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By *oey4somefun OP   Man  over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All behaving for January. .. but now it's nearly February

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By *oey4somefun OP   Man  over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Roll on February so!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hibernation time, got my fill of nuts in for the winter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? "
I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

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By *09309309Woman  over a year ago

Dublin

I agree. Fab always has its highs and lows but it seems like this is an extended low

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The dreaded Christmas Visa bill be hitting people’s letterboxes from around now

Open them with one eye and it’s only half bad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very quiet... No one is meeting atm...seems to be the cold.

There's a lot of activity, just need to know who and where. Much the same as any time other than school holidays.

Big social on Friday here in Belfast... good condoms are already scarce so seems like Belfast is the place atm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont find it that quiet.after being a few socials on over january

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The dreaded Christmas Visa bill be hitting people’s letterboxes from around now

Open them with one eye and it’s only half bad "

This and the first payday post Christmas for most people is this week

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other."

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? "

What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dont find it that quiet.after being a few socials on over january"

Same here... January was a very busy month for me

Now if you are talking about forums... I see the same old thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it."

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Where are these cliques and how do I join lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ?? "

Who said anything about meeting groups of people??

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15

"Cliques" please don't go there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think your a bit slow are you or do you find it hard to read what was actually said??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Where are these cliques and how do I join lol "
Its easy you just play follow the leader.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ?? Who said anything about meeting groups of people??"

Oh dear you brought up cliques. . I'm asking where they are? ? If you can't back up your statement just say... it's ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ?? Who said anything about meeting groups of people??

Oh dear you brought up cliques. . I'm asking where they are? ? If you can't back up your statement just say... it's ok "

You should know we can't name anyone on the forums.

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? "

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? "

I rarely look in, the place became boring.

Death filtered, Every second profile says, no meeting at the moment, just chatting, age constraints, cliques, Unanswered requests no matter how polite. Pick out something .

Make Fab a closed society ....that would work best for the members at the moment .Of course, the site operator does not earn any money

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wonder why he is interested in posting a forum post but does not want anybody looking at his profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ?? Who said anything about meeting groups of people??

Oh dear you brought up cliques. . I'm asking where they are? ? If you can't back up your statement just say... it's ok You should know we can't name anyone on the forums. "

This is true but you can discuss without naming ?? Have you met these cliques ?? Do you no them ?? We're you part of them ?? If not how have you gained this knowledge ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again "

You didn't get where you are today c.j by letting a name spelled backwards fool you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again "

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very quiet... No one is meeting atm...seems to be the cold.

There's a lot of activity, just need to know who and where. Much the same as any time other than school holidays.

Big social on Friday here in Belfast... good condoms are already scarce so seems like Belfast is the place atm. "

Always a good sign

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ? What are you trying to say.Because my profile is hidden I'm not entitled to give my opinion is that it.

No not at all I'm just curious, you seem annoyed yet your not active. . I'm just wondering about this " clique" I'm active but I've yet to meet this group of people ?? Who said anything about meeting groups of people??

Oh dear you brought up cliques. . I'm asking where they are? ? If you can't back up your statement just say... it's ok You should know we can't name anyone on the forums.

This is true but you can discuss without naming ?? Have you met these cliques ?? Do you no them ?? We're you part of them ?? If not how have you gained this knowledge ?? "

That's a lot of questions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out "

No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out."

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested "

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested "

Your such a tease sally.lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better"

I know bless him ... are you in this clique by Any chance ?? Let him in .. he's lonely

Still feeling ughhh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/01/18 16:01:00]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better

I know bless him ... are you in this clique by Any chance ?? Let him in .. he's lonely

Still feeling ughhh "

Your squirting just thinking of me sally.lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there a membership fee to join the clique ? Where do one get the application forms ? i want to watch the group eat one another

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better

I know bless him ... are you in this clique by Any chance ?? Let him in .. he's lonely

Still feeling ughhh "

Nope not part of a clique Sally. They're a bit like unicorns.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there a membership fee to join the clique ? Where do one get the application forms ? i want to watch the group eat one another "
Just sit back and let nature take its course.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better

I know bless him ... are you in this clique by Any chance ?? Let him in .. he's lonely

Still feeling ughhh

Nope not part of a clique Sally. They're a bit like unicorns."

So you have seen them as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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No, for free. I know a few women who are gone here because they were bullied.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 24/01/18 16:01:00]

No, for free. I know a few women who are gone here because they were bullied.

"

And I know a few men that are gone because they were bullied.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very quiet... No one is meeting atm...seems to be the cold.

There's a lot of activity, just need to know who and where. Much the same as any time other than school holidays.

Big social on Friday here in Belfast... good condoms are already scarce so seems like Belfast is the place atm.

Always a good sign "

Mine are for sale as I can't go now. Honestly they haven't been used yet.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other.

Your profile is hidden ?? Why do you care what anyone's doing your obviously not active at the moment? ?

Awe sally sure tis sligofun45 back again

This is what I was really wondering ... should we get the fanfare out No but maybe you could get your fanny out.

Yawn ... never for you darling ..but your used to women saying no to you have fun sligo now your out I'm no longer interested

Aww Sally and he was so polite .

Hope you're feeling better

I know bless him ... are you in this clique by Any chance ?? Let him in .. he's lonely

Still feeling ughhh

Nope not part of a clique Sally. They're a bit like unicorns. So you have seen them as well."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao."

They are like a wasps nest you just have to give them a little poke for them to come out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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No, for free. I know a few women who are gone here because they were bullied.

And I know a few men that are gone because they were bullied."

really do you ? I never give a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wonder why he is interested in posting a forum post but does not want anybody looking at his profile "

Good point

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao."

Bullying goes on everywhere. And happens in all forms. Telling people they are part of a clique and keep harping on about it is a form of bullying.

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao.

Bullying goes on everywhere. And happens in all forms. Telling people they are part of a clique and keep harping on about it is a form of bullying."

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By *oey4somefun OP   Man  over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Jezus I was only saying it was quiet but now it is after escalating a bit. There is no need for for the clique madness. Lets all keep things calm and friendly here. It's nice to be nice and show a little respect to fellow fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t buy this ‘clique’ notion. I’ve been here for nearly 6 years on and off and people have always gone on about cliques but yet the people who use the forums goes in cycles, it changes, most of the people here now I don’t recognise, so are we to believe there’s a new clique established every six months or something? It seem to be that if you’re a regular forum user you must be in a clique. It’s boring now at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t buy this ‘clique’ notion. I’ve been here for nearly 6 years on and off and people have always gone on about cliques but yet the people who use the forums goes in cycles, it changes, most of the people here now I don’t recognise, so are we to believe there’s a new clique established every six months or something? It seem to be that if you’re a regular forum user you must be in a clique. It’s boring now at this stage "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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No, for free. I know a few women who are gone here because they were bullied.

And I know a few men that are gone because they were bullied.

really do you ? I never give a fuck "

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

calm down folks everything is good , nobody want to hear the truth, as usual . It was asked why it is so quiet here and I said my opinion from my point of view. If I'm wrong .. fine no prob

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I don’t buy this ‘clique’ notion. I’ve been here for nearly 6 years on and off and people have always gone on about cliques but yet the people who use the forums goes in cycles, it changes, most of the people here now I don’t recognise, so are we to believe there’s a new clique established every six months or something? It seem to be that if you’re a regular forum user you must be in a clique. It’s boring now at this stage "

Exactly this^

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Jezus I was only saying it was quiet but now it is after escalating a bit. There is no need for for the clique madness. Lets all keep things calm and friendly here. It's nice to be nice and show a little respect to fellow fabbers. "

It's gone very very quiet OP. Everyone's a little sleepy after christmas.

Most threads get taken over by the usual rubbish (clique crap) stops people starting threads. Let's hope there's a few fun threads soon.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t buy this ‘clique’ notion. I’ve been here for nearly 6 years on and off and people have always gone on about cliques but yet the people who use the forums goes in cycles, it changes, most of the people here now I don’t recognise, so are we to believe there’s a new clique established every six months or something? It seem to be that if you’re a regular forum user you must be in a clique. It’s boring now at this stage

Exactly this^"

But not to boring for you to give your opinion which you are well within your rights to do as we all are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao.

Bullying goes on everywhere. And happens in all forms. Telling people they are part of a clique and keep harping on about it is a form of bullying."

It may be interpreted as such...However it is defined it as a repetitive, habitual behaviour which has the intent to hurt someone either physically, mentally or emotionally using physical or social power.

One essential prerequisite is the perception by the bully or those around of an imbalance of social or physical power distinguishing it as bullying and not conflict.

So though you may define that way as is anyone's perogative to say my highlighting the fact is bullying, my intentions have not and are not in line with bullying but rather highlighting a repetitive issue that continues to cause division and angst on the forum. If people want to allow it to continue then so be it...Those who ignore and pretend and say nothing become accomplice to the issue by knowing and keeping silent.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao.

Bullying goes on everywhere. And happens in all forms. Telling people they are part of a clique and keep harping on about it is a form of bullying.

It may be interpreted as such...However it is defined it as a repetitive, habitual behaviour which has the intent to hurt someone either physically, mentally or emotionally using physical or social power.

One essential prerequisite is the perception by the bully or those around of an imbalance of social or physical power distinguishing it as bullying and not conflict.

So though you may define that way as is anyone's perogative to say my highlighting the fact is bullying, my intentions have not and are not in line with bullying but rather highlighting a repetitive issue that continues to cause division and angst on the forum. If people want to allow it to continue then so be it...Those who ignore and pretend and say nothing become accomplice to the issue by knowing and keeping silent."

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15

Is it possible to say anything on here in good faith and with good intention, and yet if someone or many disagree with your point of view ,the "bully" word comes into play.It really intriges me how a certain fraternity on here jump to conclusions. ...just my view

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Those who deny the cliques don't like the notion that they're part of one so easiest way is to laugh it off or deny the existence. It doesn't deny the existence though just means they're blind or or pretending to be.

Apparently there isn't any bullying according to many either ...I'll quote some on here... "It's not bullying it's just banter". Sure it is lmao.

Bullying goes on everywhere. And happens in all forms. Telling people they are part of a clique and keep harping on about it is a form of bullying."

This is sound advise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jezus I was only saying it was quiet but now it is after escalating a bit. There is no need for for the clique madness. Lets all keep things calm and friendly here. It's nice to be nice and show a little respect to fellow fabbers. "

Ahhh joey this isn't you this is someone elses crap you post was used to push an agenda. Your right it was quiet .. now it's not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t buy this ‘clique’ notion. I’ve been here for nearly 6 years on and off and people have always gone on about cliques but yet the people who use the forums goes in cycles, it changes, most of the people here now I don’t recognise, so are we to believe there’s a new clique established every six months or something? It seem to be that if you’re a regular forum user you must be in a clique. It’s boring now at this stage "

This is a notion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or just maybe people are just taking it easy after a busy hectic December

There’s been socials

Then the clubs are in full swing - ha figure of speech that fits the bill very well

And then there’s the New Years resolutions

Loads of possibilities so I wouldn’t read into it tooooo much

Here’s to a busy swinging February

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Or just maybe people are just taking it easy after a busy hectic December

There’s been socials

Then the clubs are in full swing - ha figure of speech that fits the bill very well

And then there’s the New Years resolutions

Loads of possibilities so I wouldn’t read into it tooooo much

Here’s to a busy swinging February

"

Yes let's get back to having some fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bullying? By anonymous people on the internet I must just be thick skinned so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I see a ‘despicable’ user from ‘sligo’ returned to drag everyone down again!

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15

Who's despicable?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At a guess i would say he is talking about guy on forum with no profile pic and his profile hidden

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15

oh I've heard about him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The invisible man u could call him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey fabbers, is it just me or has it been very quiet on fab lately? Is everyone hiding away for January or something? What do you think? I think the clique's have this place taking over.I say let them have it. won't be long before they start eating each other."
Yes I see the not so golden oldies clique on a lot of threads.I suppose it passes the time for them after making the beds and tidying and ironing they probably have some sparetime before making hubbies dinner. As for some of the men clique well they probably have a hangover Horn and sitting on the couch scratching their balls and agreeing with the oldies clique in the hope of getting pinkhead willy wet.

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