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Getting rid of a pest permanently
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!
I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....
A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think besides reporting him all u can do is not engage at all if u go to message filters an block newbies and unverified that will stop his new profiles contacting u |
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I would say just block him and don't reply to any messages.some people cant take rejection.alternatively put up some filters for a while to block males and he won't be able to message you then or else hide your profile. I personally wouldnt do that as he is winning then,I'd be inclined to just delete any messages and then block.Don't reply anymore to him no matter how often he messages with new profiles. |
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Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.
Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think besides reporting him all u can do is not engage at all if u go to message filters an block newbies and unverified that will stop his new profiles contacting u "
Very sound advise.... thank you, Kitty silly of me to think the idiot would listen to reason....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.
Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx
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Thank you Laura.... so much apptrciated xx |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Block block and block if he persists keep reporting each and every profile he sets up and did I say block
It's a pain in the arse (not in a good way for u)but unfortunately the way of the interweb |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!
I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....
A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "
Block report and set filters tighter.any sort of response to his mails is going to encourage him so dont reply to any of his mails. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.
Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx
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^^^^^^^^^ This is great advice and it's exactly what we did when it happened to us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Set your filters so newbies can't message u and only site supporters which will stop him messaging you as these helped me a great deal in messages. Also the block button. Hope it stops soon for you Moca |
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By *on11Man
over a year ago
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"Set your filters so newbies can't message u and only site supporters which will stop him messaging you as these helped me a great deal in messages. Also the block button. Hope it stops soon for you Moca "
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Second that! Pests ruin the site for others. |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!
I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....
A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "
Some lead in his ear would be permanent  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!
I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....
A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!!
Some lead in his ear would be permanent "
LMAO..... thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having chatted to Moca about this, it becomes clear that this lovely man is indeed a serial abuser. I've had my own problems with him in the past and I block every new profile he makes. How do I know he's back with a new one? Because he makes a point of fabbing my photo so I know he's back. Totally pathetic. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If he is not doing anything that scary and I would just completely ignore him.
I wouldn't even bother reading his messages, possibly you could message just to say that as from now you will notreplies. ponding any further as you have politely explained that you have no interest in continuing to invest your time in something that is not what you are looking for. After that no more replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell him to book a very expensive hotel and get the room number..the tell him wait there on the bed wanking naked at a certain time with the door unlocked and that you will arrive..
Then call the reception and say you think there's something suspicious happening in the room...
See how fast he goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....)
Very Fred West Mr Laid.
Fred West brought them home "
I used to have a twitter account called WestsSinisterShovel. It gave tips on body disposal and general gardening. All in good humour mind.  |
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"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....) "
*****note to myself*****
when on a meet check out the size of the bag the other person is carrying and ask myself if a shovel and a bag of lime would fit in it....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!
I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....
A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "
Block and report to Admin, if you know any details about him ie real life stuff, threaten to report him to Gardai, alternatively, name and shame in a status, cant abide that shite myself, no should mean no, this is sposed to be fun after all ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site supporter filter is good in this issue. Each time the idiot open's a new account he would have to pay to get around this filter. If they do become a site supporter than just block. It won't be long before he gives up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On other sites it's called creating sock puppet accounts and is considered a very serious breach of terms of use so you are right to be concerned. For some reason fab dosent take it that seriously. Perhaps it's because it's so easy to create a new account.
People like that tend to crave attention. If you simply block each new account he will eventually lose interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ignore few deep breaths and realax .
Above advice aswel stricter fillters for awhile most probably help .
I have a issue males messaging me so I just block them now. |
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