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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man  over a year ago

Tipperary

if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers "

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

As someone who "came out " recently it was embraced by family and didn't change anything.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man  over a year ago

Tipperary


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much."

the long lost son/daughter lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman  over a year ago

My town

It didn't bother me when my daughter told me. As long as she's happy that's all I care about...

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much.the long lost son/daughter lol"

next stop Jeremy Kyle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much."

That made me laugh

If my child told me, it would be the same as if they'd told me they're on here. I'd wish them well and say I'm here if they need me and that I love them no matter who they love.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man  over a year ago

Tipperary


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much.the long lost son/daughter lol

next stop Jeremy Kyle "

"whose the daddy"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As long as my child is happy I couldn’t give a flying fuck what their sexual orientation is!

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By *lo1 slo2Couple  over a year ago

newry

We couldn't careless as long as there happy,life is too short and you only get 1 go at it so it's better to be happy and true to yourself than miserable and trudge along

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

If my child came in and told me that tomorrow the first question I would ask is who the fuck are you? Someone would have a lot of explaining to do But in fairness if I had a kid it wouldn't bother me too much.the long lost son/daughter lol

next stop Jeremy Kyle "

Oh sweet Jesus, I watched that today. It's real car crash tv.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love my children and as long as they're happy I'm happy. They're sexuality doesn't make me love them less. All I want is for them to grow into happy healthy adults who love and are loved.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman  over a year ago

wexford

my 10 yr old all ready said they would kiss boys and girls.. i teach my kids to love whoever they want to and never hide .. life is about been happy.. i love mine no matter what. ur sexuality doesnt define u as a person..

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers "

What's your question DBSWYW Jesus even your abbreviation is long

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By *andsomeman100Man  over a year ago

Ah sure now...

Couldn't give a fiddlers.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man  over a year ago

Tipperary


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

What's your question DBSWYW Jesus even your abbreviation is long"

the question is in the post and has been answered by many so far

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they're happy and the person they're with treats them well, who cares?

It's their life!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers "

Probably the same way id react if one of my children came home and told me they were straight

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan

This is reminding me of the story of the guy who sent into the bat and ordered three double brandies which he threw back in a hurry. The barman asked him if he was ok. He said he had just found out that his son was gay and he was shocked.

Two weeks later the same guy walked in and ordered three double brandies again.. The barman asked him what it was this time. He replied that he had just found out that his other son was also gay and he was upset.

Three weeks later again the same guy walked in and ordered 5 double brandies. As the barman was serving him he said to him "Jesus, does nobody in your house like pussy?"

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The man replied as he burst into tears...

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"Only my fucking wife and daughter!"

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere

My son's are my sons. Doesn't make a difference what their lifestyle preferences are. I love them regardless.

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By *ack 188Man  over a year ago

Dublin 15


"My son's are my sons. Doesn't make a difference what their lifestyle preferences are. I love them regardless. "

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By *oserMan  over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"This is reminding me of the story of the guy who sent into the bat and ordered three double brandies which he threw back in a hurry. The barman asked him if he was ok. He said he had just found out that his son was gay and he was shocked.

Two weeks later the same guy walked in and ordered three double brandies again.. The barman asked him what it was this time. He replied that he had just found out that his other son was also gay and he was upset.

Three weeks later again the same guy walked in and ordered 5 double brandies. As the barman was serving him he said to him "Jesus, does nobody in your house like pussy?"

.

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The man replied as he burst into tears...

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"Only my fucking wife and daughter!"

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Pmsl

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man  over a year ago

Tipperary


"This is reminding me of the story of the guy who sent into the bat and ordered three double brandies which he threw back in a hurry. The barman asked him if he was ok. He said he had just found out that his son was gay and he was shocked.

Two weeks later the same guy walked in and ordered three double brandies again.. The barman asked him what it was this time. He replied that he had just found out that his other son was also gay and he was upset.

Three weeks later again the same guy walked in and ordered 5 double brandies. As the barman was serving him he said to him "Jesus, does nobody in your house like pussy?"

.

.

.

.

.

The man replied as he burst into tears...

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"Only my fucking wife and daughter!"

"

brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It didn't bother me when my daughter told me. As long as she's happy that's all I care about... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm almost sure my youngest son is going to tell me this in the years to come. Doesn't change a thing.

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By *adame BWoman  over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

What's your question DBSWYW Jesus even your abbreviation is longthe question is in the post and has been answered by many so far "

Oh ok I thought there was more to it. Apologies.

I have been through this on two levels. My child faced me with the news and I faced my children with the news. It's a difficult conversation to think about prior to having it as you don't know how people will handle it but on both occasions thankfully it was handled with love and humour. My children absolutely ripped me apart in a slagging match as soon as they had absorbed the information.

When my child came out it was a big step for him but even bigger among his peers as he said he knew we would all be ok about it at home but publicly he was less confident. He posted a beautiful poignant piece on social media which I have kept. It always makes me cry when I read it but they are tears of joy at his hello world here I am, this is me in all my glory. His peers were fantastic in how they all took the news. His siblings occasionally had a few comments about it but as my youngest said those people were asses prior to his brother coming out and that was their issues to handle. Proud momma of how my family handled it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers

What's your question DBSWYW Jesus even your abbreviation is longthe question is in the post and has been answered by many so far

Oh ok I thought there was more to it. Apologies.

I have been through this on two levels. My child faced me with the news and I faced my children with the news. It's a difficult conversation to think about prior to having it as you don't know how people will handle it but on both occasions thankfully it was handled with love and humour. My children absolutely ripped me apart in a slagging match as soon as they had absorbed the information.

When my child came out it was a big step for him but even bigger among his peers as he said he knew we would all be ok about it at home but publicly he was less confident. He posted a beautiful poignant piece on social media which I have kept. It always makes me cry when I read it but they are tears of joy at his hello world here I am, this is me in all my glory. His peers were fantastic in how they all took the news. His siblings occasionally had a few comments about it but as my youngest said those people were asses prior to his brother coming out and that was their issues to handle. Proud momma of how my family handled it. "

This is doing your best by your kids ... it's a lovely positive story

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple  over a year ago

narnia


"if your child came in tomorrow and told you they were gay and had a bf/gf, do you know how you would react? it's a topic I saw been discussed online a few weeks ago and i was actually surprised at the variety of answers "
if that was any of my children I'd support them 100% As long as my children are happy I'm happy regardless of their sexuality

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