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Is the Bi curious tag on profiles off putting for single females and couples
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Just wondering if having the tag bi curious on my profile is off putting for couples and single females?
I won't be changing it to straight as a result of this forum but just interested to find out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't care, but lots seem to, ironically this means lots of bi men pretending to be straight and so the objectors are most likely meeting them without knowing.
Hey-ho |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes totally agree with this. The number of "straight" guys who private message looking meets but have "100 percent straight" in their profile is mad.  "
I've met bi curious and bisexual lads in the past who have straight in there profiles it doesn't bother me just rather they be honest straight off!!! |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if having the tag bi curious on my profile is off putting for couples and single females?
I won't be changing it to straight as a result of this forum but just interested to find out.
Cheers "
No and good to hear that opinions of others won't change your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be straight (pardon the pun) with yourself OP...if you're bi or bi curious then leave it on your profile. Lots of women here will meet you and as mentioned you're being truthful to yourself as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn’t bother me at all .
Anal sex is anal sex - why is it cool between s man and a women ... but maybe (???) less so between a man and a man.
I like the strength of character of people who remain true to their convictions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t bother me at all .
Anal sex is anal sex - why is it cool between s man and a women ... but maybe (???) less so between a man and a man.
I like the strength of character of people who remain true to their convictions. "
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"We don’t care however there is quite a number who do."
Yes it appears that way. I was just interested to see. It would explain why a lot of guys aren’t honest in their profile but i’d rather be up front |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
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I find it, better during mmf/ffm & love honesty - If not on profile at least in pm.
Some people are so worried about not getting close to other male/female that it stalls things or stops it all together.
Yes men have it harder on here in this respect but have found a few females to be lying in this area too.
It's one of those rock & hard places - dammed if you do, dammed if you don't. To each their own but I like honesty on profile or early on in messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is really annoying is blokes that have bi curious on profile yet still claim to be straight"
What about the bi curious who have had numerous same sex encounters.
How many bi encounters must a bi curious person have before they are bisexual?
Many now refuse to accept they are bi citing they don't conform to labels.
Us! We don't care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes definitely. Strange because 90% women have Bi on their profile, single or cpls. And also the amount of straight men who msg me is crazy. Women are def more open about it but men have this shame/embarrassment of being open.
Only recently I've been open with my Bi side. I'm attracted/turned on by the look of a woman not men. Amazed at the women who do like Biguys.
Unbelievable turn on seeing how turned in and how kinky they get. Few years ago I would if said 99%of women are bicurious and now I believe men are on a par. What about Transsexuals and women with strapons? Dies that make u Bi? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most men won't admit it and women have that secret jealously about them not getting the attention they crave. See it in porn, Bimmf 3way or orgies, men are mostly playing with men.
From my experience, bis are more fun n kinkier |
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"What is really annoying is blokes that have bi curious on profile yet still claim to be straight
What about the bi curious who have had numerous same sex encounters.
How many bi encounters must a bi curious person have before they are bisexual?
Many now refuse to accept they are bi citing they don't conform to labels.
Us! We don't care."
very valid point. In reality everyone's interpretation of this is completely different and that is when it becomes extra confusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For those that don't wish to meet a bi curious guy,yes it will be off putting.
However for those that actively seek a bi curious guy it would be most welcome.
There is someone for everyone on fab,not everyone for someone. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"I find it, better during mmf/ffm & love honesty - If not on profile at least in pm.
Some people are so worried about not getting close to other male/female that it stalls things or stops it all together.
Yes men have it harder on here in this respect but have found a few females to be lying in this area too.
It's one of those rock & hard places - dammed if you do, dammed if you don't. To each their own but I like honesty on profile or early on in messages."
Well said.
Have come across several males and females claiming the complete opposite of what they enjoy...males saying that they are straight and females claiming that they are bi. Even if people admit to dabbling, that's more honest than complete denial. This isn't about label's, it's about deception and why that deception is occurring. As long as bi sexual males are treated differently to bi sexual females that deception will continue. The main people being decieved are the ones causing the divide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have bi on my profile , but if playing with a straight couple thats fine.I dont push it with people unless they are looking for bi guys.But a lot of couples/singles are put off by bi.Damned if you do, damned if you dont!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have bi on my profile , but if playing with a straight couple thats fine.I dont push it with people unless they are looking for bi guys.But a lot of couples/singles are put off by bi.Damned if you do, damned if you dont!!"
But that's just it,you are not damned if you do,damned if you dont.
You are being honest with potential meets,you are bisexual,some that will appeal to,others it will not,but you are still being you.
Unless of course you feel you should be entitled to sleep with everyone on the site and to hell with what they want. |
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We are a bi couple and we love it! The sexual experiences are amazing!
We were at the point in our life where we decided to expand ourselves and open up to having bi experiences.
So glad we did! Nothing worse going through life saying “wish I had done that” and the regret that goes along with it. Instead we say “damn that was was an amazing experience! “ or “ok we tried it, it’s not for us” and we move on.
We don’t judge or try to convince any to anything they don’t want to. We know it’s not for everyone and we respect it!
That all we ask in return is to respect our decision to play as a bi couple.
There is nothing wrong with saying “thanks but no thanks, that’s not for me/us”
Honesty goes a long way in our books!
In our opinion- if your curious, put it on your profile and be honest with yourself and others!
Once again - RESPECT yourself and others decisions to be who you/they are.
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"We are a bi couple and we love it! The sexual experiences are amazing!
We were at the point in our life where we decided to expand ourselves and open up to having bi experiences.
So glad we did! Nothing worse going through life saying “wish I had done that” and the regret that goes along with it. Instead we say “damn that was was an amazing experience! “ or “ok we tried it, it’s not for us” and we move on.
We don’t judge or try to convince any to anything they don’t want to. We know it’s not for everyone and we respect it!
That all we ask in return is to respect our decision to play as a bi couple.
There is nothing wrong with saying “thanks but no thanks, that’s not for me/us”
Honesty goes a long way in our books!
In our opinion- if your curious, put it on your profile and be honest with yourself and others!
Once again - RESPECT yourself and others decisions to be who you/they are.
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Nice to have an honest answer from all the way over in Canada! 
As I say, I won’t be changing it on my profile, I like to be open and honest. I guess if it’s not for someone, then it shouldn’t really have an impact on my preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a bi couple and we love it! The sexual experiences are amazing!
We were at the point in our life where we decided to expand ourselves and open up to having bi experiences.
So glad we did! Nothing worse going through life saying “wish I had done that” and the regret that goes along with it. Instead we say “damn that was was an amazing experience! “ or “ok we tried it, it’s not for us” and we move on.
We don’t judge or try to convince any to anything they don’t want to. We know it’s not for everyone and we respect it!
That all we ask in return is to respect our decision to play as a bi couple.
There is nothing wrong with saying “thanks but no thanks, that’s not for me/us”
Honesty goes a long way in our books!
In our opinion- if your curious, put it on your profile and be honest with yourself and others!
Once again - RESPECT yourself and others decisions to be who you/they are.
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When said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if having the tag bi curious on my profile is off putting for couples and single females?
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ofcourse, we have never met bises, they are too soft .... |
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