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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this isn't councilors session but I met a girl last night who I really like and we could possibly end up in a relationship which means I will be leaving fab but when do u know u are in a serious relationship these days lol, I haven't dated since I met my ex wife when I was 19 and it was easy to know back then lol. Sure we will go out for dinner and could end even in bed but these days that can happen at anytime. Just don't want to be on here when in a relationship because that's not me but again don't want to leave early if we are not exclusively dating. |
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Don't over think stuff you will figure it all out yourself. Just take things slow and don't rush into anything too quickly. If she is for you, you will leave fab or she might join you here who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't over think stuff you will figure it all out yourself. Just take things slow and don't rush into anything too quickly. If she is for you, you will leave fab or she might join you here who knows? "
Certainly not rushing this time, hence the ex wife lol. Just don't want to cross that line of she thinks we are proper and Im still on here, it's a pretty fine line but hey as u said she could be on here and reading this very post lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you meet her on here?
You could hide your profile if you feel that strongly, rather than deleting. "
No met on a night out, haven't met anyone on here so suppose hiding it for a while wouldn't be a big loss until I know we are exclusive. Just don't want to miss out on the fun as I'm sure the site can be once u get going but hey who knows what will happen over the next few weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ask her. That's the only way you'll know. Tell her what you told us (not about Fab, silly) that this is new and different. You want to know what she thinks and you care about what she wants. "
Fair advice, think I'll grow a set if things progress down the line and see, exciting times ahead hopefully lol. Early days yet so will see how it goes |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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Just hide ur profile and give this lady ur full attention , if after a couple of dates yer comfortable , ask her would she like a relationship as its too hard to try and think whats going on in someone elses head, u can always tell about here if shes open minded lol. Best of luck what ever u do
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"Just hide ur profile and give this lady ur full attention , if after a couple of dates yer comfortable , ask her would she like a relationship as its too hard to try and think whats going on in someone elses head, u can always tell about here if shes open minded lol. Best of luck what ever u do
Mr crazy "
Perfect answer. If you haven't met on here there would be plenty of time if things didn't work out and it sounds as if you would prefer a relationship so don't jeopardise by meeting on here at the same time. Good luck |
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"Ask her. That's the only way you'll know. Tell her what you told us (not about Fab, silly) that this is new and different. You want to know what she thinks and you care about what she wants.
Fair advice, think I'll grow a set if things progress down the line and see, exciting times ahead hopefully lol. Early days yet so will see how it goes "
Good luck, it's not easy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ask her. That's the only way you'll know. Tell her what you told us (not about Fab, silly) that this is new and different. You want to know what she thinks and you care about what she wants.
Fair advice, think I'll grow a set if things progress down the line and see, exciting times ahead hopefully lol. Early days yet so will see how it goes
Good luck, it's not easy "
No definitely not, like I said I haven't dated since I was 19. A lot harder at 30 lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just hide ur profile and give this lady ur full attention , if after a couple of dates yer comfortable , ask her would she like a relationship as its too hard to try and think whats going on in someone elses head, u can always tell about here if shes open minded lol. Best of luck what ever u do
Mr crazy
Perfect answer. If you haven't met on here there would be plenty of time if things didn't work out and it sounds as if you would prefer a relationship so don't jeopardise by meeting on here at the same time. Good luck "
All advice taken and appreciated and will see how it goes but yes definitely prefer a relationship especially with this girl, didn't think I would after the crazy ex wife |
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"Just hide ur profile and give this lady ur full attention , if after a couple of dates yer comfortable , ask her would she like a relationship as its too hard to try and think whats going on in someone elses head, u can always tell about here if shes open minded lol. Best of luck what ever u do
Mr crazy
Perfect answer. If you haven't met on here there would be plenty of time if things didn't work out and it sounds as if you would prefer a relationship so don't jeopardise by meeting on here at the same time. Good luck
All advice taken and appreciated and will see how it goes but yes definitely prefer a relationship especially with this girl, didn't think I would after the crazy ex wife "
Best of luck with everything OP just take it one day at a time...
Park your profile just in case you decide to come back.. . Enjoy the exciting times ahead. |
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