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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ??? |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ??? "
you will never get the same amount of women into this as men
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over a year ago
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Women are the gate keepers to sex.
Women are judged in relation to the people they have sex with, whereas men are glorified by the numbers of their sexual encounters.
If a man gas bedded 1000 women he is a hero.
If a woman had bedded a 1000 men she is a slut. |
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"Women are the gate keepers to sex.
Women are judged in relation to the people they have sex with, whereas men are glorified by the numbers of their sexual encounters.
If a man gas bedded 1000 women he is a hero.
If a woman had bedded a 1000 men she is a slut. "
Very true and not right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socially it's not acceptable... eve complex. We can have desires but not act on them through Shame, guilt and fear. Women will be vilified men will be lauded. It's shite that even in the 21st century when women are statisticly better educated then ever before and outperforming men in lots of areas we are still judged by the moral majority on the amount of sexual partners we have  |
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"I'd say it's because a lot of men are here to just get a leg over where as if women want the same they have many other options than a swingers site "
do you mean alot of men here only care about pleasing themselves and not the female?
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It's a great forum Op...
A few years ago to say you met someone "on a dating site" was taboo  but in recent years sites such as TINDER, POF, etc have been the norm and it's acceptable for a woman to openly tell her friends and parents how she met a guy online  
However fun Tinder sounds thought, a "swinging site" might have connotations for many women as all about being "promiscious" and that might not sit well with many women...
However...
The reality is that many women go on POF looking for a relationship only to be messaged by guys telling them everything the women want to hear in order to sleep with them. At least here, it's about sex and all cards are on the table for most to play strip poker!
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"It's a great forum Op...
A few years ago to say you met someone "on a dating site" was taboo but in recent years sites such as TINDER, POF, etc have been the norm and it's acceptable for a woman to openly tell her friends and parents how she met a guy online
However fun Tinder sounds thought, a "swinging site" might have connotations for many women as all about being "promiscious" and that might not sit well with many women...
However...
The reality is that many women go on POF looking for a relationship only to be messaged by guys telling them everything the women want to hear in order to sleep with them. At least here, it's about sex and all cards are on the table for most to play strip poker!
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This is couldn't agree with more .. I was on a dating site and its a dishonest fab. This is honest .. everyone is here for the same reason , |
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"It's a great forum Op...
A few years ago to say you met someone "on a dating site" was taboo but in recent years sites such as TINDER, POF, etc have been the norm and it's acceptable for a woman to openly tell her friends and parents how she met a guy online
However fun Tinder sounds thought, a "swinging site" might have connotations for many women as all about being "promiscious" and that might not sit well with many women...
However...
The reality is that many women go on POF looking for a relationship only to be messaged by guys telling them everything the women want to hear in order to sleep with them. At least here, it's about sex and all cards are on the table for most to play strip poker!
This is couldn't agree with more .. I was on a dating site and its a dishonest fab. This is honest .. everyone is here for the same reason , "
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Lots of Fab women have told me they were disillusioned with POF and jumped ship to Fab because let's face it, Fab is mostly about simple, honest, no faffing about, good sex meets...
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ??? "
Men are more competitive, whereas women can take it or leave it. Hence more guys here competing for a lesser amount of girls and the competitive nature means that the guys will keep trying but if a woman gets what she wants/needs, she will leave quicker.
I'm referring to the singles using it like a dating site, not the genuine swingers for whom the lifestyle and social aspects often outweighs the physical. |
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Its simple really, men have this yoke called a penis. It makes you want to do things you know are a bit risky. This penis thing needs emptied every day, sometimes 2/3 tines a day. Having a penis means you’re more likely to google things like ‘how to have more sex’ / ‘ do any of my neighbours want to suck me off’. This leads to penis owners joining sex sites.
Women on the other hand do not have these penis things so are less likely to find themselves here.
That’s my theory anyway, happy to discuss lol
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"It's a great forum Op...
A few years ago to say you met someone "on a dating site" was taboo but in recent years sites such as TINDER, POF, etc have been the norm and it's acceptable for a woman to openly tell her friends and parents how she met a guy online
However fun Tinder sounds thought, a "swinging site" might have connotations for many women as all about being "promiscious" and that might not sit well with many women...
However...
The reality is that many women go on POF looking for a relationship only to be messaged by guys telling them everything the women want to hear in order to sleep with them. At least here, it's about sex and all cards are on the table for most to play strip poker!
This is couldn't agree with more .. I was on a dating site and its a dishonest fab. This is honest .. everyone is here for the same reason ,
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Lots of Fab women have told me they were disillusioned with POF and jumped ship to Fab because let's face it, Fab is mostly about simple, honest, no faffing about, good sex meets...
LONG LIVE FAB! "
Here here .... letc go and roar and do stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe men are just more comfortable on cheating on their partner and have fewer morals, just to get a shag at lunchtime.
John, lunchtime, discrete are words used by many single guys.
Is it any wonder!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its simple really, men have this yoke called a penis. It makes you want to do things you know are a bit risky. This penis thing needs emptied every day, sometimes 2/3 tines a day. Having a penis means you’re more likely to google things like ‘how to have more sex’ / ‘ do any of my neighbours want to suck me off’. This leads to penis owners joining sex sites.
Women on the other hand do not have these penis things so are less likely to find themselves here.
That’s my theory anyway, happy to discuss lol
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Yes I feel you might be correct ... they are Dicks!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ??? "
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration. |
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"Maybe men are just more comfortable on cheating on their partner and have fewer morals, just to get a shag at lunchtime.
John, lunchtime, discrete are words used by many single guys.
Is it any wonder!
My experience over the years here is that there are a lot if women cheating...They are just more discrete about it both publicly and on the forums.
Whenever the topic arises you'll notice many women forumites suddenly are absent from the discussions.
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration."
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time  )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe men are just more comfortable on cheating on their partner and have fewer morals, just to get a shag at lunchtime.
John, lunchtime, discrete are words used by many single guys.
Is it any wonder!
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I much prefer discreet Plus I wouldn’t want to dis Crete, is is a lovely place
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
Men are more competitive, whereas women can take it or leave it. Hence more guys here competing for a lesser amount of girls and the competitive nature means that the guys will keep trying but if a woman gets what she wants/needs, she will leave quicker.
I'm referring to the singles using it like a dating site, not the genuine swingers for whom the lifestyle and social aspects often outweighs the physical."
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe men are just more comfortable on cheating on their partner and have fewer morals, just to get a shag at lunchtime.
John, lunchtime, discrete are words used by many single guys.
Is it any wonder!
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Not all men have partners to cheat on though.... |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "
"For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
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"you could start a endless discussion on the topic 'are women hard wired for monogamy or is it social conditioning?' I'd say the latter has a lot to do with it. "
Definitely. A great book that covers the subject lightly is "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley. It's mostly about sexual selection regarding the evolution of certain animals and organisms, but it also makes a couple nice points about sex in our species.
We have inate instincts all to do with procreation when it comes to sex, and for men, there's very few disadvantages in sowing the seeds all over the place, but for women, having a child is an absolutely huge expense regarding time and lost chances with superior males (9 months being unable to mate with that superior male to get superior offspring) that may show up later.
It's natural that women are going to be more picky as they've developed to pick the best, giving their descendents the best chance to survive and procreate more.
Of course this is all based on how we were 10s of thousands of years ago and sex nowadays is a far different ballgame where having a child is not usually the goal, but those previous instincts still survive at a subconscious level. |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. "
it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate |
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"Even some of the women are men.
Ahem, is that a problem?  "
What I meant was some of the female profiles are men pretending to be single women, not sure why they do this. I have no problem with tv/ts in fact some of them are gorgeous. |
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"you could start a endless discussion on the topic 'are women hard wired for monogamy or is it social conditioning?' I'd say the latter has a lot to do with it. "
Given that it takes 20 years to raise a kid, from nature's perspective it's in both child and mothers interest if the man sticks around. Now women have reproductive choices, monogamy is not the imperative it used to be, but I suspect nature may not have allowed for this. |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate "
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "
Have you considered removing g all those fake women profiles out of the stats?
That might reduce your states.
Respectfully though there are plenty of genuine women on here for the men unless they're looking for fuck n run and then of course they'll soon run out of choice. |
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"you could start a endless discussion on the topic 'are women hard wired for monogamy or is it social conditioning?' I'd say the latter has a lot to do with it.
Given that it takes 20 years to raise a kid, from nature's perspective it's in both child and mothers interest if the man sticks around. Now women have reproductive choices, monogamy is not the imperative it used to be, but I suspect nature may not have allowed for this."
Interesting point.
So nature didn't realise the importance of one without the other?
At the end of the day monogamy was aways a choice. We apparently now live in a 'freer' world where our freedom is paramount above anyone else's too. Is that actually freer or have in the name of freedom created more bondages (no pun intended) out of selfishness? |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people "
it shouldn't be news to anyone. |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone."
it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman! |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman! "
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"It's a great forum Op...
A few years ago to say you met someone "on a dating site" was taboo but in recent years sites such as TINDER, POF, etc have been the norm and it's acceptable for a woman to openly tell her friends and parents how she met a guy online
However fun Tinder sounds thought, a "swinging site" might have connotations for many women as all about being "promiscious" and that might not sit well with many women...
However...
The reality is that many women go on POF looking for a relationship only to be messaged by guys telling them everything the women want to hear in order to sleep with them. At least here, it's about sex and all cards are on the table for most to play strip poker!
This is couldn't agree with more .. I was on a dating site and its a dishonest fab. This is honest .. everyone is here for the same reason , "
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? "
Very true i joined fab swingers to meet people in person not to debate with them online like some on here |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? "
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!"
We all like attention not just ladys its human nature |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!"
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?"
lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't "
I'm agreeing with you, what's your point? Personally I think it's a bit of a disturbing reflection on someone as a human being that they would have sex with someone they look down on, but that's another discussion |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't "
Every women has the right to say no and pick who she wants to have fun with as do every man if you do not like or understand that maybe its not the site for u its the same out there in tje real world but as u keep calling yourself a nice guy u know that already |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Every women has the right to say no and pick who she wants to have fun with as do every man if you do not like or understand that maybe its not the site for u its the same out there in tje real world but as u keep calling yourself a nice guy u know that already"
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
I'm agreeing with you, what's your point? Personally I think it's a bit of a disturbing reflection on someone as a human being that they would have sex with someone they look down on, but that's another discussion "
I don't have a point, I just gave a description that's all |
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If I was struggling to get meets like a lot of men apparently are I'd first of all turn my attention to myself to see if what I'm doing was wrong, rather than blaming picky women, horny men or anything else |
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"If I was struggling to get meets like a lot of men apparently are I'd first of all turn my attention to myself to see if what I'm doing was wrong, rather than blaming picky women, horny men or anything else "
I like your attitude and similar issue but then I have my likes and wants and sometimes don’t match. But patience and persistence (not in the face of a no) usually pays off |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Every women has the right to say no and pick who she wants to have fun with as do every man if you do not like or understand that maybe its not the site for u its the same out there in tje real world but as u keep calling yourself a nice guy u know that alreadylol you need a reality check if u think this is the same as the real world, a serious reality check "
I did not say this is the real world what i said its the same out in the real world women have a choice just like men do |
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"The posts are getting to long to read.. can someone recap for me
I am glad the ratio is high. No fun if too easy "
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Every women has the right to say no and pick who she wants to have fun with as do every man if you do not like or understand that maybe its not the site for u its the same out there in tje real world but as u keep calling yourself a nice guy u know that alreadylol you need a reality check if u think this is the same as the real world, a serious reality check
I did not say this is the real world what i said its the same out in the real world women have a choice just like men do "
I didn't say this was the real world, I said it completely different on here. women have the choice on here, men don't, simple as that. my description a few posts back is exactly how it is. |
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"The posts are getting to long to read.. can someone recap for me
I am glad the ratio is high. No fun if too easy
Thats true there is fun in the chase instead of.abusing ladys try flirting works for me "
That's fucking genius.
I'm going to continue being a dick for a while longer though |
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"The ratio of men to women on here is mad . Why is this so ? Are men just hornier or and men just desperet ? Why arnt there more women on this . My take on it is women do join and just get put off by constant stupid messages and they just leave ???
There's plenty of women and good ones too...I do think it's an excuse used far too often in frustration.
Respectfully I’d have to disagree. I’ve been a member of a number of sites and one of those used to publish their stats on the main chat page, for number of males members, females, couples, etc. They even had a geographic breakdown too, and the ratio of men:women for Ireland and UK combined was an eye watering 23:1. Soon after the chat and forums on that site lit up about it and the stats soon disappeared.
It got me thinking though, and I started to check the stats on other sites by simply counting the number of online members on various nights as well as the number of people on the chat forums (well, as a guy it’s not as if I had a lot of meets happening, so I had to do something with my time )
The ratios are always strongly imbalanced. On Fab using those two measures, I’ve seen the ratio at its lowest 8:1 and at its highest 17:1. The chat page is even higher.
To test the accuracy of this I have also created a women’s profile on a few sites to see what the Male attention is like. For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!! Compare to my real (Male) one on Fab and the hardest thing I have to do with my mailbox is brush out the cobwebs.
So while none of this is conclusive there is some science to my Colombo activities. So in short, it does seem to be that there is a huge imbalance between men and women members and this is what likely leads to Male frustration.
Lastly, I will not be revealing any details of my female alter ego who may or may not be called Janice... "For the profiles I created I just added the basic info and no pics, with 4 lines of text. Within a few minutes of bringing it live I had 9 new mail messages; within 24hrs nearly 40...!!"
that speaks volumes for me. it's like I always say. alot of men will get up on a cracked plate
I think you'll find that this is not news to most people it shouldn't be news to anyone.it's why alot of men say the right thing all the time to any woman because they'll get up on any woman!
We're all consenting adults here, so what? it's what women love at the end of the day, the attention!
Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Every women has the right to say no and pick who she wants to have fun with as do every man if you do not like or understand that maybe its not the site for u its the same out there in tje real world but as u keep calling yourself a nice guy u know that alreadylol you need a reality check if u think this is the same as the real world, a serious reality check
I did not say this is the real world what i said its the same out in the real world women have a choice just like men do I didn't say this was the real world, I said it completely different on here. women have the choice on here, men don't, simple as that. my description a few posts back is exactly how it is. "
Of course men have a choice i do not meet everybody i have a coffee meet with i think all we can do is speak for ourselves as u do no speak for the way i swing |
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"The posts are getting to long to read.. can someone recap for me
I am glad the ratio is high. No fun if too easy
Thats true there is fun in the chase instead of.abusing ladys try flirting works for me
That's fucking genius.
I'm going to continue being a dick for a while longer though "
u are not a dick on here i would say women think u are a likeable rogue and it works for u |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't "
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage.... |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage...."
I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here "
If you take a let them come to me approach absolutely! If you show them you are different in the way you talk think and act, then I’d say as an average joe you will do extremely well.
I’ve found quite a lot go for eye candy but that soon wears off and you want quality, that’s who I’m looking for! |
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Trying not to perpetuate the long threads.
It would get boring but so much is timing. A pretty woman on here sent me a screenshot and she had over 300 messages, how do you deal with that! Impossible
So easy to get caught up in that flow of rubbish and information, so it is more timing and luck most of the time. |
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"Trying not to perpetuate the long threads.
It would get boring but so much is timing. A pretty woman on here sent me a screenshot and she had over 300 messages, how do you deal with that! Impossible
So easy to get caught up in that flow of rubbish and information, so it is more timing and luck most of the time. "
This..!!
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By *oghunter33Woman
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here "
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs....  |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs.... "
women can spout bullshit through a screen that they want this that and the other. if a man mails a woman and has good looking he's 90 % there, simple as that |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs.... women can spout bullshit through a screen that they want this that and the other. if a man mails a woman and has good looking he's 90 % there, simple as that "
If that is all it takes for those women, count me out, give me a sexy mind that values intelligence as well as physical attraction. Pure phsycality alone is so unappealing |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs.... women can spout bullshit through a screen that they want this that and the other. if a man mails a woman and has good looking he's 90 % there, simple as that "
Hahahaha Brilliant, sure that last one is as profoundly researched as other fabulous conclusion of yours....  |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs.... women can spout bullshit through a screen that they want this that and the other. if a man mails a woman and has good looking he's 90 % there, simple as that
Hahahaha Brilliant, sure that last one is as profoundly researched as other fabulous conclusion of yours.... "
lol no need to research anything. |
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Well of course lol, whatever did you think?lol it's as simple as this. alot of women here get lavished with praise from men who wouldn't give a sideways look in a pub/club. this boost's the woman's ego. she doesn't give a fuck if he would get up on anything, she's none the wiser either. the fact that this "cute" "good looking" man is paying her attention, to fuck with every ordinary Joe soap. that's why alot of men struggle on fab. they sign up, the pool of woman is small, that pool becomes tiny when the description I just gave you kicks in. end of the day women hold the cards here through numbers, men don't
Here we go again! you sound like a broken record. How do you even know the women wouldn't get a second look in 'real life'? Based on the few pics they have on their profile? Or have you seen face pics of all of them? Just because they don't appeal to you doesn't mean they don't to others.
But much more essentially what point do you want to make with this ever returning statement? Are you really running this as an explanation that some men do better on here than other? It's more than ridiculous at this stage....I'll sum it up in one line. if you're a man and an ordinary looking joe soap, you will struggle on here
Right, that implies that those that are quite successful are all extraordinarily good looking and that's all what's needed for the ladies to spread the legs.... women can spout bullshit through a screen that they want this that and the other. if a man mails a woman and has good looking he's 90 % there, simple as that
Hahahaha Brilliant, sure that last one is as profoundly researched as other fabulous conclusion of yours.... lol no need to research anything. "
To assume that a good looking male is 90% there is insulting to women in the first place and also likely to be proven wrong by many men who don't look like Brad Pitt but have the social skills and respect for others to succeed in making a positive connection.
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Generally speaking most men see sites like this as a place where naughty women are up for sex. So these kinda sites simply attract alot more men then women. And of course alot of desperate people that find it hard to pull see sites like this as great ways to increase their chances. Just my opinion. Don't get your knickers in a twist if you don't agree |
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I don’t believe looks gets you 90% of the way there at all.
I genuinely believe taking the time to build a half decent well written profile, a handful of well thought out pics and the ability to hold a good non sexual conversation gets you 90% there.
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"Women are the gate keepers to sex.
Women are judged in relation to the people they have sex with, whereas men are glorified by the numbers of their sexual encounters.
If a man gas bedded 1000 women he is a hero.
If a woman had bedded a 1000 men she is a slut. "
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"Women are the gate keepers to sex.
Women are judged in relation to the people they have sex with, whereas men are glorified by the numbers of their sexual encounters.
If a man gas bedded 1000 women he is a hero.
If a woman had bedded a 1000 men she is a slut.
I’d say she’s my dream woman "
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