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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Serious question and I know these men(and very rarely women) enter this world voluntarily and actually get turned on by it but I honestly think it's not right /fair (I dunno how to word my feelings towards it) but taking money off someone for nothing (ok a fetish but realistically nothing) is wrong. BTW I'm not attacking any findom lovers I just don't think it's a moral practice haha what is everyones thoughts? I know I'll get "each to their own" and "it's a fetish if you're not into it you won't understand" but any other opinions or words from people into it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you could argue they get their kick out of it as a return for their money. So it's a mutual deal. Where's the problem? "
Some of the stories I've read where the dom hasn't responsibly played the role. Maxing out credit cards and taking more than what's responsible etc... Now I'm not saying that's always the case but it feels like taking advantage of someone's addiction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not really sure I completely understand it enough to decide what I think about it. I've never known anyone into it."
Basically some people get extremely turned on by being made to hand over their cash or to buy things for or pay someone's bills. It's about a power switch for most men. I dunno what it's about with females handing over money. It's kinda the same as a male just being dominated sexually by a dominatrix but in nearly all the cases there's no sex. One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank |
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"I'm not really sure I completely understand it enough to decide what I think about it. I've never known anyone into it.
Basically some people get extremely turned on by being made to hand over their cash or to buy things for or pay someone's bills. It's about a power switch for most men. I dunno what it's about with females handing over money. It's kinda the same as a male just being dominated sexually by a dominatrix but in nearly all the cases there's no sex. One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank "
I'm down for that.
(Only messin')
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not really sure I completely understand it enough to decide what I think about it. I've never known anyone into it.
Basically some people get extremely turned on by being made to hand over their cash or to buy things for or pay someone's bills. It's about a power switch for most men. I dunno what it's about with females handing over money. It's kinda the same as a male just being dominated sexually by a dominatrix but in nearly all the cases there's no sex. One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank
I'm down for that.
(Only messin')
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You should definitely be down for that though haha some guys love it but I feel alot of people probably aren't playing the domme role ethically. If some man wants to hand over 100e every Saturday instead of going on a date and actually having sex or for a few drinks that's what they wanna do. And there's cash for you haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank "
I thought that was called "marriage" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank
I thought that was called "marriage" "
Haha ya there's many names for it, marriage, findom, voluntary incarceration etc.. People love it though, I find it odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank
I thought that was called "marriage"
Haha ya there's many names for it, marriage, findom, voluntary incarceration etc.. People love it though, I find it odd"
Nowt so queer as folk |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not really sure I completely understand it enough to decide what I think about it. I've never known anyone into it.
Basically some people get extremely turned on by being made to hand over their cash or to buy things for or pay someone's bills. It's about a power switch for most men. I dunno what it's about with females handing over money. It's kinda the same as a male just being dominated sexually by a dominatrix but in nearly all the cases there's no sex. One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank "
As you said in your op, it's a kink.
If you wish we can meet at the atm.
Only messing.
I'm surprised that fab let you post this, I got once nearly a ban using the expression in a pm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not really sure I completely understand it enough to decide what I think about it. I've never known anyone into it.
Basically some people get extremely turned on by being made to hand over their cash or to buy things for or pay someone's bills. It's about a power switch for most men. I dunno what it's about with females handing over money. It's kinda the same as a male just being dominated sexually by a dominatrix but in nearly all the cases there's no sex. One scenario I read was where a guy would agree to meet a woman at an atm and take out 100 or 200e or whatever she told him to and hand it over and just leave and go home and maybe wank
As you said in your op, it's a kink.
If you wish we can meet at the atm.
Only messing.
I'm surprised that fab let you post this, I got once nearly a ban using the expression in a pm. "
Ah shit, I didn't realise this could be a rule breach. I ain't into this though so I should be ok haha |
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