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Do you ever think about your ex
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By *un17 OP Man
over a year ago
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Was on fb over the weekend and stumbled across someone who used to be good friends with an ex over 20 years ago got thinking about her and looked her up couldn’t find her as I presume she is married and changed her name but for the last couple of days I have been thinking about her and reminiscing about our time together just wondering does this happen anybody else |
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"Was on fb over the weekend and stumbled across someone who used to be good friends with an ex over 20 years ago got thinking about her and looked her up couldn’t find her as I presume she is married and changed her name but for the last couple of days I have been thinking about her and reminiscing about our time together just wondering does this happen anybody else "
Oh gosh yes! I'd say nearly everyone has someone or a few someone's they think back on.
Just think, you are somebody's daydream this afternoon |
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Not to the point where I look them up. I did add an ex though on twitter or something, but thats cause she was commenting in the same circles and felt like we were ignoring each other.
So now we ignore each other while being on each others friends list. |
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over a year ago
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When I lived in the states I met a guy from armagh .. my sexual awakening I suppose. He was amazing and yes I do think about him from time to time. I hope he's happy  |
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Think about, talk to, meet for a cuppa, send photos of my new toys, go to their weddings, all the time, cos they're friends. I've been really lucky with mine, they're (nearly all) awesome people that still play important parts in my life.
The one or two that aren't friends anymore I miss so much. Can deal with a relationship ending but losing their friendship as well can be painfully sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think about, talk to, meet for a cuppa, send photos of my new toys, go to their weddings, all the time, cos they're friends. I've been really lucky with mine, they're (nearly all) awesome people that still play important parts in my life.
The one or two that aren't friends anymore I miss so much. Can deal with a relationship ending but losing their friendship as well can be
painfully sad."
Yes my last gf. Tried this. Didn’t want to be with me but wanted to just be friends. In what world does that work. Lol like all I would want to do is kiss her and all then. She be with someone else and still would want to be friends and. Talk. Yea. Dead on. Lol. Cut the cord move on |
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Yes my last gf. Tried this. Didn’t want to be with me but wanted to just be friends. In what world does that work. Lol like all I would want to do is kiss her and all then. She be with someone else and still would want to be friends and. Talk. Yea. Dead on. Lol. Cut the cord move on "
Works in my world, like I just said. Works well. Beautifully, even, with time. Each to their own, though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since my ex-husband shares custody of our kids, two of whom are still minors, hard not to think about him. I look forward to the day when contact becomes unnecessary. We're cordial but no more, and have nothing in common now but the kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah sometimes I do think back on past exes, the oral my first girl used to give me has never been toped! Plus she was too nice for the likes of me haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Immediately after a break up I'd think about them for weeks on end and mess up dating opportunities for weeks with other girls because I'm still thinking about them but once I'm back dating they're forgotten about. I've zero contact with most and do my best to keep it that way. To be fair I haven't been in really long relationships so maybe that's why I don't care for their friendships and don't want them around my circle cause I just don't like telling new girls oh that's my ex etc.. Less drama to walk away completely for me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Since my ex-husband shares custody of our kids, two of whom are still minors, hard not to think about him. I look forward to the day when contact becomes unnecessary. We're cordial but no more, and have nothing in common now but the kids."
Now this feeling I know only too well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah sometimes I do think back on past exes, the oral my first girl used to give me has never been toped! Plus she was too nice for the likes of me haha "
Ahhh that's sweet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was on fb over the weekend and stumbled across someone who used to be good friends with an ex over 20 years ago got thinking about her and looked her up couldn’t find her as I presume she is married and changed her name but for the last couple of days I have been thinking about her and reminiscing about our time together just wondering does this happen anybody else "
Yes.... there is one person who will always have a special place in my heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was on fb over the weekend and stumbled across someone who used to be good friends with an ex over 20 years ago got thinking about her and looked her up couldn’t find her as I presume she is married and changed her name but for the last couple of days I have been thinking about her and reminiscing about our time together just wondering does this happen anybody else "
Yes when im chopping veg  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to think about an ex but I do think about some of the woman from my past whom I wish I had a relationship with! Alot of them have moved on.. so I guess those ship's have sailed! |
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I actually think about the nice ones occasionally. Fond memories mostly. Very rarely I think about the bad ones and I'm glad I moved on.
Still friends, though distant/rare chats such as birthdays and the like, with a few. I think if it was a good relationship, then it's more likely that you will still be friends. I have since met one of the bad ones and adult cordiality would be the best we could manage. C'est la vie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, recently started checking out her profile on fb not in a stalking way but was jus reminiscing of good times we had. Although it was a very bad break up and ended up me in a bout of depression as she went off to abu Dubai to become a teacher where she met her now current fiancée. Sometimes I wonder wat my life would be like if we stayed together but then I remembered she drove me mad and is now happy with someone else and for that I’m happy for her and I as we have both moved on with our lives. She still d*unken messages from time to time but had to tell her stop don’t want the agro of her partner approaching me. But my advice no point looking at the past there’s a reason why they don’t make it into their future. |
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I decided to search for the girl who popped my cherry all those many months ago
I was delighted to see that she's recently become a mum so I do wish her all the best
Apart from that I try not to do nostalgia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think about one ex. We talk on the phone every month or so. I miss him terribly. I am happy that I have such fond memories of us together for whenever I'm feeling blue. |
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"I think about one ex. We talk on the phone every month or so. I miss him terribly. I am happy that I have such fond memories of us together for whenever I'm feeling blue."
You still talk on the phone regularly? Not being a smartass but, if I was your current bf, I might be a little uncomfortable with that level of contact.
Just saying, don't shoot me.
Good that you have the fond memories but are they and the regular contact preventing you from forging ahead? |
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"I don't have a current boyfriend."
Men of Ireland, cop yourselves on and be awake to this wonderful lady!
No,I wasn't saying you had or not. I was just saying if.
As in, I'd be a little curious as to you speaking with the ex regularly. Probably if he met your ex out socially and knew that it was definitely not something that was to be rekindled, then all would be cool.
As you're currently single, it's a moot point. |
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By *rct4Man
over a year ago
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"I think about one ex. We talk on the phone every month or so. I miss him terribly. I am happy that I have such fond memories of us together for whenever I'm feeling blue."
why don't you tell him how you feel? And see what happens? I understand you might not want to risk loosing the friendship too! Just tell him you miss him a lot in the next call, life's too short x
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Was with my ex for 5 years, we have a two year old little girl together. I had given the last year and a half trying to win her back and she always told me to let it go and move on. It crushed me as for me it always boiled down to our little girl having both her parents 7 days a week.Nothing had happened in the relationship that needed it to end full stop. 3 weeks ago I met an amazing beautiful young lady. Taking it slow but things are going great. Delighted to finally be able to move on. Fab will take a backseat for now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was with my ex for 5 years, we have a two year old little girl together. I had given the last year and a half trying to win her back and she always told me to let it go and move on. It crushed me as for me it always boiled down to our little girl having both her parents 7 days a week.Nothing had happened in the relationship that needed it to end full stop. 3 weeks ago I met an amazing beautiful young lady. Taking it slow but things are going great. Delighted to finally be able to move on. Fab will take a backseat for now. "
I remember you posted about your break up at some point. I’m really happy to read this!
Best of luck to you, you deserve some good. xx |
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"Was with my ex for 5 years, we have a two year old little girl together. I had given the last year and a half trying to win her back and she always told me to let it go and move on. It crushed me as for me it always boiled down to our little girl having both her parents 7 days a week.Nothing had happened in the relationship that needed it to end full stop. 3 weeks ago I met an amazing beautiful young lady. Taking it slow but things are going great. Delighted to finally be able to move on. Fab will take a backseat for now.
I remember you posted about your break up at some point. I’m really happy to read this!
Best of luck to you, you deserve some good. xx"
Thank you Bold. Very kind of you to say. New woman and the rugby back on, life is good |
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Yep me too its been 10 years and i still think of her and what might have been if things worked out..i know she thinks about me too even after all this time but i try not to remember the good because it will torment me..best to think of the bad and the reasons why you broke up in the first place..ah life was never meant to be easy  |
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Haa yh,about a year ago met my ex that joined the same gym as me i didnt know where to look,she looked hot as hell aswell think about hwr most times im there worst thing is i dont really talk to her as my gf is in the same gym.
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