If given the choice, and I know many don't have a choice, would you prefer to meet a Fab friend in a hotel or in your/their home? Some people like to keep their private life private and keep things out of their house. Others just like being spoiled and put up in a lovely room. I have a few friends that prefer to meet in their home because all their "accessories"  are then readily available. Which do you prefer?  |
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over a year ago
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We prefer hotel meets ,less likely to be interrupted ,plus someone else gets to do the cleaning up .We'd never accomodate at our own home but know others that do and if it works for them alls good . |
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"We prefer hotel meets ,less likely to be interrupted ,plus someone else gets to do the cleaning up .We'd never accomodate at our own home but know others that do and if it works for them alls good ."
The cleaning thing is a big plus, isn't it! The sheets are someone else's problem |
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"My living arrangements don't allow for people over so hotel all the way "
I think many people are the same. Like it's something they might consider if the living arrangement situation was different. |
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over a year ago
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"Hotels , best for both
For many reasons
Xxxx
I'd say this will be the most popular response.
And it’s my treat
Ah here, you'll be bombarded with messages now wanting a weekend away  "
Why not  |
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"My living arrangements don't allow for people over so hotel all the way
I think many people are the same. Like it's something they might consider if the living arrangement situation was different. "
I prefer hotel anyway it's just better in my opinion anyway get a drink relax and enjoy |
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"My living arrangements don't allow for people over so hotel all the way
I think many people are the same. Like it's something they might consider if the living arrangement situation was different.
I prefer hotel anyway it's just better in my opinion anyway get a drink relax and enjoy "
It feels like more of an escape, a little more special. |
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"Hotels , best for both
For many reasons
Xxxx
I'd say this will be the most popular response.
And it’s my treat
Ah here, you'll be bombarded with messages now wanting a weekend away
Why not "
Was that your plan all along??? |
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"Hotels , best for both
For many reasons
Xxxx
I'd say this will be the most popular response.
And it’s my treat
Ah here, you'll be bombarded with messages now wanting a weekend away
Why not
Was that your plan all along??? "
just following the thread  |
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always found home meets tend to be more passionate and more fun overall hotels no one ever really relaxes as much and rooms are always a bit bare and basic. always found meets to be a more natural pace and build up at homes as you can work your way up to a room in hotels is almost like well lets get to it !
understand both points of view i cant host at home and therefore know the necessity of hotels but its great whe someone feels comfortable enough to invite you into theirs.
plus always thr risk with booking a hotel of a no show and you are out of pocket. |
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"always found home meets tend to be more passionate and more fun overall hotels no one ever really relaxes as much and rooms are always a bit bare and basic. always found meets to be a more natural pace and build up at homes as you can work your way up to a room in hotels is almost like well lets get to it !
understand both points of view i cant host at home and therefore know the necessity of hotels but its great whe someone feels comfortable enough to invite you into theirs.
plus always thr risk with booking a hotel of a no show and you are out of pocket."
It is a very nice feeling when someone trusts you enough to let you into their home, I mean what is more personal than your actual home. |
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I no longer do hotel meets as a rule as I've had to foot the bill a few times and had a couple very late no shows. I've one hotel meet to be arranged but she's booking it.
One of my main filters is if they say cannot accommodate then I tend not to engage, or if they message I'll raise this issue straight away to see if will cause difficult in meeting as many don't meet outside either. No point wasting anyone's time. |
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"I no longer do hotel meets as a rule as I've had to foot the bill a few times and had a couple very late no shows. I've one hotel meet to be arranged but she's booking it.
One of my main filters is if they say cannot accommodate then I tend not to engage, or if they message I'll raise this issue straight away to see if will cause difficult in meeting as many don't meet outside either. No point wasting anyone's time."
I don't do hotels anymore either. And I get the accommodation chit chat done with straight away. I understand 100% |
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"I’d never have a fab meet in my home, much prefer a hotel. Also I have a very large,very protective dog so he’d be a massive cock block  "
It's funny you said about the dog. My regular complains that I'm sometimes more excited to see his dog than I am to see him |
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"If given the choice, and I know many don't have a choice, would you prefer to meet a Fab friend in a hotel or in your/their home? Some people like to keep their private life private and keep things out of their house. Others just like being spoiled and put up in a lovely room. I have a few friends that prefer to meet in their home because all their "accessories" are then readily available. Which do you prefer? "
Hotel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotel meets are more naughty "
I agree. Waiting for the knock on the door. Room service to replenish the supplies is also a bonus. Also feels like a treat.
P.s Happy Friday everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a hotel meet. Feeling deprived now!
Diclasse is apparently giving them out! Shoot him a message "
It’s a simple gesture , not a big deal
Got to use those VIP points
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"Never had a hotel meet. Feeling deprived now!
Diclasse is apparently giving them out! Shoot him a message
It’s a simple gesture , not a big deal
Got to use those VIP points
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So you're a generous VIP now?? Such a humble fella |
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"I no longer do hotel meets as a rule as I've had to foot the bill a few times and had a couple very late no shows. I've one hotel meet to be arranged but she's booking it.
One of my main filters is if they say cannot accommodate then I tend not to engage, or if they message I'll raise this issue straight away to see if will cause difficult in meeting as many don't meet outside either. No point wasting anyone's time.
I don't do hotels anymore either. And I get the accommodation chit chat done with straight away. I understand 100%"
Unlike some others on here I find hotel meets a bit cold and more akin to paying for sex in my mind. I'm certainly less relaxed in a hotel than in a home. Many of my meets will be over a weekend and so they also involve going out for a meal/drinks between sessions. |
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"I no longer do hotel meets as a rule as I've had to foot the bill a few times and had a couple very late no shows. I've one hotel meet to be arranged but she's booking it.
One of my main filters is if they say cannot accommodate then I tend not to engage, or if they message I'll raise this issue straight away to see if will cause difficult in meeting as many don't meet outside either. No point wasting anyone's time.
I don't do hotels anymore either. And I get the accommodation chit chat done with straight away. I understand 100%
Unlike some others on here I find hotel meets a bit cold and more akin to paying for sex in my mind. I'm certainly less relaxed in a hotel than in a home. Many of my meets will be over a weekend and so they also involve going out for a meal/drinks between sessions."
...do you ever make pancakes? Asking for a friend |
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"I no longer do hotel meets as a rule as I've had to foot the bill a few times and had a couple very late no shows. I've one hotel meet to be arranged but she's booking it.
One of my main filters is if they say cannot accommodate then I tend not to engage, or if they message I'll raise this issue straight away to see if will cause difficult in meeting as many don't meet outside either. No point wasting anyone's time.
I don't do hotels anymore either. And I get the accommodation chit chat done with straight away. I understand 100%
Unlike some others on here I find hotel meets a bit cold and more akin to paying for sex in my mind. I'm certainly less relaxed in a hotel than in a home. Many of my meets will be over a weekend and so they also involve going out for a meal/drinks between sessions.
...do you ever make pancakes? Asking for a friend "
Lol... I'd say your friend has nicely set you up there.
Best ask her as she probably now has one of the best pancake recepies in Ireland and the UK
Tell her I'm still waiting on my royalties
Yes I do btw.  |
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First time usually a hotel tbh unless they host. If something is more regular then home becomes handoer and less expensive. But I can't always host due to living with others. |
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"If given the choice, and I know many don't have a choice, would you prefer to meet a Fab friend in a hotel or in your/their home? Some people like to keep their private life private and keep things out of their house. Others just like being spoiled and put up in a lovely room. I have a few friends that prefer to meet in their home because all their "accessories" are then readily available. Which do you prefer?
Hotel "
You like an apartment too right? |
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"First time usually a hotel tbh unless they host. If something is more regular then home becomes handoer and less expensive. But I can't always host due to living with others. "
That is a sticking point for loads of guys! Flatmates! Grrrrrr 
Believe me, as someone interested in single guys, I can be found cursing flatmates daily! |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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I prefer my home. I’ve nothing to hide. It’s my domain. I’m more comfortable thier and my rules. And besides before anyone comes to my home I will have been chatting or even met socially before hand even for a coffee at mine. Nobody has out stayed Thier welcome or come knocking on my door uninvited as if they did and started they would need to be very good at running |
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"I prefer my home. I’ve nothing to hide. It’s my domain. I’m more comfortable thier and my rules. And besides before anyone comes to my home I will have been chatting or even met socially before hand even for a coffee at mine. Nobody has out stayed Thier welcome or come knocking on my door uninvited as if they did and started they would need to be very good at running "
I'm glad you've had such good experiences with hosting. I prefer to be in a home as well. |
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I’ve not been able to accommodate for the past couple of months, and I miss it. I love the chilled, laid back atmosphere of being in a house. I tend to be kinda noisy (shocker), and that can cause problems with neighbouring rooms in hotels. I’ve never had a bad experience hosting at home.
Moving into a new place soon and looking forward to a ‘christening’ |
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We are child free and neither of us are from where we live so dont have the worry of a relative knocking on the door , that said we are up and down the country a bit so hotels are an option as well , but only well verified to the house |
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"We are child free and neither of us are from where we live so dont have the worry of a relative knocking on the door , that said we are up and down the country a bit so hotels are an option as well , but only well verified to the house"
That's great that you have those options! Yes, someone definitely needs to be well verified. Safety always |
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"I’ve not been able to accommodate for the past couple of months, and I miss it. I love the chilled, laid back atmosphere of being in a house. I tend to be kinda noisy (shocker), and that can cause problems with neighbouring rooms in hotels. I’ve never had a bad experience hosting at home.
Moving into a new place soon and looking forward to a ‘christening’ "
Congratulations! It will be good to have a comfortable space back
I have a difficulty with being quiet too  So I understand completely. |
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"I don't accommodate, this is the family home, and family doesn't need to ask permission to come home. Besides, it's hard to beat a wee road trip "
A little road trip can't be beat, not even with a stick |
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"I don't accommodate, this is the family home, and family doesn't need to ask permission to come home. Besides, it's hard to beat a wee road trip
A little road trip can't be beat, not even with a stick "
Not even with a big stick |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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I used to accommodate but only 2 regular meets. But, situations change and I can't anymore. So it's usually hotels. I've found though some guys that accommodate only want quickies or to meet immediately. |
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