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Don't understand some people on here anymore
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So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)
So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch
REALLY
Is it not better to be honest
Then make a fool of them ?
Or is it been a bitch  |
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over a year ago
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Yes it's better to be honest, if you are neither rude nor dismissive then it's the other person's problem if they can't accept being turned down politely.
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You shouldn’t have to put up with any abuse but unfortunately, with the amount of males on here, you are going to get a percentage of arseholes that think they’ve a given right to be arseholes but you mostly find that their still attached to their mothers breast and looking for a substitute.  |
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I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ?? |
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick!  |
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??
I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick! "
I reckon both of you see this type of more tan physical appearance all about mental connection post as the way to get laid....best of luck with that |
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??
I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick! I reckon both of you see this type of more tan physical appearance all about mental connection post as the way to get laid....best of luck with that "
They were just expressing their opinion, quite well at that. I see no attempt in it to get laid or white knighting. |
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over a year ago
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Lets be honest though! You have to fancy the person too! After that I think the mental connection comes into it, and thats when I would take the next step and try my best to get them into bed 
To say you would meet someone you don't fancy is a lie! They don't have to be everyone's idea of good looking (Im sure I fancy blokes other girls wouldn't) but there 100% has to be that physical attraction.
On the other hand, I haven't had one bad message in all my time on here so it is terrible to hear other people getting them just for telling someone they aren't your type. Don't mind them! |
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
what he says definitely.
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"Lets be honest though! You have to fancy the person too! After that I think the mental connection comes into it, and thats when I would take the next step and try my best to get them into bed
To say you would meet someone you don't fancy is a lie! They don't have to be everyone's idea of good looking (Im sure I fancy blokes other girls wouldn't) but there 100% has to be that physical attraction.
On the other hand, I haven't had one bad message in all my time on here so it is terrible to hear other people getting them just for telling someone they aren't your type. Don't mind them! "
Chemistry can be a mix of many ingredients in different quantities. Yes there are different mixes for different results. I imagine that there is always something physical involved in attraction but it isn't necessarily the face. The mind is also of great importance. The term "a meeting of the minds" is definitely a strong draw, for me at least. Yes, I have based a liaison on purely physical attraction in the past but when there was no mental connection, it wasn't repeated.
People who can't take rejection, for any reason, just show that they are not adult enough for a site such as this, or potentially any social interaction.
Block, move on and enjoy Fab with your own parameters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)
So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch
REALLY
Is it not better to be honest
Then make a fool of them ?
Or is it been a bitch "
Unfortunately sone guys think FAB is dial a ride!
No Patience or respect.
Fuck em and not in the physical sense!
Block and move on. You don’t owe anybody anything on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really is a shame that men react like this. This sort of crap makes it harder for other men. U can’t be everyone’s cuppa of tea.
I’d been told from girls a few times that I’m not their type and the reply they get from me is no problem enjoy fab and that’s it.
Abusive mails only show what a dick u are |
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"So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)
So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch
REALLY
Is it not better to be honest
Then make a fool of them ?
Or is it been a bitch
Unfortunately sone guys think FAB is dial a ride!
No Patience or respect.
Fuck em and not in the physical sense!
Block and move on. You don’t owe anybody anything on here."
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"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
thank you
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rejection should be character building you try and and take on board your approach your manner your choice if a rejection is given. Take it on chin move on make a note and bother the lady/ gent/couple again Don’t need sinister agressive weirdoes lol for the record ratio of women to men means you will be rejected 9 times out of 10. Embrace rejection move on buy a joke book do some weights. Above all just be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anytime i get that which is most of the time to be honest! Lol I thank the people for the time and then say Happy fabbing! Easy it doesn't effect me everyone has personal preferences! Simple. Xxx |
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