy prevented desensitization.

TLDR; Go easy!"

Sorry but in my opinion that has very little to do with ED. Stimulation starts in your brain and not in the grip of your hand and has eventually to do with the connection of your lower body, your brain and bodily functions. Also petite has nothing to do with tight. I'm certainly not an expert in this field but just applying a bit of logical thinking based on experience. Every man is different so is every woman. Not everyone needs a rough wank to cum.

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

I thought thats why guys liked a finger up their bum?

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By *eanontiWoman  over a year ago

Limerick


" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this "

Don't forget the condom phobia ones

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By *kblueeyesCouple  over a year ago

kilkenny


"Or maybe try one of the generics, Mydixadrupin, Mydixnorizin, Dixafix, and of course, Ibenopokin. "

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin

A great name for a band all the same

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By *uckylindaWoman  over a year ago

whitley bay

What happens if your husband has it and has been to the doctors, they prescribed him tablets but they no longer work.

?? this means I no longer have sex.

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By *ardandmeanMan  over a year ago

carlow


"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me "

Did you check to see had he a pulse

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My problem is I can’t keep it down

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By *ilderMan  over a year ago

dublin


"My problem is I can’t keep it down "

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By *ublincpl24Couple  over a year ago

Citywest


"What happens if your husband has it and has been to the doctors, they prescribed him tablets but they no longer work.

?? this means I no longer have sex. "

Hi Linda. Your husband seriously needs to go back to the doctor as there may be underlying problems. Bear in mind that an erection depends on blood flow. So ED can often be a symptom of something else. It's the 21st century and this can (should) be able to be sorted. If no joy with GP then go and see a Urologist. Best of luck with it. This is very tough on both of you x

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By *achelsWoman  over a year ago

ni


"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me "

Lol my husband was the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ED and PE has s lot to do with your state of mind. Speaking from experience just after I divorced I had ED. I thought my ex had put a spell on me and had a voodoo doll with pins directed at you know where. Having got professional advice from my GP and talking to other professional medical people it is quite common I believe as they say it’s a sort of bereavement people who separate after a long time together. After counseling and meds things started to change and sexual confidence came back but too quickly!! lol. The comment above of being sexually active helps!

God feel like I’ve just been to confession!!

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By *eingMasterfulMan  over a year ago

Derry

Confession, you say....

This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... As I type this, I keep thinking of that "Jerry Maguire" film, and his MEMO, that fucks him over

OK. Hope you're in no hurry. Here we go....

I suffer from PE and ED, and although I always knew why, and eventually after 10 years, seeked counselling treatment, it still hasn't ceased.

One of my very first experiences involving intercourse with a woman, ended tramatically, and now it's constantly at the forefront of my mind.

"You're coming home with me". When I hear those words I'm initially excited, but quickly my thoughts turn to anxiety and dread. As soon as I enter a bedroom with a woman, the 1st thought, the overwhelming thought, is the experience I had with a woman when I was 17. Because I was then in my sexual infancy regarding penetration, it has last left a deep mental scar, resulting an inability to get or maintain an erection, or premature ejaculation, which in turn, depression, and my inability to maintain a relationship.

I initially joined fab because I have no confidence in being able to form and maintain a healthy monogamous sexual relationship, and hoped for "practice makes perfect". That casual encounters without emotional ties, would allow my brain and body to break the negative cycle regarding sexual activity (and the thought of cuckolding has excited me since I was a teenager .

As many men on fab know though, it's not easy getting meets, even if, unlike me, your brains and balls, are functioning in perfect synchronicity .

Fab to me, is the graduate applying for a job, but can't get it, cause they're looking for people with experience

(clutty sunt, this could be similar why PE/ED men join).

I have turned down meets, for fear of being unable to perform. I have thankfully, bit the bullet at times, both on this profile, and my previous incarnation on here, and luckily met a few women.

They were lovely, understanding, women, and although I had the pleasure of meeting one of them numerous times, I knew she'd understandably, tire of my inabilities (the glimmer of hope is, the fact the meets lasted as long as they did, at least means, I must have some sliver of a personality ) . By the way, a fortunate thing: due to me having oral performed on me a respectable amount of times, before my tramatic event, means I can still function, when a woman performs oral on me (it's the intercourse that does me in; either I struggle to get or maintain an erection, so when I do, I'm never comfortable, therefore I have to perform at a fast pace and only last about a min...if I can maintain it? ).

One of the greatest things the woman I met the 1st time I was on here, was the possibility of other forms of sexual activity. It is this reason I rejoined. I hoped that by engaging in other acts, especially being a Dom in BSDM scenarios, and also voyeurism, I could enjoy in sexually activities, without the pressure to perform, and who knows, just maybe one day, I'll be able to have confidence in penetrative sex.... .

So there you go. If you've managed to make it through all that, I thank you, and commend you. Most importantly, I hope I haven't bored you.

Apart from a counsellor, I've never told about my tramatic experience, and I've never told anyone my reasons for joining here.

I mainly stay now out of habit. I'm addicted! I don't message people much anymore, but I do enjoy reading the forums. I seldom post on there, because I've nothing to say, but this interested me, and even if there's just a slim hope this helps someone, and they don't think they're alone, then it'll have been worth it.

By the way, I've kinda made peace with my situation, so please, no "I'm so sorry" .

I'll keep an eye on this, but don't be surprised if I don't post. It's not really my way. Thanks for letting me take up all your time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Confession, you say....

This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... As I type this, I keep thinking of that "Jerry Maguire" film, and his MEMO, that fucks him over

OK. Hope you're in no hurry. Here we go....

I suffer from PE and ED, and although I always knew why, and eventually after 10 years, seeked counselling treatment, it still hasn't ceased.

One of my very first experiences involving intercourse with a woman, ended tramatically, and now it's constantly at the forefront of my mind.

"You're coming home with me". When I hear those words I'm initially excited, but quickly my thoughts turn to anxiety and dread. As soon as I enter a bedroom with a woman, the 1st thought, the overwhelming thought, is the experience I had with a woman when I was 17. Because I was then in my sexual infancy regarding penetration, it has last left a deep mental scar, resulting an inability to get or maintain an erection, or premature ejaculation, which in turn, depression, and my inability to maintain a relationship.

I initially joined fab because I have no confidence in being able to form and maintain a healthy monogamous sexual relationship, and hoped for "practice makes perfect". That casual encounters without emotional ties, would allow my brain and body to break the negative cycle regarding sexual activity (and the thought of cuckolding has excited me since I was a teenager .

As many men on fab know though, it's not easy getting meets, even if, unlike me, your brains and balls, are functioning in perfect synchronicity .

Fab to me, is the graduate applying for a job, but can't get it, cause they're looking for people with experience

(clutty sunt, this could be similar why PE/ED men join).

I have turned down meets, for fear of being unable to perform. I have thankfully, bit the bullet at times, both on this profile, and my previous incarnation on here, and luckily met a few women.

They were lovely, understanding, women, and although I had the pleasure of meeting one of them numerous times, I knew she'd understandably, tire of my inabilities (the glimmer of hope is, the fact the meets lasted as long as they did, at least means, I must have some sliver of a personality ) . By the way, a fortunate thing: due to me having oral performed on me a respectable amount of times, before my tramatic event, means I can still function, when a woman performs oral on me (it's the intercourse that does me in; either I struggle to get or maintain an erection, so when I do, I'm never comfortable, therefore I have to perform at a fast pace and only last about a min...if I can maintain it? ).

One of the greatest things the woman I met the 1st time I was on here, was the possibility of other forms of sexual activity. It is this reason I rejoined. I hoped that by engaging in other acts, especially being a Dom in BSDM scenarios, and also voyeurism, I could enjoy in sexually activities, without the pressure to perform, and who knows, just maybe one day, I'll be able to have confidence in penetrative sex.... .

So there you go. If you've managed to make it through all that, I thank you, and commend you. Most importantly, I hope I haven't bored you.

Apart from a counsellor, I've never told about my tramatic experience, and I've never told anyone my reasons for joining here.

I mainly stay now out of habit. I'm addicted! I don't message people much anymore, but I do enjoy reading the forums. I seldom post on there, because I've nothing to say, but this interested me, and even if there's just a slim hope this helps someone, and they don't think they're alone, then it'll have been worth it.

By the way, I've kinda made peace with my situation, so please, no "I'm so sorry" .

I'll keep an eye on this, but don't be surprised if I don't post. It's not really my way. Thanks for letting me take up all your time.

"

Fair play for posting.

Truly honest and very refreshing.

I’m sure you’ll have helped and encouraged anyone with these issues.

One of the bravest posts I’ve read online

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"Confession, you say....

This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... As I type this, I keep thinking of that "Jerry Maguire" film, and his MEMO, that fucks him over

OK. Hope you're in no hurry. Here we go....

I suffer from PE and ED, and although I always knew why, and eventually after 10 years, seeked counselling treatment, it still hasn't ceased.

One of my very first experiences involving intercourse with a woman, ended tramatically, and now it's constantly at the forefront of my mind.

"You're coming home with me". When I hear those words I'm initially excited, but quickly my thoughts turn to anxiety and dread. As soon as I enter a bedroom with a woman, the 1st thought, the overwhelming thought, is the experience I had with a woman when I was 17. Because I was then in my sexual infancy regarding penetration, it has last left a deep mental scar, resulting an inability to get or maintain an erection, or premature ejaculation, which in turn, depression, and my inability to maintain a relationship.

I initially joined fab because I have no confidence in being able to form and maintain a healthy monogamous sexual relationship, and hoped for "practice makes perfect". That casual encounters without emotional ties, would allow my brain and body to break the negative cycle regarding sexual activity (and the thought of cuckolding has excited me since I was a teenager .

As many men on fab know though, it's not easy getting meets, even if, unlike me, your brains and balls, are functioning in perfect synchronicity .

Fab to me, is the graduate applying for a job, but can't get it, cause they're looking for people with experience

(clutty sunt, this could be similar why PE/ED men join).

I have turned down meets, for fear of being unable to perform. I have thankfully, bit the bullet at times, both on this profile, and my previous incarnation on here, and luckily met a few women.

They were lovely, understanding, women, and although I had the pleasure of meeting one of them numerous times, I knew she'd understandably, tire of my inabilities (the glimmer of hope is, the fact the meets lasted as long as they did, at least means, I must have some sliver of a personality ) . By the way, a fortunate thing: due to me having oral performed on me a respectable amount of times, before my tramatic event, means I can still function, when a woman performs oral on me (it's the intercourse that does me in; either I struggle to get or maintain an erection, so when I do, I'm never comfortable, therefore I have to perform at a fast pace and only last about a min...if I can maintain it? ).

One of the greatest things the woman I met the 1st time I was on here, was the possibility of other forms of sexual activity. It is this reason I rejoined. I hoped that by engaging in other acts, especially being a Dom in BSDM scenarios, and also voyeurism, I could enjoy in sexually activities, without the pressure to perform, and who knows, just maybe one day, I'll be able to have confidence in penetrative sex.... .

So there you go. If you've managed to make it through all that, I thank you, and commend you. Most importantly, I hope I haven't bored you.

Apart from a counsellor, I've never told about my tramatic experience, and I've never told anyone my reasons for joining here.

I mainly stay now out of habit. I'm addicted! I don't message people much anymore, but I do enjoy reading the forums. I seldom post on there, because I've nothing to say, but this interested me, and even if there's just a slim hope this helps someone, and they don't think they're alone, then it'll have been worth it.

By the way, I've kinda made peace with my situation, so please, no "I'm so sorry" .

I'll keep an eye on this, but don't be surprised if I don't post. It's not really my way. Thanks for letting me take up all your time.

"

Thank you for your honesty and an excellent read... whatever is causing the issue I hope it eventually gets resolved. X

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By *etscum2Man  over a year ago

dublin

Having done some research on ED here are my personal views. When it strikes for what ever reason (in my case prostate cancer requiring prostate removal) it causes stress at not having normal function and reaction to sexual stimulation. There are at least 5 Different ways to approach this.

1. Erection pump: Increases blood flow into the Penis to give an erection. Erection fades as soon as pump removed.

2. Oral medication: Viagra, Cialis etc. Are good as long as they continue to work in time they may have little or no effect.

3. Muse: and small pellet insert inserted into the urethra, may or may not be effective.

4. Caverject: Penile injection, same chemical composition as Muse. It sounds awful but do not be put off, the injection is a non event when you experience an erection like you had when you were a teenager and had no one to share it with. This is usually done first time under the supervision of your urologist who will do a titration test to determine the dose you require, depending on the dose the effect can last from 30 mins to 2 or 3 hours. It takes about 10 minutes to work and is a great feeling if you have not been able to get a satisfactory erection for years before.

5. Surgery: Involving placing a small pump in the scrotum and two long inserts in the Penis which can be inflated manually.

Hope this helps, it took me a long time to find my cure, No 4, after the previous ones were no longer effective. I asked my Urologist how long the Caverject would be effective for and he said it would always continue to work, and to date it has.

Hope this helps. There is plenty of data on line to give details of all 5.

Feel free to get in touch if you have any Queries. Tom

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By *ustin-SiderMan  over a year ago

Belfast

OP, I can only speak from my own experiences. There have been occasions when I could not (let's say) "perform" and usually for myself it's been because there is a mental block. I know it hasn't been physical because if I'm able to masturbate then I know the part is definitely in working order. When it comes to the mental block it can usually be down to one of two things. Either I'm going through a stressful period and if my mind can't relax or focus then neither can the rest of me, or sometimes I will be that eager to impress the woman that I overthink it and (again) can't relax mentally. At times when it happens I feel bad as the woman can then think it's because I don't find her attractive or she has done something wrong when in fact it's quite the opposite.

For myself, good sex is definitely about mental connection as well as physical..... being in the right frame of mind.

I find on those rare instances that Viagra can be a big help but I always try not to reply or depend on it. Usually with some understanding with the right persons I get around the mental block and manage to come out of my shell.

At the end of the day (although some men might boast or big themselves up) we are not machines but when a woman gets me on a good day in a good frame of mind...... oh my.... Lol

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By *etscum2Man  over a year ago

dublin

Hi Mark,

You have been through such a traumatic time, losing your partner. What can one say, time is a great healer after that sort of experience best of luck for the future. Tom

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By *hostheman1972Man  over a year ago

tipperary

Serious problem that most men dont discuss that can have real bad psychological implications. Firstly ED can mask Coronary heart diseses ofthn the first sign of it . Those who are taking some medications e.g Beta Blockers ,these meds can be a cause of E.D. Go speak to your heallth professional who deal with this daily there are some simple solutions out there .

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By *etscum2Man  over a year ago

dublin

How right you are, Women are much more pro active at getting professional advice. I am very glad I did, it can literally give one a new lease of life.

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By *hostheman1972Man  over a year ago

tipperary

excellent

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent


"I only came across it in combo with condom fear. "

Yes i get that ..althou my mojo gone coz my ex stopped me seeing my daughter so im not feeling it sexually at present

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By *unnyfookMan  over a year ago

Naas

if i nervous it hapoens, buy usually im just to horny...

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent

Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Call Pele.... He's got the cure

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By *oireloveCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro "

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

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By *uniorendowedMan  over a year ago

London Derbyshire

I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation?

Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation?

Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? "

How much is too much?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation?

Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? "

No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health.

Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+.

Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line...

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though "

Was said tongue in cheek x

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

Was said tongue in cheek x "

We all know what u want in her cheek

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By *oireloveCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

Was said tongue in cheek x

We all know what u want in her cheek "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Biggest cause of Ed is stress.

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent


"Biggest cause of Ed is stress. "

Got another 5 yrs plus i think of it as youngest is only 9 so i live under rule majority of time from ex still

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

Was said tongue in cheek x

We all know what u want in her cheek "

If i could sustain the erection id say yes i would like it in there lol ....but might have to put on hold for a bit me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try to get a genuine tantra massage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation?

Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge?

No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health.

Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+.

Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line... "

its right, our brain rewire itself and we get used to porn and wank. And done men don't get hard to a real woman, instead they only get erection when they watch porn.

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By *al2001Man  over a year ago

kildare


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though "

He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general

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By *oireloveCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general"

He did explain he was being a bit tongue n' cheek Hal

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent


"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro

Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems..

Hope things get better for you though

He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general

He did explain he was being a bit tongue n' cheek Hal "

Apologise Ladies ...it was only really about my ex xx

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan  over a year ago

Kent

Heeeeeelllllllppppppppp lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heeeeeelllllllppppppppp lol"

Call Pele

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heeeeeelllllllppppppppp lol

Call Pele "

Better call Saul

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heeeeeelllllllppppppppp lol

Call Pele

Better call Saul"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think my ed problem originated from when my ex went off sex, we did actually have sex sometimes but she showed no passion whatsoever, she would never even take hold of my cock and it has affected me. I now rely on the little blue pill but I strongly believe that if I meet a regular fuck buddy who will give my 'old man' regular attention then I won't be as reliant on the tablets!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting topic. Are there others who enjoy the humiliation aspect of not being able to get hard? Especially for penetration. Few years ago I met a domme who had me meet men for sexual pleasure. Since then I find it hard to get hard enough to have sex with my wife. She knows this and is dissatisfied. We also engage in a lot of chastity play. I’ve worn devices on and off for lengthy periods over the years. Initially I would wake with raging hard ons during the night which were quite painful. I wonder does the mind train the body to stop having these types of erections as they are ultimately uncomfortable.

When I wank now as witnessed by my wife’s potential future bull I get semi hard and can ejaculate this way.

I’m not in any way upset about my lack of erection and size. In many ways it sits very well with my submissive nature and desires to have my wife cuckold me etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im normally always good to go thankfully however someone once told me about these fat burner pills that work miracles and turns out they also create disasters.

Couldn't get hard for about 3 days, no joke.

Never again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have kidney failure, medical definition CKD, and when it was first diagnosed I had ED as a reaction to the medication I was prescribed

Coal is was prescribed on a very low dosage, 2.5mg, to be taken daily

Don’t think the daily dose is an option now.

It was good because it helped psychologically as well a physically, it’s not needed anymore due to different meds and changes to diet etc. but great to know I have a back up if needed

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over

If it’s a physical cause then that needs to be treated

If psychological then sensate focus techniques are very useful where you progress from clothes kissing to unclothed kissing all the way eventually to penetration with no pressure

If not sure you can use a tablet just to ensure a higher choice of success with penetration . I had it 2 years ago and now have the opposite problems with very little blood going to the brain some days . I was stressed and over thinking

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By *ed_AliceWoman  over a year ago

Belfast

Penetrative sex isn't the be all & end all of a sexual encounter.

I think if men are honest & open about ED (and, if it bothers them, are actively seeking remedies) and they don't ruin sex for everyone by being hyperfocussed on their erection or lack of same, then it can be a moot point.

Obviously some people wouldn't be happy without penetrative sex - hence being honest about it in early convos to give people the chance to say not interested if it's a deal breaker for them.

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By *itlbeeCouple  over a year ago

.

A typical erection is only expected to mast a max of 30 minutes, So I feel like within swinging we're all going to encounter a guy struggling to keep it hard for as long as he'd like to.

It's no big deal, you work around it. Small doses of the pills you can get form pharmacies help, but don't expect anything super-human.

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By *urga2076Woman  over a year ago

London

Love this forum.

I’ve just finished writing a book about how it feels being a woman living long term with a partner with ED and mismatched libido marriage. Fab was a great help to me on that journey.

So once I publish it I would like fab readers to have it for free initially. If anyone’s interested in getting that please DM me xx

Thanks!

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By *osmicGateMan  over a year ago

louth


"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.."

Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem..

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over


"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too..

Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. "

Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over


"Love this forum.

I’ve just finished writing a book about how it feels being a woman living long term with a partner with ED and mismatched libido marriage. Fab was a great help to me on that journey.

So once I publish it I would like fab readers to have it for free initially. If anyone’s interested in getting that please DM me xx

Thanks!

"

Will do

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By *osmicGateMan  over a year ago

louth


"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too..

Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem..

Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me "

Can also be simple things like being dehydrated that cause Ed.. Hydrate with hot water every morning then drink tea or coffee later in the day.. Rock hard erections

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