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By *uite45 OP Man
over a year ago
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What do I do....married 19yrs, no sex last 12yrs, tired of Wanking, Miss sex terrible. On here 18months not a snif. To old, Married, To far away. Not my type....etc. Please don't take the piss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah, if divorce is an option go for it.
but depending if your paying for a house it could get messy.
best thing to do is talk to your wife if she wont listen, tell her your booking some counselling sessions, give her the time and date, if she doesnt show up, it will work in your favour when it comes to the divorce court.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sit down and have a chat with your wife, flatter her. Remind her why you married her. Be more spontaneous and more romantic. Chat of old fun times. Tell her she's sexy. If this doesn't work or if you've already tried and failed there then leave the marriage. Both will be happier. Try first though if you haven't already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do I do....married 19yrs, no sex last 12yrs, tired of Wanking, Miss sex terrible. On here 18months not a snif. To old, Married, To far away. Not my type....etc. Please don't take the piss."
Im in the same boat im not going to walk away kids still young, but yes you should talk to her see how that goes first..best off luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My parents didn't get on alot of the time and I have friends who were in the same boat. One friend told me the best thing that happened when she was young was when her parents separated because of constant tension in the house. Staying in a marriage sounds like the right thing to do but a lot of the time it's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I have tried everything to get here interested but she has just lost that side of her. Just missing that massive feeling. "
If that's how you feel and you tried everything then maybe it's time to move on.i did it after a 5 year relationship,I'm still a father and always will be to my child but it's the best thing I ever done in every way.100% happy now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’ve a house and financial commitments, it can be very hard to walk away. Children know when there is tension. After a twenty year relationship and being told I was a useless cunt and all the rest, I left. Hardest thing I ever did in my life, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life now. It took a lot out of me at the time. She’s still a moan and does everything she can to stop me seeing our children but as they’ve got older, they’ve seen through her bullshit. Go out somewhere away from the house, sit down and both have a chat about where you are in your lives and how you can get it back. Then and only then, should one or both of you decide to finish your relationship. But remember this bit of advise, your going to walk away from your house, your ‘friends’, and your life as you know it now. Everything gets turned upside down. Get a solicitor to draw up a separation agreement and both of you read over it and tailor it to suit your needs. Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you both for the best and no matter what advice you get, you two are the only ones that know what’s best for you both and the children. |
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By *uite45 OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks again for the replies.....wish she was a bitch and always giving out but she is not. WE simply do not have a sex life because of her and I am lost. I am a prick if i walk out on her because of no sex. I am a cheating bastard if i fuck around behind her back and i dead inside if i stay......No right answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From personal being single(or younger, taller,we, richer able to travel and accommodate) on this site is no guarantee of success, if you could talk her into swinging then you might have better luck |
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