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Competition is enormous on here for older guys
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for guys in general not just older.....
you have youth on your side  "
Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I think for guys in general not just older.....
you have youth on your side
Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage"
Not all Hmmmmm x |
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"I think for guys in general not just older.....
you have youth on your side
Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage
Not all Hmmmmm x"
That's actually all I'm looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it all depends on the person themselves and some luck. I've seen beautiful women who would have queues a mile long just to carry their bags while they go shopping with verifications from older men who wouldn't be in the best shape or anything really standing out about them but maybe they're 10 times smarter, funnier and more charming than most in person or via text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for guys in general not just older.....
you have youth on your side
Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage
Not all Hmmmmm x
That's actually all I'm looking for "
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I dunno OP. I think there are all sorts of people on here who like all different kinds of people and ages.
My partner C actually prefers fun with older men.
Everybody is different. To each their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take any of it too seriously OP and it'll happen for you. There's lots who only want to meet older guys for numerous reasons. Being selective isn't a bad thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The effort u put in reflects the rewards ye take out I've seen just normal looking guys and gals having plenty of sex in clubs anyway so how involved are u cos sitting behind the screen of your laptop or fone won't get ye far |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here. "
But yet here you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are "
I expected someone to say that haha Can i not use both sites no? Just because i prefer one over the other doesn't mean i should leave the other does it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are
I expected someone to say that haha Can i not use both sites no? Just because i prefer one over the other doesn't mean i should leave the other does it?"
No not at all you can use any site you wish I just felt I had to say it....i got an urge I couldn't resist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it all depends on the person themselves and some luck. I've seen beautiful women who would have queues a mile long just to carry their bags while they go shopping with verifications from older men who wouldn't be in the best shape or anything really standing out about them but maybe they're 10 times smarter, funnier and more charming than most in person or via text. "
This is true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are "
Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.
OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are
Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.
OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.
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Well that put me in my box.
Didn't mean any offence OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does feel at time like the older I get, the more I fall outside people's filters, but that's life. "
Theyre getting older at the same rate as us both mate... Some look like it's faster mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here. "
I do find fet has younger age group too and men probably get more of a response.
On here to me age doesn't matter really its more about how they can make me tick in messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are
Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.
OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.
Well that put me in my box.
Didn't mean any offence OP "
No offense intended but there's a lot of that about on here. Fair play to hold your had up without more.
Respect mate
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.
But yet here you are
Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.
OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.
Well that put me in my box.
Didn't mean any offence OP
No offense intended but there's a lot of that about on here. Fair play to hold your had up without more.
Respect mate
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And I'm not a fan of the blatant putting down of other users on the forums but the fingers often type faster than the head thinks haha
Also being a smart ass is hard to fight....
What is this fet anywho?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think age comes into it..number 1 stand out from the crowd..number 2 have patience..number 3 don't be an eejit with your msgs..shouldn't be saying anything here that you wouldn't say to a woman face to face out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think age comes into it..number 1 stand out from the crowd..number 2 have patience..number 3 don't be an eejit with your msgs..shouldn't be saying anything here that you wouldn't say to a woman face to face out"
In a nutshell |
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"what's your thoughts?  "
I have to agree OP, the competition for older guys seems mental here.
The amount of women that have contacted me and then said "Oh you're not 50 til June? Aw well, was worth a try, I suppose I'll wait until after June then!"
The mind boggles. Like they wouldn't take a good wine if it hadn't hit just that peak and could taste the difference in a few months 
I dunno, I guess my mailbox is gonna explode in early July and I may need a P.A. it seems. Hope she's good with her fingers |
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"I don't know if I agree OP, but then again I don't share your perspective.
Is this purely based on your own efforts and opinions or have you heard from others that share your circumstances?"
Ah Jay! Sure you're only a gossin for god's sake 
Perspective is key, as you mentioned. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"Competition full stop.
To many men not enough women.
good reply "
Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones. |
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"Competition full stop.
To many men not enough women.
good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Competition full stop.
To many men not enough women.
good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."
Totally agree with you. Be nice and even if it takes forever to get your meet just enjoy the time. |
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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin 15 |
"Competition full stop.
To many men not enough women.
good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."
there's nobody complaining that I've seen,it's just a question |
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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Competition full stop.
To many men not enough women.
good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones.
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I'm not desperate, it's a friendly thread,isn't it |
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