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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If u send someone a message they open it but no reply surely if u take the time to read a message and look at someone profile could you not write back saying ur not interested it does my head in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In fairness most of the female regulars on here would be inundated with messages daily.

It'd be more effort than it's worth to reply to them all individually. If I message someone and don't get a reply then that's fair enough, I just move on and leave them be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I can understand that am sure they get loads of messages but if u take the time to read it surely they could say no thanks or even delete message it’s not as if am saying hey fancy a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I sometimes answer with "Sorry not interested"... and after few replies like that I just delete next ones.. Cause 98% of guys will send "why? " after my not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I sometimes answer with "Sorry not interested"... and after few replies like that I just delete next ones.. Cause 98% of guys will send "why? " after my not interested "

Yeah that’s the way to do it am sure u ladies get tortured but at least the guy no’s were he stands

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always reply if interested or uninterested maybe I get less messages then others but it ain't that hard to reply in all honesty

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By *etergemmaCouple  over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Because if you reply to a message they can message you even after you block single guys

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By *exyDownUnderWoman  over a year ago

Westmeath

No reply = Not interested.

I used to reply but they'd reply back and next thing you involved in message tennis. So gave up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I sometimes answer with "Sorry not interested"... and after few replies like that I just delete next ones.. Cause 98% of guys will send "why? " after my not interested "

Yes!!!!! What’s that all about?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've often replied not interested. Them I get back abusive messages. So it's easier to just not reply to someone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've often replied not interested. Them I get back abusive messages. So it's easier to just not reply to someone "

Yep it's not worth the abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If that happens u could just block them surely some people ruin it

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By *ogoodgohardMan  over a year ago

west cork

If they reply bk not interested thats very fair but wen guys give abuse after totaly out of order

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By *etergemmaCouple  over a year ago

South Dublin Area

If someone sends a well written message and a face pic, we will generally reply. Especially if they are recently verified.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've often replied not interested. Them I get back abusive messages. So it's easier to just not reply to someone

Yep it's not worth the abuse "

I know. You'd want think skin around here. Some things the guys say can be awful. You get used to it though and learn not to rise to the bait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If someone sends a well written message and a face pic, we will generally reply. Especially if they are recently verified."

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

Patience man and eventually you will get some one . I'm afraid it does not happen over nite .

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan

OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

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By *Belfast_FellaMan  over a year ago

belfast

I personally reply to all messages because I've said I will in my profile. But the bottom line is that nobody is obliged to reply to any message. Just because you've taken the time to write one doesn't mean they have to take the time to reply. You chose to write to them, not the other way round. This is especially so for women who get way more messages than we men do.

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By *illium_cobblersMan  over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Shame that this is how it is here. Never knew if you reply then block you can still message, every day a school day... pity we just cant all get on though..

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By *rishman444Man  over a year ago

letterkenny

Yes women get it bad in here at times but wen they do make contact with you and say can we swap pictures and could the man send first then they look and no reply no pic back then u ask u did say swap pics and nothing very rude I think cost nothing to say not my type

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... "

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked "

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every

single person on your thread... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail... "

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage "

What lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!"

Very harsh I think but y not delete the message?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage

What lol "

I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!

Very harsh I think but y not delete the message? "

Can only speak for ourselves,we only do a bulk delete one in a while as we like to leave the messages there for partner to see also .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage

What lol

I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego "

Stud lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage

What lol

I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego "

I wish I was him

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail "

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread..."

What you on about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about "

She's making sense

If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about "

Exactly what I said...

Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.

It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer.

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about

She's making sense

If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh"

Thankyou lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about

Exactly what I said...

Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.

It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer. "

I live your comparisons

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By *rishman444Man  over a year ago

letterkenny


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about

Exactly what I said...

Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.

It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer. "

Lol your getting your point through there now am hungry

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about

Exactly what I said...

Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.

It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer.

I live your comparisons "

Unfortunately people either genuinely 'don't get' it, or act obtuse so as to try to continue arguing their point lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just on topic I'm running a special offer where all females who message me are 100% guaranteed a reply

For a limited time only. Get them while they're hot...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

OMG lol am lost now whatever u say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage

What lol

I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego

I wish I was him "

U wish u were an abusive egotistical ass ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

No lol I want to be a hunk like him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him"

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day "

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"OMG lol am lost now whatever u say "

Case in point lol.

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By *eijaWoman  over a year ago

City Centre


"Just on topic I'm running a special offer where all females who message me are 100% guaranteed a reply

For a limited time only. Get them while they're hot...

"

Too funny

It's really hard to answer all the messages I really don't have the time - I used to in the past but now I don't if I'm not interested. If I answer I find you get a string of messages and then why are you ignoring me starts?? Really cannot abide pushy people..everything in my own time.

Also there are messages I don't get to read because fab deletes them not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day "

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about

She's making sense

If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh"

Exactly this

OP, you are complaining about not getting a reply to a interaction (message) that wasn't asked for. Site rules are clear on this. No response no interest. We generally try to reply to well worded messages from people who have obviously read our profile and have a clear understanding of what we are looking for. Outside of that why should we waste our time responding to messages that clearly haven't put any effort in to profile, message or bothered reading profile...eh thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x"

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass "

I wasn't replying to you.

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass "

Point and case!!!

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

Point and case!!!"

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

I wasn't replying to you. "

U were talking about me

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

I wasn't replying to you.

U were talking about me "

No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else...

Paranoia much?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

I wasn't replying to you.

U were talking about me

No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else...

Paranoia much?! "

Ok whatever did u forget to take ur pills this morning?

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By *rmskirk360Woman  over a year ago

Wigan


"No lol I want to be a hunk like him

Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day

You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x

What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass

I wasn't replying to you.

U were talking about me

No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else...

Paranoia much?!

Ok whatever did u forget to take ur pills this morning? "

I think everyone can see from what you write that you need to actually read what people write.

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By *ortadowncplCouple  over a year ago

Portadown

We try to reply to every message but it’s hard! If we are very busy I only reply to those who fit what we have asked for in our profile, age / verifications and others will just get ignored!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We try to reply to every message but it’s hard! If we are very busy I only reply to those who fit what we have asked for in our profile, age / verifications and others will just get ignored!"

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By *BelfastGuyMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Could be replying to 200 people daily.

No reply to me means not interested.

I just move on and don't get offended.

I'm not for them. Next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Could be replying to 200 people daily.

No reply to me means not interested.

I just move on and don't get offended.

I'm not for them. Next. "

Yeah ur right but if they open the message they must read it if there not interested they should just delete it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Could be replying to 200 people daily.

No reply to me means not interested.

I just move on and don't get offended.

I'm not for them. Next. "

Sometimes I am at work and take a minute to check messages, I may not have the time at that particular moment to answer and mean to get back to answer..... when I log back in I can’t find the message and have to let it go and hope he messages again

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Could be replying to 200 people daily.

No reply to me means not interested.

I just move on and don't get offended.

I'm not for them. Next.

Yeah ur right but if they open the message they must read it if there not interested they should just delete it "

People run their profiles to suit themselves. What makes sense to one person may not to the next. You can only determine how your profile is run op.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't reply to every msg like the ones that automatically think there talking to female half and the msg reads you want anal!!! I mean a little effort pls. It's hard to reply most of us women have vanilla lives we have to get on with as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We don't reply to every msg like the ones that automatically think there talking to female half and the msg reads you want anal!!! I mean a little effort pls. It's hard to reply most of us women have vanilla lives we have to get on with as well "

Yeah ur 100% right

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...

What you on about "

She’s actually quite clear in what she’s saying, AND making some very interesting and valid points...

#no junk mail here please

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!

Very harsh I think but y not delete the message? "

I can't speak for everyone... But sometimes I won't delete a message because I intend to reply to it later when I have time, but then forget to... This shouldn't be taken as an indication of interest however, it just means I forgot to send a message to say I wasn't interested!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!

Very harsh I think but y not delete the message?

I can't speak for everyone... But sometimes I won't delete a message because I intend to reply to it later when I have time, but then forget to... This shouldn't be taken as an indication of interest however, it just means I forgot to send a message to say I wasn't interested!"

Yeah that’s fine if they sent u a message back at a later time u will probably reply

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By *iiboyMan  over a year ago

Tankardstown


"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...?

As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested?

Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread...

with all due respect , the very fact you have a profile here means your open to receiving messages from anyone within your set limits

I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked

That wasn't what I asked...

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?

As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...

I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail

The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.

If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?

You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread..."

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By *appytoadsCouple  over a year ago

West Dublin

Unsolicited emails winks fabs from single guys, get binned and blocked as we don't do single guys and it says that our our profile, single guys trying their luck, hoping for a sneaking shag are the bane of our fab lives. Couples very welcome btw

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