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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest " Everyone does, just my opinion, and maybe in some cases ,that might be fair enough .Harry. | |||
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"When someone posts regularly you get an impression of a person, some you might like, others you won't. "  | |||
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"When someone posts regularly you get an impression of a person, some you might like, others you won't. " This | |||
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"I like to chat with people and from that chat you try and get a sense of someone, whether its their sense of humour, their personality, their likes dislikes etc. Forum posts can let you see a small part of someone and do form paint a slight picture but I take people as I find them and will take the time to get to know them." see there's a decent attitude. speak to them more one to one and gauge them from that | |||
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"When someone posts regularly you get an impression of a person, some you might like, others you won't. " | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. " Yes, I gathered that  | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. Yes, I gathered that "good stuff | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. " totally agree with you and when I said that on here I got banned not once but twice for having an opinion.... | |||
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 be it poor expression, spelling or grammar. It is a nice way to preview what someone thinks without any contact and helping decide if you’d like to talk to that person.
Can be as good as a profile sometimes and sometimes more so because you can see sometimes what they really think | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. " "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much? | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much?" Men know men better than women to be fair. Some are nice but some men will always look nice to women and be extremely obvious to men that they're not. I'm serious and not insulting women but they're extremely easily played. | |||
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"Of course you judge someone by their posts be it poor expression, spelling or grammar. It is a nice way to preview what someone thinks without any contact and helping decide if you’d like to talk to that person.
Can be as good as a profile sometimes and sometimes more so because you can see sometimes what they really think"Totally agree with everything here.. | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much?" very easy tell the difference. don't be utterly nieve. I'm a naturally nice guy but I don't pussy foot around all women saying the right thing hoping to get my willy wet | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much? Men know men better than women to be fair. Some are nice but some men will always look nice to women and be extremely obvious to men that they're not. I'm serious and not insulting women but they're extremely easily played. " Do you not think that women are intelligent enough to see through them? | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. totally agree with you and when I said that on here I got banned not once but twice for having an opinion...." lots of people don't like when u say it, that's why | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much? Men know men better than women to be fair. Some are nice but some men will always look nice to women and be extremely obvious to men that they're not. I'm serious and not insulting women but they're extremely easily played. Do you not think that women are intelligent enough to see through them?" some are so lavished with the attention, they don't | |||
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"When someone posts regularly you get an impression of a person, some you might like, others you won't. " | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much?very easy tell the difference. don't be utterly nieve. I'm a naturally nice guy but I don't pussy foot around all women saying the right thing hoping to get my willy wet " I'm far from naive so why would you say I was utterly naive? But you still didn't reply to my question? | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. " See great example of why judging forum posts can be a great way to get to know the mind of someone, such blanket statements about half the population is pretty poor | |||
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"I can only speak for myself but I openly speak my mind and I'm not afraid to say it as I see it. I couldn't give a flying bananna who likes it or not. so many(mainly men) pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag, it's embarrassingly cringeworthy. saying the "right" thing all the time. "Pussy foot around women in the hope of a shag" .... Some guys are naturally nice guys and that's their personality.... why do they bother you so much?very easy tell the difference. don't be utterly nieve. I'm a naturally nice guy but I don't pussy foot around all women saying the right thing hoping to get my willy wet I'm far from naive so why would you say I was utterly naive? But you still didn't reply to my question? " I answered your question. it doesn't bother me I just give an opinion on it like I do with many other things but it doesn't mean I'm not a nice guy | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. See great example of why judging forum posts can be a great way to get to know the mind of someone, such blanket statements about half the population is pretty poor" I'm ratting on the majority of men. I don't care haha. Pretend the majority of men don't say things to girls and say something completely different to men. Or maybe all the men you know are different but the majority of men I know have two personalities. | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. See great example of why judging forum posts can be a great way to get to know the mind of someone, such blanket statements about half the population is pretty poor" in fairness the chaps post is very much on the money | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. " What's that got to do with the topic of this thread? | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest " OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then? | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. What's that got to do with the topic of this thread?" The thread got side tracked, if you read through it you'll see where my comment is coming from. | |||
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"I've often seen friends help bring carry things for a woman and when they're behind them they fuck the air while they can't see but I can. Work colleagues do the same. Women just as intelligent as men but they're fools for flattery and a chivalrous act. See great example of why judging forum posts can be a great way to get to know the mind of someone, such blanket statements about half the population is pretty poor I'm ratting on the majority of men. I don't care haha. Pretend the majority of men don't say things to girls and say something completely different to men. Or maybe all the men you know are different but the majority of men I know have two personalities." Growing up in a single parent home, mum taught me better
Plus I have more confidence in women’s abilities to see through men’s intentions.
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?" when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. " So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that? | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?" as I said to you I'm a nice person but I don't pussy foot around all women. there is many men(some have told me privatly) who won't say what they really want or give their honest opinion on a topic for fear of ridicule or turning women off them | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?as I said to you I'm a nice person but I don't pussy foot around all women. there is many men(some have told me privatly) who won't say what they really want or give their honest opinion on a topic for fear of ridicule or turning women off them " Well you're pussy footing around my questions... "So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?" Anyway this thread is now turning in to something different from it's original topic..  | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?as I said to you I'm a nice person but I don't pussy foot around all women. there is many men(some have told me privatly) who won't say what they really want or give their honest opinion on a topic for fear of ridicule or turning women off them Well you're pussy footing around my questions... "So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?" Anyway this thread is now turning in to something different from it's original topic.. "you are utterly naive if you think every man is so nice on here and not just saying the right thing in the hope of getting his willy wet. as I said you I'm a nice guy but I don't go around saying the "right thing" always. I speak my mind, I give my view be it positive or negative | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?as I said to you I'm a nice person but I don't pussy foot around all women. there is many men(some have told me privatly) who won't say what they really want or give their honest opinion on a topic for fear of ridicule or turning women off them Well you're pussy footing around my questions... "So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?" Anyway this thread is now turning in to something different from it's original topic.. you are utterly naive if you think every man is so nice on here and not just saying the right thing in the hope of getting his willy wet. as I said you I'm a nice guy but I don't go around saying the "right thing" always. I speak my mind, I give my view be it positive or negative "Show me where I said every man is nice? I'll await your apology | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest OP ...You posted a question and people replied with their opinion but because it's not something you agree with you think that their opinion is wrong... so why start this thread then?when someone comes in with a diff opinion that opinion can be challenged/debated, again like many topics. So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?as I said to you I'm a nice person but I don't pussy foot around all women. there is many men(some have told me privatly) who won't say what they really want or give their honest opinion on a topic for fear of ridicule or turning women off them Well you're pussy footing around my questions... "So your reply to their opinion is to call them utterly naive? Where's the debate in that?" Anyway this thread is now turning in to something different from it's original topic.. you are utterly naive if you think every man is so nice on here and not just saying the right thing in the hope of getting his willy wet. as I said you I'm a nice guy but I don't go around saying the "right thing" always. I speak my mind, I give my view be it positive or negative
Show me where I said every man is nice?
I'll await your apology "ok you said some guys are naturally nice guys. you can be 100 % sure of that through a screen? are you dismissing what I said also? | |||
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"Both of ye are arguing for nothing. He said alot of men aren't being themselves and he's 100% right and you're saying some men are nice and you're 100% right. " absolutely | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest " I'll say it again.. How people interact with others gives me a fair insight into the type of person they might be. The fact that you keep saying you're a nice guy doesn't change my opinion..
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some overdo it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. "I’d love to compliment you for your mind but I have to wait until I grow up to be able to do that one day when I’m 45 perhaps lol | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest I'll say it again.. How people interact with others gives me a fair insight into the type of person they might be. The fact that you keep saying you're a nice guy doesn't change my opinion..
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some overdo it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. "the aim of the game on fab is very simple. | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple. "....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here.  | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple.
....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here. "I said the aim of the game is very simple but there is nothing simplified about most women. actually the opposite applies | |||
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"Ever hear black people say that no matter how hard white people try they will never understand black people's struggle? Well no matter what women think they know about men they will never know as much as men know about men. It's not explainable what he's saying but I get it. It's not nice flirting etc.. It's other things. Just know I know OP haha " | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]" women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. " You seem to crave attention yourself, with the amount of threads you start. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. You seem to crave attention yourself, with the amount of threads you start. "I started a couple this week, havnt had one in a while. threads create debate/discussion. it's all good | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. " And that's when you show your true colours .... a real nice guy ..bravo | |||
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"To be fair there's only like a handful of people that start threads in the Irish forum. If they decided not to do it any more we'd just have people asking to rate their profile haha" we will have to attend a meet and greet. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. And that's when you show your true colours .... a real nice guy ..bravo " see that's where you're mistaken. it's my opinion, my view. got absolutely nothing to do with been a nice guy or not | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. And that's when you show your true colours .... a real nice guy ..bravo " I don't see how that comment makes him a bad guy? He may have generalised but in alot of cases his comment is correct. Women don't want to hear it. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. And that's when you show your true colours .... a real nice guy ..bravo see that's where you're mistaken. it's my opinion, my view. got absolutely nothing to do with been a nice guy or not " I have nothing to say to you. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/01/18 22:23:16]women crave attention pal and blinded by everything else. lol it's so easy just be "nice" on fab, say the "right thing" whether you mean it or not and bobs your uncle. And that's when you show your true colours .... a real nice guy ..bravo see that's where you're mistaken. it's my opinion, my view. got absolutely nothing to do with been a nice guy or not I have nothing to say to you. " you just did a minute ago | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple.
....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here. I said the aim of the game is very simple but there is nothing simplified about most women. actually the opposite applies "Yeah but we don't speak about the complexity of the women, we speak about the simplicity of the game and how to get there ie flirting and complementing | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. " In 6 of your posts above you just quoted yourself as being a nice guy... make up your mind will you | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple.
....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here. I said the aim of the game is very simple but there is nothing simplified about most women. actually the opposite applies
Yeah but we don't speak about the complexity of the women, we speak about the simplicity of the game and how to get there ie flirting and complementing"there is a very thin line between over complementing and been an out and out lick arse to get your leg over. that's off topic though. women in general on here don't want men giving their opinion/view if it has a negative impact on women in general. there is alot of men "nice" and "say the right" thing always in the hope of getting their willies wet and guess what women love it, lap up the attention mostly and don't see it as the men playing the game | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. In 6 of your posts above you just quoted yourself as being a nice guy... make up your mind will you "a real guy is the real nice guy. better been real then fake | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. In 6 of your posts above you just quoted yourself as being a nice guy... make up your mind will you "notice nice is in " commas | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. " Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple.
....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here. I said the aim of the game is very simple but there is nothing simplified about most women. actually the opposite applies
Yeah but we don't speak about the complexity of the women, we speak about the simplicity of the game and how to get there ie flirting and complementingthere is a very thin line between over complementing and been an out and out lick arse to get your leg over. that's off topic though. women in general on here don't want men giving their opinion/view if it has a negative impact on women in general. there is alot of men "nice" and "say the right" thing always in the hope of getting their willies wet and guess what women love it, lap up the attention mostly and don't see it as the men playing the game "I agree with you that some men will say anything if it will get them brownie points. I don't agree with you that most women fall for it. | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” " bullshit. I'm very very seldom nasty but I still speak my mind and give my view. I don't lick the arse off every woman on the forum hoping to get my leg over. if you have something in your mind in reply to a topic, guess what be a man and say it. | |||
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"I think you don't get the concept of 'fab courtship'. It's part of the game, it's a kind of a foreplay and in most cases both parties involved are pretty aware of it. It's even done in the animal world and with great success. Yes some it and it becomes cringey. However who doesn't like a compliment? I love a bit of flirting and some manners rather than a wanna fuck approach. And yes I'm completely aware what the purpose of it is. the aim of the game on fab is very simple.
....and you think we fab women don't get that? I'm not sure who's naive here. I said the aim of the game is very simple but there is nothing simplified about most women. actually the opposite applies
Yeah but we don't speak about the complexity of the women, we speak about the simplicity of the game and how to get there ie flirting and complementingthere is a very thin line between over complementing and been an out and out lick arse to get your leg over. that's off topic though. women in general on here don't want men giving their opinion/view if it has a negative impact on women in general. there is alot of men "nice" and "say the right" thing always in the hope of getting their willies wet and guess what women love it, lap up the attention mostly and don't see it as the men playing the game
I agree with you that some men will say anything if it will get them brownie points. I don't agree with you that most women fall for it.
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"Just after seeing the thread I don’t post a lot but I am a regular reader of the threads there are 1or2 regular posters who are so pc and let on to be so nice it makes me sick and laugh at the same time every time I see there posts " the amount of stuff I'm after hearing over my time on here would make you wonder big style. that's why the only true way is make up your own mind on a person by chatting/ meeting them | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” " Says what he thinks Gives his honest opinion They're the same thing unless the nice guy is just sugar coating his honest opinion. A real guy isn't a dickhead. A dickhead is someone that tries to hurt someone else. Anyway we all sound like kids. | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” "
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. "Welcome back Lad. Harry | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users.
Welcome back Lad. Harry"Thank you | |||
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"In a word" Yes " I tend to observe alot and aswell as seeing some great personalities here,there are also a few bitter twisted feckers who are worth avoiding !!" I agree | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. "lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind? | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?"Read it again  | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?"That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt" | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt""the opinion shared by other users can also mean what your getting told about a particular person | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt"the opinion shared by other users can also mean what your getting told about a particular person "read again.... | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt""
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt"the opinion shared by other users can also mean what your getting told about a particular person
read again.... "I have read it. what i find funny is if you think I don't get it why you don't tell me what it means. | |||
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"it seems i havnt got anything wrong... " A part from the actual meaning of my post | |||
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"it seems i havnt got anything wrong... A part from the actual meaning of my post "go on then explain it lol your quoting me all the time but you have yet to say what you ment | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind
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Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt"
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. lol did i read that right? you listen to other people's opinions on a person without making up your own mind?
Read it again "and the opinion shared by other users"?
That's exactly why people judge forum posts, it's a simple sentence and twice you've got it wrong
"It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt"the opinion shared by other users can also mean what your getting told about a particular person
read again.... I have read it. what i find funny is if you think I don't get it why you don't tell me what it means. "Ok. I will. What iam saying is this....i can only form opinions, in the majority of cases, on what a user has posted or shared with everyone on the forum. So for instance...you. I can form an opinion of you in my mind from this post and the resulting conversations. I'm forming the opinion on you. Not an opinion based on others opinions of you. It's all in how you read what i wrote. Well, actually there is only one way to read it. Is that any clearer for you? | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. what I read from that is you form an opinion on a person from their posts plus the views of other people." People post their views/opinions. That's what he means | |||
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"Yes, because in the majority of cases, i have nothing else to go on. So i have to form an opinion based on the posts made and the opinions shared by other users. what I read from that is you form an opinion on a person from their posts plus the views of other people. People post their views/opinions. That's what he means " cheers. see it now | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” bullshit. I'm very very seldom nasty but I still speak my mind and give my view. I don't lick the arse off every woman on the forum hoping to get my leg over. if you have something in your mind in reply to a topic, guess what be a man and say it. "Na, it's also called diplomacy - the art of dealing with people in a sensitive and tactful way. I can tell you it gets you further in life than going around with a sledgehammer. | |||
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"a "nice" guy says the "right" thing all the time. a real guy speaks his mind and gives his honest opinion. Bull crap A nice guy gives his honest opinion and considers what impact his words may have on the reader A not so nice guy says what he thinks regardless and then justifies himself by saying “I just speak my mind” “Manners maketh Man” bullshit. I'm very very seldom nasty but I still speak my mind and give my view. I don't lick the arse off every woman on the forum hoping to get my leg over. if you have something in your mind in reply to a topic, guess what be a man and say it.
Na, it's also called diplomacy - the art of dealing with people in a sensitive and tactful way. I can tell you it gets you further in life than going around with a sledgehammer. "oh ye, watching your Ps and Q's. oh my god will i say what I want in reply to that. I better not cause it might put all the women off me give me strength! | |||
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"Funny that no one here seems to have misinterpreted a text before. Everyone flying in the the thumbs up never had to read a text two to three times before getting the meaning. That's cool. Loads of perfect people here. " | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol" No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. " as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum "Want a forum ??? Good on you for not judging but fab is for judging, judging whether you want to message someone, judging someone for what they put on their profile, photos, forum is just a extension of that. I think you just enjoy stirring and using the forums in a similar way “nice guys” as you say want to kiss the arse of every lady on here Just judging you since I do that on forums | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Want a forum ??? Good on you for not judging but fab is for judging, judging whether you want to message someone, judging someone for what they put on their profile, photos, forum is just a extension of that.
I think you just enjoy stirring and using the forums in a similar way “nice guys” as you say want to kiss the arse of every lady on here
Just judging you since I do that on forums "I have a simple philosophy to fab. view a profile, you like the profile, you mail it. jack shit got to do with forums. | |||
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"Well that's just a personal choice. I don't think many can say they don't judge. It's a natural instinct iny opinion. I find it hard to believe that you have never judged a person without chatting one on one first. " read my post I just gave. physical attraction is huge for me | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Want a forum ??? Good on you for not judging but fab is for judging, judging whether you want to message someone, judging someone for what they put on their profile, photos, forum is just a extension of that.
I think you just enjoy stirring and using the forums in a similar way “nice guys” as you say want to kiss the arse of every lady on here
Just judging you since I do that on forums I have a simple philosophy to fab. view a profile, you like the profile, you mail it. jack shit got to do with forums. "Well you are missing out on a rich source of information on people! But good luck to you and hope that works for you. But you will be judged whether you do or not | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Want a forum ??? Good on you for not judging but fab is for judging, judging whether you want to message someone, judging someone for what they put on their profile, photos, forum is just a extension of that.
I think you just enjoy stirring and using the forums in a similar way “nice guys” as you say want to kiss the arse of every lady on here
Just judging you since I do that on forums I have a simple philosophy to fab. view a profile, you like the profile, you mail it. jack shit got to do with forums.
Well you are missing out on a rich source of information on people! But good luck to you and hope that works for you. But you will be judged whether you do or not"see that's where we differ. I couldn't care less what people say on a particular thread topic. I know a woman from when I was here at the beginning. gobby as fuck on the forums, nicer you couldn't meet in person. friendly bubbly and mannerly. | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum "Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users... plus you're judging the nice guys of fab.... plus you've judged the women of fab.. plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. ."I think he could do with a meet he is all wound up | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. ."you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes "And how is that working for u ? | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes "So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do? | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?"Judge them? Lol | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?"I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum" | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum""I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum""So are you saying you ask several times why? When they've already said they aren't interested? | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago "my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users "No lol I'll judged people how I want just like you do
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
So are you saying you ask several times why? When they've already said they aren't interested? "I will never understand when you speak privately with a person, have been normal, not one bit nasty. you then suggest a coffee/bun sometime and you get the line " I dont think so, I don't like your outspoken attitude on the forum". | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
So are you saying you ask several times why? When they've already said they aren't interested? I will never understand when you speak privately with a person, have been normal, not one bit nasty. you then suggest a coffee/bun sometime and you get the line " I dont think so, I don't like your outspoken attitude on the forum". "It's their opinion and you've just got to accept it.. | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
So are you saying you ask several times why? When they've already said they aren't interested? I will never understand when you speak privately with a person, have been normal, not one bit nasty. you then suggest a coffee/bun sometime and you get the line " I dont think so, I don't like your outspoken attitude on the forum".
It's their opinion and you've just got to accept it.. "absolutely but very strange | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users "so you're saying your personality and attitude differs in pms and on the forum? Why is that? it's down to you how you portray yourself. | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users "I did not say i agree with u i view how peope interact with others on the forum and make my mind up about them | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users
so you're saying your personality and attitude differs in pms and on the forum? Why is that? it's down to you how you portray yourself. "I'm outspoken on the forums. everybody knows that. I also say I'm a nice guy, which I am. some find that hard to believe which shows you just what opinions are true a screen. it's a case on fab if you're outspoken your frowned upon | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users
I did not say i agree with u i view how peope interact with others on the forum and make my mind up about them "I never said you agreed with me | |||
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"if your going to judge somebody on an opinion/post you must have a very fickle mind. I could have an opinion on Donald trump. if you're differs dies that mean you don't talk to me? lol No not at all. Everyone has their own opinions and will form their own thoughts based on their own experiences. If we didn't have differing opinions, life would be pretty boring. As for judging on the basis of posts and opinions, well yes, i have nothing else to go on. That's fab for you. as I said to you before pal, talk to a person one to one. imo you get a true insight. I can honestly hold my hands up and say I have never judged somebody through a forum
Really? ... according to the pm you sent be earlier seems you've judged lot's of other forum users...
plus you're judging the nice guys of fab....
plus you've judged the women of fab..
plus you judged me incorrectly by calling me naive...
So now can you hold your hands up and say you don't judge. .you could call it judging you could call it giving an opinion. I don't speak about private mail on a thread. what I'm hitting at is I view a profile and that's where i decide where I talk to a person. I then interact privately, one to one and see how it goes
So when you contact someone and they tell you several times they aren't interested what do you do?I ask them why and that's where you get the line "it's nothing to do with private mail it's how you are on the forum"
I think op that answers the opening question u asked 135 posts ago my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users
so you're saying your personality and attitude differs in pms and on the forum? Why is that? it's down to you how you portray yourself. I'm outspoken on the forums. everybody knows that. I also say I'm a nice guy, which I am. some find that hard to believe which shows you just what opinions are true a screen. it's a case on fab if you're outspoken your frowned upon "I wouldn't say your outspoken, more predictable.. | |||
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"I'm a cunt in the forums not as much of a cunt in real life but I cannot abide the cuckish nature of a lot of peeps on here as a previous poster implied many are like that in the hopes of being thrown some pussy,yes as another poster pointed out some peeps are naturally like that but for every genuinely "nice" guy on the forums there are 10 who play the cuck game in the hopes of a shag." that's exactly my thinking. on the forums if you don't say the "right" thing, bye bye put a black mark through him or call it as you see it. I speak my mind on here but that's a million miles away from a one to one private chat with a person | |||
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"OP. Is this thread all about you getting rejected via mail by users that have formed an opinion on your posts? Seems like you haven't taken the rejection well and are trying to someway gain support for your way of looking at things. Which in this case is futile. Best draw a line under rejection and move on to the next user that has caught your eye." I have chatted to people privately in the past only for them to say when I suggest a coffee, oh sorry no, I don't like you on the forums. my thinking is why are you chatting to me privately then and have said nothing before. | |||
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"I'm a cunt in the forums not as much of a cunt in real life but I cannot abide the cuckish nature of a lot of peeps on here as a previous poster implied many are like that in the hopes of being thrown some pussy,yes as another poster pointed out some peeps are naturally like that but for every genuinely "nice" guy on the forums there are 10 who play the cuck game in the hopes of a shag.that's exactly my thinking. on the forums if you don't say the "right" thing, bye bye put a black mark through him or call it as you see it. I speak my mind on here but that's a million miles away from a one to one private chat with a person "Why would you be a different person one to one? Which persona is the real one then, or why do you feel the need to project a different image to how you perceive yourself to be? | |||
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" my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users so you're saying your personality and attitude differs in pms and on the forum? Why is that? it's down to you how you portray yourself. I'm outspoken on the forums. everybody knows that. I also say I'm a nice guy, which I am. some find that hard to believe which shows you just what opinions are true a screen. it's a case on fab if you're outspoken your frowned upon " When you participate on the forum regularly, you provide little bits of information about yourself every time you do so. If someone gathers those puzzle pieces and puts them together it will give them an idea of your attitude, behaviour and personality. Now they might like what they see or not. Your 'outspokenness' might speed up that process but isn't the issue rather than the excuse. All this doesn't contradict you being a nice guy. | |||
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" my point exactly. judge someone on how they interact with you privately not on a open forum where you have many views/opinions and many users so you're saying your personality and attitude differs in pms and on the forum? Why is that? it's down to you how you portray yourself. I'm outspoken on the forums. everybody knows that. I also say I'm a nice guy, which I am. some find that hard to believe which shows you just what opinions are true a screen. it's a case on fab if you're outspoken your frowned upon When you participate on the forum regularly, you provide little bits of information about yourself every time you do so. If someone gathers those puzzle pieces and puts them together it will give them an idea of your attitude, behaviour and personality. Now they might like what they see or not. Your 'outspokenness' might speed up that process but isn't the issue rather than the excuse. All this doesn't contradict you being a nice guy. " Especially if what you say on the forums is a reflection of the way you think and your attitudes. If you are genuine on the forums then it is the same as having a conversation. People will judge you by way you say in person or what you say in private, I don’t understand the big deal if they make the same assessment by your words on the forums. | |||
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"A lot of younger people on here do not get the concept of a swinging lifestyle they are on because they cannot get a ride in the real world and they think it will be different here " this was from a 40yr old man | |||
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"This site confusses me i thought it was a sex site i just got a message from a guy calling me a gobshite for playing around behind my hubbys back why am i fucking strange men..im shocked and hurt by his comments, his messages were so nasty.." Its a swingers site in my opinion... | |||
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"do you judge people on forum posts/opinions? open topic. be honest " I do believe its just natural to form a picture in your head about a person based on what they post. This picture will be different for many people based on how the other persons posts sit with their own belief's, opinions or experience's. I expect that there are some on here that believe that Casey is a thundering cunt for saying it as she sees it. Does she care? Not a fiddlers. She's an extremely intelligent person who I believe is on the button pretty much most of the time.....but hey, that's just my opinion man. Oh btw, I ain't no cuck or white knight either and she knows it! Lee | |||
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"without individually quoting each of you. on a forum I'm outspoken as you're usually giving your opinion on something been discussed in a thread. this is where I feel if a thread is classed as controversial some people, men usually wont give there true view for fear it might drive women away. when I usually mail a woman privately you ain't talking about a particular topic, like a forum so your personna could come across differently. just because somebody is outspoken doesn't mean they're not nice " It is possible to be outspoken and still not be offensive to other people and their opinions. It is also possible to be the exact same person in private mail as you are on the forum, if you're being yourself and not pretending. | |||
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"without individually quoting each of you. on a forum I'm outspoken as you're usually giving your opinion on something been discussed in a thread. this is where I feel if a thread is classed as controversial some people, men usually wont give there true view for fear it might drive women away. when I usually mail a woman privately you ain't talking about a particular topic, like a forum so your personna could come across differently. just because somebody is outspoken doesn't mean they're not nice " Surely how you interact here is a reflection of you? Take our incumbent troll sligo for instance! He is quite obviously as dumb in real life as he is here? | |||
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"It's human nature to take the information you have of a person and form an opinion of them. That is not necessarily judging them because as adults we know that our information is limited and we do not have the full picture. This is similar to our preferences and how we decide we do or don't like something. You have to examine how and what influenced your conclusion. If there is bias of any sort involved then the decision to dislike is marred. I don't dislike people for stating an opinion or agreeing with someone else's opinion. I think how they get their point across and how they handle having their ideas challenged speaks a lot about how open minded they are and their maturity levels. I think if someone refuses to engage in a discussion with someone who disagrees with them is as rude as someone who can not get their point across with out resorting to personal swipes and ignorant put downs. It is possible to be honest and Frank without being rude or ignorant. It is possible to have your ideas challenged without changing your mind. It is possible to make your point without slam dunking the other person's point of view, how do you expect them to listen if you won't show the same courtesy. I think it is possible to be open to others ideas and still be of a completely different mindset. I think it is possible to share the same ideas of someone else without agenda. I think the forum's have huge possibility Madame B" Very well said | |||
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"It's human nature to take the information you have of a person and form an opinion of them. That is not necessarily judging them because as adults we know that our information is limited and we do not have the full picture. This is similar to our preferences and how we decide we do or don't like something. You have to examine how and what influenced your conclusion. If there is bias of any sort involved then the decision to dislike is marred. I don't dislike people for stating an opinion or agreeing with someone else's opinion. I think how they get their point across and how they handle having their ideas challenged speaks a lot about how open minded they are and their maturity levels. I think if someone refuses to engage in a discussion with someone who disagrees with them is as rude as someone who can not get their point across with out resorting to personal swipes and ignorant put downs. It is possible to be honest and Frank without being rude or ignorant. It is possible to have your ideas challenged without changing your mind. It is possible to make your point without slam dunking the other person's point of view, how do you expect them to listen if you won't show the same courtesy. I think it is possible to be open to others ideas and still be of a completely different mindset. I think it is possible to share the same ideas of someone else without agenda. I think the forum's have huge possibility Madame B" interesting what you say, for e.g. I could give my opinion on a thread, someone comes in, disagrees with me and gives theres. does that mean the thread ends? it can do or if you want you can challenge there opinion. this is something I have noticed alot don't like on fab. | |||
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"without individually quoting each of you. on a forum I'm outspoken as you're usually giving your opinion on something been discussed in a thread. this is where I feel if a thread is classed as controversial some people, men usually wont give there true view for fear it might drive women away. when I usually mail a woman privately you ain't talking about a particular topic, like a forum so your personna could come across differently. just because somebody is outspoken doesn't mean they're not nice Surely how you interact here is a reflection of you? Take our incumbent troll sligo for instance! He is quite obviously as dumb in real life as he is here? "I don't pay enough attention. that gives you an eg to the attention I pay to the forums | |||
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"Surely how you interact here is a reflection of you? Take our incumbent troll sligo for instance! He is quite obviously as dumb in real life as he is here? "I have had many private conversations with that man, and I have always found him to be polite and interesting and certainly not as dumb as you obviously think he is. I also think it's wrong how he is dragged into a conversation that has not had any input from him, and in such a negative way. | |||
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"It's human nature to take the information you have of a person and form an opinion of them. That is not necessarily judging them because as adults we know that our information is limited and we do not have the full picture. This is similar to our preferences and how we decide we do or don't like something. You have to examine how and what influenced your conclusion. If there is bias of any sort involved then the decision to dislike is marred. I don't dislike people for stating an opinion or agreeing with someone else's opinion. I think how they get their point across and how they handle having their ideas challenged speaks a lot about how open minded they are and their maturity levels. I think if someone refuses to engage in a discussion with someone who disagrees with them is as rude as someone who can not get their point across with out resorting to personal swipes and ignorant put downs. It is possible to be honest and Frank without being rude or ignorant. It is possible to have your ideas challenged without changing your mind. It is possible to make your point without slam dunking the other person's point of view, how do you expect them to listen if you won't show the same courtesy. I think it is possible to be open to others ideas and still be of a completely different mindset. I think it is possible to share the same ideas of someone else without agenda. I think the forum's have huge possibility Madame B" Beautifully written | |||
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"Surely how you interact here is a reflection of you? Take our incumbent troll sligo for instance! He is quite obviously as dumb in real life as he is here?
I have had many private conversations with that man, and I have always found him to be polite and interesting and certainly not as dumb as you obviously think he is.
I also think it's wrong how he is dragged into a conversation that has not had any input from him, and in such a negative way. "case classed. the man is lovely and polite when chatting privately one to one | |||
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"Surely how you interact here is a reflection of you? Take our incumbent troll sligo for instance! He is quite obviously as dumb in real life as he is here?
I have had many private conversations with that man, and I have always found him to be polite and interesting and certainly not as dumb as you obviously think he is.
I also think it's wrong how he is dragged into a conversation that has not had any input from him, and in such a negative way. case classed. the man is lovely and polite when chatting privately one to one "I would be more inclined to say that people tend to give back what is given to them. | |||
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"It's human nature to take the information you have of a person and form an opinion of them. That is not necessarily judging them because as adults we know that our information is limited and we do not have the full picture. This is similar to our preferences and how we decide we do or don't like something. You have to examine how and what influenced your conclusion. If there is bias of any sort involved then the decision to dislike is marred. I don't dislike people for stating an opinion or agreeing with someone else's opinion. I think how they get their point across and how they handle having their ideas challenged speaks a lot about how open minded they are and their maturity levels. I think if someone refuses to engage in a discussion with someone who disagrees with them is as rude as someone who can not get their point across with out resorting to personal swipes and ignorant put downs. It is possible to be honest and Frank without being rude or ignorant. It is possible to have your ideas challenged without changing your mind. It is possible to make your point without slam dunking the other person's point of view, how do you expect them to listen if you won't show the same courtesy. I think it is possible to be open to others ideas and still be of a completely different mindset. I think it is possible to share the same ideas of someone else without agenda. I think the forum's have huge possibility Madame Binteresting what you say, for e.g. I could give my opinion on a thread, someone comes in, disagrees with me and gives theres. does that mean the thread ends? it can do or if you want you can challenge there opinion. this is something I have noticed alot don't like on fab. " The forum's are to discuss topics for everyone. How you challenge a point was mainly what I was talking about. How open you are to having your own opinion changed tends to dictate how you handle yourself within the discussion. What I have noticed is that the forum's tend to have the same topics so it is the same conversations/debates on a loop. People don't tend to like repeatedly arguing/defending the same points over and over. We all have opinions, we are all able to discuss them, we will not all agree. It's how we handle that that would influence my opinion of a person to answer the main topic. | |||
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