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over a year ago
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Jus a topic that’s on my mind and was wondering what everyone else thought.
Just in relation to face pics y do some profiles say “don’t bother to contact me/us unless you have a full face pic or body pic” when in fact when you check there profile they don’t have any face pic up themselves. I understand discretion is important to some people so if they are making a statement like that shouldn’t they also put a face pic up for all to see if there asking to see you before you see them? Just would like people’s thoughts on this?
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"Jus a topic that’s on my mind and was wondering what everyone else thought.
Just in relation to face pics y do some profiles say “don’t bother to contact me/us unless you have a full face pic or body pic” when in fact when you check there profile they don’t have any face pic up themselves. I understand discretion is important to some people so if they are making a statement like that shouldn’t they also put a face pic up for all to see if there asking to see you before you see them? Just would like people’s thoughts on this?
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We have lots of face pics in our private pics, but as we get so much mail we request that a face pic is attached as no point chatting with dozens of guys if mrs dont fancy them, if she likes and wants ti chat more she will send one back |
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"Jus a topic that’s on my mind and was wondering what everyone else thought.
Just in relation to face pics y do some profiles say “don’t bother to contact me/us unless you have a full face pic or body pic” when in fact when you check there profile they don’t have any face pic up themselves. I understand discretion is important to some people so if they are making a statement like that shouldn’t they also put a face pic up for all to see if there asking to see you before you see them? Just would like people’s thoughts on this?
We have lots of face pics in our private pics, but as we get so much mail we request that a face pic is attached as no point chatting with dozens of guys if mrs dont fancy them, if she likes and wants ti chat more she will send one back"
Yes totally get that but wouldn’t it be nice for both sides to see each other and in fairness we are all adults if for argument sake we exchanged pics and you said you didn’t like me then fair enough I know I’ll get no further cos if I keep pushing you would just block me etc so can’t see why people request that, jus my opinion tho everyone is different. Iv no problem sending a face pic of I get one in return but to be told no don’t like u and that’s it kinda think it’s unfair. Not saying it’s happened to me jus an observation from profiles I’m reading  |
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"Jus a topic that’s on my mind and was wondering what everyone else thought.
Just in relation to face pics y do some profiles say “don’t bother to contact me/us unless you have a full face pic or body pic” when in fact when you check there profile they don’t have any face pic up themselves. I understand discretion is important to some people so if they are making a statement like that shouldn’t they also put a face pic up for all to see if there asking to see you before you see them? Just would like people’s thoughts on this?
We have lots of face pics in our private pics, but as we get so much mail we request that a face pic is attached as no point chatting with dozens of guys if mrs dont fancy them, if she likes and wants ti chat more she will send one back"
^^ same as this we have pics in private and send them if we plan to meet the people we are chatting with,but in turn we dont ask for face pics to be sent in first mail neither. We will ask if its goin anywhere and we will return the favour |
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Think in that instance they mean to include it in a message. I'd imagine they would reciprocate, that seems to be the norm. I usually send one back even if I'm not into the other person just to square it up and kind of thank them for putting it out there.
I do like to see who I'm talking to and it helps decide if I'll meet usually. Although I have made exceptions when other things catch my eye  |
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"Jus a topic that’s on my mind and was wondering what everyone else thought.
Just in relation to face pics y do some profiles say “don’t bother to contact me/us unless you have a full face pic or body pic” when in fact when you check there profile they don’t have any face pic up themselves. I understand discretion is important to some people so if they are making a statement like that shouldn’t they also put a face pic up for all to see if there asking to see you before you see them? Just would like people’s thoughts on this?
We have lots of face pics in our private pics, but as we get so much mail we request that a face pic is attached as no point chatting with dozens of guys if mrs dont fancy them, if she likes and wants ti chat more she will send one back
^^ same as this we have pics in private and send them if we plan to meet the people we are chatting with,but in turn we dont ask for face pics to be sent in first mail neither. We will ask if its goin anywhere and we will return the favour"
Yes totally agree with you there. In my opinion that’s the right way to be. No point shutting a guy or girl off jus cos they don’t attach a face pic on the first message. Least chat to them if it’s goin somewhere and ye click personality wise then exchange face pics. |
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"Think in that instance they mean to include it in a message. I'd imagine they would reciprocate, that seems to be the norm. I usually send one back even if I'm not into the other person just to square it up and kind of thank them for putting it out there.
I do like to see who I'm talking to and it helps decide if I'll meet usually. Although I have made exceptions when other things catch my eye "
Yeah I get that I like to see who I’m talking to too. But if it’s a case of me exchanging me face pic and then be cut straight off jus shows what kind of person they are. Speaking completely hypothetically here. This hasn’t happened to me. Would like to get to know someone and if we click personality wise then move to face pics etc. hard to turn down a nice bum or boob pic tho lol  |
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"My personal rule is whoever asks first sends first. If I ask to see someone's face I send mine first. "
Again another good point. Nice to see who you are talkin to |
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If you get 15/20 messages a day we dont see the point in wasting so much time having literally 100s of conversations a week to find that mrs dont fancy them.
Much easier if a guy messages us wanting to meet that he attach a clear pic, if she likes she will send one back and chat further, if she dont like she will politely decline |
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"My personal rule is whoever asks first sends first. If I ask to see someone's face I send mine first.
Again another good point. Nice to see who you are talkin to "
I might be the first to ask, it may not have been a mutual agreement, so unless both parties have agreed to swap, I don't feel the other person is obliged to send me one just because I sent them one. Hope that makes sense. |
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"If you get 15/20 messages a day we dont see the point in wasting so much time having literally 100s of conversations a week to find that mrs dont fancy them.
Much easier if a guy messages us wanting to meet that he attach a clear pic, if she likes she will send one back and chat further, if she dont like she will politely decline"
Yes I get that too but would it not be better to exchange pics from your side first then if U don’t like what you get back then just tell them the truth? |
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"My personal rule is whoever asks first sends first. If I ask to see someone's face I send mine first.
Again another good point. Nice to see who you are talkin to
I might be the first to ask, it may not have been a mutual agreement, so unless both parties have agreed to swap, I don't feel the other person is obliged to send me one just because I sent them one. Hope that makes sense. "
Yes totally understand, that’s your decision I’m the end. |
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Personally I just wouldn't chat to anyone looking for face pics in the first message. Not because I'm ugly, I'm ok haha but because I don't see why I should give up my privacy when there's a huge chance the recipients won't do the same. But the thing is women and couples are gold dust and if one guy doesn't follow their request 10 more will. |
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"Personally I just wouldn't chat to anyone looking for face pics in the first message. Not because I'm ugly, I'm ok haha but because I don't see why I should give up my privacy when there's a huge chance the recipients won't do the same. But the thing is women and couples are gold dust and if one guy doesn't follow their request 10 more will. "
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"Personally I just wouldn't chat to anyone looking for face pics in the first message. Not because I'm ugly, I'm ok haha but because I don't see why I should give up my privacy when there's a huge chance the recipients won't do the same. But the thing is women and couples are gold dust and if one guy doesn't follow their request 10 more will. "
You have it there in a nutshell, we state on profile attach face pic, once a guy has read the profile its up to him knowing well the odds are stacked. We all know the ratio of men to couples seeking men.
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"Think in that instance they mean to include it in a message. I'd imagine they would reciprocate, that seems to be the norm. I usually send one back even if I'm not into the other person just to square it up and kind of thank them for putting it out there.
I do like to see who I'm talking to and it helps decide if I'll meet usually. Although I have made exceptions when other things catch my eye "
Like a nice manicure? Sexy elbows? Asking for a friend  |
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"I don't really care who sees my face. I even had it as my profile pic but people said it made me look "not discreet".."
I feel that way about face pics as the profile pic. It actually puts me off. (You are cute though) It just makes me feel like if that person isn't concerned with their own discretion then they aren't likely to give a shit about mine. |
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"Think in that instance they mean to include it in a message. I'd imagine they would reciprocate, that seems to be the norm. I usually send one back even if I'm not into the other person just to square it up and kind of thank them for putting it out there.
I do like to see who I'm talking to and it helps decide if I'll meet usually. Although I have made exceptions when other things catch my eye
Like a nice manicure? Sexy elbows? Asking for a friend "
Sexy elbows
Must add that to my public profile.
I guess you never know, eh |
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