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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I no I'm not verified and all but I'm thinking about organising a social in sligo to get the swing scene in sligo a kick up the arse anyone interested post on this If enough interest by couples and single females because I'm sure there will be enough single males willing to attend il start planning it hope to hear from you guys soon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is but honestly sligo is boring as regards to swinging with all the visitors and tourists we get should be better than the none exist scene one here now and if it works happy days if not what harm has it done nothing will happen unless you try that's the way I see it |
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True OP and I admire your desire to be proactive. Just be aware that hosting events is hard work. There are people who do it regularly and make it look effortless, but a successful social event is indeed a lot of work. Finding a suitable venue and deciding how you want it to be is one thing. But you'll have to remember that as a host you won't have time to relax yourself. You'll share your time equally amongst all of your guests, making sure they're all happy and enjoying themselves, bringing the shyer ones out of their shells and introducing them to others. Encouraging interaction between everyone and generally making sure that when they eventually leave, they feel glad that they came along, were made to feel welcome and weren't ignored. You'll also have to be ready for problems to arise if people don't get along for any reason. I'd suggest getting yourself along to a few yourself first and see what it entails.
There's nothing worse than coming away from an event and feeling like you'd intruded on a piss-up between a few friends while everyone else was largely ignored. Especially if its an event you've had to pay entry to and possibly had to travel some distance to and/or book overnight accommodation.
Also keep in mind accommodation costs for your guests when timing events. If you stage it during peak times such as bank holidays and school holidays, hotels will be charging much higher room rates than normal and you'll be putting your guests to much more expense than necessary, if they can afford to attend at all.
I wish you the best of luck OP, but just be aware   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame |
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"I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame "
Do agree with you with regard to couples and single ladies but we single lads just keep ploughing on lol |
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"I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame
Do agree with you with regard to couples and single ladies but we single lads just keep ploughing on lol"
Fed up of lads going on about single ladies having it easy. The amount of ing out of fakes, pic collectors and abuse we have to deal with because we wont neet at the drop of a hat or we turn someone down.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame
Do agree with you with regard to couples and single ladies but we single lads just keep ploughing on lol
Fed up of lads going on about single ladies having it easy. The amount of ing out of fakes, pic collectors and abuse we have to deal with because we wont neet at the drop of a hat or we turn someone down.
Best of luck op "
Totally agree mz bunny
While the ratio of men to women is out numbered
We all have ur preferences who we want to meet.we not here to please everyone
Op best of luck with ur m&g.hope u get ur numbers and have a great timexx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with you Mrz bunny you do have to put up with shite and I'm not say you have it easy I'm just saying it's easier than us one dickhead out there we all get tarred with the same brush I'm not trying to organise this for my own sake but all of us we can out the dickhead and the fakes but how when we don't get a chance to prove it..... And thanks for the support I'm getting |
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You may get some very decent genuine fabbers attending.Agree with the ladies ...there are a lot of fakes ...abusers and basically nut jobs out there and agree with you ...those decent lads on this site get deleted ...some don't even have the decency extended to them in reply to a message even if it's no thank you.....thankfully most of the ladies I have contacted have been very genuine but there are a few just as there in the single guys group that are basically rude and have delusions of gradure. Your will figure out those who are decent but it does take some practise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh yeah I completely agree with the woman that have posted and I thank them for the honesty and hopefully does fakes and creeps she this and see there not only ruining what is supposed to be fun for people that actually do want to have fun and enjoy the lifestyle people think this is a sex site it's not some use it for that purpose and those are the people that are ruining it for genuine swingers |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Fab can be fantastic or shit depending on the day for all of us but I do concede that it's tougher on the single lads as you have to jump through more hoop's, that's not saying that couple's or single ladies have it all easy either.
Wise saying...if you want something different, you have to do something different.
Go ahead and organise that social and fair play for being proactive about what you want.
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"I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame "
Well in fairness funguy our profile does say guys taller than me and older than me, theres always something going on if you keep an eye on the forums and meets section |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll keep all that in mind playd thanks for the advice I have been to vanilla party's and hosted aswell even worked at them so hopefully I picked up a few things lol and it's only a spit ball idea see if there is interest form around the region.... Kinky wife to you there might be a vibrant scene its easy for woman and couples well alot easier then single men like honestly I've mesg you a few times and my mesg got deleted that's up to you I'm not calling you out on it its just an example I'm just trying to help out other people that is finding it hard or is shy about this lifestyle hopefully bring more people into the frame
Well in fairness funguy our profile does say guys taller than me and older than me, theres always something going on if you keep an eye on the forums and meets section "
Yeah that's fine that's your preference I just used it as an example yeah there is always something going on but not in sligo itself there is plenty of fabbers in sligo but they all travel have to travel for an event some of us don't have the option or can't take the time off work or something.. And ps this social invite is for fabbers in surrounding counties aswell |
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I say go for it !
Organise away. Sure how did the first irish person here organise there very first social? We all have to start somewhere. And the social scene here near seems like a click so be great to see a new person organising some form of social meet add be happy to help or get a invite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck op. We having been looking for a meet and greet down this end if the country, but never see any, there always in Dublin or belfast "
There's a meet and greet in mayo this weekend, but I'm not sure there are any tickets left. It's been on the forum for weeks. |
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By *itenurse69Couple
over a year ago
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"Good luck op. We having been looking for a meet and greet down this end if the country, but never see any, there always in Dublin or belfast
There's a meet and greet in mayo this weekend, but I'm not sure there are any tickets left. It's been on the forum for weeks.
Naughty plans already made for this week end "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck op. We having been looking for a meet and greet down this end if the country, but never see any, there always in Dublin or belfast
There's a meet and greet in mayo this weekend, but I'm not sure there are any tickets left. It's been on the forum for weeks.
Naughty plans already made for this week end "
Brilliant, enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all bad news I'm going to stop planning the meet and great not getting enough interest but for all you that showed some thanks for the support happy fabbing xx |
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"We will be in Sligo on the 30th. Any suggestions for a pub to to a M&G while we are there?
Thanks
When we're in sligo we always go to the swagman, great food, and a lively spot. "
Ok thanks! We’ll have to check it out! If your the on the 30th, come by and say hi! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which place would be best to have a gathering for a fun night out? Swagman? Anderson?
Any other suggestions?
We want to have a fun night, meet up, have a few laughs!
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I love swagman all in one food and drink and always have good music on most weekends and some sexy bar staff there to makes the night alot better |
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"Which place would be best to have a gathering for a fun night out? Swagman? Anderson?
Any other suggestions?
We want to have a fun night, meet up, have a few laughs!
I love swagman all in one food and drink and always have good music on most weekends and some sexy bar staff there to makes the night alot better "
Sounds good! I’ll check it out online. |
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